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Praying with the Enemy
Based on the true story of an American POW during the Korean War and a North Korean soldier who become unlikely allies united in their shared faith in God during a daring escape to freedom.
When his jet malfunctions, Captain Ward Millar makes a last-second decision to eject over enemy territory in North Korea before his plane explodes. His parachute barely opens before impact, saving his life, but the hard landing snaps both of his ankles. Unable to walk, Captain Millar is easily captured by North Korean and Chinese soldiers. His captors interrogate, threaten, and starve him in an attempt to extract strategic wartime information.
He stalls the inevitable by feeding the enemy false information, but it’s only a matter of time before they discover his lies. Millar plots a bold, seemingly impossible plan to escape. He knows it will take a miracle to pull it off, but he’s not sure if praying to a higher power would even work. He wishes he had faith like his wife, whose firm belief in God can move mountains.
When Barbara Millar receives a telegram informing her that her husband is missing in action behind enemy lines, her family and friends accept the grim reality that Ward is almost certainly dead. Yet Barbara, a woman of deep and sustaining faith, refuses to believe it. She still feels his presence and their connection as strongly as ever. She is certain her husband will return, but she doesn’t know how the war and his ordeal might have changed him.
North Korean soldier Kim Jae Pil was raised to believe in the power of prayer, but because the Communist Party kills or imprisons any religious group they perceive as a threat to their power and influence, Kim and his family must keep their Christian faith secret. He has been anxious to return to his family and then escape across the border to South Korea.
With Millar still imprisoned and unable to walk, and the North Korean army becoming increasingly suspicious of Kim’s actions, it seems impossible that either man will find the freedom they so desperately desire. But when these wartime foes cross paths, they find in each other an unlikely ally. Despite speaking different languages, Millar and Kim find common ground in their fragile faith and must rely on each other to undertake a daring escape.
Praying with the Enemy is a story of courage, determination, unlikely friendship, and enduring faith.
When his jet malfunctions, Captain Ward Millar makes a last-second decision to eject over enemy territory in North Korea before his plane explodes. His parachute barely opens before impact, saving his life, but the hard landing snaps both of his ankles. Unable to walk, Captain Millar is easily captured by North Korean and Chinese soldiers. His captors interrogate, threaten, and starve him in an attempt to extract strategic wartime information.
He stalls the inevitable by feeding the enemy false information, but it’s only a matter of time before they discover his lies. Millar plots a bold, seemingly impossible plan to escape. He knows it will take a miracle to pull it off, but he’s not sure if praying to a higher power would even work. He wishes he had faith like his wife, whose firm belief in God can move mountains.
When Barbara Millar receives a telegram informing her that her husband is missing in action behind enemy lines, her family and friends accept the grim reality that Ward is almost certainly dead. Yet Barbara, a woman of deep and sustaining faith, refuses to believe it. She still feels his presence and their connection as strongly as ever. She is certain her husband will return, but she doesn’t know how the war and his ordeal might have changed him.
North Korean soldier Kim Jae Pil was raised to believe in the power of prayer, but because the Communist Party kills or imprisons any religious group they perceive as a threat to their power and influence, Kim and his family must keep their Christian faith secret. He has been anxious to return to his family and then escape across the border to South Korea.
With Millar still imprisoned and unable to walk, and the North Korean army becoming increasingly suspicious of Kim’s actions, it seems impossible that either man will find the freedom they so desperately desire. But when these wartime foes cross paths, they find in each other an unlikely ally. Despite speaking different languages, Millar and Kim find common ground in their fragile faith and must rely on each other to undertake a daring escape.
Praying with the Enemy is a story of courage, determination, unlikely friendship, and enduring faith.
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Steven T. Collis
7 books83 followersSteven T. Collis is the author of the nonfiction books Deep Conviction and The Immortals, as well as the novel Praying with the Enemy. He is a storyteller at heart, but in his other life, he is also a law professor at the University of Texas School of Law, where he is the faculty director of the Bech-Loughlin First Amendment Center and Texas's Law & Religion Clinic.
Prior to joining the faculty at Texas, he was the Olin-Darling Research Fellow in the Constitutional Law Center at Stanford Law School and was an equity partner at Holland & Hart LLP, where he chaired the firm's nationwide religious institutions and First Amendment practice group.
Before embarking on his legal and writing career, Steven graduated magna cum laude from the University of Michigan Law School, where he was elected to the Order of the Coif and served as an editor on the Michigan Law Review and the Michigan Journal of Race and Law. Steven also holds an M.F.A. in creative writing from Virginia Commonwealth University, where he served as the associate editor of the literary journal Blackbird. He completed his undergraduate studies, with university honors, at Brigham Young University.
Originally from New Mexico, Steven lives in Austin with his wife and children. He is on the web at www.steventcollis.com.
Prior to joining the faculty at Texas, he was the Olin-Darling Research Fellow in the Constitutional Law Center at Stanford Law School and was an equity partner at Holland & Hart LLP, where he chaired the firm's nationwide religious institutions and First Amendment practice group.
Before embarking on his legal and writing career, Steven graduated magna cum laude from the University of Michigan Law School, where he was elected to the Order of the Coif and served as an editor on the Michigan Law Review and the Michigan Journal of Race and Law. Steven also holds an M.F.A. in creative writing from Virginia Commonwealth University, where he served as the associate editor of the literary journal Blackbird. He completed his undergraduate studies, with university honors, at Brigham Young University.
Originally from New Mexico, Steven lives in Austin with his wife and children. He is on the web at www.steventcollis.com.
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June 9, 2022
Like a sponge to water, I eagerly soaked up Collis’s mesmerizing story - 71 years ago this week an American pilot crash-landed on enemy territory during the Korean War, broke both his ankles upon ejection, endured POW camps, and then escaped alongside, and with the help of, a North Korean Christian. Mindboggling, isn’t it?! I was immediately intrigued.
I loved the insight Collis brought to the account, allowing readers to get inside the head of a North Korean soldier, Corporal Kim Jae Pil who kept his Christianity secret from his fellow soldiers and the Communist Party ruling his country. I was understanding of the moments he questioned his faith, wondering how God had led him into horrible circumstances and equally happy to see his growth as he dug deep to rely on his faith. His courage to help the enemy was astounding.
