‼️AMENDMENT TO ORIGINAL REVIEW‼️
After engaging in some lively conversation about this book (see comment section). I reread my original review (see below). I realized it’s actually kind of LAME (it happens). As such, I am going to amend it (as one does). And actually talk a little more about the content of the book (go figure). Which has become a bit more clear to me in retrospect (so good).
WHAT THIS BOOK IS (AND ISN’T) ABOUT
This book is about (a) the historical and current cultural norms, practices and discourses on the topic of gender. And (b) how recent changes in how people perceive, experience and express gender have sparked a highly contentious and politically consequential debate in our culture.
This book is focused on the MORAL PANIC that the issue of GENDER is eliciting in our CURRENT PUBLIC DISCOURSE.
THIS BOOK IS NOT: (a) comprehensive, (b) rigorous, (c) academic, (d) prescriptive (self help) text.
Butler is not a therapist, or a pundit. Butler is a scholar. Butler is critical theorist. Early in the book. Butler states that their concept of the function of critical theory is to OPEN DIALOGUE AND ENHANCE THE QUALITY OF DISCOURSE.
Butler observes that manny of the most INFLAMMATORY propositions (from both sides) are in essence, uninformed.
Butler refers to numerous CRITIQUES on their work, wherein it is obvious that the critic has not ACTUALLY READ their work.
Butler also refers to equally INFLAMMATORY propositions that are untestable because they are UN CITED.
Butler is CRITAL of UNINFORMED, and UN CITED propositions from both LEFT and RIGHT. Butler assert that these types of exchanges (a) shut down DIALOGUE, and fail to produce productive DISCOURSE. And are as such TOXIC.
Butler urges readers to:
- READ SORCE TEXTS
- CITE OUR SOURCES
Not to BE A MARM about it.
But rather.
So that the we can better understand the concerns of each other. And actually have productive conversations. And perhaps cut back on the bad faith ed homonym attacks and divisive inflammatory rhetoric that makes this (and close to every other politically charged conversation) SO TOXIC.
This very comment thread contains just such a conversation. I’m not sure I was able to live up to Butlers vision. But I will say. Some of the more contentious exchanges seem to illustrate many of Butlers points. And it has been very productive and clarifying (at least it has been for me).
CLARIFICATION OF TERMS
Butler observes that the term GENDER is distinct from SEX and SEXUAL ORIENTATION. Butler observes that MUCH of the CONFUSION and CONFLICT in the current cultural discourse on GENDER is due to conflating these terms.
SEX
Refers to the biological and physiological characteristics that define humans as male, female, or intersex. These characteristics include chromosomes, hormone levels, and reproductive/sexual anatomy (YOUR JUNK).
GENDER
Refers to the roles, behaviors, activities, and attributes that a given society considers appropriate for MEN/WOMEN/OTHER gender identities. GENDER encompasses identity, experience expression, and societal norms (YOUR LIVED EXPERIENCE).
SEXUAL ORIENTATION
Refers to a person's enduring physical, romantic, and/or emotional attraction to others. It includes identities such as heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, asexual, and others, based on whom one is attracted to (WHO YOU LOVE/BONE).
THE PHANTASM OF GENDER
Butler posits that the gender has become a PHANTASM wherein people have projected an inordinate level of FEAR, ANXIETY, and LOATHING into the topic of GENDER.
Just as Communism was the PHANTASM of 1950’s cold war area paranoia. Wherein Communism was reified as EVIL incarnate. And any affiliation or sympathy with the ideas and values of Communism was equated with being UN-AMERICAN. And just as McCarthyist political witch trails ruined the lives and careers of thousands of good people.
The specter of GENDER seems to be the NEW one of those. Gender is the new BOOGEYMAN. With similar reactionary, anti-intellectual, oppressive and (yes) dangerous effects.
Butler deconstructs many of the historical factors for this sad turn of events. And Butler is in many ways uniquely qualified to comment on this history, as they themselves are an important contributor to that history. In other words.
Butlers work is HISTORICALLY IMPORTANT.
Butlers 1990 book Gender Trouble introduced MANY of the key concepts at the center of the current cultural debate.
Including:
GENDER AS CULTURAL CONSTRUCT
Butler challenged traditional notions of gender, arguing that gender is not a fixed or innate quality but rather culturally determined.
