Vous êtes manipulé(e) sans le savoir – Voici comment reconnaître le Gaslighting !
Connaissez-vous quelqu'un qui a le pouvoir de vous faire sentir coupable et confus(e) ?
Il peut s'agir d'un parent, d'un partenaire romantique ou d'un collègue de travail. Il ne dit rien d'offensant à première vue, mais au fond de lui, ses paroles vous font vous sentir mal. Quelque chose ne tourne pas rond, mais vous n'arrivez pas à mettre le doigt dessus – et lorsque vous essayez de parler à cette personne de ce que vous ressentez, elle se contente de dire que vous imaginez des choses.
Si vous vous reconnaissez dans cette situation, continuez à lire ! Ce jeu d'esprit est plus courant et plus dangereux que vous ne le pensez.
Les manipulateurs les plus intelligents savent choisir des techniques de manipulation très, très subtiles pour que vous ne puissiez pas les reconnaître comme des abus. Par exemple, ils peuvent discuter avec vous pour savoir si quelque chose s'est réellement passé jusqu'à ce que vous commenciez à douter de votre mémoire. Il peut aussi dire quelque chose d'absolument offensant et prétendre qu'il s'agissait d'une blague lorsque vous essayez de vous défendre. Ce sont là des exemples de gaslighting.
Le gaslighting consiste à dire des choses qui vous font remettre en question votre mémoire et votre perception de la réalité.
S'il est effectué avec habileté, le gaslighting a le pouvoir de vous faire sentir comme une personne inutile qui ne peut jamais, jamais, faire quelque chose correctement.
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Another good primer on what hopefully is becoming a larger voice. Another book that is good in the category, "defence against the dark arts." The same dark arts that fox news, the GQP, and qanon represent.
This book is fantastic! Everything you need to know about gaslighting, what type of gaslighting, why they do it, and how you can successfuly deal with the person gaslighting you. I recommend this book to anyone dealing with a narcissist!
Scarily true, was slightly sidetracked by the fact that the author thinks Donald Trump gaslighted Americans into voting for him and that he is Putins puppet (my interpretation of his wording)
I wonder whom or how "acclaimed" Emory Green as a psychologist. There is no mention of his actual degree or from which institution it was attained. This self published book contains zero footnotes or backing documentation of studies. It sets out to inform the reader about Gaslighting and does so via "examples" and "stories." They seem to be solid examples, but where are the "studies" or corroborating experts? Instead, Mr.Green includes his political persuasion examples in a sandwiching manner; both starting and ending the book with them. Despite some possibly helpful examples of Gaslighting, I cannot recommend this short little book due to its lack of supporting science. I found the "free" offer at the close of the book for an ebook on Conversational Hypnosis a fitting ending to this undocumented "missive." (104 page book.) Not worth your time; find a better writer and book.
Frankly it’s incisive and revealing - I deal with a lot of young people and am always trying to get them to pay attention to what they call ‘mind games’ - which manifests in bullying and psychological abuse.
Relatable and wide reaching, this gives you a great insight into relationship imbalances whether that’s amongst friends, siblings, or of course partners.
A brilliant primer and genuinely a layer of armour of protection allowing people to be more prepared for the rough and tumble of other humans.
This is right up my alley. This is a concise yet inciteful and thought-provoking book. The fact is gaslighting is all around us and it is only when we review experiences we realise that we have been gaslighted and not noticed. There are no surprises that more than one reference is made about Donald Trump.
Easy and quick to read. Good choice for anyone wanting to initially get to grips with gaslighting. However didn't go into enough detail on unconscious gaslighting for me and how to deal with it in constructive manner which is the type I am interested in. Also unreferenced and could have been enriched with references and links to research
The author shows you what to look out for or that you can think back on to have a better idea if you were gaslighted. A useful read because knowledge is power.
This is a MLA in Alberta. Sadly. One smoker pays $8k in taxes each year in Canada and she gaslights her position to say instead of $5k a group has to pay $50k.
A church and sure as hell pay $5k as a group if one person making $20k a year pays $8k in taxes to smoke.
Yet the fractured cons say it’s a 50% pay increase rather than a 50% tax bracket.
In-between Russia media interfering in elections, you have Chinese military sowing distrust with western-vets using social media forums. It's a catastrophe with correlation vs causation in our political life. Why We're so Polarized, between identities and ideologies with only represents a vary small percentage of people sows distrust in a majority of a population with chat-bots and an AI-republic. For moderates and partisanship an MLA who in charge of firearms is.
Fed by conspiracies from chat bots for misnomer Quanon with other forums that actually dealing with reality. Divisiveness is. AI-republic of military chat bots 🙄 translation of Chinese conjugated verbs into English-speaking homes. It's why it's so important to get rural Wi-Fi connections.
Écoute en livre audio. Instructif. En temps que victime j’ai pu prendre conscience de plusieurs événements. Les conseils du dernier chapitre me seront utiles.