I have completed both Eric Metaxas' and now Charles Marsh's biographies on the life of Dietrich Bonhoeffer, German Christian Theologian with two doctorate degrees, whose tenure as a pastor in Germany endured the Nazification of Germany's Lutheran Christian Church as well as Hitler's vicious and brutal political policies and his efforts to commit genocide against Jews, and his attempts at euthanizing the mentally and physically disabled population of Germany. I felt like Marsh's biography explored Dietrich's more personal side, his inner self, and his personal spiritual journey. It is at least safe to say that this facet of Pastor Bonhoeffer's character and life was more expansive in this biography.
But it is impossible to read any lengthy well written biography of Dietrich Bonhoeffer as both of these are, and not see in detail both the personal and practical characteristics of this Jesus follower, that is to say-Jesus follower at all costs. Although he wasn't always that way. One of the things I like about Bonhoeffer's life story is how vivid a picture we see of his journey of spiritual maturity. For instance when he refused early on as a young theologian and scholar, (in what he thought was necessary out of an abundance of political caution,) not to officiate the funeral for his twin sister's father-in-law, a Jew, this proved to be one his greatest personal regrets, which in the years following he apologized to both his sister, Sabine, and her husband.
Charles Marsh gently prods the reader to consider all of the different paradoxes of Bonhoeffer's life. I loved this look at Bonhoeffer's human side. It inevitably draws the reader to explore her own humanity, her own Christianity and her willingness to pursue Jesus at all costs. As Christians we don't have all the answers, but we serve the One who does. Among his paradoxes were Bonhoeffer's adamant stance on pacifism vs. his support of violence in the German resistance and its attempts to assassinate Hitler. To this conundrum, he answers: "In the face of Hitler's atrocities, the way of nonviolence would bring inevitable guilt-both for the uncontested injustice and for the innocent lives that might have been saved. To act responsibly in these circumstances meant killing the madman if one could, even though such action violated God's commandment not to kill." At the end of Chapter 13, page 346, Marsh shares this position declared by Bonhoeffer in defense of his apparent non- pacifist position on tyrannicide. It made the hair stand up on the back of my neck as I read it. The irony it exposes of recent present day tragedies did not escape me: "He thought of it this way: if he were walking along the Kurfürstendamm in Berlin, or Oxford Street in London, and he saw some lunatic plowing his car into the crowd, he could not stand idly on the sidewalk. He would not say to himself, 'I am a pastor. I'll just wait to bury the dead afterward.' In whatever way he could, he would try to stop the lunatic driver. Honoring a peace ethic did not bind one to a racial pacifism, an indifference to exceptional and extreme circumstances."
But I think it is prudent for us to understand (what this biographer clearly chronicles for us,) the arduous and diligent journey Bonhoeffer first took in reaching the foregone conclusion of being involved in the resistance. He bravely broke off from the Lutheran church when they became the official nazified official Reich Church. He spoke out against them over and over. He started the "Pastor's Emergency League," which became the dissident and quite illegal "Confessing Church."
“The church was silent when it should have cried out, because the blood of the innocent was crying aloud to heaven...It has stood by while silence and wrong were being done under cover of the name of Jesus Christ.... The church confesses that it has witnessed the lawless application of brute force, the physical and spiritual suffering of countless innocent people, oppression, hatred, and murder, and that is has not found way to hasten their aid." Indeed, Bonhoeffer's acquiescence in becoming a part of the resistance was a clear and direct result of the epic failings of the church, both the reigning Protestants of the day, the Lutheran Church, who had completely succumbed to the Nazi regime and now worshipped only Hitler, as well as the Confessing Church which at this point "lay in ruins." (Chapter 11, Page 289)
In summing up this paradox presented by Marsh, I ask you the reader "What would you do?" I know what I HOPE I would do.
Another paradox Marsh points out, "celebrating the sacrament of marriage while binding his affections joyfully to another man,” (Eberhard Bethge). Marsh states: “Bonhoeffer came to embody some of the perplexing contradiction that modernity had imposed upon the faith."
It is true Bonhoeffer's best friend, confidant and confessor was Eberhard Bethge. Marsh flirts with the idea that this perhaps was a romantic relationship if only in the eyes of Bonhoeffer. I saw the intimacy in their relationship born out of several things. First, Dietrich was indeed wired emotionally. He was quite needy. He was used to being coddled by his parents, nurses, maids and nannies growing up. He hated being alone and needed a constant close companion. His vocation, constant travel, and his lot in his adult life, as it was during Hitler's reign of Nazi terror, did not actually lend itself to marriage. He was often heavily dependent upon the male friends and mentors in his life, and hardly tried to hide this fact. Eberhard was undoubtedly his closest and most trusted relationship. They shared families, bank accounts, friends and faith. I likened their relationship to that of King David and his armor bearer Jonathan. Reading 1 Samuel 18:1-4, David and Jonathan very clearly shared the same intimate relationship that I think Dietrich and Eberhard shared. "After David had finished talking with Saul, Jonathan became one in spirit with David, and he loved him as himself. From that day Saul kept David with him and did not let him return home to his family. And Jonathan made a covenant with David because he loved him as himself. Jonathan took off the robe he was wearing and gave it to David, along with his tunic, and even his sword, his bow and his belt."
Furthermore, Dietrich emulated the life of the Apostle Paul in the New Testament. Paul, once he became a Christ follower in Acts chapter 9, showed himself to be quite vulnerable emotionally, as we read in Acts 20 when he kneels with the Ephesian elders, their families, women and children all of them weeping and crying over Paul's departure and his impending danger. "When Paul had finished speaking, he knelt down with all of them and prayed. They all wept as they embraced him and kissed him. What grieved them most was his statement that they would never see his face again. Then they accompanied him to the ship."
Knowing Bonhoeffer's propensity for emotion and even what oftentimes appeared to be narcissistic behavior, and given his thorough knowledge of scripture, the old testament and epistles of Paul the Apostle, I find his intimate friendship with Eberhard not surprising in the least. It in fact was very Christian of him, but indeed not very German at all.
Finally, Bonhoeffer did indeed become engaged to Maria Von Wedemeyer and though this appeared to be on the heels of Eberhard Bethge's engagement to Dietrich's niece Renate, again I found his somewhat surprising engagement consistent with Bonhoeffer's deepest need for affection, community, and belonging in a significant relationship, especially at this stage of his continuing demise with the Gestapo and his subsequent imprisonment. By all accounts in both Metaxas and Marsh's biography, though there love was clearly naive and uncertain for both of them, they clearly cared deeply for one another, "Marie...had made a desperate, futile attempt to find her fiancee in Flossenbürg-walking 7 kilometers to the camp after spending two days on trains, only to be turned away without any prospect of hearing anything." Chapter 14, Page 393.
What do we learn from the life of Dietrich Bonhoeffer? A million things to be sure. But I hope that as I navigate my own journey as a Christian, I can separate my religion from my faith, that like Bonhoeffer I can recognize that Jesus and the power of the cross are what counts in my faith, not the legalistic liturgies and traditions that often define and denote our religions.
"And the church that calls a people to belief in Christ, must itself be, in the midst of that people, the burning fire of love, the nucleus of reconciliation, the source of the fire in which all hate is consumed, and the proud and hateful are transformed into the loving." Dietrich Bonhoeffer