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Guide to Your First Munch
Make the next step into the BDSM community an easy one. Let me show you how!
There is one huge hurdle that can strike fear into you like nothing else can. You’ve been safe behind your computer, but the next step is clear. You need to meet people face to face. You will eventually need to go to a munch.
But, like you, when I reached that point in my journey I didn’t even know how to find a munch let alone what in the world one was, if I was going to be labeled a freak, what to wear and if I would have to know someone to be allowed in.
I’m so very thankful I stopped listening to my inner scaredy-cat and stepped out the door. I’ve made friends, learned so much from others and got to feel like I was a part of something normal and accepted. This ebook is packed full of answers to the very questions that had my butt nailed to the chair for the longest time and my fears hugely unfounded.
Calm your Nerves and Arm Yourself with the Facts
* What a munch is and isn’t
* How to find them on the internet using search engines and specialized websites
* What to wear, how to act and what is expected of you (and what isn’t) when you walk into the room
* Get out of the corner and into a group of supportive friends
* How groups address privacy and personal information concerns
* Put your foot in the door for possible future invitations to those elusive play parties everyone is talking about!
Guide to Your First Munch is a downloadable quick guide designed to make entering the local and regional BDSM community where you are – anywhere you are, painless and easy! Even being shy won’t be an obstacle anymore because you’ll have taken the steps necessary to assure yourself you are safe and secure, and welcome!
Writing this guide has been a culmination of everything I’ve learned and all I wish I had known before I went to my first munch. I probably would have avoided the embarrassing “mashed potato wrestling fantasy” story told out of nervousness! I’m shocked that they just smiled and nodded and even asked me to come back. But here I am with some of the best friends, great people to get advice and mentoring from and I’ve grown to love my social outlet.
I’ve been a part of the local and regional community on some level or another for over 10 years. I’ve lead groups, I’ve hosted and presented at others. I’ve been the silent wall flower at still more. There’s really no wrong way to get involved in the community. Once you buy my ebook you’ll have the basics down and be able to bravely walk into the restaurant or cafe and shake hands with people JUST LIKE YOU.
There is one huge hurdle that can strike fear into you like nothing else can. You’ve been safe behind your computer, but the next step is clear. You need to meet people face to face. You will eventually need to go to a munch.
But, like you, when I reached that point in my journey I didn’t even know how to find a munch let alone what in the world one was, if I was going to be labeled a freak, what to wear and if I would have to know someone to be allowed in.
I’m so very thankful I stopped listening to my inner scaredy-cat and stepped out the door. I’ve made friends, learned so much from others and got to feel like I was a part of something normal and accepted. This ebook is packed full of answers to the very questions that had my butt nailed to the chair for the longest time and my fears hugely unfounded.
Calm your Nerves and Arm Yourself with the Facts
* What a munch is and isn’t
* How to find them on the internet using search engines and specialized websites
* What to wear, how to act and what is expected of you (and what isn’t) when you walk into the room
* Get out of the corner and into a group of supportive friends
* How groups address privacy and personal information concerns
* Put your foot in the door for possible future invitations to those elusive play parties everyone is talking about!
Guide to Your First Munch is a downloadable quick guide designed to make entering the local and regional BDSM community where you are – anywhere you are, painless and easy! Even being shy won’t be an obstacle anymore because you’ll have taken the steps necessary to assure yourself you are safe and secure, and welcome!
Writing this guide has been a culmination of everything I’ve learned and all I wish I had known before I went to my first munch. I probably would have avoided the embarrassing “mashed potato wrestling fantasy” story told out of nervousness! I’m shocked that they just smiled and nodded and even asked me to come back. But here I am with some of the best friends, great people to get advice and mentoring from and I’ve grown to love my social outlet.
I’ve been a part of the local and regional community on some level or another for over 10 years. I’ve lead groups, I’ve hosted and presented at others. I’ve been the silent wall flower at still more. There’s really no wrong way to get involved in the community. Once you buy my ebook you’ll have the basics down and be able to bravely walk into the restaurant or cafe and shake hands with people JUST LIKE YOU.
12 pages, ebook
First published March 1, 2014
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11 people want to read
About the author
Luna Carruthers
27 books37 followersHi, I'm lunaKM. I'm an obese, fat, not ashamed of my size submissive with a lot of passion for what I do and how I serve. My Master has taught me to think beyond the basic responses (ie. Why do I serve? "To please him," wouldn't go over well.) and get to the meat of the issues each and every time. I thank him each day for that.
I've been in the active scene since 2003. I explored online before that and found that it just wasn't enough, I needed the real thing.
I met my Master online in a chat room late 2003. He moved from England to be with me in October 2004. We got engaged on Valentine's Day 2010. We were married June 4, 2011.
My Master and I have been together since 2003. We met when we were both new to BDSM so learning has been wonderful. We have the same likes and dislikes which makes pleasing him easier. I received my permanent collar February 2007 and have bloomed and grown so much since then.
I'm a stay at home submissive and totally immersed in the lifestyle as I have no outside or inside interference. (No kids, no close family, no job) This makes for an ideal way for us to live.
I've been in the active scene since 2003. I explored online before that and found that it just wasn't enough, I needed the real thing.
I met my Master online in a chat room late 2003. He moved from England to be with me in October 2004. We got engaged on Valentine's Day 2010. We were married June 4, 2011.
My Master and I have been together since 2003. We met when we were both new to BDSM so learning has been wonderful. We have the same likes and dislikes which makes pleasing him easier. I received my permanent collar February 2007 and have bloomed and grown so much since then.
I'm a stay at home submissive and totally immersed in the lifestyle as I have no outside or inside interference. (No kids, no close family, no job) This makes for an ideal way for us to live.
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October 6, 2014
Solid advice for a first munch
I was looking for a guide for a first munch, what to expect, something to ease me into it. This guide offered me the info I needed. It's direct. I had found out about LunaKM on Twitter with her sub guide. I would look for more from her about bdsm.
The $3.99 price for 12 pages may put off some, and that's understandable. I do think that there could have been a bit more offered; thus, my 4-star rating.
I was looking for a guide for a first munch, what to expect, something to ease me into it. This guide offered me the info I needed. It's direct. I had found out about LunaKM on Twitter with her sub guide. I would look for more from her about bdsm.
The $3.99 price for 12 pages may put off some, and that's understandable. I do think that there could have been a bit more offered; thus, my 4-star rating.
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