GENDER AS PERFORMANCE
Butler argued that gender identity is performed via the repetition of gender normative behaviors, rather than a natural or fixed, innate or essential attribute.
NONBINARY GENDER
Butler critiques the binary(male/female) view of gender, and argues for a more fluid understanding of gender identities.
IF ANY/ALL OF THE ABOVE SEEM OBVIOUS.
You can thank Judith Butler for that.
BECAUSE NONE OF THIS WAS OBVIOUS in 1990
Back when they published Gender Trouble.
ALL of this was EXTREMELY controversial.
Butler LOBBED this conversation into the mainstream.
Nearly 35 years later.
We’re LIVING in a post Butler ERA.
Gender Trouble, and Butler's subsequent work has had a HUGE impact on feminism, queer theory, and gender studies.
And on our culture at large.
So YASSS QWEEN WERK!
And if you read Gender Trouble.
You better be ready to work.
Because it’s REALLY HARD WORK.
Gender Trouble, and Butler's work more broadly, is INFAMOUS for being DENSE, HARD READING.
WHO’S AFRAID OF GENDER ?
This is Butlers (not altogether successful, but in my humble opinion still excellent) attempt to make their work ACCESSIBLE to a (non academic) POPULAR AUDIENCE.
WITHOUT sacrificing the INTEGRITY/IMPACT of their IDEAS.
I say not altogether successful because many of the criticisms of the book are that it is either TOO DENSE, or
NOT RIGOROUS ENOUGH (see original review below).
Much is the criticism of this book (that I have read) coming from the old guard fans of Butlers academic work focuses on how this book addresses POP CULTURE issues that maybe more relatable to a non academic audience. But somehow seem like pandering and/or preaching to the CHOIR.
I didn’t share this sentiment.
As mentioned in my original review (see below).
I think Butler threads that needle quite skillfully.
Some of the current issues Butler addresses in Who’s Afraid of Gender (WAOG) include:
TRANS EXCLUSIONARY RADICAL FEMINISM
Butler dedicates quite a lot of time/energy/pages discussing the trans exclusionary radical feminist (TERF) perspective. For those of you who are unaware of the TERF WAR.
A TERF is a person who advocates for radical feminist, but does not accept transgender women as “real” women.
According to Butler. TERFs typically believe that gender is based strictly on biological sex and that transgender individuals are reinforcing traditional gender roles or stereotypes.
Butler is HIGHLY critical of this assertion.
Butler argues (quite convincingly) that sex and gender are not binary. Biologically speaking or otherwise. Butler discusses (at length) a Trump era SCOTUS ruling where all of the Justices (with the exception of a minor descent from Thomas) refuted the validity of sex/gender binary categorization due to the COPIOUS precedents rulings finding discrimination of intersex individuals as unconstitutional.
Butler implicitly argues that if the conservative af SCOTUS can’t deny the fact of intersex individuals, and the rights of gender nonbinary people to not be discriminated against base of their gender identity. Then how (exactly) are TERFs able to justify their evidence/arguments.
I will not PERSONALLY weigh in on this issue, as I am not well informed on the TERF WAR beyond what was discussed in the book. But I was personally convinced by Butlers argument.
J. K. ROWLING
Butler also discussed Harry Potter author, J. K. Rowling’s (strange/disturbing) anti trans stance.
Butler asserts that Rowlings arguments against granting trans women access to restrooms out of fear that they will rape other women is unjust and unsupported by evidence.
Butler asserts that J. K. Rowling citing her own sexual assault as justification for her aversion to trans women, as a harmful projection of personal trauma onto trans individuals.
Butler cites this as one example of how people and organizations are projecting their anxiety, fear, and loathing on to trans individuals and onto the broader issue of gender.
THE CATHOLIC CHURCH
Butler discusses the ways the Catholic Church have projected of the specter of child sexual abuse (CSA) on to the issue of gender. Butler asserts that there is no evidence linking trans gender, and gender nonconformity to CSA.
This is an issue that came up in the discussion thread of this review. The conflation of sexual orientation and gender is problematic. Gender nonbinary, gender nonconformity and trans gender are all distinct from sexual orientation.
