Tenderheaded: A Memoir

by Michaela Angela Davis

Discover the compelling memoir that explores race, cultural representation, Black media’s legacy, privilege, and identity from VIBE ’s founding fashion editor and CNN correspondent Michaela Angela Davis.

As VIBE’s founding fashion editor and a CNN correspondent, Michaela Angela Davis has been at the forefront of cultural shifts, working alongside iconic figures like Diana Ross, Prince, and Beyoncé. Her memoir is a celebration of Black media’s vibrant history and a critical examination of its challenges and erasure in mainstream narratives.

In Tenderheaded, Davis journeys back through her career as both a celebration and an interrogation of Black media, exploring the difficult truth of how historically Black media titles and brands have had such mighty, culture-shifting starts, then disappeared or limped along in mainstream obscurity. Her story is one of self-discovery and liberation, as she navigates the complexities of identity politics, sexism, and racism within the media industry. Her career has been a tapestry of glamorous adventures from the bustling streets of 1980s New York City to the exotic markets of Morocco, all while styling some of the most influential figures in music and culture. Yet, beneath the surface of this dazzling world lies a poignant narrative of struggle and resilience.

Tenderheaded is not just a memoir; it is a cultural manifesto that questions the legacy of Black media and the stories of Black women that remain untold. Davis’s narrative is both a romance and a tragedy, reflecting her American life and the broader story of American media.

Genres: Nonfiction, Memoir, Biography Memoir, Audiobook

304 pages, Hardcover

Published October 14, 2025

Reviews

[Jamie · Rating 5 out of 5]

The word Tenderheaded is a signifier for all Black women, so I was automatically drawn to Michaela angela Davis’s memoir. From the beginning, she addresses how she is perceived with light skin and light hair, expressing a deep desire of belonging that feels so aligned with how I felt growing up. Davis writes, “To be apart from Black girls was, and is, my fear; to be a part of black girls was, is, and will always be my desire” (xii). I saw my little self in these pages, hair braided by church aunties as my mom tried to learn. People asking questions about heritage, and the answer being more complicated than a snarky phrase.

Davis was immersed in and deeply loved all aspects of Blackness. She says: “I not only believed black was beautiful. I believe black was more beautiful. It is not only too simple to say that I was ashamed of the parts of me that complicated my legibility as a black woman to other black women, it is incorrect. It was a pileup of emotions I use this Book to cultivate language for” (xiii).

And use it she does; cataloging her career in fashion and music journalism, working to advocate for Black artists to get the attention they deserved by top magazines. Davis endured racial aggressions and describes how she tries to build a career that works in service of the art the loves, not exploit it. There’s a lot of fascinating behind the scenes stories that I enjoyed. Alongside her narrative of career is her narrative of motherhood, deep with the themes of sacrifice and enduring love. Davis recalls, “I could not have anticipated the price for a creative life” (118).

Tucked between the narrative sections are what Davis calls “tangents,” shorter chapters that play with form, memory and even verse to express her deeper emotions and reflections. I loved this structural choice.

While Davis herself doesn’t describe being Tenderheaded, she uses the is book to expand the term into a metaphor. Tenderheaded becomes “a portal to memory,” a space of openness and listening (259).

Out now form Simon books. Thank you

[Zainab Khadijah · Rating 5 out of 5]

I had the opportunity to read an advanced copy of this memoir and it did not disappoint. Michaela angela Davis has always been an amazing writer, but with this book she invites us deeply into her past and the makeup of her life’s story. I appreciate the structure of this book, with its tangent chapters that reveal just as much as the core chapters. One of the first lines of the book, “I have never fought a black girl” caught me right in the heart. I recommend this book for black women and girls, elders and the younger. It is so necessary for the culture.

[Lit_Vibrations · Rating 4 out of 5]

Special thanks to the author, @simonandschuster, & @netgalley for my gifted e-ARC‼️

When it comes to reading nonfiction my first go to will always be a memoir. I love when people, mainly celebrities allow readers into the most intimate parts of their life.

Highlighting the turning points where she had to deal with the challenges her physical characteristics created, alcohol abuse, motherhood, and trying to make it as a writer in the early 90’s. Michaela angela Davis delivers an unforgettable memoir that celebrates Black media and her place at the center of it all.

