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Annis's life was full and happy- certainly not lacking in love. Above all, she loved Jake Royle- even more than her family. So when he proposed out of necessity, she accepted without hesitation. But would she be able to accept his lack of feeling for her?
224 pages, Paperback
First published July 1, 1982
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Betty Neels
564 books418 followersEvelyn Jessy "Betty" Neels was born on September 15, 1910 in Devon to a family with firm roots in the civil service. She said she had a blissfully happy childhood and teenage years.(This stood her in good stead later for the tribulations to come with the Second World War). She was sent away to boarding school, and then went on to train as a nurse, gaining her SRN and SCM, that is, State Registered Nurse and State Certificate of Midwifery.
In 1939 she was called up to the Territorial Army Nursing Service, which later became the Queen Alexandra Reserves, and was sent to France with the Casualty Clearing Station. This comprised eight nursing sisters, including Betty, to 100 men! In other circumstances, she thought that might have been quite thrilling! When France was invaded in 1940, all the nursing sisters managed to escape in the charge of an army major, undertaking a lengthy and terrifying journey to Boulogne in an ambulance. They were incredibly fortunate to be put on the last hospital ship to be leaving the port of Boulogne. But Betty's war didn't end there, for she was posted to Scotland, and then on to Northern Ireland, where she met her Dutch husband. He was a seaman aboard a minesweeper, which was bombed. He survived and was sent to the south of Holland to guard the sluices. However, when they had to abandon their post, they were told to escape if they could, and along with a small number of other men, he marched into Belgium. They stole a ship and managed to get it across the Channel to Dover before being transferred to the Atlantic run on the convoys. Sadly he became ill, and that was when he was transferred to hospital in Northern Ireland, where he met Betty. They eventually married, and were blessed with a daughter. They were posted to London, but were bombed out. As with most of the population, they made the best of things.
When the war finally ended, she and her husband were repatriated to Holland. As his family had believed he had died when his ship went down, this was a very emotional homecoming. The small family lived in Holland for 13 years, and Betty resumed her nursing career there. When they decided to return to England, Betty continued her nursing and when she eventually retired she had reached the position of night superintendent.
Betty Neels began writing almost by accident. She had retired from nursing, but her inquiring mind had no intention of vegetating, and her new career was born when she heard a lady in her local library bemoaning the lack of good romance novels. There was little in Betty's background to suggest that she might eventually become a much-loved novelist.
Her first book, Sister Peters in Amsterdam, was published in 1969, and by dint of often writing four books a year, she eventually completed 134 books. She was always quite firm upon the point that the Dutch doctors who frequently appeared in her stories were *not* based upon her husband, but rather upon an amalgam of several of the doctors she met while nursing in Holland.
To her millions of fans around the world, Betty Neels epitomized romance. She was always amazed and touched that her books were so widely appreciated. She never sought plaudits and remained a very private person, but it made her very happy to know that she brought such pleasure to so many readers, while herself gaining a quiet joy from spinning her stories. It is perhaps a reflection of her upbringing in an earlier time that the men and women who peopled her stories have a kindliness and good manners, coupled to honesty and integrity, that is not always present in our modern world. Her myriad of fans found a warmth and a reassurance of a better world in her stories, along with characters who touched the heart, which is all and more than one could ask of a romance writer. She received a great deal of fan mail, and there was always a comment upon the fascinating places she visited in her stories. Quite often those of her fans fortunate enough to visit Ho
In 1939 she was called up to the Territorial Army Nursing Service, which later became the Queen Alexandra Reserves, and was sent to France with the Casualty Clearing Station. This comprised eight nursing sisters, including Betty, to 100 men! In other circumstances, she thought that might have been quite thrilling! When France was invaded in 1940, all the nursing sisters managed to escape in the charge of an army major, undertaking a lengthy and terrifying journey to Boulogne in an ambulance. They were incredibly fortunate to be put on the last hospital ship to be leaving the port of Boulogne. But Betty's war didn't end there, for she was posted to Scotland, and then on to Northern Ireland, where she met her Dutch husband. He was a seaman aboard a minesweeper, which was bombed. He survived and was sent to the south of Holland to guard the sluices. However, when they had to abandon their post, they were told to escape if they could, and along with a small number of other men, he marched into Belgium. They stole a ship and managed to get it across the Channel to Dover before being transferred to the Atlantic run on the convoys. Sadly he became ill, and that was when he was transferred to hospital in Northern Ireland, where he met Betty. They eventually married, and were blessed with a daughter. They were posted to London, but were bombed out. As with most of the population, they made the best of things.