“How many times had he prayed? How many days? Asking for help, only to be led to a place so devoid of interest and possibly it might as well have been the bottom of the ocean.”
I equally enjoyed the opportunity to get inside the head of a pilot, Captain Ward Millar, whose order it was to drop Napalm. I often wondered what it was like in the cockpit of a plane as it dropped a load - both for the pilot and the actual process of targeting and releasing. I also questioned what it would be like and what thoughts would go through a captive’s mind as he was caught and taken prisoner. Collis delivered. I read about disappointment and momentary lack of faith when Millar escaped and saw the arduous journey before him. Tears were falling as I read about him remembering a roommate who'd survived and recalling his advice that “what kept him alive was the avoidance of self-pity.” What great advice for any of us in situations where we’re brought to our knees. My heart lept for joy when I read about those Millar met in the hills, but the highlight for me was seeing him return to relying on his faith.
“His only option, he realized, was to pray. He hadn’t done it since that day on the mountain, when he realized he had no chance of escape, when he’d felt that God had failed him. Now, he returned to it with all the energy of his heart.”
I don’t know what it is that draws me to stories featuring unlikely friendships. Perhaps it makes my soul glad to know that two people have chosen to focus on what unites them, what they have in common, rather than the things that divide them, such as outward appearances, cultures, and languages. I was in awe of Millar and Kim’s courage, faith and determination.
I dare you to read this without getting choked up or shedding a tear. Impossible.
This remarkable and heartbreaking story is an incredible read. I appreciated that the author didn’t focus in-depth on cruelty or torture, but instead chose to focus on the serendipitous moments where both were assured of God’s hand in the experience. Thank you for the generosity of the publishers in getting this book to me amidst the publication frenzy.
I was gifted this book by Steven T. Collis, Shadow Mountain Publishing, and NetGalley and was under no obligation to provide a review.
I loved the insight Collis brought to the account, allowing readers to get inside the head of a North Korean soldier, Corporal Kim Jae Pil who kept his Christianity secret from his fellow soldiers and the Communist Party ruling his country. I was understanding of the moments he questioned his faith, wondering how God had led him into horrible circumstances and equally happy to see his growth as he dug deep to rely on his faith. His courage to help the enemy was astounding.
“How many times had he prayed? How many days? Asking for help, only to be led to a place so devoid of interest and possibly it might as well have been the bottom of the ocean.”
I equally enjoyed the opportunity to get inside the head of a pilot, Captain Ward Millar, whose order it was to drop Napalm. I often wondered what it was like in the cockpit of a plane as it dropped a load - both for the pilot and the actual process of targeting and releasing. I also questioned what it would be like and what thoughts would go through a captive’s mind as he was caught and taken prisoner. Collis delivered. I read about disappointment and momentary lack of faith when Millar escaped and saw the arduous journey before him. Tears were falling as I read about him remembering a roommate who'd survived and recalling his advice that “what kept him alive was the avoidance of self-pity.” What great advice for any of us in situations where we’re brought to our knees. My heart lept for joy when I read about those Millar met in the hills, but the highlight for me was seeing him return to relying on his faith.
“His only option, he realized, was to pray. He hadn’t done it since that day on the mountain, when he realized he had no chance of escape, when he’d felt that God had failed him. Now, he returned to it with all the energy of his heart.”
I don’t know what it is that draws me to stories featuring unlikely friendships. Perhaps it makes my soul glad to know that two people have chosen to focus on what unites them, what they have in common, rather than the things that divide them, such as outward appearances, cultures, and languages. I was in awe of Millar and Kim’s courage, faith and determination.
I dare you to read this without getting choked up or shedding a tear. Impossible.
This remarkable and heartbreaking story is an incredible read. I appreciated that the author didn’t focus in-depth on cruelty or torture, but instead chose to focus on the serendipitous moments where both were assured of God’s hand in the experience. Thank you for the generosity of the publishers in getting this book to me amidst the publication frenzy.
I was gifted this book by Steven T. Collis, Shadow Mountain Publishing, and NetGalley and was under no obligation to provide a review.
August 2, 2022
What an incredible story of survival. Of finding hope. And finding commonalities rather than differences. A story of miracles and finding what a relationship with God looks like and feels like.
Definitely recommend.
Content: no language, some descriptions of abuse, war, and the atrocities done in war.
Definitely recommend.
Content: no language, some descriptions of abuse, war, and the atrocities done in war.
August 17, 2022
Ward Millar's escape from North Korea during the Korea War was a most remarkable one. In novel, based on Millar's real life experiences, Collis takes readers into the middle of two men's experiences during war time. After Millar's plane goes down, Millar is at the mercy of his captors. With two broken ankles, escape seems to be an impossibility. To get medical care he is forced to share information with his North Korean & Chinese captors. He mixes a little truth with mostly lies knowing that it's only a matter of time before his lies are discovered. Unlike his wife, Millar wasn't a man of faith, he'd never seen a need for a belief in God, until now when his helpless situation stares him in the face. To escape will require a miracle.
Drafted into the North Korean army after a stint in prison for his Christian beliefs, Kim Jae Pil also wants to escape to the south. But he wants to take his family with him. When a chance to slip away from the army arises he returns home to find only his mother waiting for him. As he and his mother make plans to go so south, Jae Pil find himself unwillingly returning to the army with little chance of finding the rest of his family. Despite careful watching, it seems his prayers are going unanswered as weeks go by without any chance to escape.
Despite his difficult circumstances, Ward uses his intelligence to make plans for escape, hoping that his ankles are healing enough to do so. He gathers supplies with the help of some friendly villagers and prepares to slip away before he ends up in a northern POW camp. But the poor medical care he has received and his immobility prove to be a bigger problem than he expected and his first attempt fails miserably.
After escaping, it quickly becomes apparent that he seriously miscalculated his situation. When he encounters Jae Pil and some other soldiers, it seems any hope of a miracle is lost. But the hope in God that both have exercised through nearly constant prayer brings them together and hope may not be entirely lost. But time is running out and options are few. It will take all the ingenuity and faith the two men can muster to find a way to freedom.