As a magazine editor and stylist for Essence, Vibe and Honey, Davis discusses the significant impact and contributions she’s made in Black media, amplifying Black artists, fashion and ensuring Black women were at the center of mainstream media. What I loved most about reading Tenderheaded was seeing how willingly Davis was to walk away when things no longer served her purpose or aligned with her vision and beliefs. If you tell me this magazine is about uplifting Black women and culture don’t go whitewashing it and think I’m going to stand behind it is what she said in so many words.

Overall, this was a solid memoir that I’d recommend. I specifically remember Davis from being apart of BET. But her journey has always been focused on ensuring Black voices were represented in the media even if that meant carving out our own lane. Hearing about her encounters with celebrities like Mariah Carey, Prince, Maya Angelou, Beyoncé, the Obamas and many others was so nostalgic. And learning about what inspired some of the most iconic looks to grace the front cover of our favorite magazines brought back memories.

[Natasha Elle Thomas · Rating 5 out of 5]

Reading Tenderheaded felt like coming home and attending a masterclass in Black feminist memory, image politics, and radical self-making. From the very first pages, Michaela angela Davis invited me into her world. And in this world, she shows her readers what it means to carry the weight of representation while refusing to be defined by it.

I thought this memoir was gorgeous without being glossy. In it, she models survival, discernment, and reclamation as much as she recounts fashion shows, magazine covers, and iconic style moments. I love Michaela’s refusal to compartmentalize: the personal, political, professional, and spiritual bleed into one another throughout these pages. I remain in awe of her archival gaze, how she narrates her life in juxtaposition with the infrastructure of Black media, beauty, and identity that both elevated and entangled her. I love the tender fierceness of her voice: it’s raw when it needs to be, stylish always, and clear even when traversing complexity.

If you care about healing, self-love, and collective liberation… if you read for both craft and cultural critique… this memoir is a must. For Black women, this is a love letter and a roadmap. For anyone invested in the intersection of creativity, identity, and justice, it’s a deeply necessary text.

Thank you, Michaela, for the clarity, the courage, the framework...and thank you to the ARC that invited me early into this conversation.

[Kasa Cotugno · Rating 5 out of 5]

What an eye opener. Instead of using her lighter skin and hair to deny her heritage and pass, Michaela angela Davis has embraced it and acted as stylist and advisor to some of the most beautiful women in the world, emphasizing their racial qualities that make them unique. Highly recommended.

[Ashli Rich · Rating 5 out of 5]

This isn’t just a memoir—it’s a love letter to Black media, identity, and the stories that deserve to be told.

In Tenderheaded, Michaela Angela Davis reflects on her life in fashion, music, and media with both style and substance. From styling Beyoncé to challenging systemic erasure, her story is as powerful as it is personal.
Bold, beautiful, and necessary.

[Lesley-Ann Brown · Rating 3 out of 5]

I really appreciated this book and author’s insight into a period that was indeed very special for Blackness & Black womanhood. However, I felt that besides the many exciting celebrity name drops, the memoir failed to go deep. There was an opportunity missed to truly get under the mechanics of addiction. Instead I felt it was danced about in a way that didn’t seem like the author truly owns it. In that sense, the work could have been courageous & daring. Also, I wonder why the word misogynoir wasn’t used - it seems odd someone who occupies the space Davis does in our culture doesn’t seem to have the vocabulary developed to tackle the issues we face. And while she mentioned a lot of familiar names, I would have loved to see the actual friendships - don’t have to be famous people - that have sustained her in this brutal world otherwise all the talk about doing it for Black woman sounds superficial. I liked the book & I read Mariah’s which she co-authored & liked that too - I’m just thinking about legacy in terms of how our work can go deeper and in so doing instructive for the others coming up in this world. I also was horrified when she disclosed her affair at 16 with the dude from Bad Brains who was 24 - she wrote about it flippantly without acknowledging that’s statutory rape. Her nonchalance in telling that story normalizes a dangerous pattern our young girls get exposed to. I would have loved a more rigorous interrogation of self. Instead it seemed like a lot of name dropping and neo liberal evidence of accomplishments which, by the way, the author seems reluctant to admit her light skinned privilege had anything to do with. Good book, worth a read but again, could have gone deeper.

[Nicky Novel Nerd · Rating 4 out of 5]

Book Stats:
304 pages
Genre: Biographies and Memoirs
Publisher: Simon & Schuster
Format: ebook (Kindle) ARC

Themes:
Culture representation
Sexism, racism and politics
Black history/fashion/entertainment


Synopsis:
Michaela Angela Davis captivating memoir delves into her upbringing, personal struggles and rise in the entertainment industry. As VIBE’s founding fashion editor and shift towards a CNN correspondent, her memoir explores themes of identity, culture and representation that has empowered a generation.

