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“Husband of the Year” is the fourth book in M.A. Wardell’s Teachers in Love series. I don’t think it is necessary to have read all three previous books to understand this one, but you definitely need to have read book one, “Teacher of the Year”, beforehand, as this is where we are introduced to the main characters of this book, Marvin and Olan, and get to watch them fall in love. In this continuation we follow them as they plan their wedding and attempt to figure out what exactly their future together will look like. Unfortunately the way to get there isn't easy, as unresolved issues arise again. Will they be able to figure everything out and celebrate their wedding as planned?
This is the second of Wardell’s books I got to read, the first luckily being book one in this series. I must admit I didn’t particularly like TotY, however I am also pretty sure that it was this author’s debut, and so I was willing to give him another chance, especially since this “finishes” telling us Marvin and Olan’s story. While there are still some things I disliked (though all of them are pretty subjective), I thought this was a massive improvement compared to book one, and really showed this author’s growth as a writer.
Two things I really liked about this book:
1. Oftentimes, both in gay fiction and gay fanfiction, female love interests or previous partners are treated badly, made out to be evil etc. This is definitely not the case here. Olan’s ex-wife, and Illona’s mother, is shown to be a kind, understanding and supportive person from her very first appearance, and she continues to be portrayed this way throughout both books. She and Marvin even become close(ish) friends.
2. The way the struggle with addiction is portrayed was already something I liked in book one, but it continues to be treated with kindness as well as the seriousness it deserves.
Now for some things I took issue with:
1. The communication between Marvin and Olan is a mess for the majority of this book, and while I felt that in book one Marvin was the main cause of this, in this book Olan is the problem. It was very frustrating to see Marvin be open, ask after Olan’s well-being, his thoughts and feelings, and get brushed off with “I’ll tell you later” etc. This was something I didn’t think was resolved particularly well, and I wouldn’t say I saw a lot of character growth from Olan there, yet he was still often portrayed as if he was being super communicative.
2. Racism – Olan is a black man, living in a very white state. At the beginning of the book this is addressed once in a scene that quite frankly had me questioning Marvin’s intelligence, but is never really brought up again after the first few chapters. I know the focus here is somewhat on struggles with mental health and addiction, but I still wish the author had designated some more space to discuss the unique challenges Oland and Illona are likely to face as people of colour living in a very white state.
3. This is a spoiler, so please skip over this and continue reading in the next paragraph instead. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Olan goes to help out his parents, as his youngest brother is currently struggling through recovering from his own addiction. The circumstances are made worse, as the brother’s girlfriend had recently overdosed and died, leaving behind both the brother and the infant they had together. I immediately disliked this plot point, and you can probably tell what happened next – Olan and Marvin adopt the baby. Throughout the entire book Marvin tells us that he doesn't want to have a child, and is happy just being Illona’s step parent and a kindergarten teacher. Yet when Olan shows clear interest in adopting the baby (once again without actually communicating this to Marvin until he specifically asks), Marvin is suddenly all in. Once the baby is home he appears to adjust with absolutely no issue to suddenly being a father to a baby, and whatever internal conflict is guaranteed to arise under those circumstances is never discussed. I hated everything about this. Before I got to that part I was even going to praise this book for showing a solid, loving relationship between members of a blended family, without making Olan and Marvin have another kid together to, I guess, solidify their unity. Obviously I had to delete that part from my review notes.
The audiobook presented a perfectly fine listening experience. I thought the narrators' voices were fitting, and I enjoyed the sound effects that were used to show the texting portions of the book (which you should be familiar with if you read the previous instalment(s).
Overall this was a very sweet (toothrottingly so) romance, and a mostly satisfying conclusion to Marvin and Olan’s story. If you enjoyed book one or the other two books you will probably like this too, and even if you are like me and didn’t love book one, you may like this one better.