Ward and Jae Pil's story fascinated me from the beginning. I don't know what the odds are of the two men meeting the way they did, somehow managing to communicate with each other, and then trusting each other enough to attempt an escape together. Failure means likely death for both of them. So often people claim that such encounters are just coincidences, but here it is clearly a miracle. While the book has been fictionalized to make it easier to tell (the author's note makes it clear where the story was tweaked a bit to help the book move a bit smoother), the main experiences of both men did happen.
In addition, the chapters dedicated to Ward's wife's experiences after finding out her husband was missing highlight her great faith and belief that he was still alive and would be coming back to her. Despite other's efforts to prepare her for the worst, she refused to give up and kept writing letters, even insisting to her husband's commanding officer that he keep the letters for her husband's return.
The faith demonstrated by these individuals is truly inspiring and reinforces my own belief in God and His power to work miracles. As Ward himself realizes, not all receive the miracles they desire, but by exercising faith he, his wife, and Jae Pil receive their miracle. An incredible story of faith, courage, and determination in the face of challenging obstacles. Highly recommended.
Drafted into the North Korean army after a stint in prison for his Christian beliefs, Kim Jae Pil also wants to escape to the south. But he wants to take his family with him. When a chance to slip away from the army arises he returns home to find only his mother waiting for him. As he and his mother make plans to go so south, Jae Pil find himself unwillingly returning to the army with little chance of finding the rest of his family. Despite careful watching, it seems his prayers are going unanswered as weeks go by without any chance to escape.
Despite his difficult circumstances, Ward uses his intelligence to make plans for escape, hoping that his ankles are healing enough to do so. He gathers supplies with the help of some friendly villagers and prepares to slip away before he ends up in a northern POW camp. But the poor medical care he has received and his immobility prove to be a bigger problem than he expected and his first attempt fails miserably.
After escaping, it quickly becomes apparent that he seriously miscalculated his situation. When he encounters Jae Pil and some other soldiers, it seems any hope of a miracle is lost. But the hope in God that both have exercised through nearly constant prayer brings them together and hope may not be entirely lost. But time is running out and options are few. It will take all the ingenuity and faith the two men can muster to find a way to freedom.
Ward and Jae Pil's story fascinated me from the beginning. I don't know what the odds are of the two men meeting the way they did, somehow managing to communicate with each other, and then trusting each other enough to attempt an escape together. Failure means likely death for both of them. So often people claim that such encounters are just coincidences, but here it is clearly a miracle. While the book has been fictionalized to make it easier to tell (the author's note makes it clear where the story was tweaked a bit to help the book move a bit smoother), the main experiences of both men did happen.
In addition, the chapters dedicated to Ward's wife's experiences after finding out her husband was missing highlight her great faith and belief that he was still alive and would be coming back to her. Despite other's efforts to prepare her for the worst, she refused to give up and kept writing letters, even insisting to her husband's commanding officer that he keep the letters for her husband's return.
The faith demonstrated by these individuals is truly inspiring and reinforces my own belief in God and His power to work miracles. As Ward himself realizes, not all receive the miracles they desire, but by exercising faith he, his wife, and Jae Pil receive their miracle. An incredible story of faith, courage, and determination in the face of challenging obstacles. Highly recommended.
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June 1, 2022
#BookRevew: PRAYING WITH THE ENEMY by Steven T. Collis
I know so little about the Korean War. The varying ideologies, communism and capitalism, and the way of life in North Korea were fascinating to read. I even learned a thing or two about military stuff. The author’s note explained which one was true and which one was fiction in the story.
Ward’s future was unknown to him. He wasn’t a believer but through his wife’s faith, he tried to hold on to it. That tiny cross stick he made was sentimental. He experienced a lot of pain with his broken ankles. I still can’t believe how he survived it all. I appreciated that Ward, Ward’s wife and Jae Pil had their own POVs. It gave me a glimpse of their inner thoughts and feelings during that turbulent time in their lives.
In intense situations, it was captivating how Ward and Jae Pil communicated. Wow! God for sure helped them understand each other through actions and drawings. They are not perfect human beings. They had their own fears and their faith even wavered. But they worked well together which was to their advantage. God was with them this whole time.
Overall this was a very compelling story. Be ready for some bombings and violence which was a reality during the war. A little slow at times but there was enough suspense and hope to make it through till the end. Ward’s resilience, tactics and his new found faith helped him through his whole ordeal. It was amazing. We have to keep on trusting God and His perfect plan for us.
If you like inspirational war stories, this one’s for you.
Rating: 4.8 stars
Pub date: 07 Jun 2022
Thank you Shadow Mountain Publishing for the complimentary copy. All opinions expressed are my own.
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I know so little about the Korean War. The varying ideologies, communism and capitalism, and the way of life in North Korea were fascinating to read. I even learned a thing or two about military stuff. The author’s note explained which one was true and which one was fiction in the story.
Ward’s future was unknown to him. He wasn’t a believer but through his wife’s faith, he tried to hold on to it. That tiny cross stick he made was sentimental. He experienced a lot of pain with his broken ankles. I still can’t believe how he survived it all. I appreciated that Ward, Ward’s wife and Jae Pil had their own POVs. It gave me a glimpse of their inner thoughts and feelings during that turbulent time in their lives.
In intense situations, it was captivating how Ward and Jae Pil communicated. Wow! God for sure helped them understand each other through actions and drawings. They are not perfect human beings. They had their own fears and their faith even wavered. But they worked well together which was to their advantage. God was with them this whole time.
Overall this was a very compelling story. Be ready for some bombings and violence which was a reality during the war. A little slow at times but there was enough suspense and hope to make it through till the end. Ward’s resilience, tactics and his new found faith helped him through his whole ordeal. It was amazing. We have to keep on trusting God and His perfect plan for us.
If you like inspirational war stories, this one’s for you.
Rating: 4.8 stars
Pub date: 07 Jun 2022
Thank you Shadow Mountain Publishing for the complimentary copy. All opinions expressed are my own.
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July 28, 2022
Praying With the Enemy is a Historical Fiction novel based on the true story of an American POW during the Korean War. I was especially interested in this time period because my dad served in the army during the Korean War. Author Steven Collis has written an engrossing story that pulls readers in from the start. It's hard to think of the pain and agony pilot Captain Ward Millar went through as he ejected from his plane snapping both of his ankles in the process. Ward was a man of very little faith at the beginning of this experience. Near the end, though he came to rely on the faith of his beloved wife Barbara and his new reliance on God. Readers also get some chapters from Barbara's perspective and how she never gave up on believing that her husband was still alive.
