Love shouldn't be a crime, but for twenty-three-year-old Teniade Adeowo, it is. After fleeing Nigeria to escape both the law and his trauma, Ade arrives in England with one goal: to leave everything behind. But when his path collides with Stefan Wickström's at Heathrow, Ade learns that sometimes the things you run from have a way of chasing you down.
Stefan is no stranger to running either. Leaving Sweden behind, he's convinced that constant motion is the only way to stay one step ahead. But Ade's quiet intensity stops him in his tracks—and suddenly, Stefan's past feels closer than ever.
In a world where love feels like a luxury they can't afford, and with the ghosts of their pasts lurking just behind them, Ade and Stefan must decide whether to let love be the force that finally sets them free—or if their fragile bond will snap under the weight of secrets too heavy to bear.
G.T. Dípè is a doctoral student in environmental science who spends more time watching TV shows and reading novels than she probably should. When she’s not traveling across Europe, juggling her two kids or pranking her husband, she’s dreaming up stories that blend emotion, humour, and a touch of chaos. A lifelong lover of words, she finds joy in crafting characters readers can root for and worlds they can escape into. Her debut novel, Runnin’ No More, was published on February 14, 2025. This is her sophomore novel.
If a book starts with a quote, and that quote is one of the emails between Henry and Alex from Red, White, and Royal Blue by Casey McQuiston, you know it’s going to be a good book.
I love all the other books she’s mentioning in this book sm 🤭😊😆 -Red, White, and Royal Blue, Shadowhunters, etc 🫶
And the songs in every chapter!
But as much as I am loving all the books and songs she’s bringing up, I did not like the dates. The dates that come out every so often confused me and made me go back every time to see exactly how many days it’s been since the last scene, and I am did not enjoy that as much.
Also the burn is real 🔥🔥 It’s so slow 😫😫 Every time I thought they’d get together, they DIDN’T and it was KILLING MEEEE😫😫
I did come across a couple times when I sort of got out of the mood because there was a lot of things going on, but besides that I thoroughly enjoyed this book and would recommend you to give it a try.
I went into this book with no expectations, and I was pleasantly surprised more impressed than I ever imagined. Stefan and Ade? I knew I’d love them the moment they almost kissed, only to be interrupted by their friends. The chemistry between them was electric. But what really stole the show were the gestures. 😍😩 When I say it’s the little things that matter, I mean it and Ade and Stefan nailed that. Their dynamic was perfectly balanced; neither outshone the other, and I adored that equality in their relationship.
That said, I wasn’t a fan of the pacing. At times, it felt like whiplash I prefer a steady rhythm, especially when characters are working through issues. The off-page reconciliation didn’t sit well with me; it felt like a missed opportunity to dive deeper into their emotional growth.
Stefan needs flogging let’s be real. While I understood his struggles, his tendency to shut people out when things got tough was frustrating. Still, I thoroughly enjoyed reading this. The chemistry, the heartfelt gestures, the love, and the strong themes of family and friendship? Absolutely chef’s kiss 100% perfection.
This was an ARC and I briefly had to pause on the book to complete another, however this book was good. I loved the story, I loved the characters even though one of the MMC wanted to make me punch him every now and then, but then again, they are young. This LGBTQIA+ book and the abuse and stalking and everything else that can become a trigger to everyday life was needed to be seen. To understand that even though you go through something life altering does not mean you cannot grow from it and have the happiness you hope to have. Thank you for this wonderful story.
This was my first novel from the author. While it took me a while to get used to their writing style, things seem to eventually flow. The pace of this novel was fair, even with long chapters. The chapters were jammed packed with important details which made me want to continue reading. Ade and Stefan were the perfect main characters. I didn’t want the story to end. They had the perfect meet cute moment. Reading about how they loved on each other, gave each other grace, cared for one another was beautiful. Both of them were running from something and didn’t want their past to impact their present. But with the help of their friends and family members , everything fell into place nicely for the both of them. I really loved how supportive both of their parents were with them. I loved how their parents allowed them to be who they were meant to be and live in their truth. This was the perfect story to read during the month of love because I mean if my Husband learned how to say “I love you” to me in 23 languages…. Whew (cartwheels). I highly recommend !
