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The New Rules
We all want to live the best life we can, but how do we sort through all the confusing messages about how to do that?
Margarita Nazarenko tells it like it is when it comes to women and relationships - and women's relationships with themselves. A qualified life coach, YouTuber and TikTok sensation, Margarita advises women not only about how to navigate relationships with men, but how to create wonderful lives with or without a relationship.
Her message is don't expect to have a great life if you're not creating it for yourself first.
The New Rules collects the wisdom Margarita has shared with her followers all over the world as well as new insights - and a bit about Margarita herself - in her unique and inimitable style. Margarita is agony aunt, big sister and best friend rolled into one, and this book is a portable best friend that women can carry with them throughout the day - and throughout life
Margarita Nazarenko tells it like it is when it comes to women and relationships - and women's relationships with themselves. A qualified life coach, YouTuber and TikTok sensation, Margarita advises women not only about how to navigate relationships with men, but how to create wonderful lives with or without a relationship.
Her message is don't expect to have a great life if you're not creating it for yourself first.
The New Rules collects the wisdom Margarita has shared with her followers all over the world as well as new insights - and a bit about Margarita herself - in her unique and inimitable style. Margarita is agony aunt, big sister and best friend rolled into one, and this book is a portable best friend that women can carry with them throughout the day - and throughout life
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Published May 29, 2024
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August 27, 2025
I've been learning a lot about femininity and this book is really helpful and empowering. Some of her advice includes: love yourself, love life, be soft, take care of yourself, have boundaries, act and be confident, let go of things or people that don't service you, never convince someone to be with you, not everyone is meant to like you so it's okay if someone doesn't, be a "lazy" woman (don't do too much that a man becomes a couch potato. Allow him to rise up). Honor your needs and his needs.
November 4, 2025
Girl Power all in one easy and quick listen.
Do I recommend? Yes to girls from late teens to menopause :-) Even if it doesn't all apply to you, you'll learn a multitude of self worth and self knowledge ideas. At the very least it'll start a conversation with yourself how you view your place in the world as a woman and how you want to live your life.
Would I re-read/listen? Yes have done so multiple times already.
Do I recommend? Yes to girls from late teens to menopause :-) Even if it doesn't all apply to you, you'll learn a multitude of self worth and self knowledge ideas. At the very least it'll start a conversation with yourself how you view your place in the world as a woman and how you want to live your life.
Would I re-read/listen? Yes have done so multiple times already.
March 11, 2026
I loved this book. It felt like the strong female voice I didn’t realize I needed. Margarita Nazarenko delivers empowering reminders about self-worth, boundaries, and not abandoning yourself in dating or relationships. Her perspective is confident and validating without feeling cynical. It left me feeling more grounded in my value and standards.
August 1, 2026
This book was very informative for women and young adults of all age ranges. Margarita guides others through her experiences on becoming the best version of yourself. The first part of the book reflects on self. The other half discusses how that reflects in relation to your relationships. I loved how personal the book felt. It felt as though the author was speaking directly to me. A recommended book for personal development and all the beautiful, empowering woman! This was an easy read for me.
May 30, 2025
Great advice and guidance, but if you’ve listened to her podcasts the book is essentially ‘the best bits’ on paper…
August 14, 2025
If you’re a woman, read this.
Added to my Manuals for Life list, saving for my daughter.
Added to my Manuals for Life list, saving for my daughter.
January 4, 2026
I find Margarita's insights on what she terms 'toxic femininity' illuminating, empowering!
January 15, 2026
Loved !!!! Would love it if she wrote another one!
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