When the war finally ended, she and her husband were repatriated to Holland. As his family had believed he had died when his ship went down, this was a very emotional homecoming. The small family lived in Holland for 13 years, and Betty resumed her nursing career there. When they decided to return to England, Betty continued her nursing and when she eventually retired she had reached the position of night superintendent.
Betty Neels began writing almost by accident. She had retired from nursing, but her inquiring mind had no intention of vegetating, and her new career was born when she heard a lady in her local library bemoaning the lack of good romance novels. There was little in Betty's background to suggest that she might eventually become a much-loved novelist.
Her first book, Sister Peters in Amsterdam, was published in 1969, and by dint of often writing four books a year, she eventually completed 134 books. She was always quite firm upon the point that the Dutch doctors who frequently appeared in her stories were *not* based upon her husband, but rather upon an amalgam of several of the doctors she met while nursing in Holland.
To her millions of fans around the world, Betty Neels epitomized romance. She was always amazed and touched that her books were so widely appreciated. She never sought plaudits and remained a very private person, but it made her very happy to know that she brought such pleasure to so many readers, while herself gaining a quiet joy from spinning her stories. It is perhaps a reflection of her upbringing in an earlier time that the men and women who peopled her stories have a kindliness and good manners, coupled to honesty and integrity, that is not always present in our modern world. Her myriad of fans found a warmth and a reassurance of a better world in her stories, along with characters who touched the heart, which is all and more than one could ask of a romance writer. She received a great deal of fan mail, and there was always a comment upon the fascinating places she visited in her stories. Quite often those of her fans fortunate enough to visit Ho
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September 12, 2024
I really liked the way this slightly different Neels book began. Annis is the oldest of a big, happy family. She's not a nurse - she has no career at all, just helps her father, the Rector. Jake, who is in the area visiting friends, is a big-shot business man, not a doctor. As usual the hero manages to get his life entangled with hers. But it kind of disintegrates when they get married.
I don't expect Jane Austen when I read these stories, but I really didn't feel that either of these people's actions made sense. He's in love with her but refuses to admit it and she realizes she loves him so it makes her cry all the time. Or something. One minute he's telling her she can travel with him, then he says no. But if he loved her all along why did his behavior change? Let's just say I really liked the first half and felt let down by the second. So it averages 3 stars. I think. Maybe 2.5.
I don't expect Jane Austen when I read these stories, but I really didn't feel that either of these people's actions made sense. He's in love with her but refuses to admit it and she realizes she loves him so it makes her cry all the time. Or something. One minute he's telling her she can travel with him, then he says no. But if he loved her all along why did his behavior change? Let's just say I really liked the first half and felt let down by the second. So it averages 3 stars. I think. Maybe 2.5.
September 12, 2024
Not a nurse! Not a doctor! No extra boyfriends or girlfriends! She has a happy loving family as does he!
Totally different book except for the amount of delicious teas and dinners!
Totally different book except for the amount of delicious teas and dinners!
August 31, 2017
I always think of this one as the “Bath book,” which reminds me of Jane Austen. And indeed, there is much in the setting that reminds me of Austen, at least in the early part of the book. It sort of goes off the rails for me in the middle and never really recovers.
Annis Fothergill is a wonderful heroine: intelligent, capable, outspoken. Annis is from a country village, her father is the rector, Annis is one of 6 siblings, she is best friends with “the boy next door”. Then we have a dinner party with lively conversation at the Averys with the Colonel, the Rector and the local Doctor – all very Austen-type characters.
Our hero, Jake Royce, is a wealthy (single) businessman who is a friend of the Avery family. He is the godson of Colonel Avery’s sister, Mrs. Duvant. Annis instinctively dislikes him because he seems rude and arrogant. And yet, he is very kind to animals and Annis’s younger siblings, so she is conflicted.
Then we have the trip to Bath with Mrs. Duvant and concerts at the Assembly Room! Jake spends a few days with them, which Annis enjoys and changes her feelings about him. Then Jake goes back to London. And then, of course, TGB puts her own stamp on it with Mrs. Duvant having cancer and not telling anyone about it. And when Mrs. Duvant collapses, she asks Annis to notify Jake (apparently she has no children), and then Jake and Annis are again thrown together for several days, after which Jake proposes a marriage of convenience. Annis has, by this time, realized that she loves Jake, so she accepts.
