INSIDE OUT by Kathleen Folbigg & Tracy Chapman is published by Penguin Random House Australia in September 2025
Review by Lorraine Parker
Inside Out is so aptly named. It is the of memoir of Kathleen and her very long, painful and confronting journey from marriage, babies, inside prison walls and finally out. The memories of Tracy intertwine and support Kathleen’s story, often filling missing pieces, giving perspective and understanding. It is also an account that belongs to Tracy Chapman’s life. For me, it is a privilege to peek inside and see the strength, endurance, friendship, sorrows and bigotry, not only of the law but of humanity.
Inside Out is far from an easy read but once started, a compulsion to know takes over.
All Kathleen ever wanted was to be married and have children. She had only happiness in her eyes as she married Craig.
Caleb was born to Kathleen, aged 21, on 1st February 1989. Caleb had a problem with his larynx and died 20th February 1989
Patrick was born 3rd June 1990. He was epileptic. Both parents watched over him constantly. In November, doctors confirmed he was also blind. He died of an epilepsy fit, 13th February 1991.
It is heart wrenching to read Kath’s agony. She could no longer live in the family home. They moved to Thornton where Craig worked nights and Kath found some sought of solace working in a baby store. (Interesting to note, as revealed later, that Craig took all the money she earned for a ‘special account’).
Sarah was born 14th October 1992. She did not sleep much. Neither did Kath who was exhausted monitoring her short sleeps and checking her breathing continually.
At this time Tracy, whom Kath had known since school days had been married in 1990. Tracy had many failed pregnancies. She divorced in 1995 and followed her career to New York.
Kath and Craig’s marriage was a continual roller coaster. Kath left, and returned. They moved to Cardiff. Their rift grew even more when Kath discovered her babies ashes had been removed from the church by Craig. Craig now blamed Kath who was now over weight and lethargic. Kath also blamed herself. Craig told her in no uncertain terms that she was so lacking in appeal.
After weeks at the gym and exercise. Kath returned to Craig. She became unwell and was diagnosed with chlamydia. She had long suspected Craig of affairs and this confirmed it. However, such was her belief in family and marriage she stayed on, falling pregnant in early 1997.
Every one was overjoyed. Kath, became “all nerves” but put on her cheerful front, more to reassure others. Laura was born 7th August 1997. Laura was to “stay the longest”. Her birth was more difficult for Kath whose coccyx was broken in childbirth. She had severe bleeding. Craig was the first to hold baby Laura. He bonded and fell in love with his beautiful baby girl.
After one year doctors assured them there was no need to worry any further. What a huge celebration was Laura’s first birthday! (Interesting that mainly Craig’s friends were invited and attended).
When Laura was 1 ½ years Craig was the parent to find her dead in her cot. Kath was numb with shock. Craig made the funeral arrangements. Their relationship once more deteriorated.
This is just the start of Kathleen and Tracey’s book. I hope I have written enough, (or not too much), so that you will read this amazing and revealing account involving our law and justice system at every level; solicitors, police, our prison system, universities, pathologists, court system, psychologists, medical institutions, geneticists, our media, complacency, the power of one or many, ruthlessness, advocacy, international and Australian expertise, compassion, action and so much more.
This book with so many revelations cannot be given a rating. To me it is above that.