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AN AUDIBLE MOST ANTICIPATED LISTEN, Read by the Author Herself
*AUDIOBOOK READ BY BRANDY!*
The iconic, multiplatinum, Grammy Award®–winning performer Brandy brings us a raw, intimate portrait of her life, charting her journey from Mississippi churches to Hollywood spotlights
From the moment she first sang at church in McComb, Mississippi, Brandy knew her voice was special. At fourteen she landed her first record deal. At fifteen her first album went platinum. At sixteen she was starring in the hit sitcom Moesha and became the first Black actress to play Cinderella on screen alongside fairy godmother, Whitney Houston.
Yet as the accolades piled up, so too did the pressure to maintain a flawless image. To onlookers, she had crafted the blueprint for the teenage “it” girl. But behind closed doors “The Vocal Bible” as she was known, was struggling.
In this piercing, revelatory memoir, Brandy humble roots of her decades-spanning career;Her early struggles with bullies and insecurities as a high schooler;the inside stories behind her most iconic songs and albums;her star-studded connections with Whitney Houston and Diana Ross;the affirmation of friends and family, including her brother Ray J, that helped her through challenging times;her inspirational journey to reclaim her sense of self, and her autonomy as a woman in Hollywood and in music…and so much more.Phases is a fearless and remarkable story of hope, resilience and the strength it takes to make peace with the past.
Supplemental enhancement PDF accompanies the audiobook.
*AUDIOBOOK READ BY BRANDY!*
The iconic, multiplatinum, Grammy Award®–winning performer Brandy brings us a raw, intimate portrait of her life, charting her journey from Mississippi churches to Hollywood spotlights
From the moment she first sang at church in McComb, Mississippi, Brandy knew her voice was special. At fourteen she landed her first record deal. At fifteen her first album went platinum. At sixteen she was starring in the hit sitcom Moesha and became the first Black actress to play Cinderella on screen alongside fairy godmother, Whitney Houston.
Yet as the accolades piled up, so too did the pressure to maintain a flawless image. To onlookers, she had crafted the blueprint for the teenage “it” girl. But behind closed doors “The Vocal Bible” as she was known, was struggling.
In this piercing, revelatory memoir, Brandy humble roots of her decades-spanning career;Her early struggles with bullies and insecurities as a high schooler;the inside stories behind her most iconic songs and albums;her star-studded connections with Whitney Houston and Diana Ross;the affirmation of friends and family, including her brother Ray J, that helped her through challenging times;her inspirational journey to reclaim her sense of self, and her autonomy as a woman in Hollywood and in music…and so much more.Phases is a fearless and remarkable story of hope, resilience and the strength it takes to make peace with the past.
Supplemental enhancement PDF accompanies the audiobook.
13 pages, Audible Audio
Published March 31, 2026
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April 12, 2026
can't wait to sing "the book is mine" on release day
UPDATE:
Had so much fun immersing myself in Brandy's unique world for the past two days! It was a real treat to hear her read the book and share such beautiful and deeply personal stories. Would definitely recommend the audiobook to anyone who's also already in love with her voice.
UPDATE:
Had so much fun immersing myself in Brandy's unique world for the past two days! It was a real treat to hear her read the book and share such beautiful and deeply personal stories. Would definitely recommend the audiobook to anyone who's also already in love with her voice.
April 3, 2026
3.75✨ I believe this was a solid memoir. I think Brandy was a lot more vulnerable about her life in the spotlight than I expected her to be. I learned some things for sure. There were moments that also felt a little surface level at times, but who am I to say what she should share lol. I’m sure growing up with fame in the way she did makes you want to hold things close to you, so it was nice to have her share these moments with us.
April 2, 2026
I felt like this memoir was pretty insightful! I was only cognizant of some of the things she discussed so a lot was news to me. She got really deep and personal which I always appreciate in things like this. She has gone through a lot since her careers inception and I’m glad she was able to write about it all. The writing was a little clunky sometimes but I mostly listened via audiobook and love hearing her tell her own story.
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November 4, 2025Never pre-ordered anything so fast. This on audio will be my 90s-girl dream come true. Cannot wait.
April 8, 2026
Xennials stand up!
This book was like a time capsule from the 90s and I enjoyed it! Brandy Rayana Norwood was not only one of the biggest teen stars of the 90s, but for young black girls like myself, she was and is an icon. She was an R&B a pop sensation, titular star of popular TV show Moesha, Disney’s first black Cinderella, a Covergirl, Grammy award winner and was the protégé of one of the biggest musical stars in the world, Whitney Houston. Her career reached incredible highs, until a series of challenges chipped away at the carefully very crafted image she had worked so hard to build sending her on a path to redefine who she was and who she wanted to be.