The married part consists of lots of travel, sometimes Jake and Annis together and sometimes Jake alone. Annis spends a week at her parents’ home and finally decides she can’t continue as is. She doesn’t know where Jake is, so she calls his secretary, Miss Butts, who informs her that Jake is in Naples. Annis asks her to get her a ticket to Naples.
So, Annis arrives in Naples and surprises Jake. Now, he had previously overheard a “conversation” between Annis and someone that made him think Annis was going to ask for a divorce. So, he is reluctant to let Annis have her say; he makes her go with him to Pompeii where he finally lets her talk. She hems and haws, but finally tells Jake that she is in love with him. “Well, I’ve fallen in love with you, Jake, and I can’t go on living with you, just pretending to be a good comrade. I’ve thought about it a lot and I don’t think it would work.”
“I’m damned sure it wouldn’t work.” Jake swung her round and put the other arm round her too. And then he proceeds to tell her that he fell in LAFS and had to play it cool.
There are bits of this book that I really enjoyed. The scene with the "old married couple" bit was lovely; Jake says, "it must be very pleasant to share your fireside and your declining years with someone you’ve loved and still love.” Annis: “That sounds too good to be true.” “No, it’s not. I for one intend to make it true.” Then he turns around and spoils that with “I think I’ve become a little cynical about that (true love), Annis, I’m not even sure that I believe in it any more.”
I actually thought Jake and Annis had quite a bit of chemistry between them, both early on and throughout. Jake even talks about having kids. So, my main problem with Jake is that he isn't consistent.
Not my favorite Betty, but not the worst, either - lower part of the bottom third.
Annis Fothergill is a wonderful heroine: intelligent, capable, outspoken. Annis is from a country village, her father is the rector, Annis is one of 6 siblings, she is best friends with “the boy next door”. Then we have a dinner party with lively conversation at the Averys with the Colonel, the Rector and the local Doctor – all very Austen-type characters.
Our hero, Jake Royce, is a wealthy (single) businessman who is a friend of the Avery family. He is the godson of Colonel Avery’s sister, Mrs. Duvant. Annis instinctively dislikes him because he seems rude and arrogant. And yet, he is very kind to animals and Annis’s younger siblings, so she is conflicted.
Then we have the trip to Bath with Mrs. Duvant and concerts at the Assembly Room! Jake spends a few days with them, which Annis enjoys and changes her feelings about him. Then Jake goes back to London. And then, of course, TGB puts her own stamp on it with Mrs. Duvant having cancer and not telling anyone about it. And when Mrs. Duvant collapses, she asks Annis to notify Jake (apparently she has no children), and then Jake and Annis are again thrown together for several days, after which Jake proposes a marriage of convenience. Annis has, by this time, realized that she loves Jake, so she accepts.
The married part consists of lots of travel, sometimes Jake and Annis together and sometimes Jake alone. Annis spends a week at her parents’ home and finally decides she can’t continue as is. She doesn’t know where Jake is, so she calls his secretary, Miss Butts, who informs her that Jake is in Naples. Annis asks her to get her a ticket to Naples.
So, Annis arrives in Naples and surprises Jake. Now, he had previously overheard a “conversation” between Annis and someone that made him think Annis was going to ask for a divorce. So, he is reluctant to let Annis have her say; he makes her go with him to Pompeii where he finally lets her talk. She hems and haws, but finally tells Jake that she is in love with him. “Well, I’ve fallen in love with you, Jake, and I can’t go on living with you, just pretending to be a good comrade. I’ve thought about it a lot and I don’t think it would work.”
“I’m damned sure it wouldn’t work.” Jake swung her round and put the other arm round her too. And then he proceeds to tell her that he fell in LAFS and had to play it cool.
There are bits of this book that I really enjoyed. The scene with the "old married couple" bit was lovely; Jake says, "it must be very pleasant to share your fireside and your declining years with someone you’ve loved and still love.” Annis: “That sounds too good to be true.” “No, it’s not. I for one intend to make it true.” Then he turns around and spoils that with “I think I’ve become a little cynical about that (true love), Annis, I’m not even sure that I believe in it any more.”
I actually thought Jake and Annis had quite a bit of chemistry between them, both early on and throughout. Jake even talks about having kids. So, my main problem with Jake is that he isn't consistent.
Not my favorite Betty, but not the worst, either - lower part of the bottom third.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
February 25, 2014
This is one that will get the feminists up in arms when hero Jake Royle quotes:
Man with the head and woman with the heart:
Man to command and woman to obey;
All else confusion
Jake seems to think he's a classic romance alpha male and he does his best with it. He is a business man and very wealthy but even more clueless than a Dutch doctor when it comes to handling the woman in his life. His early disappointment put him against love and fortunately the Other Women are fleeting and easily dismissed.