We also meet North Korean soldier Kim Jae Pil who wants nothing more than to worship God and live peacefully with his family. Kim was forced into becoming a soldier for the Communist North Korean army. The novel shifts between the perspective of Ward, Barbara, and Kim displaying their trials and how eventually their paths cross. Divine intervention brought these two men together, who by this time shared the same belief in a higher power. The courage and the fortitude of both men were extraordinary. Reading about war and the fallout can oftentimes be hard for most people. It brings to light how hard war is on soldiers and the common people, and how we should be more appreciative of the freedoms we enjoy, and need to show gratitude for those who fought for that freedom.
This well-written novel will keep you in suspense hoping and waiting for Captain Millar to be rescued and Kim Jae Pil to gain his freedom. I also enjoyed reading the afterword of Ward and Kim's life and the pictures provided of the men and their families. Historical Fiction readers will immerse themselves in this incredible story of bravery, faith, and ingenuity.
We also meet North Korean soldier Kim Jae Pil who wants nothing more than to worship God and live peacefully with his family. Kim was forced into becoming a soldier for the Communist North Korean army. The novel shifts between the perspective of Ward, Barbara, and Kim displaying their trials and how eventually their paths cross. Divine intervention brought these two men together, who by this time shared the same belief in a higher power. The courage and the fortitude of both men were extraordinary. Reading about war and the fallout can oftentimes be hard for most people. It brings to light how hard war is on soldiers and the common people, and how we should be more appreciative of the freedoms we enjoy, and need to show gratitude for those who fought for that freedom.
This well-written novel will keep you in suspense hoping and waiting for Captain Millar to be rescued and Kim Jae Pil to gain his freedom. I also enjoyed reading the afterword of Ward and Kim's life and the pictures provided of the men and their families. Historical Fiction readers will immerse themselves in this incredible story of bravery, faith, and ingenuity.
June 8, 2022
This book really highlights two of my favorite things when reading. Historical fiction and based on a true story. I love when those two genres meet! I haven't read a lot about the Korean War- some, but not a lot. I know the basics but this story really brought home the feelings of that war and what all the people affected by it must have felt.
I enjoyed the differing perspectives- mostly Ward Millar and Kim Jae Pil, but we also got Ward's wife and a couple others. This story was engaging and easy to settle into. I read through it quickly. The pictures at the end of the book were awesome- I love getting to see the real people! Ward Millar and Kim Jae Pil were both so courageous, so smart. They were always thinking, always trying to overcome the poor circumstances they were dealt.
Overall, for me, this was a great read. I really love historical fiction and this author did a good job of setting the story up beautifully in my head.
Content: war time violence, POW experiences, peril. Talk of God, praying and faith.
- I received a complimentary copy of this book. All opinions expressed are my own.
I enjoyed the differing perspectives- mostly Ward Millar and Kim Jae Pil, but we also got Ward's wife and a couple others. This story was engaging and easy to settle into. I read through it quickly. The pictures at the end of the book were awesome- I love getting to see the real people! Ward Millar and Kim Jae Pil were both so courageous, so smart. They were always thinking, always trying to overcome the poor circumstances they were dealt.
Overall, for me, this was a great read. I really love historical fiction and this author did a good job of setting the story up beautifully in my head.
Content: war time violence, POW experiences, peril. Talk of God, praying and faith.
- I received a complimentary copy of this book. All opinions expressed are my own.
July 9, 2022
I don't know enough about the Korean War...
This book helped some. I am so impressed with those who serve in the armed forces. Their drive, faith, and hope for the future are amazing.
This book is a fictional telling of Ward Millar's real plane crash, experiences as a POW, and miraculous rescue interwoven with the Christian Korean soldier who was guided to help along the way.
Great writing and gripping story.
This book helped some. I am so impressed with those who serve in the armed forces. Their drive, faith, and hope for the future are amazing.
This book is a fictional telling of Ward Millar's real plane crash, experiences as a POW, and miraculous rescue interwoven with the Christian Korean soldier who was guided to help along the way.
Great writing and gripping story.
September 15, 2022
Knowing this is based on a true story makes me in awe. The retelling of it was told in a great way. It was detailed and gripping. It was surprising. The only thing I didn’t like was the use of so many random words I had never heard of. They didn’t fit the narrative.
August 21, 2024
Ward Mullard was an Air Force Pilot during the Korean War. During a bombing raid he had to eject a burning plane. He broke his ankles during ejection and he couldn't walk. He was captured by the North Korean Army, they didn't just straightened his feet and wrapped them pointed down. If he could walk he would have to tippy toe or drag his body. He kept trying to escape. A North Korean soldier helped him escape, after signaling the American jets, they were finally picked up by a helicopter. This is a wonderful story of faith and prayer and a lot of anxious moments.
June 29, 2022
I loved this book. It is a true story and is powerful. It is amazing to me what people can live through.
August 13, 2023
This is based on a true story. Truly captivating. I had a hard time putting it down. Thank you for sharing their story. ❤️
August 7, 2025
This book really pulls you in. Expect to encounter crash landings, POW camps, faith, and miracles, among other things in this read.
June 20, 2022
I love books like this! Steven T Collis is great at writing a great story. This one is based on a true story. And it’s such a great book!
Ward Millar is a jet flying captain in the Korean War. He gets shot down and captured. His story is amazing. I loved the way he was able to use prayer, when he didn’t even necessarily believe in it. Prayer can bring many miracles. And his story is nothing short of miraculous.
I loved the way the author had a point of view from Kim Jae Pil as well. He’s just a normal North Korean soldier. But he doesn’t want to be there. He was courageous and he escaped the army. When he got pulled back in the paths of these two God-fearing men collide. I loved his courage and trust in God, even when he had no reason to believe things would be okay.
This book kept me interested and intrigued. I loved the way the author wrote it. Such a great book and a great story!
I was sent a copy of Praying with the Enemy by the publisher. All opinions are my own.
Ward Millar is a jet flying captain in the Korean War. He gets shot down and captured. His story is amazing. I loved the way he was able to use prayer, when he didn’t even necessarily believe in it. Prayer can bring many miracles. And his story is nothing short of miraculous.