Brandy pens this story of her career beginning in her youth when she first caught the singing bug from her father who was a choir director and music aficionado. He led her to find her voice by encouraging her to try complex vocal techniques, identify new ones by listening to their favorite artists and leading their church’s youth choir while she was still in elementary school. She shares stories of being disregarded and bullied because of her looks, jealousy over her vocal ability and shyness as she grew to become the powerhouse talent that would take the world by storm as a teenager.
I loved hearing about how her mother kept her focused on her destiny in the face of rejection and her brother has always remained her best friend even when it was clear his own career was being eclipsed by hers. She went into detail about an inappropriate relationship with friend and mentor when she was 16 years old and how that relationship misshaped her view of what romance and love would represent as she grew into womanhood. I remember it was one of the worst kept secrets of the time, but I’m glad she was able to share her story here.
Other parts of the book I found interesting was the fallout with her producer, Rodney “Darkchild” Jerkins; an abusive relationship with her dancer she called “The Dreamer”, the rise and fall of her relationship with her daughter’s father, and the ebbs and flows of her connection with fellow singer, Monica. My favorite part however, was how she shared bits of her relationship with her child and how it was a light in the darkness that had fallen over her when music and acting no longer held the same place in her life. This book walks you through the phases of her life from squeaky clean teen idol, to mother and creative struggling with depression. It was a beautiful nod to the past and what I believe is a beacon of hope for her future.
I will say there were parts of her story I really wanted her to open up more about (her relationships with Kobe Bryant, Countess Vaughn and Kelly Rowland to name a few). But I was ultimately satisfied with the level of transparency she displayed in the book. I also felt like her pre-fame childhood took up almost half of the book, which I felt was made it a bit disjointed and caused me to be a bit disengaged. However, I do think this was a solid memoir and I’m so glad Brandy decided to give us this glimpse into her life. 4 stars!
This book was like a time capsule from the 90s and I enjoyed it! Brandy Rayana Norwood was not only one of the biggest teen stars of the 90s, but for young black girls like myself, she was and is an icon. She was an R&B a pop sensation, titular star of popular TV show Moesha, Disney’s first black Cinderella, a Covergirl, Grammy award winner and was the protégé of one of the biggest musical stars in the world, Whitney Houston. Her career reached incredible highs, until a series of challenges chipped away at the carefully very crafted image she had worked so hard to build sending her on a path to redefine who she was and who she wanted to be.
Brandy pens this story of her career beginning in her youth when she first caught the singing bug from her father who was a choir director and music aficionado. He led her to find her voice by encouraging her to try complex vocal techniques, identify new ones by listening to their favorite artists and leading their church’s youth choir while she was still in elementary school. She shares stories of being disregarded and bullied because of her looks, jealousy over her vocal ability and shyness as she grew to become the powerhouse talent that would take the world by storm as a teenager.
I loved hearing about how her mother kept her focused on her destiny in the face of rejection and her brother has always remained her best friend even when it was clear his own career was being eclipsed by hers. She went into detail about an inappropriate relationship with friend and mentor when she was 16 years old and how that relationship misshaped her view of what romance and love would represent as she grew into womanhood. I remember it was one of the worst kept secrets of the time, but I’m glad she was able to share her story here.
Other parts of the book I found interesting was the fallout with her producer, Rodney “Darkchild” Jerkins; an abusive relationship with her dancer she called “The Dreamer”, the rise and fall of her relationship with her daughter’s father, and the ebbs and flows of her connection with fellow singer, Monica. My favorite part however, was how she shared bits of her relationship with her child and how it was a light in the darkness that had fallen over her when music and acting no longer held the same place in her life. This book walks you through the phases of her life from squeaky clean teen idol, to mother and creative struggling with depression. It was a beautiful nod to the past and what I believe is a beacon of hope for her future.
I will say there were parts of her story I really wanted her to open up more about (her relationships with Kobe Bryant, Countess Vaughn and Kelly Rowland to name a few). But I was ultimately satisfied with the level of transparency she displayed in the book. I also felt like her pre-fame childhood took up almost half of the book, which I felt was made it a bit disjointed and caused me to be a bit disengaged. However, I do think this was a solid memoir and I’m so glad Brandy decided to give us this glimpse into her life. 4 stars!
April 10, 2026
Brandy’s music was the soundtrack to my youth, I mean come on haven’t we all played “Have You Ever” on a loop whilst deep in pain from that brutal first heartbreak?!
What I didn’t expect though was to enjoy this book as much as I did, from start to finish I felt like Brandy was pouring it all out, brutal honesty. This was one of them books where you think your only going to do a few chapters then 4 hours go by in a flash.