He marries Annis, who is young, pretty and naive and in love with him (not that she would ever tell him because...humiliation). He's decided she would make a good wife to him but in his alpha density does not recognise the beginnings of lurv. Instead he showers her with money and clothes and stuff...lots of stuff...
She gets to travel to Portugal with him but suddenly all the travelling dries up and he's sending her home to her family while he scoots off on his business trips.
Of course it all ends up happily in Italy of all places.
This is a little different to her usual pattern. It reads like someone at Mills & Boon said they wanted a business tycoon and some romantic destinations away from Holland instead of the standard doctor nurse fare. I quite enjoyed it because I love marriage of convenience stories.
Man with the head and woman with the heart:
Man to command and woman to obey;
All else confusion
Jake seems to think he's a classic romance alpha male and he does his best with it. He is a business man and very wealthy but even more clueless than a Dutch doctor when it comes to handling the woman in his life. His early disappointment put him against love and fortunately the Other Women are fleeting and easily dismissed.
He marries Annis, who is young, pretty and naive and in love with him (not that she would ever tell him because...humiliation). He's decided she would make a good wife to him but in his alpha density does not recognise the beginnings of lurv. Instead he showers her with money and clothes and stuff...lots of stuff...
She gets to travel to Portugal with him but suddenly all the travelling dries up and he's sending her home to her family while he scoots off on his business trips.
Of course it all ends up happily in Italy of all places.
This is a little different to her usual pattern. It reads like someone at Mills & Boon said they wanted a business tycoon and some romantic destinations away from Holland instead of the standard doctor nurse fare. I quite enjoyed it because I love marriage of convenience stories.
July 12, 2020
Not my fave, BN; the hero, Jake, is just a little too much of a jerk. So funny that I am completely willing to give Neels a pass on her extremely chauvinistic heroes, her idealized 50s housewifey heroines, and the emotional cruelty that the heroes inflict on the heroines (although it can be argued that the heroines are just as bad if not as experienced in the "blow hot and cold" stakes). Nonetheless, I find BN a pleasure to read (I just pretend her heroes/heroines live in some vaguely Victorian alternate reality in which rich wives don't work and spend their days arranging flowers and shopping and their RDD/RBD/rich-and-rarely-not-doctor husbands are overbearing if protective and instead of carriages have fabulous cars (Rollses, Beemers, Mercs, Bentleys, occasional Lambos). This was a re-read for me and I remember really liking it, but my re-read left me liking the hero less than I remembered. Still, always fun to visit Bettyland and a real pleasure to have discovered The Uncrushable Jersey Dress and visit with the Betties of that fun fansite.
August 30, 2024
Jake is quite awful. 😬 Annis and her family are the high points. I like the Bath chapter. Otherwise, Jake is near cruel to Annis at times and indifferent the rest of the time. He professes to have fallen in love with her right away and I believed that at the beginning of the story but not after they marry. He goes about things horribly.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
December 16, 2016
One of the first Harlequin authors I remember reading. I was completely enthralled by the exotic locales in her books when I was 14. Now reading these books are more of a way of remembering the aunt who got me started on them. I'll probably always love them due to the nostalgia factor. her books will always be some of my favorites to re-read.
April 26, 2016
I enjoyed this book but not the way Jake was going on with Annis, I found him to be hot one minute and then cold the next and Annis was not a doormat which I was happy with but to be truthful I preferred her friend and I would have liked to have seen her marry him or to see her husband be jealous of their friendship to rock the boat lol but he isn't in the book for that long.
March 5, 2017
2.5 stars for this a-typical offering from The Great Betty.
Big difference number one--Jake is a business man, not a doctor. Say what?? He's 35, rich as a typical Harlequin Millionaire. He gloms his eyes on sweet, young, very pretty Annis, age 22, and somehow ends up in a MOC with her.
There are many things I don't understand, such as how Annis fell in love with such a cold-hearted rat. (Oh, poor boy was disappointed in love many years ago--as if that excuses his behavior/attitude. Alas, TGB fails to supply details, so the excuse sounds pathetic).
The rotter couldn't even slip the engagement ring on her finger, for Pete's sake! That's not putting on a show, that's cold and callous! I guess y'all can tell I didn't like Jake.