This was a good read overall, and I genuinely enjoyed the characters and the message the book was trying to pass across. One of my favorite aspects was the found family element. That sense of community, support, and chosen bonds really stood out and added warmth to the story. Everybody had each other’s back, it was beautiful to read.
While I’m usually not a fan of insta-love, I didn’t completely mind it here. I could tell that Teniade and Stefan were drawn to each other, and their connection made sense, even if it developed a bit too quickly for my personal taste.
The writing style, though, wasn’t really my favorite, and I felt like there were a lot of characters introduced. While I understand the need for diversity and found family vibe in the characters, it became slightly overwhelming for me and made it harder to fully connect with everyone or stay grounded in the main storyline.
Despite these, I still enjoyed the experience, and it left me curious about what comes next. I actually feel like I might enjoy Jola’s book even more, and I’m looking forward to reading it.
I absolutely loved this book.🥹It was so beautiful, soft and the cutest thing.
It also had a perfect balance between capturing the reality of being queer in Nigeria and also the joy of falling in love in a safe, warm and welcoming environment. I adored Teniade and Stefan so much.🥹Watching them navigate their personal struggles both separately and together really tugged at my heartstrings.💕
Also, Teniade and Stefan’s chemistry is amazing. And the way they loved and catered to each other? So beautiful to the point where i actually felt jealous of them.🥹😭 The romantic gestures? Too cute.
The only issues i had with this book were the excessive presence of pop culture, and the uneven pacing of the book, and the romantic development. There were times where I felt out of the loop because I had missed some parts of their bonding moments. Some of them, which I considered important to show us(the reader) were off page and it sort of affected my reading experience a little.
Regardless, it’s still such a beautiful story and I adore these characters. Also, his sister, Jola is such a wonderful character and i can’t wait to read her story.
This book sold to me heavily after reading the “Afterword.” Those are really thoughtful words from the author. I enjoyed the book, and I will recommend it to anyone seeking to read a queer love story. Now, let’s start. When the author sent an advanced copy to me as well as another friend, he was worried that a straight woman wouldn’t be able to tell a queer story, and I was quite fascinated by what the book would turn out be about. There is no crime in reading and finding out. I was really impressed that a straight woman was able to tell a queer story and understand nuances better than a lot of people in the community.
Immediately after I started the book, I was glued to it, but I didn’t like the author's heavy use of dialogue. Maybe it's because I’m not heavily into romance stories where characters have to communicate quite well as a way of love. I love sparse dialogues in my books. Also, I love the narrative style, but what I loved about this book was that wherever she took on heavy narration, she made it easy to read. As someone with a low attention span who could be reading a book and tune into a totally different world, contributing to a lack of interest in many books, this book didn’t bore me. I really enjoyed the world of Stefan and Ade.
I wanted to ask if Ade’s sister is a semi-autobiographical narrative author's life until I read the author's bio. My mind >>>
Ade’s parents, specifically his mother, are really the stagnant reality for LGBTQ+ Nigerians. Those who are at the top making laws and decisions don’t care about the status quo changing despite the fact they can, and LGBTQ+ people in the poor and middle-class Nigerians suffer from it. When are we going to be free? Anyways, this is my first time reading full queer romance fiction. I don’t like romance because human mushiness bores me, but the author gave them a different world, arc, and direction rather than the book revolving around them. Finally, I couldn’t even get into some side characters because I found too many and tedious, but they weren’t so important to me. And weirdly, it’s from Ade’s side of the family, unlike Stefan’s friend and ex!!!
No rating. I did not read it. I wish there was a way or someone could tell me how to “return “ or at least be able to write a review on a book I’m not going to read, without really reading it. I did read the introduction material that did not mention the topics of the book either. I must have added this to want to read at some point. This is about 2 male gay teens? When you have to dig for at least 5-20 minutes to determine this, it wears me out. When I spend way too much time trying to find and download books that I really want to read. I find I am spending 75% of my time doing “documentation and research on what books have themes I don’t want to read. Too many other great books waiting on my TBR list
This is the first of its kind that I've read. Big kudos to the author for taking on a plot like this and doing it great justice.