I loved the way the author had a point of view from Kim Jae Pil as well. He’s just a normal North Korean soldier. But he doesn’t want to be there. He was courageous and he escaped the army. When he got pulled back in the paths of these two God-fearing men collide. I loved his courage and trust in God, even when he had no reason to believe things would be okay.
This book kept me interested and intrigued. I loved the way the author wrote it. Such a great book and a great story!
I was sent a copy of Praying with the Enemy by the publisher. All opinions are my own.
February 6, 2022
A suspenseful page turner, Praying with the Enemy is inspiring and action packed. Author Steven T. Collis tells an improbable but true story of friendship and faith - a downed American Air Force pilot finds friendship and hope in the Korean people he meets while imprisoned during the Korean War. The author weaves in an intellectual examination of the two sides in the war, the impact of war on civilians, and the perils of both communism and capitalism. Collis’ characters experience and profess Christianity without cloying or canned sentimentality. On the whole, a delight to read.
August 16, 2025
This is a hard story to read, but also nice to see that even in the middle of a war and enemies, there are still friends and faith and God. It's based on the true story of a North Korean soldier and an American pilot who was captured after his plane crashed in North Korea during the Korean War. They end up working together to both get to safety. It's a story of perseverance, trust, friendship, and hope. Here are some quotes I liked:
"He was tired of putting his life in danger because the Communists felt the need to invade every free country in the world--if their ideas were so great, why didn't they just let them spread of their own brilliance rather than forcing them down the world's throat like a pathetic bully? (p. 1)"
"The U.S. military mobilized to defend the South, and Ward got the call to fight in another war (p. 2)."
"In minutes, they would soar over Seoul, then across enemy lines (p. 3)."
"In that moment where time seemed to slow to a crawl, Ward's mind did what it always did: it started calculating, dancing through probabilities. Life was one big mathematical problem, and with enough thought, with enough careful calculations, if he understood all the variables, there wasn't a problem he couldn't solve through rational thought (p. 7)."
"The details matter--someone, somewhere had failed to engineer this right, and now his life was in jeopardy (p. 8)."
"'I'm bailing.'... 'Let's get on the emergency channel and get help' (p. 9)."
"Kim Jae Pil didn't know why God had allowed him to languish in this camp... But he knew it must be for a reason. As long as Jae Pil could remember, he had been certain that God would turn the suffering of His children to His purposes, and for their good... He kept on believing... When the Americans and Soviets divided his country in half... he believed. When the Communists took over the North and his home province... he believed... When the Communists started coming after Christians... he believed... God would provide... God worked in all sorts of mysterious ways (p. 12)."
"Through all the smoke and flames, a tunnel appeared like a gift (p. 18)."
"His plane was gone... he had bailed over enemy territory; Chinese and North Korean soldiers were probably already closing in on this American floating through the sky like a gift (p. 21)."
"Both of his feet were bent... The ejection explosion must have broken them. Why wasn't he feeling the pain? Shouldn't they hurt? (p. 23)"
"Get as far away from the parachute as you can (p. 25)."
"If any of them had survived the Americans' air raid, they wouldn't care about catching Jae Pil... God might part the sea, but He wasn't going to keep the walls of water at bay forever for someone who refused to march through quickly (p. 28)."
"'Why are you here... how?' 'There was a way for me to come.'... 'Where's father?'... 'They went south... You have to go with them.'... 'They took me from the mail, mother. They trained me and told me I had to fight in the army or they would kill me. It was my only choice.'... 'I told them I would wait... for you, and we would follow them' (p. 30)."
"A number of random thoughts flew across his consciousness as he waited for whatever hand fate would deal him: Barbara and their honeymoon in Monterey; little Adrian first learning to crawl (p. 35)."
"The Japanese, Chinese, Koreans--each had their own unique cultures, customs, and even facial features.... He felt an anger toward the Chinese. This war should have been over. The North had attacked the South... General MacArthur had led the UN troops in response, and they had routed the North all the way back... That should have been the end of it. Then the Chinese joined the fray and everything escalated again (p. 36)."
"The man carrying Ward tossed him from his back like a sack (p. 40)."
"'Americans are very bad. They should be killed' (p. 41)."
"She was convinced that the Americans would eventually win, and if they just stayed quiet and avoided battles, eventually the Communists would give up, and the Chinese would retreat (p. 44)."
"'You have heard they are killing Christians who will not bow to the shrine?' (p. 45)"
"After he donned the North Korean uniform once again... their eyes met... We were given this time; wasn't that a blessing enough? (p. 48)"
"Ward prepared for the bullet that would end him (p. 52)."
"Where was he? What drugs had the Communists given him? How was it possible to feel this good? Everything that had happened since his capture was a blur (p. 52)."
"'I don't like the strange silence between us. I love you' (p. 54)."
"He needed to provide value. So he would give them what they perceived as precious--information (p. 57)."
"She put her hand to her mouth, then let out a sob and flung herself onto her parents' sofa. If she'd felt she couldn't breathe when Ward had received orders to ship out, now it seemed all the oxygen in the world, and all the light with it, had been sucked away (p. 63)."
"It didn't help that the army had found him hiding out in his village after every able-bodied young man had already been forced into service. It made things worse that, somewhere, on some list, he was a known Christian who came from a family of Christians (p. 64)."
"Ward was missing in action (p. 70)."
"She knew Ward was alive because the universe was telling her Ward was alive. She still felt her connection to him. It was so palpable and real it might as well have been a tangible cord connecting her body to his (p. 71)."
"'Your system always results in a favored class and a poor class. And the favored class exploits the poor for its gain. The rich become richer, and the poor become poorer. Our system will ensure everyone is equal. We will all rise together' (p. 75)."
"'Please do not return my letters to me. Ward will return, and when he does, I want him to find all my letters waiting for him. I want him to know he was not forgotten. You have no proof that he is dead, and I am certain he will either escape or be released back into your charge. Sincerely, Barbara Millar' (p. 79)"
"What the Communists offered seemed not just plausible, but beneficial: equality for everyone; no overlords like the Japanese hoarding all the country's resources only for themselves; the government working for the people and assuring everyone received an equal share of the land's bounty; no exploitation of workers; free healthcare and food and education for all... Then, the Communists had marched into his village to put it into practice... Kim Il Sung had been chosen as the new leader of the North (p. 82)."
