Much More To Come: The empowering self-help guide for resilient women experiencing the ups and downs of midlife, from dating post-divorce to menopoause and more – now new in paperback!

by Eleanor Mills

Midlife is a chrysalis, not a crisis – and you're not alone. From the highs and lows of menopause, empty nests, second careers, dating post-divorce and more, this book will be your companion when you need it most.In the tumult of midlife, women can face a whirlwind of divorce, loss, career upheaval, and the daunting task of reinvention. At forty-nine, Eleanor Mills thought her life was going swimmingly. Then the bottom fell out of her world, and she had to start again from scratch.

Much More to Come is the guide she longed for in those dark times. Within these pages, Eleanor shares stories of resilience and optimism; her own and those of women who have survived and thrived in midlife.

Through moving stories and practical wisdom, Much More to Come cuts through the uncertainty and the self doubt, and proves that midlife is not to be feared, but embraced. It is a time for transformation, when we can finally become the women we always wanted to be.

Filled with simple life lessons and observations marked by a rare warmth, wit and sensitivity – if you're a fan of Dawn Barton, Lorraine Candy, Jessi Klein and Davina McCall, this is the book for you. So what are you waiting for? Take a copy – or two – for yourself and all your best girlfriends today.

Readers won't stop

'Warm, witty and wise’ Liz Earle

'It’s a freedom to be who you were always meant to be, and this book confirms it’ Carol Vorderman

Genres: Nonfiction, Self Help

320 pages, Paperback

Published March 17, 2026

Reviews

[Meenal]

5%

[Donna · Rating 3 out of 5]

I was given this book as food for thought.

It was well written and an easy read. But not for someone who is seeking more than anecdotes or ideas for self help.

I am genuinely interested in the topic of ageism and organisational and policy approaches to manage it. And I am interested in how gender and age collide. There may not be much data on the subject. But there weren’t many new or societally transformative ideas on it either, in this book.

[Angie · Rating 5 out of 5]

I'm not sure why this book took me so long to devour! I can only think it touched on many elements I was perhaps not ready to address in my own life! That said, I'm so glad I did read it and think all 50-something women should too: it's a soul-nourishing read that doesn't shy away from the messiness of real life! I was educated on the fact that life needn't shrink as women age, and how it can expand into a wonderful time of awareness and enjoyment, with a good dollop of life-lessons and wisdom thrown in.

We learn that midlife needn't be the beginning of the end, but an exciting, unruly beginning all of its own. With wit and heart, Mills peels back the clichés of the so-called "second half" of life to reveal its unexpected richness, should we dare to embrace it. Think career pivots, self-reinvention, self-love and the thrilling discovery that we’re far from done when we turn 50, we may just be getting started.

What makes this book such a joy is its voice. Mills writes with humour and heart, never shying away from the reality of menopause, hot flushes and heartbreak. But she does it all with such compassion and reality that you’ll find yourself smiling even as you’re tearing up.

This isn’t just a novel; it’s a rallying cry for anyone who’s ever felt overlooked, underestimated, or boxed in by age or their gender. Much More to Come proves there’s always more adventure, more mischief, more joy waiting if we’re brave enough to chase it, and I love the term Queenager! I'm happy to be of that tribe!

[Annalisa · Rating 2 out of 5]

I persevered, hoping to find some genuinely useful insights, inspiration or nuggets of wisdom for women navigating midlife. Unfortunately, I came away feeling more resentful than inspired.

For me, the book felt rather self-indulgent, with an awful lot of references to the author’s career, professional achievements and personal circumstances. Yes, she has experienced redundancy from a high-powered, well-paid job, and I don’t doubt that was difficult. But there’s a considerable difference between navigating midlife with the financial security, opportunities and freedom she appears to enjoy and the reality for many ordinary women.

The idea of creating Noon for midlife women is undoubtedly well-intentioned, but it seems to cater to a very particular breed of woman. One who can afford to disappear off to retreats in far-flung countries, meditate for 30 minutes every day and take a leisurely swim at noon. It all feels a little removed from the reality of everyday life for most of us.

I kept reading because I genuinely wanted to take something away from it, but struggled to relate to much of what was being presented as a guide to midlife.

Midlife is certainly a time for reassessment, rediscovery and new beginnings. But surely that message needs to resonate with women living ordinary, not just those fortunate enough to have the time and means to reinvent themselves on their own terms.

[Tara Blais Davison · Rating 4 out of 5]

4/5 There is much to appreciate in the pages that form this book. The one thing that did annoy me however was the term “queenager” coined by the author to describe a woman in middle age. It is off putting how many times she referenced it.
That aside, this book is very needed and well overdue. It quotes Kahlil Gibran, Simone de Beaurevoir, and Carl Jung. She introduces the reader to the notion of the quarter life concept and the fact that by the third quarter, woman still have so much to contribute; that we are entering the stage of becoming and that our lives needn’t shrink as we age. -That we need go towards the hurt as that is where the healing lies: the pain is the portal.

[Lisa Fryer · Rating 4 out of 5]

So needed to read this book right now. Such a great read for 50+. There is life after all the trials and tribulations faced to date. Thank goodness. If you’re feeling lost in the wilderness of the world this book will kickstart you in to a new chapter which looks fun. Remember you’re not just a wife, mum, grandmother, employee etc. You have alot more and it will be your journey of discovering who you really are.

[Josephine Olok · Rating 5 out of 5]

Amazing book because so much of it resonates with me. I love the idea of being a Queenager - of discovering myself anew, of freeing myself of the burden of external perceptions and judgements, of doing what I want to do, and of taking time to enjoy all the little things. Thank you for the inspiration, Eleanor.

[Ceri · Rating 2 out of 5]

Speed read. Nothing new.
These books are written by people who lost their job, were shocked, took time to find their truth and then set up their own company doing that one thing they’d always loved.
The one thing that all these books seem to miss is that most of us do not have the finances to actually pause and reboot our lives and start growing oranges in Seville.

[Helen · Rating 3 out of 5]

Interesting book. More of a memoir than I guide I feel but there is some tips in there for midlife. It’s written very well and the stories keep it engaging and give you something to think about. Thanks to NetGalley for the early copy.

[Jo · Rating 5 out of 5]

A great book for any woman in their midlife! Could’ve added more in about the difficulties caring for older parents though, I kept waiting for that chapter and it’s such a huge part in many women’s lives

[Julie Flaherty · Rating 3 out of 5]

The chapters were split well so I could pick and choose what was right for me to read. I liked the “secret “ summing up at the end of each chapter. Some interesting points to ponder on in the future.

[Jennifer · Rating 5 out of 5]

Loved this book. If you are 40+ this book will resonate. Queenagers rule! 💪🏼

[Lexie Hughes · Rating 5 out of 5]

Thought provoking. Loved it.

[Amanda Woffenden · Rating 5 out of 5]

a must read for girls and women of all ages.

[Aimee]

I wasn't in the right mind set for this one

[Suzanne · Rating 4 out of 5]

Very well written and it really resonated with me.

[Kym · Rating 5 out of 5]

I listened to this as an audiobook after hearing the author speak on a podcast. I am definitely the demographic this book was written for 🤣 and definitely needed to hear what she had to say. I loved her ‘Queenager’ theory and her positive reinforcement that us ladies of a certain age have much to offer and lot’s of fun to be had in our next 3rd quarter of life. If you are feeling like a little pep up from a wonderfully supportive woman as you navigate Q3, pick up this little gem 🥰