From hearing about her childhood, both good and bad, to how she fought for fame, rose to stardom and the pressure that brought to hear about her hero’s, mainly Whitney Houston, who I myself was obsessed with growing up. So getting insight into her and brandy’s relationship was like a cherry on top of an already delicious cake. Their bond was so special and hearing her Whitney’s passing affected Brandy was heartbreaking . Plus I went down the rabbit hole rediscovering all of her hits, and there was a lot of them! I’m not going to reveal too much about the content of this book, but there was a lot, Brandy really spilt the tea from relationship struggles to her battle with the pressures of fame! I was so surprised by this book I couldn’t stop listening. This one’s not to be missed!
What I didn’t expect though was to enjoy this book as much as I did, from start to finish I felt like Brandy was pouring it all out, brutal honesty. This was one of them books where you think your only going to do a few chapters then 4 hours go by in a flash.
From hearing about her childhood, both good and bad, to how she fought for fame, rose to stardom and the pressure that brought to hear about her hero’s, mainly Whitney Houston, who I myself was obsessed with growing up. So getting insight into her and brandy’s relationship was like a cherry on top of an already delicious cake. Their bond was so special and hearing her Whitney’s passing affected Brandy was heartbreaking . Plus I went down the rabbit hole rediscovering all of her hits, and there was a lot of them! I’m not going to reveal too much about the content of this book, but there was a lot, Brandy really spilt the tea from relationship struggles to her battle with the pressures of fame! I was so surprised by this book I couldn’t stop listening. This one’s not to be missed!
April 10, 2026
4.5 This was very nostalgic. If you ever held an album in your held or belted the lyrics or you start moving if you hear the music this is for you. It took me back to my childhood and then it gave me so much more she allowed us to see into her life more so than the world already had. It was my first memoir and I enjoyed it.
April 4, 2026
3.5 ⭐️
Phases by Brandy Norwood felt honest and reflective, but a little uneven for me. I appreciated her vulnerability and the way she opened up about her struggles and growth—it made her feel more real than ever. Some parts really pulled me in, but others felt a bit surface-level. I wanted more. Overall, a solid read if you’re a fan, just not as deep as I wanted it to be.
Phases by Brandy Norwood felt honest and reflective, but a little uneven for me. I appreciated her vulnerability and the way she opened up about her struggles and growth—it made her feel more real than ever. Some parts really pulled me in, but others felt a bit surface-level. I wanted more. Overall, a solid read if you’re a fan, just not as deep as I wanted it to be.
April 11, 2026
I'm a Black girl born in 86, I love Brandy. She means so much to me. I was so excited for this memoir, especially to listen to it in her voice. It felt like having Moesha read her journal entries right in my ear. But Moesha's journal entries were more introspective then this memoir.
So much was not addressed:
- her relationships with the cast of Moesha, especially the feud with Countess Vaughn
- the reality show she did leading up to the birth of her daughter that furthered the marriage lie
- going to the prom with Kobe
- any relationships she had after her baby daddy
I appreciated her honesty about her relationship with Wanya, that felt like the realest chapter to me. The writing was so vague and flowery. Nothing felt real. There was no reflection or honesty. The story ends in 2018. Almost ten years ago!
I wanted so much more. I've read celebrity memoirs where they leave their heart on the page, Brandy still has a wall up.
So much was not addressed:
- her relationships with the cast of Moesha, especially the feud with Countess Vaughn
- the reality show she did leading up to the birth of her daughter that furthered the marriage lie
- going to the prom with Kobe
- any relationships she had after her baby daddy
I appreciated her honesty about her relationship with Wanya, that felt like the realest chapter to me. The writing was so vague and flowery. Nothing felt real. There was no reflection or honesty. The story ends in 2018. Almost ten years ago!
I wanted so much more. I've read celebrity memoirs where they leave their heart on the page, Brandy still has a wall up.
April 15, 2026
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️✨ 4.5 Stars
Started off slow and had me side-eyeing the pacing… then it LOCKED me in. Once I tuned everything out, I was deep in it.
Some stuff I’d heard before, a lot I hadn’t — and hearing it in her own words hit way harder. Fame, pressure, messy relationships, family dynamics, and growing up too fast all laid out raw.
Anybody dreaming about the spotlight should read this first.
Started off slow and had me side-eyeing the pacing… then it LOCKED me in. Once I tuned everything out, I was deep in it.
Some stuff I’d heard before, a lot I hadn’t — and hearing it in her own words hit way harder. Fame, pressure, messy relationships, family dynamics, and growing up too fast all laid out raw.
Anybody dreaming about the spotlight should read this first.
April 1, 2026
I thought I knew this story. I was wrong.
That is the most honest review I can give you. I grew up with Brandy, followed the blogs, absorbed the narratives the media built around her for thirty years. This book dismantled most of what I thought I knew and did it with a grace that honestly she did not owe anybody.
From the beginning I was locked in because I was also that little Black girl who went down south for the summer. The way she describes belonging to people who belonged to that place, that specific kind of protection, I felt that in my chest. She put words to something I have carried my whole life.
