What’s Done Cannot Be Undone: A Memoir of a Life Off Balance

by Athena Stevens

This is not an inspirational memoir. This is not trauma porn. This is a memoir about the forces that impact our lives, both good and bad.Athena Stevens has never learned the name of the doctor whose lack of intervention at her birth lead to her cerebral palsy, but she feels the consequences of his actions – and inaction – every day. The factor observed first and foremost in her life will forever be the effects of what other people have done to her, rather than her accomplishments. And yet, she was groomed to believe that she would overcome any force that stood in her way.

A memoir like no other, What’s Done Cannot be Undone takes readers on a whirlwind journey through Athena’s life, providing a profound insight into the realities of moving through the world as a disabled woman. From being born ‘dead’ to co-founding the Women’s Equality Party; from not being picked to play the back of a cow to an Olivier Award nomination, this complex, lyrical, gut-punch of a memoir is laugh-out-loud funny, unrelentingly furious, and a powerful reminder that changing the world singlehandedly is as impossible as defying the laws of physics.

Genres: Disability

336 pages, Kindle Edition

Published June 5, 2025

Reviews

[Greg Anger · Rating 5 out of 5]

A moving, insightful, entertaining, and relatable book as a reader with a disability. Athena is an excellent writer who uses eloquent prose to engage and inform her readers. Highly recommend.

[Lauren Fix · Rating 5 out of 5]

I just finished reading this incredible book by a dear friend. Though my review will certainly not do it justice, I feel compelled to try. Athena’s eloquently written memoir brought me back to our now long-ago endless chats about life and propelled me forward to re-energize myself in my goals for the future as an educational leader, mother, and individual. I highly recommend everyone read this book and take in the powerful layers from the engaging prose to the profound message. Even if you don’t share the personal connection, there is so much to discover in this work of art.