4.5 ⭐️
The word “Kuleana” in Hawaiian means responsibility. But not the begrudging kind of responsibility, the proud, dutiful kind of responsibility. Kehaulani’s “Kuleana” and way of preserving her culture was to protect a precious plot of their ancestors land from becoming an overdeveloped ecologically destructive resort or billionaires vacation home, as most other native Hawaiian land had become. But for other people she met, their Kuleana was to teach Hawaiian at the university, or help teach a Hula class on the weekend. They all used what they were given to fulfill their responsibility. I think especially in the United States, where so many cultures melt together, and immigrant’s kids and grandkids adopt the “American” culture, we have a “kuleana”, or responsibility, to protect and pass on our families culture, to help us learn ourselves and connect us.
Kehaulani’s thoughts on being a mixed-race person in America resonated with me, and helped me solidify how i feel about myself. She summarizes: “I have come to realize that my Native Hawaiian identity is not something from my blood quantum or from the Mahele or something dictated by where I was born. It's not for others to tell me who l am, relatives or not, Hawaii or mainland. It's not something a government agency decides, nor frankly is it something for locals or mainland residents to judge. Its something I was given by my kupuna and also had to seek, accept, and understand on my own.
It's something I must choose to practice and pass on—or not.”
Mixed people are not fractions: 1/4 or 1/3 or 1/8. They are full people, who are 100% of each thing, whatever they are connected to. For people mixed with white, white passing privilege is real and must be acknowledged, but it doesnt have to take away from your culture and identity.
This book reminded me again about the struggle of the native Hawaiian people. How the United States has been actively decimating their population for centuries: first with diseases and colonial violence. But now with egregiously high costs of living/land/taxes resulting in hawaii having the highest percentage of the population be homeless, the majority being native hawaiian. Just so tourists can have another resort, or another billionaire can have another hawaiian property. How. Tragic. The united states colonial legacy lives on.
As non-Hawaiian Americans who may visit hawaii, we can help. Either by not visiting hawaii. Or by supporting native Hawaiian businesses: staying in hawaiian family homestays, hotels run by hawaiians, native run shops, buying local art. By NOT staying in resorts, who are actively displacing families. By educating yourself on the history, and by trying to learn the very basics of the language before you go. “After all, what is Hawaii without Hawaiians?”