She did not hold back and I respect it. There is a line in this book about being taken advantage of as a teenager and then having it thrown in your face for thirty years that I had to put the book down after. And I'm looking at some people differently now. That's all I'll say.
What struck me most is how much of what gets repeated about her life was never really about her. It was about what other people needed her story to be.
That is the most honest review I can give you. I grew up with Brandy, followed the blogs, absorbed the narratives the media built around her for thirty years. This book dismantled most of what I thought I knew and did it with a grace that honestly she did not owe anybody.
From the beginning I was locked in because I was also that little Black girl who went down south for the summer. The way she describes belonging to people who belonged to that place, that specific kind of protection, I felt that in my chest. She put words to something I have carried my whole life.
She did not hold back and I respect it. There is a line in this book about being taken advantage of as a teenager and then having it thrown in your face for thirty years that I had to put the book down after. And I'm looking at some people differently now. That's all I'll say.
What struck me most is how much of what gets repeated about her life was never really about her. It was about what other people needed her story to be.
Want to Read
December 28, 2025Brandy has been my favorite singer since I was 11 and you mean to tell me she wrote a memoir?! Mhm I will be seated for this, yes
April 4, 2026
6 🌟
Brandy poured her heart and soul into this book! As a girl who first fell in love with Brandy after seeing "Sittin' up in my Room " video , kept her hair in braids, and basked the one and only Black Cinderella, this was a walk down memory lane. I cried tears of joy, Pride, and even frustration at all Brandy endured in her life. Misunderstood pop star who never got the privilege of privacy. This story was a gift to read and gain a closer look at the human behind the fame. Lessons were taught, respect was gained, and I am so glad she had her parents as protectors in an often crushing world. Her God given gift was her guidance and anchor that set her aside the crowd. So grateful for the transparency in this memior! She has been and always will be THAT GIRL .
Brandy poured her heart and soul into this book! As a girl who first fell in love with Brandy after seeing "Sittin' up in my Room " video , kept her hair in braids, and basked the one and only Black Cinderella, this was a walk down memory lane. I cried tears of joy, Pride, and even frustration at all Brandy endured in her life. Misunderstood pop star who never got the privilege of privacy. This story was a gift to read and gain a closer look at the human behind the fame. Lessons were taught, respect was gained, and I am so glad she had her parents as protectors in an often crushing world. Her God given gift was her guidance and anchor that set her aside the crowd. So grateful for the transparency in this memior! She has been and always will be THAT GIRL .
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April 1, 2026i love when i get something i never knew i wanted.
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April 5, 2026
Although she skipped a few publicly known things in this book, it is an eye opening tale of her life and struggles. My interest was waning in the beginning as so much time was spent on her childhood but once she made it through that part, the story picked up.
April 3, 2026
3.75 ⭐️ As a longtime fan of Brandy, I really appreciated this book. Hearing her narrate the audiobook added such a personal touch, and I loved that she addressed many of the questions fans have had over the years. Overall, she did a great job thoughtfully outlining her life and experiences.
April 5, 2026
pretty good.
She said a lot I didn’t know. But she did spend to much time dramatizing the story vs telling the story. It reminds people. That we are human and make mistakes. But if you keep quiet people will paint their own narrative. But a pretty good book
She said a lot I didn’t know. But she did spend to much time dramatizing the story vs telling the story. It reminds people. That we are human and make mistakes. But if you keep quiet people will paint their own narrative. But a pretty good book
April 2, 2026
Brandyyy, So so inspiring! I knew this Memoir was gonna live up to the hype. Brandy deserves all of her flowers and more ✨
April 6, 2026
As a longtime Brandy fan, Phases feels less like reading a memoir and more like watching her life unfold in real time. The storytelling is incredibly vivid—you’re transported from her early beginnings in the American South, where she reflects on segregation and her family roots, all the way through her rise to global stardom.
What stands out most is how layered and honest the narrative is. She doesn’t just celebrate the highs—like her debut album success or the evolution toward B7—she also sits with the uncomfortable truths. From childhood bullying and struggles with self-image to eating disorders and the pressure of fame, she opens up in a way that feels deeply human and unfiltered.
Her early life is especially compelling: discovering her voice in church, navigating her relationship with her brother, and stepping into the industry at such a young age. The memoir also dives into her personal relationships—including her connection with a member of Boyz II Men and the often-discussed dynamic with Monica—adding emotional depth and context to moments fans have long speculated about.
Another powerful thread is her relationship with her mother, who also served as her manager. The book doesn’t shy away from exploring the complexity of that bond, especially under the strain of fame and demanding schedules. You really get a sense of how difficult it was for her to set boundaries and say no, even at her own expense.
What lingers most after reading is this quiet realization: Brandy doesn’t always see her own greatness. Despite everything she has achieved, there’s a vulnerability in how she views herself—and that honesty makes her story even more impactful. It reminds you that even icons are still figuring themselves out.