My thoughts:
Growing up in the 90’s, I was heavily impacted by Davis’ contribution to the culture. I was that kid consuming the pages of Vibe and Honey magazine. It was so cool to read the flip side of the creative process and explore the behind-the-scenes moments in entertainment that influenced my teen years. Michaela was at the forefront of some of the important cultural shifts and iconic fashion movements. She plunges deep into how her hair held such a strong place in her identity, complexities, and validity as a black woman. Michaela takes us through the journey of her coming of age, intricate family dynamics and personal struggles all while advocating for Black women. Her writing is whole, vulnerable and honest. She’s carved a space and representation where we have a sense of belonging. Thank you NetGalley and Simon & Schuster for sending this for review consideration. All opinions are my own. Expected publication date is Oct 14, 2025.

[Leslie Martinez · Rating 5 out of 5]

I highly recommend reading Tenderheaded. It’s a memoir that has bits of history called tangents throughout the book. Those tangents are rich with lessons and moments of history that are so very important to us as a people but also gives us a nice window into her life. I really enjoyed reading this book. This book made me realize that our lives and our stories are really historical moments. I felt so proud of Michaela angela Davis to write such a truthful story about her life and also the memories and those moments that happened to her. The audio book is beautiful as well. I really enjoyed reading the book and occasionally also listening to the audio book. The memoir is divided into three parts, the child, the alcoholic and the writer. I learned so much about Black media and how difficult it can be to want to succeed in it. I also took tons of breaks and looked up moments she brings up - like the cover of honey magazine or what happened to Michael Stewart. I find the memoir to be mostly about grief - the loss of her brother really shaped her life and the loss of almost her daughter would have been a pain too much to bear. Throughout the whole book what surprised me the most is how honest it reads. How she just puts everything there on the page - the loss, the pain, her dreams. Michaela is a beautiful writer and I can’t wait to read more of what she has written.

[Helen Delaney · Rating 5 out of 5]

What a book! Important, soul-searching, intimate, raw, beautiful, and chock full of history! Michaela Angela Davis is a storyteller supreme, a master of detail, mood, and scene. She will amaze you, break your heart, and take you backstage into one of the most important eras of recent history. A book, not only to lift the hearts and souls of Black women, which she does, but a book to lift us all above our judgements and presumptions - whether it be about color, fashion, television, or music. Hers is a story worth telling, a bravely narrated declaration of love for her people. She has been where we all wanted to be as we read and waited for those precious magazines for Black women. What did it take to keep them going? What was the struggle like to carry the message - consistently - of beauty and worth and dignity? What was it like to be whispered to by Maya Angelou? How did hip-hop impact Black women? She holds nothing back from us, including the searing details of growing up Black and blonde, talented, and witness to the deaths of so many young Black men. We owe her a great debt of gratitude. Read it and buy it for a sister.
Helen Delaney

[Ardre Orie · Rating 5 out of 5]

Michaela angela Davis has given us a masterwork with Tenderheaded. This is a book that is as much a memoir as it is a cultural archive, love letter, and rallying cry. With the precision of a stylist, the rhythm of a DJ, and the soul of a griot, Davis braids together personal narrative and cultural critique into something truly unforgettable.
From the attempted “jump” that forever changed how she saw her hair and herself, Davis pulls you in with raw honesty, vulnerability, and brilliance. She chronicles not just her own rise from the downtown NYC scene of the 80s to the hip-hop-fueled 90s, but also the shifting terrain of Black media, fashion, and identity politics.

What makes Tenderheaded extraordinary is its duality. It is both deeply personal and expansively communal. Davis doesn’t just tell her story; she tells ours. She captures the textures of Black womanhood, the contradictions of media representation, and the beauty and burden of inhabiting multiple identities at once. It’s a book that feels like a conversation, a performance, a sermon, and a history lesson all at once.