However, I loved Annis. She was much more grown-up than Jake, for all that she was years younger in age. The way she called him on his use of 'darling' was stellar. She knows he doesn't mean it in the 'cherished beloved' sense, so she doesn't want him calling her by the term.
This is one where his declaration at the end falls flat. Betty tries to make the HEA convincing--I didn't buy it.
The book wasn't a total loss. There were many nice bits of writing. I also liked Jake's godmother, Mrs. Duvant. (Even though she's another one of Betty's older women who are dying but nobody's told her characters. At least she's having a good time!)
This one isn't in my re-read rotation.
Big difference number one--Jake is a business man, not a doctor. Say what?? He's 35, rich as a typical Harlequin Millionaire. He gloms his eyes on sweet, young, very pretty Annis, age 22, and somehow ends up in a MOC with her.
There are many things I don't understand, such as how Annis fell in love with such a cold-hearted rat. (Oh, poor boy was disappointed in love many years ago--as if that excuses his behavior/attitude. Alas, TGB fails to supply details, so the excuse sounds pathetic).
The rotter couldn't even slip the engagement ring on her finger, for Pete's sake! That's not putting on a show, that's cold and callous! I guess y'all can tell I didn't like Jake.
However, I loved Annis. She was much more grown-up than Jake, for all that she was years younger in age. The way she called him on his use of 'darling' was stellar. She knows he doesn't mean it in the 'cherished beloved' sense, so she doesn't want him calling her by the term.
This is one where his declaration at the end falls flat. Betty tries to make the HEA convincing--I didn't buy it.
The book wasn't a total loss. There were many nice bits of writing. I also liked Jake's godmother, Mrs. Duvant. (Even though she's another one of Betty's older women who are dying but nobody's told her characters. At least she's having a good time!)
This one isn't in my re-read rotation.
April 12, 2014
Jack Royle believes he has found a woman whom he can make his wife, and have her tucked away, waiting for his return from work. When he sees fit. But Annis is a little more than just the little woman, with the fiery red hair to match the spark of temper that lights her up.
An enjoyable variation to the stand tales by Betty Neels.
An enjoyable variation to the stand tales by Betty Neels.
April 21, 2010
Betty Neals stories are easy and fun to read. This one was perfect for between tests. It didn't take much brain power to enjoy and satisfied my need to read something other than a text book.
October 2, 2013
Another typical betty book. I enjoyed it as much as the others.
September 26, 2024
This one was one of those rare BN books in which no one was remotely related to the medical profession, the heroine was rather lovely and to top it off had a wonderful family. The hero is a larger than life , rich, suave, and very smart businessman, she’s a parson’s daughter who thinks she’s being vetted by the hero’s family for a governess position and is startled to instead be the recipient of the hero’s very impersonal suggestion that his granny wants great grandchildren and they should marry because she’d make a very suitable wife and it was time he married anyway; her mother is very anxious to marry her brood off and she thinks the hero’s a splendid match, the heroine broods a few days over this horrible proposal and eventually accepts it as she’s in love with him and believes her love would be enough. He also suggests that they wait six months in order to get to know each other better before consummating their marriage which puts her and I’m certain BN’s mind at rest. The marriage happens at one half of the book, the other agonising half is the length it takes for us to witness the heroine being neglected and torutured by the hero’s indifferent, dismissive, patronising manner while at intervals he keeps sending her back to her family home at every opportunity. She finally can’t take it any more and impetuously has his secretary book a ticket for her to Naples where he’s gone on a work trip, intending to confess all and fully expecting a horrific rejection of her and heir marriage. His narcissistic self had done such damage to her by this point that she couldn’t think clearly, otherwise she’d perhaps realise she was ripe fruit for such character to pick and keep under his selfish thumb for the rest of their days together. Magnificent heroine, wonderful family and pleasant atmosphere but one of the most unpleasant heroes ever. And from the depiction of his character, I’d bet a cheat as well.
September 2, 2022
Review from September 2022 re-read:
2.25 Stars
This is one of the more atypical Betty Neels novels in the cannon. For one thing, there are no doctors or nurses- Jake it seems is some sort of venture capitalist corporate type, and Annis is a parson’s daughter who stays home and helps with her family when they meet in her small village. There are sparks and for no real pressing reason, they decide to enter into a loveless marriage of convenience… well Annis agrees because she’s already aware she’s in love with Jake despite him being kind of aloof and despite her being uncertain about him. Jake’s reasons for marrying Annis seem to centre around the fact that she’s pretty and he tells her this several times, which is a little disheartening, but if you’re a Betty connoisseur you will recognize deep down in his bland and somewhat rude manner, he’s clearly hiding feelings for Annis (yes I know, problematic but this is vintage Betty and we love her like that). The main reason I’m scoring this low apart from the fact that I found Jake irredeemably unlikable, is the sexist Tennyson quote that lends this book it’s title and how Jake introduced it:
“Women don’t use their heads.’ He gave a little laugh. “‘Man with the head and woman with the heart: Man to command and woman to obey; All else confusion”. Tennyson—sounds a bit old-fashioned, but he had the right idea.’”