For fans, Phases is more than just a memoir—it’s an intimate, behind-the-scenes journey through every era of her life and career. It’s reflective, emotional, and deeply personal.
Rating: 5 out 5⭐
A heartfelt, immersive read that gives fans everything they’ve ever wanted—and more.
What stands out most is how layered and honest the narrative is. She doesn’t just celebrate the highs—like her debut album success or the evolution toward B7—she also sits with the uncomfortable truths. From childhood bullying and struggles with self-image to eating disorders and the pressure of fame, she opens up in a way that feels deeply human and unfiltered.
Her early life is especially compelling: discovering her voice in church, navigating her relationship with her brother, and stepping into the industry at such a young age. The memoir also dives into her personal relationships—including her connection with a member of Boyz II Men and the often-discussed dynamic with Monica—adding emotional depth and context to moments fans have long speculated about.
Another powerful thread is her relationship with her mother, who also served as her manager. The book doesn’t shy away from exploring the complexity of that bond, especially under the strain of fame and demanding schedules. You really get a sense of how difficult it was for her to set boundaries and say no, even at her own expense.
What lingers most after reading is this quiet realization: Brandy doesn’t always see her own greatness. Despite everything she has achieved, there’s a vulnerability in how she views herself—and that honesty makes her story even more impactful. It reminds you that even icons are still figuring themselves out.
For fans, Phases is more than just a memoir—it’s an intimate, behind-the-scenes journey through every era of her life and career. It’s reflective, emotional, and deeply personal.
Rating: 5 out 5⭐
A heartfelt, immersive read that gives fans everything they’ve ever wanted—and more.
April 7, 2026
As a preacher’s kid who grew up in a family that didn’t engage with a lot of worldly media, Brandy was one of the first secular artists I ever listened to. I was so excited to read her story.
She had some fantastic stories in this memoir, particularly in the first half of it. I especially liked learning more about what her childhood was like before she became famous, and I hadn’t realized she was doing talent shows and working as a backup dancer so early in life. Her love for her family and her brother in particular shone through.
I was a little surprised that she talked so openly about the relationship she had with an adult man when she was sixteen. This was something she denied, deflected, or downplayed for years, so kudos to her for telling the truth about the manipulation, grooming and abuse that happened there. That takes a ton of courage, and I genuinely wish her the best as she continues to heal from it.
The further I got into the book, though, the more vague it became. Most of the events in her life after her daughter’s birth were described briefly, and some of them were left out entirely.
Far be from me to tell her what she should or shouldn’t write, of course! But this did make for a less satisfying reading experience in my opinion due to how many recent chapters of her life she skimmed over or skipped entirely.
I still enjoyed reading this, though, and would recommend it to any Brandy fan who doesn’t mind the types of constructive criticisms I shared in this review.
She had some fantastic stories in this memoir, particularly in the first half of it. I especially liked learning more about what her childhood was like before she became famous, and I hadn’t realized she was doing talent shows and working as a backup dancer so early in life. Her love for her family and her brother in particular shone through.
I was a little surprised that she talked so openly about the relationship she had with an adult man when she was sixteen. This was something she denied, deflected, or downplayed for years, so kudos to her for telling the truth about the manipulation, grooming and abuse that happened there. That takes a ton of courage, and I genuinely wish her the best as she continues to heal from it.
The further I got into the book, though, the more vague it became. Most of the events in her life after her daughter’s birth were described briefly, and some of them were left out entirely.
Far be from me to tell her what she should or shouldn’t write, of course! But this did make for a less satisfying reading experience in my opinion due to how many recent chapters of her life she skimmed over or skipped entirely.
I still enjoyed reading this, though, and would recommend it to any Brandy fan who doesn’t mind the types of constructive criticisms I shared in this review.
April 14, 2026
10 starssss EASY!!! I have to admit that I was a bit skeptical about this memoir but BOY did B surprise me!!! There are so many quotable phrases in this book that I stopped trying to copy them down for this review; I’ll add them when I have more time but I wanted to tell y’all to add this one to ya library cause I said so lol. I inhale memoirs for sport and this one sits “up there” with Quincy Jones’ cause it’s just that dang GOODT!!
I pray Brandy finds solace and joy in this life. Plus, I had knew Wanya was trash when he spoke disparagingly about THEEE KANDI BURRUSS… not MY good Taurus Sis, fall back chump!
Overall, it’s safe to say that a no good man will find you whether you rich, broke, fat, slim, famous, simplistic, smart, not so smart, experienced and got a family that loves you. SMH!!! They ouchea WINNING, seriously!!
**And just cause: two eleven is my absolute FAVORITE Brandy album and sittin up in my room/wildest dreams are my favorite B songs. IDC, IDC… feel how you want—mkay, byeee!! 💚✨🙌🏽 it’s a tops for sure and a contender for my faves for 2026!!
