I’m going to be upfront about a few things over the course of this review because, well…I’ll be honest and admit that I skipped ahead a bit and read a few of the reviews that others had written in advance of my time with Marisa Kanter’s debut adult novel, Friends With Benefits, and upon finishing this book, I had just as many thoughts about other people’s reaction to it as I did about the novel itself.
Having a parent that abandons you, at any age, regardless of how good or bad the situation is that they leave you stranded in, changes you. It alters your behaviour and your patterns and fits you with a unique set of lenses in which you view the world, but more importantly, how you view others. Every interaction with anyone that you even remotely care about becomes laced with one specific question that burns in bright neon letters just behind your eyes: when are they going to leave me? This type of abandonment holds court deep within the heart of Friends With Benefits and shapes and colours the reality of both of the central characters’ existences.
Friends With Benefits alternates between two narrators: the anxious, determined and dairy-free Evie and her lifelong best friend, the laid-back, driven and Survivor-obsessed Theo. Evie and Theo have been friends since they were barely teenagers when they both joined the same dance studio and spent their formative years as dance partners and best friends alternating hidden crushes on each other that ultimately did little more than crush each of them emotionally. But as Friends With Benefits opens, we meet them near the end of their twenties, each having dealt with a past littered with a handful of failed relationships, severe parental abandonment issues, chronic pain and illness in the case of Evie and a stagnation of career goals in the case of Theo.
After suffering a disastrous fall that ended her aspirations of becoming a dancer, Evie was inspired by her grandmother’s longtime radio show to become a Foley artist. But her need for adequate health care to help deal with her chronic illness - Crohn’s disease - has instead left her employed as an editor for a popular podcast and only daydreaming about opportunities in the world of television and cinema that have thus far eluded her. At the same time, Theo followed in his mother’s footsteps and became a fourth grade teacher at the same school that he attended as a child and that his mother also taught at before she passed away after a battle with colon cancer. Theo and his dad collided with each other in the lead up to his mother’s passing over how best to handle her care and in the aftermath of her death, they’ve remained at odds as Theo is convinced that his father is disappointed in his choice of career and can’t find a way to forgive his father for falling apart in the midst of his mother’s cancer diagnoses.
When an opportunity mysteriously arises that would allow Evie to take part in a much sought-after fellowship in which she would be mentored by her Foley artist idol, she is ultimately crestfallen as the position offers no health care and little pay and would render it impossible for her to be able to cover her ongoing medical care. As if that wasn’t enough, both she and Theo discover that they are about to be in a position where each of them will need to move from their respective homes and find new places to live. Theo proposes a plan to Evie that has him literally proposing to her - as a friend - in order to both allow Evie to be added to his health care plan and to take the Foley fellowship, while also providing him with the necessary marriage and financial requirement to keep his current rental lease.
When I first received Friends With Benefits, I wasn’t expecting it to contain a deep look into how badly damaged and broken the United States health care system is for people dealing with chronic illnesses that require them to be under constant medical attention while being inundated with a steady regimen of pricey prescriptions. There is a lot more that exists at the centre of this story than you would guess at a glance. Marisa does a admirable job explaining an extremely nuanced, difficult and touchy subject in a way that only serves to add to Evie and Theo’s story and doesn’t detract by miring things in technical details that would leave many readers yawning and waiting for the action to resume. Instead, she gives just enough information to help you understand the very real plight that so many people go through on a daily basis in order to receive the most basic and minimum care possible.
Evie and Theo’s story is also much deeper than it first appears. This is a duo with a lot more behind them than a few instances of bad timing on who was crushing on who at any particular moment. They each represent the closest thing that either of them has to an actual sense of home and both understand the ins and outs of who the other is without any effort - it simply comes naturally to them. While Theo has helped Evie through her battles with her mom’s disappearance, her dad’s unwillingness to be a father and the fall that led to her overall diagnoses for Crohn’s, Evie has equally been there to help Theo deal with his mother’s battle with cancer and the eventual aftermath which finds her being the only bridge left between Theo and his father. In a much more literal sense than you would expect, these two complete each other and over time have been doomed to be the only ones connected to them that haven’t chosen to recognize that simple fact.
Upon finishing this novel, I have to admit that I’ve been a bit perplexed at the number of instances in reviews of Friends With Benefits that have criticized the character of Evie or found reason to characterize her as a selfish and nasty person, while in the same breath boosting Theo as being a totally loyal and almost infallible character. I will be the first to admit that I am not as well-versed in books that graze the contemporary romance genre, but I found both Evie and Theo to be remarkably well-balanced in terms of how they each handled the situations that both served to bring them together and drive them apart in their past and also how they approached their new living situation as a “married” couple. Both characters made mistakes that impacted the other’s actions, both acted with a frustrating level of selfishness at times and both acted nobly in moments when it was necessary. I feel that any read of this book that attacks the way that the character of Evie approaches her life and deals with the intense amount of trauma that she continues to experience while elevating Theo to that white knight level of “you’re too good for her” says a lot more about the reader than it does about the story being told or the character inside of that story, but again, that’s just my read on things.
All in all, I was very pleasantly surprised at how much I enjoyed reading Friends With Benefits and I can confidently say that I would recommend it to anyone that is flirting with thoughts of taking a dive into the romance genre and definitely to anyone that is already well-read in that particular world. With this being her first foray into adult fiction, Marisa Kanter feels like a fresh new voice that will likely find a strong foothold the more that she explores and allows important real world issues to influence the direction of her work.
Thank you to Celadon Books for gifting me an advanced copy of this book and allowing me the chance to read and experience it.