"He had spent all night thinking about the lack of medical care. His captors didn't need to torture him or execute him; they could just let him die from the infection (p. 87)."
"He took no joy in killing anyone, even the Communists (p. 92)."
"Just five years earlier, all Koreans had been united in their hatred of the Japanese, but now they were fighting against each other (p. 93)."
"Ward spewed as many made-up facts as he could; if he knew something had already been made public, he offered that as precisely as he could... For Ward's cooperation, Kang continued to reward him with rice and water (p. 101)."
"For the first time in his life, he felt a nudge within him, an impulse fighting to emerge. It was the desire to pray. A need, really, to thank his creator for saving his life. It occurred to him, in that moment of gratitude, that he knew precisely no formal prayers. He just spoke to God in his mind, an informal conversation, like two friends (p. 103)."
"In his mind, he recited the prayers, while simultaneously giving thanks--for the miracles that had kept him alive, for the chance of coming into the orbit of Lester and Thomas, for Barbara and Adrian, for living another day when the time of so many was not extended (p. 105)."
"'We fix your legs... This is hospital... You stay here until you heal. Then you go to POW camp or Pyongyang' (p. 114)."
"God helps those who help themselves (p. 117)."
"With his seeming devotion to the Communist cause, Pak was never going to let Jae Pil slink away (p. 119)."
"Day after day, week after work, he worried about saying the wrong thing (p. 123)."
"Ward had never been one for despair, but these past days it had been creeping over him like a growing moss (p. 124)."
"Ward remembered the Korean word for 'friend'... 'chingu' (p. 126)."
"Ho turned out to be precisely what Ward needed. Ho hated the Communists, who, as far as Ward could tell, had taken everything from the little village (p. 127)."
"'Boy go with you' (p. 131)."
"Ward was forcing himself to breathe (p. 144)."
"Assuming Ho had survived the night, Ward simply couldn't risk placing the boy in more danger (p. 145)."
"Why this order now? He just didn't understand it. Why would God have led him all the way to this place, so close to freedom, only to snatch back that blessing at the last possible moment (p. 148)?"
"He would become just another prisoner in a country filled with them. The reality of it pummeled him. It was so simple. God was not going to help him escape. He felt it profoundly: the silence of the heavens (p. 162)."
"He knew the villagers were helping Ward. It was time to move him somewhere else (p. 169)."
"He... asked for boots, every day. Every night, he prayed. He felt his strength returning (p. 174)."
"'The Japanese used the church to keep the people under control. So do the Americans. What better way to force people to do your bidding than to convince all of them to assemble in churches, then tell them how they must behave. The masses follow it' (p. 177)."
"Ward lay back down. And, suddenly, he found himself alone in a hut with no guard. He could simply walk out into the night. Not now, he thought, not quite yet. But soon. After the medic made his final check, he would slip out into the darkness (p. 184)."
"Ward felt he was far enough away, but he was exposed. He needed shelter (p. 191)."
"Kang liked their vision. And he wanted to be a part of it. Now, this one American would ruin everything (p. 201)."
"He dropped to his knees and in the cool grass next to the grave, he offered his prayers again, begging, hoping, pleading, that when he reached the mountaintop, his path would be made clear (p. 205)."
"'He was convinced that what kept him alive was that he avoided self-pity. He decided to focus on serving his fellow patients and never on his own problems. And he was convinced that was what kept him alive. The others died because they gave up hope; he refused. He was stubborn and wanted to live' (p. 211)."
"He could move, or he could die. The decision was that simple (p. 212)."
"More discouraging was the fact that God seemed uninterested in answering his prayers (p. 217)."
"It was time to act (p. 238)."
"Jae Pil was a useful ally, and Ward was, essentially, abandoning him (p. 247)."
"He asked God for a miracle (p. 252)."
"'War throws a lot of people. They see things no one should ever have to see. They lose people they should never have to lose. Seems like the only thing they can plan on is that they can't plan on anything' (p. 258)."
"How could he have fooled himself into thinking this would work? (p. 261)"
"The Joint Operations Center knew he was here. They were scrambling planes. A helicopter couldn't be far behind. The only question was whether he and Jae Pil could last (p. 281)."
"Ward watched North Korea vanish beneath him (p. 284)."
"'I am your prisoner now' (p. 285)."
"'You were right, sweetheart... They found him. He's rescued' (p. 288)."
"'YOUR HUSBAND CAPT WARD M MILLAR A076614 HAS BEEN RETURNED TO FRIENDLY FORCES ON TENTH SEPTEMBER. HE IS WELL AND WRITING DETAILS' (p. 289)."
"Neither group accepted Jae Pil. The Communists had accused him of treason and treachery (p. 297)."
"He would use the money to construct a church (p. 299)."
"Kim Jae Pil continued to build his church in South Korea and remained dedicated to it and his family. He eventually married and raised a family of his own. His faith never wavered. As for his mother, father, sister, and grandfather, he never saw them again. That was the plight of millions of Koreans after the North's invasion. To this day, many families look forward to unification (p. 302)."
"I'm... thankful to Jae Pil's family for trusting an American with their story (p. 308)."
"He was tired of putting his life in danger because the Communists felt the need to invade every free country in the world--if their ideas were so great, why didn't they just let them spread of their own brilliance rather than forcing them down the world's throat like a pathetic bully? (p. 1)"
"The U.S. military mobilized to defend the South, and Ward got the call to fight in another war (p. 2)."
"In minutes, they would soar over Seoul, then across enemy lines (p. 3)."
"In that moment where time seemed to slow to a crawl, Ward's mind did what it always did: it started calculating, dancing through probabilities. Life was one big mathematical problem, and with enough thought, with enough careful calculations, if he understood all the variables, there wasn't a problem he couldn't solve through rational thought (p. 7)."
"The details matter--someone, somewhere had failed to engineer this right, and now his life was in jeopardy (p. 8)."
"'I'm bailing.'... 'Let's get on the emergency channel and get help' (p. 9)."
"Kim Jae Pil didn't know why God had allowed him to languish in this camp... But he knew it must be for a reason. As long as Jae Pil could remember, he had been certain that God would turn the suffering of His children to His purposes, and for their good... He kept on believing... When the Americans and Soviets divided his country in half... he believed. When the Communists took over the North and his home province... he believed... When the Communists started coming after Christians... he believed... God would provide... God worked in all sorts of mysterious ways (p. 12)."