[Khristen · Rating 4 out of 5]

Reading Tenderheaded: A Memoir by Michaela Angela Davis felt like catching up with one of your homegirls the kind of friend who keeps it real, makes you laugh, and drops wisdom without even trying.
What I loved most was how Michaela goes off on little tangents. It never felt random more like the way we talk when we’re deep in conversation. It was warm, familiar, and full of those “I’ve been there” moments.
She also takes time to dig into her family history, and that really added another layer. It helped me understand how identity and beauty standards get passed down, challenged, and redefined. Without giving too much away, she touches on a lot of experiences that many Black women know all too well — from hair struggles and beauty politics to healing, survival, and self-love.
That said, I did find myself wanting a little more storytelling at times more scenes or detail to really sit with. But overall, her voice shines through. It’s honest, smart, and full of heart.
This books is for us black women. Black women keep healing,organizing and love each other.

[Patty Ramirez · Rating 5 out of 5]

I’m glad I was sent an ARC copy of this memoir because it introduced me to Ms. Davis’ life and work.

Her experiences working in Black media gave us a rare unpolished look at what really goes on behind the scenes.

Loved how she feels honest and unpretentious when presenting her life to us throughout the pages. I appreciated her vulnerability when talking about her problems with alcohol addiction and struggles with depression. How she had to constantly fight for space just because she was judged for the color of her (lighter) skin.

One of the best memoirs I’ve read in a while.

Loved!

Thank you to Simon & Schuster and the author for providing a free copy of this book through NetGalley.

[Michelle W · Rating 5 out of 5]

If you're looking for a book that feels less like a memoir and more like a personal diary, this is it. Michaela pulls back the curtain on her fascinating life, sharing a powerful and intimate look at the worlds of music, fashion, and media. But what truly makes this a favorite read of mine is the raw honesty with which she shares her experiences as a young Black woman in '80s and '90s NYC—navigating everything from culture and racism to identity and self-awareness. Having worked with her for decades, I thought I knew her story. This book showed me the full, unvarnished picture. Her giant heart is on every page, and it's a journey you won't want to miss.

[Dianne Houston · Rating 5 out of 5]

tenderheaded. It’s what we all started out being before life taught us to pretend we weren’t. In her delicious new book, Michaela Angela Davis takes us root deep back into the unprotected tenderness of being Black, female and in search of beauty. Unapologetically, and in service of Black women loving the magic within themselves, Michaela Angela Davis’ writing serves up unforgettable images: Diana Ross in a slip that dreams; Maya Angelou whispering benedictions in a locked bathroom; Michaela herself choosing sobriety over relief. “tenderheaded" artfully blends fashion , wisdom, history , and hope into a spiritually tasty bitches brew- one that she made especially for us to sip on.

[Jorgie BooBoo · Rating 5 out of 5]

“I do not feel safe where Black girls are a whisper.” A haunting line from Michaela’s memoir that will stay with me. Also, a reminder that black women and girls are still experiencing.


Michaela, an image activist and cowriter of Mariah’s book writes such Fierce narrative. It felt like I was transported back to the 90s shaking my ass to lil Kim, missy and eve. But what she also writes is the racism and sexism in the fashion world. A narrative of women who suffered, but also prevailed. Ms Davis soars like a disco queen with her blonde Afro and black female warrior army.

GO ORDER THIS BOOK!!!!

[Edith A. · Rating 4 out of 5]

Michaela is an icon living and this memoir is such a gift. She has been an image activist for black people in beauty for decades; working at Ebony and Honey magazines. She has styled every black icon you can think of - Prince, Mariah Carey, Beyonce, Michelle Obama, Diana Ross, Eve, the list is unending. My favorite thing about this memoir is that it is more than just memoir - it documents important moments in black history including legal history regulating Black people’s physical appearance in the U.S. The writing is creative, the stories are rich especially in their advocacy, and the entire project is a gift.

[Reader · Rating 5 out of 5]

She is the writer I want to read again. Tenderheaded is a work of art,true poetry. Michaela’s invitation into her imagination,survival and rise to success and all that she’s learned about the world and herself in it is beyond inspiring-it is life changing. In a world that tries to reduce the power, resilience and beauty of Black women, Michaela proves that we can never be small. A timeless classic Tenderheaded is for those who dream, and believe that they can. Michaela’s writing will preserve us for many generations to come.

[Ami · Rating 5 out of 5]

Michaela angela Davis is truly gifted in her capacity to bring her audience right along with her into her experience through her use of language. Her most recent work is no exception. Most readers will find a kindred spirit with an aspect of this author's story, given her variety of experiences and challenges faced. She offers us important historical context in which to understand and examine current experiences. She faces complicated topics head on, while also giving readers a front row seat to her most memorable interactions with A-list celebrities. Run, dont walk, to buy this one.