It was sad in some places, reading about the brutal experience Teni had to go through but it was necessary as it represented the experiences of queer people around the world, especially in a place like Nigeria.
I can't believe this is this author's first book, it was really well written and nice. I found some parts annoying lol (cough cough Stefan being a silly goat) but it was more to do with that character and nothing else.
I hate slow burns lol cus why were we teased for soooo loongggg 😭 but the yearning was perfectly portrayed and I'm excited to read Jola and Ben's story.
3.75/5 stars! I really liked the premise of this story and the author has a unique way of bringing it to life. There were portions of the book that felt too heavy, which impacted my pacing. I had to take a few breaks to get through it, but understand that this was an intentional decision by the author to showcase the rules and regulations of Nigeria. Overall, a strong first entry by this author and I will read additional stories by her.
Thank you so much to G. T. Dípè for this E-ARC! All thoughts and opinions are my own 🥰
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What to expect: * SLOW burn * Queer rep * Nigerian MC
Y’all better be ready to CRY with this one. Described as “a heartfelt, emotionally charged new adult contemporary romance that blends the intensity of A Little Life with the introspective narrative of The Charm Offensive.” And it delivered!! This book absolutely ripped me apart in every way shape or form. I appreciate being able to read this book so much.
I love loveee this book. It’s a beautifully written MM romance that’ll have you in your feels(I’m talking different emotions, not just lovey-dovey feels).
I love how the author gave life to characters who weren’t leads, the vulnerability of men depicted as opposed to the “alpha male” yada yada yada, the friendship and familial love and the interesting subplots. I also love how sensitive topics were tackled and the YEARNING in this book? I’m obsessed.
Got an ARC copy. Runnin No More is a heartfelt and compelling story about love, identity, and self-acceptance. Ade and Stefan’s journey is filled with emotional depth, witty dialogue, and undeniable chemistry.
The novel masterfully explores trauma, resilience, and the courage to embrace one’s truth, all while delivering a captivating romance. With engaging prose and a strong supporting cast, this book is a must-read for fans of character-driven LGBTQ+ fiction. I was thinking of Omar the entire read. Highly recommended!
A crash meeting at the airport– the good kind and not the kind you see every time you turn on the news these days. Ade Adeowo and Stefan Wickstrom run into each other, literally, at the airport, and it is basically love at first sight. They meet again a few weeks later when they start grad school, and they become inseparable. However, the trauma they have both experienced lingers over each of them like a storm cloud. Maybe just maybe, they can ease each other's burdens, stopping the rain, and create a double rainbow instead.
The sheer trauma these characters have faced is unfathomable but unfortunately happens every day. The moments recapping the events that led Ade and Stefan to where they are now are some of the best written parts of the book. The sheer pain that must be fought and the resilience they have to get up everyday and just keep moving (one may say running) and fighting is something that makes us human. The author makes it a point to ensure the reader knows the characters are bettering themselves for themselves and not solely for another person.
While the essence of the story is great, this book could use another round of editing. The number of descriptions of things gets tedious and boring to read through. While some moments like saying “I love you” in 23 different languages are sweet and have meaning to the story, listing ten different songs that are playing at a party or in the car- not so much. Also, the references to the Shadowhunters series by Cassandra Clare is entirely too excessive. I find it hard to believe that a group of grad students AND professors are reading a series intended for pre-teens and teenangers and making it their entire personality. The book series is mentioned at least once a chapter and someone even used it in their proposal to their girlfriend.
As this series continues, I expect great strides will be made between this book as a debut and the next.
I am someone who rarely reads books where both MCs have bad past or rather trauma because of how messy they tend to get but this book was unpacked with such care and was very realistic. The ending felt very fitting. After all that they, Ade and Stefan, had gone through, that ending packed everything up in perfect speed and depth, leaving no stones left unturned.