I pray Brandy finds solace and joy in this life. Plus, I had knew Wanya was trash when he spoke disparagingly about THEEE KANDI BURRUSS… not MY good Taurus Sis, fall back chump!
Overall, it’s safe to say that a no good man will find you whether you rich, broke, fat, slim, famous, simplistic, smart, not so smart, experienced and got a family that loves you. SMH!!! They ouchea WINNING, seriously!!
**And just cause: two eleven is my absolute FAVORITE Brandy album and sittin up in my room/wildest dreams are my favorite B songs. IDC, IDC… feel how you want—mkay, byeee!! 💚✨🙌🏽 it’s a tops for sure and a contender for my faves for 2026!!
April 11, 2026
3.75 ⭐️
I’ve never understood why Brandy was considered “The Vocal Bible.” And I actually hoped to discover that here, but I really didn’t…. Maybe I should listen to her music more to understand that.
My introduction to Brandy was through Cinderella (1997). Brandy was the first Cinderella I knew and I didn’t know of any other until I was maybe in the 6th or 7th grade.
After that, I only knew of her as Moesha.
I’ve yet to listen to an album all the way through, but after reading her book, I have to do a deep dive of her discography. It’s sad that I really didn’t know she was a singer until maybe my late teens when I discovered “Sittin’ Up In My Room.”
I learned plenty from her story although the book had a slow start.
Humble Mississippi Church beginnings. Dreams of becoming a singer only to be thrust into a girl group then thrust into acting and when she was really in her singing bag, she wasn’t really able to be more adult like her peers. I’m glad she addressed that part, because it did seem unfair and childish that she was stuck looking and singing about kid stuff when Monica & Aaliyah were out there blowing her out the water.
I’m glad the rumor wasn’t true about Monica having punched her before their VMA performance.
I learned a lot about Ms. Brandy. She is absolutely an icon and should be respected as such.
I’ve never understood why Brandy was considered “The Vocal Bible.” And I actually hoped to discover that here, but I really didn’t…. Maybe I should listen to her music more to understand that.
My introduction to Brandy was through Cinderella (1997). Brandy was the first Cinderella I knew and I didn’t know of any other until I was maybe in the 6th or 7th grade.
After that, I only knew of her as Moesha.
I’ve yet to listen to an album all the way through, but after reading her book, I have to do a deep dive of her discography. It’s sad that I really didn’t know she was a singer until maybe my late teens when I discovered “Sittin’ Up In My Room.”
I learned plenty from her story although the book had a slow start.
Humble Mississippi Church beginnings. Dreams of becoming a singer only to be thrust into a girl group then thrust into acting and when she was really in her singing bag, she wasn’t really able to be more adult like her peers. I’m glad she addressed that part, because it did seem unfair and childish that she was stuck looking and singing about kid stuff when Monica & Aaliyah were out there blowing her out the water.
I’m glad the rumor wasn’t true about Monica having punched her before their VMA performance.
I learned a lot about Ms. Brandy. She is absolutely an icon and should be respected as such.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
April 2, 2026
This memoir was amazing. Brandy has always been one of favorite musicians and actresses so when she revealed she was writing her autobiography I was excited to see what she would say. I can say wholeheartedly that this book is a worthy read. It's raw and real. Brandy doesn't hold back on anything and is very candid about what went on in her life behind the scenes and in the public eye.
This book took me on a roller-coaster ride of emotions. What I felt the most was anger on her behalf a lot because of the way she had been treated abs sometimes frustrated at not so great decisions she would make. I'm not normally a reader of memoir's but my belief is if you're going to write one then be open about everything in your life. The good and the bad. I can say that Brandy accomplished that. There are some very difficult chapters in her book that's hard to stomach and were uncomfortable to hear. However, I'm glad that she's at a place in her life where she was ready to tell her story fully. I'm proud as a fan of what she's put out and I hope she's proud of herself.
Normally, I'm not an audio book person, I prefer reading stories myself but I highly recommend listening to Brandy narrate the book to get the full experience. It was very much worth the 12 hour listen.
This book took me on a roller-coaster ride of emotions. What I felt the most was anger on her behalf a lot because of the way she had been treated abs sometimes frustrated at not so great decisions she would make. I'm not normally a reader of memoir's but my belief is if you're going to write one then be open about everything in your life. The good and the bad. I can say that Brandy accomplished that. There are some very difficult chapters in her book that's hard to stomach and were uncomfortable to hear. However, I'm glad that she's at a place in her life where she was ready to tell her story fully. I'm proud as a fan of what she's put out and I hope she's proud of herself.
Normally, I'm not an audio book person, I prefer reading stories myself but I highly recommend listening to Brandy narrate the book to get the full experience. It was very much worth the 12 hour listen.