Even for Betty, I just could literally not!
CW: Death of a prominent character early on.
2.25 Stars
This is one of the more atypical Betty Neels novels in the cannon. For one thing, there are no doctors or nurses- Jake it seems is some sort of venture capitalist corporate type, and Annis is a parson’s daughter who stays home and helps with her family when they meet in her small village. There are sparks and for no real pressing reason, they decide to enter into a loveless marriage of convenience… well Annis agrees because she’s already aware she’s in love with Jake despite him being kind of aloof and despite her being uncertain about him. Jake’s reasons for marrying Annis seem to centre around the fact that she’s pretty and he tells her this several times, which is a little disheartening, but if you’re a Betty connoisseur you will recognize deep down in his bland and somewhat rude manner, he’s clearly hiding feelings for Annis (yes I know, problematic but this is vintage Betty and we love her like that). The main reason I’m scoring this low apart from the fact that I found Jake irredeemably unlikable, is the sexist Tennyson quote that lends this book it’s title and how Jake introduced it:
“Women don’t use their heads.’ He gave a little laugh. “‘Man with the head and woman with the heart: Man to command and woman to obey; All else confusion”. Tennyson—sounds a bit old-fashioned, but he had the right idea.’”
Even for Betty, I just could literally not!
CW: Death of a prominent character early on.
November 10, 2022
I really dislike this one. I dislike Jake and his constant use of "darling" even after Annis told him to knock it off. Who does he think he is?! A Broadway director?!
I also dislike Annis' parents, who remind me a bit of Mr. & Mrs Bennet from Pride and Prejudice, the father has his head in the clouds and the mother comes across as greedy. Poor Annis! Oh you're smart and have A levels, too bad for you, funding your brothers' education is more important. Oh you're being paid to keep an old lady company, don't forget mommy's list of stuff to buy. Oh a rich stranger wants to marry you, what are you waiting for girl get your butt down the aisle and don't forget daddy needs a new car! Why did they have a gazillion kids if they can't provide for them.
I'm about half way done and I'm hoping that Annis doesn't turn into a wet rag.
Nope! The second half was worse. If this story had been written by anyone else, I would have rated it minus 5 stars and DNF'ed it! IMO Betty's non doctor/nurse stories are just awful.
I also dislike Annis' parents, who remind me a bit of Mr. & Mrs Bennet from Pride and Prejudice, the father has his head in the clouds and the mother comes across as greedy. Poor Annis! Oh you're smart and have A levels, too bad for you, funding your brothers' education is more important. Oh you're being paid to keep an old lady company, don't forget mommy's list of stuff to buy. Oh a rich stranger wants to marry you, what are you waiting for girl get your butt down the aisle and don't forget daddy needs a new car! Why did they have a gazillion kids if they can't provide for them.
I'm about half way done and I'm hoping that Annis doesn't turn into a wet rag.
Nope! The second half was worse. If this story had been written by anyone else, I would have rated it minus 5 stars and DNF'ed it! IMO Betty's non doctor/nurse stories are just awful.
November 18, 2025
Not a doctor and nurse story !
This story is about Jake and Annis. Surprisingly, for Betty Neels, neither one of them is in the medical field. It's a really good story about Friend of a friend who gets introduced to the girl and falls in love with her. The girl, Annis, doesn't have a very good first impression of the guy, Jake, but comes around. They get married, each thinking the other doesn't love their but willing to give it a try and then there are shenanigans. It's a really great story. I really enjoyed it.
This story is about Jake and Annis. Surprisingly, for Betty Neels, neither one of them is in the medical field. It's a really good story about Friend of a friend who gets introduced to the girl and falls in love with her. The girl, Annis, doesn't have a very good first impression of the guy, Jake, but comes around. They get married, each thinking the other doesn't love their but willing to give it a try and then there are shenanigans. It's a really great story. I really enjoyed it.