Runnin' No More is this author's debut novel and she really knew how to captivate her audience. Her writing is absolutely stunning and the symbolism in the book added more value to each and every aspect of the book.
Ade and Stefan are both running away from their past, thinking that if they ignore it or go far enough they will overcome it, or rather, it would leave them alone. But that's not the case. In fact, their past comes rushing in when Ade and Stefan get together and are already falling for them. So a lot of misunderstandings occur which makes the bond that Ade and Stefan have created to waver and become vulnerable. They will need to make tough decisions that will either make or break their relationship.
Ade is a good man. He is caring to a fault. I enjoyed his love for music and just embracing his nationality and isn't afraid to share it with others. There were moments where I was worried for him. But shame, what was really admirable about him was the decision he made, knowing that it will have to be made if he wants to be with Stefan. That took guts.
Stefan is a fire cracker. He knows what he wants and isn't sorry for it. What really melted my heart was him speaking in Ade's native language. It was so adorable. H
Overall this couple experienced hardships that could've broken them but they stuck through 'til the very end. They were resilient and had to have a crazy amount of trust in order to come out stronger together.
It was beautifully written, leaving me captivated the entire time. Ade and Stefan were amazing characters! It was easy to like and relate with them. I just loved how they first met at the airport and then how they ran into each other again at the university. They definitely were meant to find each other. I highly enjoyed all the book references, especially the Harry Potter and Shadow Hunter ones.
This felt like watching a sweet rom-com or a cozy TV show full of drama, silly shenanigans and lots of cutesy moments. I love a good "fuck society - we are choosing joy/love" plot so it felt like a no brainer to add to the list. G.T. is absolutely a romantic and you can feel her support for the LGBTQ+ community as we still, unfortunately, navigate some pretty scary times for people to publicly claim all of who they are and who they choose to love (especially in countries outside the west).
Writing a debut novel while in school is so impressive, I don't even want to say anything bad about this book because HOW?! and she's a mother? incredible. There was a bit more telling than showing than I typically like and that's the main reason this isn't rated higher. The characters are so lovable I just couldn't not finish this one. I'll still look out for more of G.T.'s work.
MM Romance at it's peak! The characters have depth, the plot and the mood of the book was just perfect. It's not all love and romance, and it's not all roses, its roses and ivy. The past scars they carry and the pain they've felt in the past. It was such a good read. Adding song title at the beginning of each chapter?? That made it even more better, it made me nostalgic
Runnin' No More is my first queer novel. When I started reading this book, I was kind of scared that I wouldn't be able to connect to the characters (funny me). I love Ade and Stefan to the moon, and, er, Jola too, lol.I love romance novels (my favorite). Ade and Stefan's love is one of a kind that can only be found in the most sacred place in the world, and this book opened my eyes to the concept that love is love irrespective of who we are loving.Not to forget Nigerian culture, which is the major theme of the novel, by the way 🥰 (a proud Yoruba omoge). I love the way the author infused Yoruba language into her writing. Oh, and I really want a VN on how Stafen pronounces "mo ni ife re." 😂Now the plot of the novel. I love the fact that I connected to the plot of the novel because I'm a Nigerian, and I get to see cases like this every day. Maybe the author should have just put based on a "true life story" because this story is about people's reality in Nigeria, where a lot of people are homophobic, and they treat queer people as if they are not human beings, and it is very, very sad because love is love, right? Then why can't one love the people that they want to love without being scared or without being afraid that the authorities or police could just come and arrest you at any time? Ade, who is a Nigerian, actually faced this horrible dilemma, which actually led him to Stefan. Will I say thank God for Nigeria happening to him or not? If not, "How Ade go meet Stefan?".Stefan, on the other hand, who also has his own story, or will I say dilemma, had to leave his home to where Ade is, which is England. "My TraumaShip"These two did everything just to make their relationship work. I love their character and how authentic they are; it's a breath of fresh air, to be honest.Jola and Ben's love story I wish the author knew it's not a bad thing, but I wish they gave us a little more story time, or let me say, a love story of Ben and Dollar. I don't know that my second-best characters in the book, maybe you should be expecting your life and Ben staying off, or I don't know.I would also love to comment on the author's writing. I love the way the book is easy to understand, with no unnecessary ambiguous words. There were no dull moments while reading the novel; different emotions here and there (I shed small tears). I rate the writing a solid 10.My friend would really like this book; maybe I will waybill it to her. 😁I highly recommend this book.