April 3, 2026
That’s My Girl
I didn’t expect this book to touch me like it did. Brandy was a lot more candid than I thought she’d be. What I enjoyed most is how lovingly she spoke about her brother. Their bond is special. With Brandy and I being so close in age, I feel like I grew up with her. Her music has been the soundtrack to my highest highs and lowest lows for more than 30 years. She and I were pregnant at the same time. She delivered her beautiful daughter on my birthday. This book reminded me how in sync we were at times. I absolutely loved the music history that was presented in this book. I paused my reading so many times to go listen to the songs that she mentioned. The commercial “failures” that she spoke about have been some of my favorite projects. I truly love her entire catalog. This was such a beautifully intimate trip down memory lane. I felt a range of emotions. I’m appreciative of Brandy for sharing this glimpse into her life.
I didn’t expect this book to touch me like it did. Brandy was a lot more candid than I thought she’d be. What I enjoyed most is how lovingly she spoke about her brother. Their bond is special. With Brandy and I being so close in age, I feel like I grew up with her. Her music has been the soundtrack to my highest highs and lowest lows for more than 30 years. She and I were pregnant at the same time. She delivered her beautiful daughter on my birthday. This book reminded me how in sync we were at times. I absolutely loved the music history that was presented in this book. I paused my reading so many times to go listen to the songs that she mentioned. The commercial “failures” that she spoke about have been some of my favorite projects. I truly love her entire catalog. This was such a beautifully intimate trip down memory lane. I felt a range of emotions. I’m appreciative of Brandy for sharing this glimpse into her life.
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April 4, 2026Reading Phases felt less like discovering new information and more like revisiting moments in pop culture history through Brandy’s perspective. Many of the events she shares, her early rise to fame, the highs and the very public lows, are things I remember happening in real time. But hearing them directly from her adds a different layer of context and emotion.
I especially appreciated how honest and reflective she was about the different phases of her life. The memoir feels like a space where she’s reclaiming her narrative and telling her truth in her own voice. At times it feels therapeutic, like she’s processing the past while also acknowledging the growth that came from it.
Reading this book also brought back a lot of nostalgia for me. I still remember my mom buying Brandy’s self-titled debut album and playing it in the house, and later when Never Say Never came out, when everyone was either “Team Brandy” or “Team Monica.” Those songs really defined that era.
Overall, this memoir felt like a reflection on fame, growth, and resilience, and a reminder of just how much Brandy’s music and story have been part of the cultural soundtrack for so many of us.
I especially appreciated how honest and reflective she was about the different phases of her life. The memoir feels like a space where she’s reclaiming her narrative and telling her truth in her own voice. At times it feels therapeutic, like she’s processing the past while also acknowledging the growth that came from it.
Reading this book also brought back a lot of nostalgia for me. I still remember my mom buying Brandy’s self-titled debut album and playing it in the house, and later when Never Say Never came out, when everyone was either “Team Brandy” or “Team Monica.” Those songs really defined that era.
Overall, this memoir felt like a reflection on fame, growth, and resilience, and a reminder of just how much Brandy’s music and story have been part of the cultural soundtrack for so many of us.
April 6, 2026
will always love brandy 🫶🏼
April 13, 2026
It was a struggle to finish, but somehow I managed.
April 15, 2026
I have been a dedicated Brandy stan since I was 18 (not counting Cinderella as a child) and I'm happy she can live in her truth.
I felt like this was reflective in a way that...if you've followed her career or headlines in any way, you can tell she's grown as a person. But it's also obvious listening to this that she is actually a musical creative and is a person that has to make art for the love of the game. To me, that's the type of music I want to listen to.
It was interesting to see how she fell into fame. She was not a Hollywood chaser at all, and it was nice seeing actual talent be the factor that got her to where she was. Hearing about her growing up in church maintains my belief that the best R&B singers have church backgrounds, and if we want to get back to that caliber of music we have to address the lack of church singing that's happening today!
I will say....a lot of the early days of her career, the "relationships" and such, I was not privy to. Grown men preying on young women is always sick and it should be publicly addressed WAY more than it actually is. Brandy being that famous as a teen is sort of scary! They were really making children household names in the 90s. If anything, I'm glad we've sort of moved away from that today.
Side note but her saying Ray J is a star was killing me. I guess he is a star in his own way 😂
Idk, I enjoyed this. I thought that she addressed all her musical eras in a way that gave you some insight to how she recorded and what she felt while recording. No musical act lasts forever, but I'm glad that recently she's been able to come back as a legacy and tour. I went to the Brandy Monica tour last year and the mic was on!
As usual, I'll tune in to whatever she does next.
I felt like this was reflective in a way that...if you've followed her career or headlines in any way, you can tell she's grown as a person. But it's also obvious listening to this that she is actually a musical creative and is a person that has to make art for the love of the game. To me, that's the type of music I want to listen to.