April 10, 2024
Not a regular BN novel.Hero is a businessman, and heroine is nothing in the sense she just stays at home and helps her mom. Marriage is a marriage of convenience where the hero is super rich and heroine is poor. As usual, the hero takes her on the shopping spree, loads her with jewels, and they travel around Europe. Basically, she gets everything except his love and heroine is already under his spell. I found the story progress boring with nothing new, and it just went on dragging
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June 6, 2024
a very boring read
I liked the start of this story but I got tired of hearing about their daily activities which were so repetitive. I also didn’t like the quote her husband cited from Emerson, very chauvinistic. Their relationship definitely lacked communication. Reading became very tedious!
I liked the start of this story but I got tired of hearing about their daily activities which were so repetitive. I also didn’t like the quote her husband cited from Emerson, very chauvinistic. Their relationship definitely lacked communication. Reading became very tedious!
April 5, 2021
Not a typical Betty Neels romance, this feels like a precursor to the highly questionable Harlequin Presents romances with an alpha/tycoon/uncommunicative hero who marries a beautiful, kind, naive heroine.
What does it say about me that I enjoyed this romance?
What does it say about me that I enjoyed this romance?
March 11, 2023
3.5 stars | I didn't like Jake very much but Annis was a dear. The blurb isn't great; this is a bit different than a typical Betty with a RDD and mousy heroine. Annis is of the red-headed and slightly plump variety while Jake is just a jerk. :)
June 26, 2018
Bleh. Didn’t like Jake at all. Not even the slightly charming bossy of Betty Neels normal books. And the tinker bit felt pretty racist...
August 8, 2018
Lovely
If you enjoy your romances clean, light, fluffy and vintage then you will enjoy the wonderful work of Betty Neels
If you enjoy your romances clean, light, fluffy and vintage then you will enjoy the wonderful work of Betty Neels
March 27, 2021
Not one of the best
I didn't really care for Jake, wrong name I guess. The beginning was good but after the wedding it went down hill for me.
I didn't really care for Jake, wrong name I guess. The beginning was good but after the wedding it went down hill for me.
October 27, 2023
A Neels book that wasn't about a professor! Nice read.
Want to read
October 2, 2025Recommend by Arpita (@bagfullofbooks) - April 2017
March 2, 2017
I know Ms. Neels is "old fashioned" in her outlooks on male-female roles. It is something that one can mostly get through for the prosaic-ness (word?) of the FICTITIOUS story. But this puppy took the cake.
I know her strong heroines always go suddenly silly when Mr. Right comes along...but this "hero", romantic lead....no way! He bordered on dolling out emotional abuse to the heroine and we never find out his "past reasons"!
As for "all else confusion"...to use Tennyson and actually MEAN it! Written in 1982, with a pub date like that this has to be a toungue in cheek "Austen-ish(word?)" story. I know chances are it wasn't a social commentary, but oye! (And all this coming from an "old-fashioned librarian"!)
Maybe the economic-political structure of 82 was such that Neels was saying "see what happens when you are a businessman in this age! Get off the cocaine, greed is not good, look how stupid you men are!" But, that is just the lit major in me trying to justify a really crappy "hero".
I know her strong heroines always go suddenly silly when Mr. Right comes along...but this "hero", romantic lead....no way! He bordered on dolling out emotional abuse to the heroine and we never find out his "past reasons"!
As for "all else confusion"...to use Tennyson and actually MEAN it! Written in 1982, with a pub date like that this has to be a toungue in cheek "Austen-ish(word?)" story. I know chances are it wasn't a social commentary, but oye! (And all this coming from an "old-fashioned librarian"!)
Maybe the economic-political structure of 82 was such that Neels was saying "see what happens when you are a businessman in this age! Get off the cocaine, greed is not good, look how stupid you men are!" But, that is just the lit major in me trying to justify a really crappy "hero".
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January 29, 2021
all else i got with this book was confusion
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August 24, 2024
This is the first time I can honestly say I wasn't too sure about the HEA in a Betty Neels romance. Jake was attracted to Annis from the start, but Annis wasn't too impressed with Jake's rather arrogant smile. He claimed to not believe in love and when he suggested they marry, he'd proposed a platonic one at first to see how they got on. Annis was in love before the wedding, and not sure that Jake would welcome that love, she kept her feelings to herself. But just when she was feeling brave enough to tell him, he'd suggested that she take an extended break with her parents. In this romance, it's the heroine who chases after the hero to make the claim of forever love, happily Jake is in love too. Not one of Betty's best, but still an enjoyable romance
January 29, 2024
I did not quite like this story because the hero Jake came across as a jerk! Annis deserved better!