"Through all the smoke and flames, a tunnel appeared like a gift (p. 18)."
"His plane was gone... he had bailed over enemy territory; Chinese and North Korean soldiers were probably already closing in on this American floating through the sky like a gift (p. 21)."
"Both of his feet were bent... The ejection explosion must have broken them. Why wasn't he feeling the pain? Shouldn't they hurt? (p. 23)"
"Get as far away from the parachute as you can (p. 25)."
"If any of them had survived the Americans' air raid, they wouldn't care about catching Jae Pil... God might part the sea, but He wasn't going to keep the walls of water at bay forever for someone who refused to march through quickly (p. 28)."
"'Why are you here... how?' 'There was a way for me to come.'... 'Where's father?'... 'They went south... You have to go with them.'... 'They took me from the mail, mother. They trained me and told me I had to fight in the army or they would kill me. It was my only choice.'... 'I told them I would wait... for you, and we would follow them' (p. 30)."
"A number of random thoughts flew across his consciousness as he waited for whatever hand fate would deal him: Barbara and their honeymoon in Monterey; little Adrian first learning to crawl (p. 35)."
"The Japanese, Chinese, Koreans--each had their own unique cultures, customs, and even facial features.... He felt an anger toward the Chinese. This war should have been over. The North had attacked the South... General MacArthur had led the UN troops in response, and they had routed the North all the way back... That should have been the end of it. Then the Chinese joined the fray and everything escalated again (p. 36)."
"The man carrying Ward tossed him from his back like a sack (p. 40)."
"'Americans are very bad. They should be killed' (p. 41)."
"She was convinced that the Americans would eventually win, and if they just stayed quiet and avoided battles, eventually the Communists would give up, and the Chinese would retreat (p. 44)."
"'You have heard they are killing Christians who will not bow to the shrine?' (p. 45)"
"After he donned the North Korean uniform once again... their eyes met... We were given this time; wasn't that a blessing enough? (p. 48)"
"Ward prepared for the bullet that would end him (p. 52)."
"Where was he? What drugs had the Communists given him? How was it possible to feel this good? Everything that had happened since his capture was a blur (p. 52)."
"'I don't like the strange silence between us. I love you' (p. 54)."
"He needed to provide value. So he would give them what they perceived as precious--information (p. 57)."
"She put her hand to her mouth, then let out a sob and flung herself onto her parents' sofa. If she'd felt she couldn't breathe when Ward had received orders to ship out, now it seemed all the oxygen in the world, and all the light with it, had been sucked away (p. 63)."
"It didn't help that the army had found him hiding out in his village after every able-bodied young man had already been forced into service. It made things worse that, somewhere, on some list, he was a known Christian who came from a family of Christians (p. 64)."
"Ward was missing in action (p. 70)."
"She knew Ward was alive because the universe was telling her Ward was alive. She still felt her connection to him. It was so palpable and real it might as well have been a tangible cord connecting her body to his (p. 71)."
"'Your system always results in a favored class and a poor class. And the favored class exploits the poor for its gain. The rich become richer, and the poor become poorer. Our system will ensure everyone is equal. We will all rise together' (p. 75)."
"'Please do not return my letters to me. Ward will return, and when he does, I want him to find all my letters waiting for him. I want him to know he was not forgotten. You have no proof that he is dead, and I am certain he will either escape or be released back into your charge. Sincerely, Barbara Millar' (p. 79)"
"What the Communists offered seemed not just plausible, but beneficial: equality for everyone; no overlords like the Japanese hoarding all the country's resources only for themselves; the government working for the people and assuring everyone received an equal share of the land's bounty; no exploitation of workers; free healthcare and food and education for all... Then, the Communists had marched into his village to put it into practice... Kim Il Sung had been chosen as the new leader of the North (p. 82)."
"He had spent all night thinking about the lack of medical care. His captors didn't need to torture him or execute him; they could just let him die from the infection (p. 87)."
"He took no joy in killing anyone, even the Communists (p. 92)."
"Just five years earlier, all Koreans had been united in their hatred of the Japanese, but now they were fighting against each other (p. 93)."
"Ward spewed as many made-up facts as he could; if he knew something had already been made public, he offered that as precisely as he could... For Ward's cooperation, Kang continued to reward him with rice and water (p. 101)."
"For the first time in his life, he felt a nudge within him, an impulse fighting to emerge. It was the desire to pray. A need, really, to thank his creator for saving his life. It occurred to him, in that moment of gratitude, that he knew precisely no formal prayers. He just spoke to God in his mind, an informal conversation, like two friends (p. 103)."
"In his mind, he recited the prayers, while simultaneously giving thanks--for the miracles that had kept him alive, for the chance of coming into the orbit of Lester and Thomas, for Barbara and Adrian, for living another day when the time of so many was not extended (p. 105)."
"'We fix your legs... This is hospital... You stay here until you heal. Then you go to POW camp or Pyongyang' (p. 114)."
"God helps those who help themselves (p. 117)."
"With his seeming devotion to the Communist cause, Pak was never going to let Jae Pil slink away (p. 119)."
"Day after day, week after work, he worried about saying the wrong thing (p. 123)."
"Ward had never been one for despair, but these past days it had been creeping over him like a growing moss (p. 124)."
"Ward remembered the Korean word for 'friend'... 'chingu' (p. 126)."
"Ho turned out to be precisely what Ward needed. Ho hated the Communists, who, as far as Ward could tell, had taken everything from the little village (p. 127)."
"'Boy go with you' (p. 131)."
"Ward was forcing himself to breathe (p. 144)."
"Assuming Ho had survived the night, Ward simply couldn't risk placing the boy in more danger (p. 145)."
"Why this order now? He just didn't understand it. Why would God have led him all the way to this place, so close to freedom, only to snatch back that blessing at the last possible moment (p. 148)?"
"He would become just another prisoner in a country filled with them. The reality of it pummeled him. It was so simple. God was not going to help him escape. He felt it profoundly: the silence of the heavens (p. 162)."
"He knew the villagers were helping Ward. It was time to move him somewhere else (p. 169)."