This was such an interesting read. A meeting that seems to be one in a million… a collision by astronomical chance. An accident like no other. Picture this - a melting pot of love, drama, romance, revenge, and trauma. Now, imagine it all comes together to form a long series of events - ups and downs - a rollercoaster of mixed emotions, building up to a climax, then you realize you have been holding your breath. This is what Runnin’ No More, by G.T. Dipe is. If you are a fan of ooey gooey type of romance - you know, the type that's warm and soft - then this book is for you. If you are a lover of good literature, then this book is for you, too.
The story tackles real life problems, like human rights violation, identity, familial dynamics, marginalization, and trauma - how different people deal with trauma, and how it affects relationship. It is a touching, warm, and romantic story that follows two men, Temi and Stefan. Teni is a British-Nigerian man who lives in the UK, and Stefan is Swedish. They were both running away from their past, and ended up colliding with each other at an airport, their worlds intertwining.
The characterization of the characters are very multidimensional, with distinct personalities, flaws, and depth. Each of the characters - lead characters, supporting characters, and bonus characters - even the ones that appeared just once - all possessed individuality, and this makes them stand out, and not easily forgotten. The style of storytelling is filled with humour, and informalities that makes the reading experience more intimate, and fun filled. The implementation of playlists and music into the story, not only strengthens, and emphasizes the love the characters have for each other, but it also sheds more light, and acts as a window into their different personalities. Another bonus, is that it also makes room for interesting additions to your playlists.
It is a very interesting book, and I enjoyed every bit of it. I think it's a book that should be read by everyone, because of the intentional subtleties of the themes. It definitely should be added to your TBR pile.
"Flesh meets flesh in an intoxicating dance that feels new and familiar all at once, stirring something deep, exhilarating, and untamed."
Imagine you are defenseless, and you are surrounded by a group of people, how would you escape? I know you would say, "I'll stop my Imagination." But, for Teniade Adeowo, he can't!
A twenty-three year old Nigerian, Teniade Adeowo, bumps into a twenty-two year old Sweden guy, Stefan Wickstorm at the airport. Just like every other collision, that happened unexpectedly, and ended with a remorseful look of "I'm sorry," heavily etched on the face, equivocally took a twist turn for Teniade and Stefan, as they were gulped by "Love at first sight," during their collision.
Of course, in a country like Nigeria, where ‘careful,' is an understatement, where even ghosts gossip. Every move, every word, every side-glances could be fuel for a scandal.
Having discovered his sexuality, Teniade longed for love, but got disdain in return. And, ‘Do you know what it’s like to have someone offer you the thing you want most in the world, but take it back at the same time?’
Speaking of which, there comes Olayinka Oguns, the random guy Teniade met at a party, who confessed his feelings that, "Ade, I'm gay... and I'm in love with you."
If Teniade could wheel back time, he would have hoped to never meet Yinka. Yinka, the architect of Teniade's misfortunes did brought bad luck, as a memory that forever etched in his head was "on the nineteenth of June, which he was attacked by a group of four men in Lagos, Nigeria, for being gay."
"When all my dreams come true, the one I want next to me is you." Teniade eventually found his man, Stefan, whose presence brought not only succor, but long-lasting love story.
@thegtdipe trained her characters with fierce eyes, as they were multidimensional, grin, but not too grin, and controversial if need be.
If you're a heavy lover of romance, this book is for you. Also, you knew deep down in you that you can't hide your sexuality forever, then, run, but don't walk and pick up this book to navigating sexuality.