A departure from the usual doctor-hero and nurse/hospital staff-heroine, this hero Jake was a financial and business super star. He met our heroine Annis through his friend Matt, who grew up with Annis in their village. Matt's mother always cherished hope that Annis would marry Matt, but Matt and Mary, her sister were meant to be together. Initially I thought Jake would have cause for jealousy but that's not how the plot went.
Matt's paternal aunt was Jake's godmother. There was no mention of Jake's parents attending the funeral, which was really strange seeing how close Jake was to his godmother.
Jake was such a fun and nice guy in Bath...but the moment they married he changed. I mean he showered Annis with gifts...and extended the same kindness and generosity to her family. But when he spouted some chauvinistic quote from Tennyson, it was so ridiculous: "Man with the head and woman with the heart: Man to command and woman to obey; All else confusion." So this is where the title is from!
Annis had not liked Jake when she first met him because she sensed a strong arrogance in him. We found out later he was burnt by a woman before so he was a cynic. We were not told what happened in the past, so it's a big question mark if his cynicism and meanness / condescension was justified.
SPOILERS
At the end, after a few angsty weeks during which Annis was missing Jake and feeling unwanted and insecure, but he was avoiding her! Turned out he had fallen in love at first sight with Annis without realising it. So he played it really cool, suggesting the marriage of convenience to let Annis fall in love with him. Except his playing it cool made her think he's going to dump her. And HE thought she's regretting their marriage and was going to leave him...
What a mess. If only they had talked earlier!
During the book we were given the touristy settings of Portugal and Naples. It was a fun read. But the romance itself fell flat for me.
A departure from the usual doctor-hero and nurse/hospital staff-heroine, this hero Jake was a financial and business super star. He met our heroine Annis through his friend Matt, who grew up with Annis in their village. Matt's mother always cherished hope that Annis would marry Matt, but Matt and Mary, her sister were meant to be together. Initially I thought Jake would have cause for jealousy but that's not how the plot went.
Matt's paternal aunt was Jake's godmother. There was no mention of Jake's parents attending the funeral, which was really strange seeing how close Jake was to his godmother.
Jake was such a fun and nice guy in Bath...but the moment they married he changed. I mean he showered Annis with gifts...and extended the same kindness and generosity to her family. But when he spouted some chauvinistic quote from Tennyson, it was so ridiculous: "Man with the head and woman with the heart: Man to command and woman to obey; All else confusion." So this is where the title is from!
Annis had not liked Jake when she first met him because she sensed a strong arrogance in him. We found out later he was burnt by a woman before so he was a cynic. We were not told what happened in the past, so it's a big question mark if his cynicism and meanness / condescension was justified.
SPOILERS
At the end, after a few angsty weeks during which Annis was missing Jake and feeling unwanted and insecure, but he was avoiding her! Turned out he had fallen in love at first sight with Annis without realising it. So he played it really cool, suggesting the marriage of convenience to let Annis fall in love with him. Except his playing it cool made her think he's going to dump her. And HE thought she's regretting their marriage and was going to leave him...
What a mess. If only they had talked earlier!
During the book we were given the touristy settings of Portugal and Naples. It was a fun read. But the romance itself fell flat for me.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
December 17, 2019
One thing I've got to say is that it is different from the usual Betty Neels book, due to neither the ML nor FL not being in the medical profession. Also, this book is a marriage of convenience book. If I had know ahead of time it was one of those I would have dropped it.
Anyway, the FL has no career so when she is married she doesn't really have anything to do rather than travel with her husband and shop, which is rather boring. The ML is a business man who I don't really care for (don't like don't dislike). The one thing I really dislike about this book and books like it is that the FL is in love in with the ML (whom does not appear to love her) and expects that this will make a marriage work. It would be a better story if they had the same level of like for each other and they worked towards love rather than 1 party moaning in love for the other that may or may not have feelings for them. I can't stand the crying of the FL due to the fact that no one put her in this situation so she needs to grow a pair.
Anyway, the FL has no career so when she is married she doesn't really have anything to do rather than travel with her husband and shop, which is rather boring. The ML is a business man who I don't really care for (don't like don't dislike). The one thing I really dislike about this book and books like it is that the FL is in love in with the ML (whom does not appear to love her) and expects that this will make a marriage work. It would be a better story if they had the same level of like for each other and they worked towards love rather than 1 party moaning in love for the other that may or may not have feelings for them. I can't stand the crying of the FL due to the fact that no one put her in this situation so she needs to grow a pair.
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