The conflation of pedophilia and homosexuality is also HIGHLY problematic. As should be obvious. Those are VERY different things.
But the GRAND SLAM conflation of all three of these issues is BEYOND WHACK. And the fact that the Catholic Church (of all organizations) is accusing trans people of being at high risk of CSA. Without evidence. Is frankly astounding.
DESCRIPTIVE NOT PRESCRIPTIVE
Many of the criticisms of WAOG lament the lack of advice.
This book aims to describe the problem.
And enhance the level of discourse.
But it does not claim to have a solution.
If you’re looking for a prescriptive text.
This one isn’t it.
CHANGE
Despite the current PHANTASMAGORIC nature of the GENDER conversation. Butler remains optimistic.
Butler asserts that high quality discourse is remedial.
And Butler and their work affirm that good theory, and good scholarship, and good faith can open DIALOG, enhance DISCOURSE and create new opportunities for CANGE.
‼️ORIGINAL REVIEW‼️
Real quick.
I’m not an expert in GENDER STUDIES or CRITICAL THEORY.
Not even CLOSE.
I’m a FAN.
But I’m a NEOPHYTE.
So everything offered below is offered with humility and respect for those of you who have invested a lifetime of work understanding and contributing to the field. None of this is intended to disparage you or your informed opinions.
I’m learning as a go.
So there will be mistakes.
And I will change as a learn.
So I may retract what I say here/now later.
I am a therapist.
I work with LGBTQ people.
I LOVE/CHERISH my queer brothers and sisters and nibblings.
I have been LOVED/NURTURED by the queer community for my WHOLE LIFE. And I am in immense DEBT and GRATITUDE.
I also work with a LOT of trans and nonbinary people.
And their families.
And if I can say ANYTHING with any sort of certainty on the issue of GENDER. It is that it is a PAINFUL and POLARIZING subject for a lot of people. Particularly RIGHT NOW.
Sadly, but undeniably so.
As such.
This is inevitably going to be a polarizing text.
Given the EXTREMELY heated debate the topic of GENDER.
And given critical acumen of readers of critical theory.
It is no surprise that there are LOTS of critical reviews.
Some understandably AGNOSTIC (no stars).
Some that are only MODERATELY critical (4/5 starts).
And a few that are REALLY unhappy with the book (1/5 stars).
It’s not surprising, and also kind of disappointing that very few reviewers express unrestrained JOY and APPRECIATION and LOVE and PRAISE for this book, and for its author.
So I’m DEFINITELY going to buck the trend here.
‼️ TRIGGER WARING ‼️
I ABSOLUTELY LOVED this book.
I LOVE LOVE LOVE Judith Butler.
And I WILL give this book a 5/5 stars ⭐️
If that is somehow offensive or uncool for you.
I respect that.
Honestly.
But you may not wish to read any further.
‼️ END OF TRIGGER WARNING‼️
This book is FUCKING AMAZING!!!
I read a lot of the critical reviews.
Some of the CRITICISM is that it’s too DENSE/DIFFICULT.
Ok.
That’s legit.
This book is marketed and intended for a mass audience.
And that is a very common criticism of JUDITH BUTLER (JB).
I haven’t read a TON of JB.
I read their CLASSIC GENDER TROUBLE (GT) only recently.
While I did find GT rigorous and challenging.
I don’t view that as problematic, or as a flaw in the text.
Books like GT are difficult out of a necessity.
Academic writing tends to be dense.
It tends to use very “low level” (technical) language.
It needs to be economical, rigorous and precise.
It’s not fun.
Not on purpose.
But kind of out of necessity.
And…
This is a FUCKING HARD subject to deconstruct.
I think most philosophical texts that identify and articulate something previously unknown or unarticulated have to carefully operationalize their language and topic. And as such, they tend to be technical and challenging to read.
Historically, those who attempt to understand and write about a topic in a new way, for the first time, and who also wish to be taken seriously, tend to write LONG/DIFFICULT books.
FREUD, MARX, DARWIN, DERRIDA, DUBOIS.
To name only a few.
All wrote LONG/DIFFICULT books that CHANGED THE WORLD, and that other SUPER SERIOUS people spent lifetimes studying, unpacking and elaborating upon.
GT is DEFINITELY one of those BOOKS.