[Tanisha L. · Rating 5 out of 5]

If you are looking for a poetic read of revealing vulnerability this memoir is it. You don't have to be familiar with the incredibly brave author Michaela Angela Davis (Google this queen) to be able to relate to the feelings and moments she shares around colorism, love, struggle, acceptance and family to appreciate her words. The book is a thoughtful and thought provoking love letter to the reader. It allowed a glimpse into the life of a woman who has paid (and overpaid!) her cultural dues and then some. All the stars to Tenderheaded!

[Victoria · Rating 4 out of 5]

I initially came to tenderheaded believing it was a memoir on hair. Then, in my bias, I thought it to be another book about another privileged, light skinned Black woman screaming reverse colorism. However, through Davis’ intelligent, authentic storytelling, I’ve come to understand tenderheaded to be a genre-bending (part memoir, part love letter to Black women, post social history) that explores what the journey of love, loss, and healing through a Black creative.

I would definitely recommend this book! Thank you, Auntie Angela!

[Julie · Rating 4 out of 5]

Thank you, Simon and Schuster, for providing the copy of Tenderheaded by Michaela angela Davis. The best thing about memoirs is reading about people whose lives are unlike mine. This book was quite the eye-opener, and parts made me cry while others made my jaw drop in surprise. I’m not a fashionista by any stretch of the imagination, but the descriptions of how Davis styled people made me want to see pictures! I also like the insider view of celebrities! 4 stars

[Crespo · Rating 5 out of 5]

Michaela angela Davis's memoir is eye-opening! Powerful personal narrative that is interspersed with important historical information that gives readers a clearer picture and context in conjunction with stories about her life. It is vulnerable, raw, unflinching, beautiful, soulful, and powerful all at once. It definitely belongs on the bookshelves of those who love memoirs, autobiographies and biographies.

[Céline Vacher · Rating 5 out of 5]

As a huge fan of memoirs, this one did not disappoint! Tenderheaded delivered a vulnerable, poetic, and enthralling look into a singular life that also tells the story of a country, a culture, an industry, a family, and everything in between. There’s so much to be gained from being immersed in Michaela’s fabulous life! Equal parts glam and grit, Black and blonde, personal diary and social commentary…perfectly weaved and braided together ;)

[Bobbi · Rating 4 out of 5]

Michaela Angela Davis. What a woman! The first memoir I have read since grade school was an absolute pleasure. Michaela’s words weaved together a plush blanket of comfort, joy, Black womanhood, grace, and sorrow. I feel inspired, relieved, seen and loved as a Black woman. I did not know about Ms. Davis’ work at all until now. She has gained lifelong respect from me for her words and stories. Thank you!

[Skye · Rating 4 out of 5]

This memoir felt like Michaela was sitting right beside me, sharing her story in her own voice. The storytelling is beautiful, unique, and unlike any memoir I’ve read before. I appreciated how she wove together her personal experiences with moments of history, adding depth and context that brought the message full circle. I didn’t know I needed this book until I read it.

[Beth Knight · Rating 5 out of 5]

I loved this book. I wanted more when it was done. The author used great language and descriptive words that read like a mini series. It’s a love letter to black girls and women. There are pictures on the inside cover that are nostalgic of the 80’s black magazines. I will be gifting this book to my loved ones.

[Nikki · Rating 4 out of 5]

This memoir was a treat especially since I distinctly remember Michaela's work in ALL the magazines I read growing up and always loved her style. Reading about her upbringing , her challenges, triumphs and pioneering journey was enlightening and informative and a great reader for the youngins in my family to see evidence of what it means to be themselves always. I loved it.

[Erica Thompson · Rating 4 out of 5]

I picked this up because of my love of connecting hair and identity and it did not disappoint. Davis captured her connections beautifully. I also loved the DC references and so many other reminders of growing up in my era.

[Daryia Dinkins · Rating 5 out of 5]

Years ago when I saw Mariah Carey's memoir and saw the cover I didn't care it's me and Mariah we go back like babies and pacifiers. It was irrelevant at the time. But, later it came full circle when I read this memoir and it didn't click until the last couple of chapters like this was the co writer at the time. But, I could bot tell how much I love this book and how she really shaped my childhood and I didn't even noticed it until I became and adult. I really connected with it.