I love the beginning, the cute meet, the location and the fact that there's a hint of yearning in this book! It makes it so much better. It’s written in the third person and not only do we see and get to feel the lead's feelings and trauma but we also get to process it in a way that’s captivating and so warm. From being a Nigerian and what it is to be attracted to another gender, and trying to find your true self. Therapy is included in this book, The author handles mental states and portrays it so well. And Honza is one character I hate! If I see him? It’s on sight! I am throwing hands. I love that it’s a warm- and calm read with little parts that make your jaw drop and parts where Stefan is just being Stefan. Would I recommend this? YES. Did I want it to end? NO
Now to talk about the Leads. Stefan. I have a love-hate relationship with this character, he isn’t bad don’t get me wrong- I just feel compared to Ade- he isn’t all that. Don’t get me wrong. He is a good partner, he gives and listens- I just feel he is a tad annoying and he dishes out what he can’t take. From not handling a delicate situation and not telling his partner about something important when he had the time to. I just don’t understand why he can use the blueprint that he gave Ade to solve this issue and why he didn’t tell Ade what was going on. The part that pissed me off about him was when Ade was reaching out to talk and he was “processing.” Asides that, his story is truly emotional and his trauma is valid and so was his response- and EVENTUALLY he was able to involve his loved ones when it was a little bit too much for him to bear. And he loves Ade completely so I will give him ⭐️⭐️⭐️ I am on Ade’s Side, 100%.
Teniade. This man can do no wrong in my eyes! I don’t care. He is an example of a book boyfriend- from the beginning to the end- there isn’t a bad thing for me to say about him. He had his trauma and he immediately knew he had to fix it, yes he was a little bit wrong when he thought that working on himself and not including his partner will all make sense when he is healed. That was inconsiderate but immediately he talked about it with his family by the way, he knew he had to talk to a therapist which he did. He was a giver, a listener, a lover and a friend, he showed up all the time. He was patient, he was gentle. He showed up for Stefan and everyone else who he loved, His friends and family are support systems everyone should have, or even create. I guess it’s the support and love he grew up with that he extended to Stefan. When I said he was a giver, there was intentionality behind it. It was soft and detailed. Ade was undeniably in love, a proper yoruba man through and through. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
And to the author. Thank you for portraying the lives of these men in a relatable manner, thank you for writing it so well, thank you for sending me the book, thank you for introducing these characters to me, and making me see another world through your words. Every other character in this book, from the friends and the family- they were all beautifully written, no one was forgotten, no one had a story that ended abruptly. It’s a perfect written book, for me.
I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
This wasn't exactly my cup of tea. The two main characters, Stefan, a master's degree student from Sweden, and Ade, who is also a student at the same university, originally meet after Steph bumps into Ade at an airport. I'm not a big fan of meet cutes, but those who are will love it.
They don't reunite until Stefan is introduced to one of his instructors who just happens to be Ade's sister. Ade is in her office when Stefan comes to speak with her. We not only get meet cute, but insta-love as well. The author throws in her fair share of tropes. It's not necessarily a bad thing, but this is her first novel and it shows.
Ade and Stefan go through a lot of angst, and I do mean a lot, to get to their happy ending. It's almost too much, but I like angst. They're fairly well fleshed out characters. The secondary characters are strong as well.
I'm not a fan of insta-love and we hear every "I love you" between the two of them. It's a bit of an overkill. It's their first, and hopefully last, real relationship so I do understand their being so enthusiastic about each other. Part of the angst is a lack of communication of events and miscommunication on both parts that I won't talk about due to them being spoilers. Reminding your partner that you do love him is a good thing, but you don't need to do it every other sentence.
The book was just a little bit too much for me. I think there are definitely parts that need editing. The plot was interesting, and it worked well. The journey was a bit bumpy, but they got there in the end. This isn’t a book for everyone, but I know that it will have an audience and they’ll love it. I hope it succeeds beyond the author’s wildest dreams!