JB is definitely one of THOSE AUTHORS.
Additionally.
Because the audience is expected to be EXTREMELY critical.
Academia tends to roll like that.
The arguments need to be thorough and well supported.
This is out of necessity.
Thats how philosophy works.
Plus.
The topic is CONTROVERSIAL.
Again, sadly but undeniably so.
JB’s writing had to be bullet proof.
They were CLEARLY bracing for a HUGE backlash.
AND BOY DID THEY GET ONE.
Most of us mere mortals couldn’t withstand even a FRACTION of the HELL that has been HEAPED onto JB from ALL SIDES.
Think of the ENDLESS hours of TicTok featuring people sobbing into the camera because someone misgendered them. Now (imagine if you will). Being JB and dropping GT in 1990. Imagine the outrage. The death threats. The risk of reputation. The discrimination. From the LEFT and RIGHT.
In the epilogue.
JB reflects on the experience of seeing their EFFIGY burned in ANGRY PROTEST. That’s only a sliver of the HATE that has been focused on JB. Most of us armchair critics would be ABSOLUTELY terrified and devastated to be the target of that type of VIOLENCE and HOSTILITY.
JB steps into that role willingly.
For the absolute benefit of the WORLD.
As such.
I would just like to heap MASSIVE PRAISE and LOVE and RESPECT onto JB. And thank them for BRAVING all of that.
So that young and old people today can be who they are.
In a MUCH less dangerous, MUCH more tolerant world.
Here’s to BRAVE SMART DIFFICULT PEOPLE!
Here’s to LONG SMART DIFFICULT BOOKS!
More please.
This book WHOS AFRAID OF GENDER (WAOG) is long, yes (again out of necessity) but it’s MUCH less difficult than GT.
It’s retains MUCH of the rigor and power of JB’s academic writing. But it’s VERY GENEROUS in that it offers LOTS of timely explanations, and examples, and invitations to go to source materials. It’s a nice introduction to a difficult filed.
And it works.
At least it WERKED for me.
On the FLIP.
Other critics assert that it PREACHES TO THE CHOIR.
And that it LACKS RIGOR AND PRECISION.
Ok.
That’s legit too.
But…
I think this book does so (again) out of necessity.
It needed to be less precise/rigorous than GT.
It’s NOT academic writing.
It’s intended for a broader audience.
It needs to TRADE rigor for accessibility without totally loosing the integrity of the sources. And (again), I think this book achieves that to an EXTRAORDINARY degree.
It threads that needle.
Like AMAZINGLY well.
We also NEED someone to PREACH to this CHOIR here. You may not. You may have found all the clarity and support that you need. But LOTS and LOTS of confused and abused and utterly isolated and alone people do need it.
And JB is kind of PERFECT for that role.
FINALLY:
Some of the critique is centered on JB’s choice of EXAMPLES and OPTIONS. JK ROWLING, the TERF movement, and the CATHOLIC CHURCH. Some argue that these are not useful or relevant to the conditions and challenges of most people. Duly noted. And. This book seems to be somewhat personal for JB. In the epilogue thy talk about being targeted and violently attacked in an airport. While they don’t explicitly say it. They intimate that the attack was fueled by some of the ANTI-GENDER agitprop that has emerged from these (and other) sources (probably too numerous to address).
WAOG feels like (at least in part) an attempt to process and refute (AT LEAST SOME) of that nonsense. In plain view. With sources cited. Not as an attempt to necessarily slam the lid down on those lines of discourse and debate. But rather, to enhance the quality of those conversations. And to give the willing uninitiated a quick/easy cheat sheet for checking out some OTHER, MORE AFFIRMATIVE, MORE ROBUST texts.
Anyway.
I could go on.
But I absolutely shouldn’t.
So I don’t think I will.
I don’t know much about which I speak.
And so.
Will not continue.
I will however continue to educate myself on this matter.
And to go to the sources.
And that will be (at least in part) facilitated by this book.
I FUCKING LOVED THIS BOOK.
I ABSOLUTELY RECOMMEND IT.
I BELIEVE IT WILL SAVE LIVES.
AND CHANGE MINDS.
5/5 SUPER GRATEFUL/APPRECIATIVE STARS ⭐️