It was interesting to see how she fell into fame. She was not a Hollywood chaser at all, and it was nice seeing actual talent be the factor that got her to where she was. Hearing about her growing up in church maintains my belief that the best R&B singers have church backgrounds, and if we want to get back to that caliber of music we have to address the lack of church singing that's happening today!
I will say....a lot of the early days of her career, the "relationships" and such, I was not privy to. Grown men preying on young women is always sick and it should be publicly addressed WAY more than it actually is. Brandy being that famous as a teen is sort of scary! They were really making children household names in the 90s. If anything, I'm glad we've sort of moved away from that today.
Side note but her saying Ray J is a star was killing me. I guess he is a star in his own way 😂
Idk, I enjoyed this. I thought that she addressed all her musical eras in a way that gave you some insight to how she recorded and what she felt while recording. No musical act lasts forever, but I'm glad that recently she's been able to come back as a legacy and tour. I went to the Brandy Monica tour last year and the mic was on!
As usual, I'll tune in to whatever she does next.
April 5, 2026
Brandy really laid it all out in this memoir. I had it preordered because I just knew she was going to reveal things we hadn’t heard before, and she did not disappoint. This book is raw, detailed, and filled with a few shocking, “WTF” moments.
Apparently, I knew nothing about her. I spent most of the book reading with a surprised look on my face. We learn about her childhood, her rise to superstardom, and all the good, and terrible things that followed.
I admired her resilience and the way she tried to remain respectful to people who didn’t extend that same grace to her. Some of my favorite moments included hearing about her close bond with her brother, Ray J, her disclosure about being taken advantage of as a teenager by an adult superstar, her interactions with Aaliyah and Monica, plus a few other things I won’t spoil. I was completely immersed, and experiencing it alongside her narration made it even better.
That said, I didn’t like that she only portrayed her brother in a positive light. Over the years, we’ve seen him embarrass both himself and her, and I wanted more honesty about that. He felt too protected. She also came across as a bit too “Miss Goody Two-Shoes.” There have been plenty of stories circulating about her being conniving or difficult with others. Names like Foxy Brown, Adina Howard, and Shyne come to mind. I expected more transparency. Hopefully, Ray J will tell his story one day.
Apparently, I knew nothing about her. I spent most of the book reading with a surprised look on my face. We learn about her childhood, her rise to superstardom, and all the good, and terrible things that followed.
I admired her resilience and the way she tried to remain respectful to people who didn’t extend that same grace to her. Some of my favorite moments included hearing about her close bond with her brother, Ray J, her disclosure about being taken advantage of as a teenager by an adult superstar, her interactions with Aaliyah and Monica, plus a few other things I won’t spoil. I was completely immersed, and experiencing it alongside her narration made it even better.
That said, I didn’t like that she only portrayed her brother in a positive light. Over the years, we’ve seen him embarrass both himself and her, and I wanted more honesty about that. He felt too protected. She also came across as a bit too “Miss Goody Two-Shoes.” There have been plenty of stories circulating about her being conniving or difficult with others. Names like Foxy Brown, Adina Howard, and Shyne come to mind. I expected more transparency. Hopefully, Ray J will tell his story one day.
April 12, 2026
Phases by Brandy is a deeply personal and inspiring book that takes you on an emotional journey through the different stages of her life. From the very beginning, you feel her honesty and vulnerability she doesn’t hold back, and that’s what makes this story so powerful.
Brandy opens up about the challenges she has faced, both in the spotlight and behind the scenes. From dealing with pressure, setbacks, and personal struggles to finding her strength and rediscovering herself, every chapter reflects growth and resilience. You can truly feel what she’s been through, and how each phase shaped the woman she is today.
The writing is reflective, heartfelt, and easy to connect with. It feels like she’s speaking directly to you, sharing lessons about healing, self-worth, and embracing change. It’s not just about her story it becomes relatable on a much deeper level.
While Phases is full of shocking moments an abusive boyfriend; the father of her daughter selling her out on the Wendy Williams show after the pair lied about being married; her then label forcing her to work with an uncooperative Kanye West as part of an elaborate ploy to get him to sign with them there’s also real joy in how Brandy writes about music.
Brandy opens up about the challenges she has faced, both in the spotlight and behind the scenes. From dealing with pressure, setbacks, and personal struggles to finding her strength and rediscovering herself, every chapter reflects growth and resilience. You can truly feel what she’s been through, and how each phase shaped the woman she is today.
The writing is reflective, heartfelt, and easy to connect with. It feels like she’s speaking directly to you, sharing lessons about healing, self-worth, and embracing change. It’s not just about her story it becomes relatable on a much deeper level.
While Phases is full of shocking moments an abusive boyfriend; the father of her daughter selling her out on the Wendy Williams show after the pair lied about being married; her then label forcing her to work with an uncooperative Kanye West as part of an elaborate ploy to get him to sign with them there’s also real joy in how Brandy writes about music.
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