Runnin’ No More, simply put into words, is a great book. A quick journey. Save for the plot, GT Dipe is a wordsmith; knows how to drive home with words. I call it a journey because the storytelling itself was a road, with turns, with needs of break, and plenty of music to enjoy (If you know what I mean). The characters themselves were intriguing, from the amiable Jola to the charismatic Honza whom I believe we all love to hate. But nothing was more beautiful than seeing the love story blossoming between Stefan and Ade. “Ololufe”, the latter had called him. I simply think, anyone who gets it, gets it. Writing something like this, i would call an LGBT romance; quirky, funny, chill and impacting, AND putting in elements that truly showcase the ups and downs in the real world LGBT community was a royal move. From kito, to other past traumas like emotional abuse, GT Dipe did not mince words. I was immersed in it, and could share the emotions these ones shares, now imagine someone who really experienced this in real life, and how much this book would feel towards him.
Along the way, I did find it a little mixing, trying to keep up with the characters who were thrown in by just their first names, but I got it together, viewing the book as a broadening tale, and how much the bond between these other people kept our main characters in touch. From the power of their love to the loving friendships they maintained with others around them; lots of get together. And my favourite character, the powerful sister that Jola is. GT Dipe carried me from Nigeria to England to Sweden, and I felt like I was holding hands with these people as I did. This is something I would recommend for my friends, especially those within ✨the community ✨ and I also think it’s for everyone. You read this and it gives you empathy and a hope for love because that is what it gave to me.
“In avoidance, he finds a strange, stubborn strength, a way to stay afloat in a sea of challenges.”
I was deeply moved by how this book approached such heavy and important themes, especially LGBTQ+ discrimination and the lasting effects of trauma. These are challenging topics to address, but the author handled them with so much care and nuance that it felt both honest and deeply impactful. What stood out the most for me was the romance between Ade and Stefan, it felt incredibly real, grounded, and full of complexity. Their connection was beautifully developed, and the moments of introspection woven throughout the story added so much depth and authenticity.
It was also great to see the humour sprinkled across the book even with such heavy topics. I love how Stefan doesn’t seem to know any sayings/proverbs correctly but just forms his own along the way 😂 and how their friend group is one big comic relief.
The author’s prose is truly something special. It is detailed, evocative, and immersive. G.T. Dipe has an incredible ability to use language in a way that makes abstract emotions feel tangible and immediate. This talent brings a unique depth to the narrative, and it allowed me to feel the characters’ struggles and joys as if they were mine. I think this is a rare gift, and it made the entire reading experience so memorable.
Overall, this was such a powerful and compelling read, and I can’t recommend it enough. It’s the kind of book that just stays with you forever, and I’ll be urging everyone I know to pick it up.
What a breathtaking debut! This book was utterly devastating yet brimming with hope, emotion, and the kind of deep, soul-shifting healing that lingers long after the final page. I devoured every moment of it.
G.T. Dípè masterfully tackles brutal, heart-wrenching topics, not just telling a story but immersing the reader in the raw, lived experiences of these characters. I didn’t just read about Stefan and Ade, I grieved with them, hoped with them, and held my breath as they fought for their own happiness.
There were moments when frustration got the best of me; I just needed them to find their way to each other. Their relationship was a slow burn that ached in the best way possible, but that’s what made this story so powerful. They weren’t just two people finding love, they were two young people reclaiming themselves from trauma, learning to trust, to heal, to believe in love again. Watching them lean on each other and take that journey together was absolutely heartwarming.
That being said, this book does explore deeply traumatic experiences, so I urge readers to check the trigger warnings. The pain these characters endured is not just fiction, it’s a reflection of real-life struggles that continue to affect people today. This story forced me to confront certain privileges and view the world through a sharper and more compassionate lens.
All in all, Stefan and Ade were phenomenal protagonists, and their journey was everything. Their resilience, their tenderness, and their ability to find love again, it left me absolutely wrecked in the best way.
A huge thank you to G.T. Dípè and Tales and Teacups PR for allowing me to be part of this book tour and for providing me with an E-ARC of this unforgettable debut