"He... asked for boots, every day. Every night, he prayed. He felt his strength returning (p. 174)."
"'The Japanese used the church to keep the people under control. So do the Americans. What better way to force people to do your bidding than to convince all of them to assemble in churches, then tell them how they must behave. The masses follow it' (p. 177)."
"Ward lay back down. And, suddenly, he found himself alone in a hut with no guard. He could simply walk out into the night. Not now, he thought, not quite yet. But soon. After the medic made his final check, he would slip out into the darkness (p. 184)."
"Ward felt he was far enough away, but he was exposed. He needed shelter (p. 191)."
"Kang liked their vision. And he wanted to be a part of it. Now, this one American would ruin everything (p. 201)."
"He dropped to his knees and in the cool grass next to the grave, he offered his prayers again, begging, hoping, pleading, that when he reached the mountaintop, his path would be made clear (p. 205)."
"'He was convinced that what kept him alive was that he avoided self-pity. He decided to focus on serving his fellow patients and never on his own problems. And he was convinced that was what kept him alive. The others died because they gave up hope; he refused. He was stubborn and wanted to live' (p. 211)."
"He could move, or he could die. The decision was that simple (p. 212)."
"More discouraging was the fact that God seemed uninterested in answering his prayers (p. 217)."
"It was time to act (p. 238)."
"Jae Pil was a useful ally, and Ward was, essentially, abandoning him (p. 247)."
"He asked God for a miracle (p. 252)."
"'War throws a lot of people. They see things no one should ever have to see. They lose people they should never have to lose. Seems like the only thing they can plan on is that they can't plan on anything' (p. 258)."
"How could he have fooled himself into thinking this would work? (p. 261)"
"The Joint Operations Center knew he was here. They were scrambling planes. A helicopter couldn't be far behind. The only question was whether he and Jae Pil could last (p. 281)."
"Ward watched North Korea vanish beneath him (p. 284)."
"'I am your prisoner now' (p. 285)."
"'You were right, sweetheart... They found him. He's rescued' (p. 288)."
"'YOUR HUSBAND CAPT WARD M MILLAR A076614 HAS BEEN RETURNED TO FRIENDLY FORCES ON TENTH SEPTEMBER. HE IS WELL AND WRITING DETAILS' (p. 289)."
"Neither group accepted Jae Pil. The Communists had accused him of treason and treachery (p. 297)."
"He would use the money to construct a church (p. 299)."
"Kim Jae Pil continued to build his church in South Korea and remained dedicated to it and his family. He eventually married and raised a family of his own. His faith never wavered. As for his mother, father, sister, and grandfather, he never saw them again. That was the plight of millions of Koreans after the North's invasion. To this day, many families look forward to unification (p. 302)."
"I'm... thankful to Jae Pil's family for trusting an American with their story (p. 308)."
August 9, 2022
We listened to this book as we were traveling. It is based on true people and events during the Korean War. I think it is well written and it gave me a lot to think about. To me it teaches a lesson about faith and the importance of having patience in the Lords timing. It can take longer than we wish for all the pieces to line up for the final miracle.
April 20, 2022
Flying over North Korea with Napalm explosives. Near-death encounters with Chinese snipers and North Korean soldiers. Staying alive in terrible pits as a Prisoner of War. Missing in Action. Escaping. Challenge of faith in the midst of the horrors of war. Conflicting philosophies. Deceit. Military strategies, and more. Three countries involved in a devastating war that has divided families across the Korean Peninsula. Three different men from each country. These and many more form a pulsating action-packed novel filled with multiple twists and turns. The three protagonists in this novel are Captain Ward Millar (aka Ward), Kim Jae Pil (aka Jae Pil), and to a lesser extent, Lieutenant Kang. All of them are able to speak and communicate in English! The chapters begin by alternating their stories, beginning with Ward as a pilot flying over North Korea during the Korean War in 1951. When his plane crashed landed on enemy territory, though he managed to survive, he broke his ankles making it difficult to even escape.
Jae Pil's story begins with him being drafted to serve in the Communist Army. His family were Christians. The communist party's ideals were constantly at odds with what he and his family believed. His family mission was to build a church and to enable people to worship properly without fear. Unfortunately, living in a land with a godless ideology makes their mission difficult. These constant struggles present Jae Pil with a dilemma to choose between his country or his faith; the Communist Party or God. Eventually, at great risks to his own life, he decides to do what he could to escape from the communists. That begins a gripping journey from a place he felt enslaved to his desired place of freedom. Alas! Even the land of South Korea is not kind to a defector from North Korea.
Lieutenant Kang's character plays the role of the officer in charge of the prisoners of war, in particular, trying to extract sensitive information from Ward. He also uses various forms of torture and threats to get what he wants from the prisoners. The author manages to compress many acts and behaviors of the Chinese soldiers into this one character. His hatred for the American system took root when he was young. He deems the Americans as people who imposed their wills on the Korean people, and he needs to do his part to liberate Korea from such American influences.
Initially, the stories seem to be separated with no association between these two men. Gradually, their paths converged and they worked together in a dangerous escape. The later part of the book becomes an exciting adventure of miraculous events enabling them to escape.
The title of the book gives readers a clue about where the book is headed. Rightly so. Ward and Jae Pil both believe in God, more so for the latter in terms of his own personal and family sacrifices. At least Ward has a family to return to in America. For Jae Pil, it is a painful separation from the family he loves. Collis does a good job in showing us the different perceptions in terms of ideology, faith, and liberation. All are driven by their own sense of good. This reminds me that war in itself is evil, and evil will beget evil. In any war, there is no innocent people. Everyone will have to take a side, and it is often a challenge to choose the lesser of two evils. The Communist have their ideals. The American system of democracy and freedom has their flaws. The Chinese perspective continues to toggle between Communist socialism and modern capitalistic concerns. The truth is that all of these people are human. They are all under God, regardless of whether they acknowledge God or not. In spite of the miracles that Ward and Jae Pil have seen, wars bring about their fair share of horrors and injustice. True freedom only comes when we see our God in heaven.
Based on a true story, Collis tries to stay as faithful as possible to recollections from the families and records of the key characters. As a fiction, this novel is an exciting read. Yet, this novel is inspired from real events, which reminds me once again that sometimes, books of fiction speak more about reality. Collis has given us much food for thought about war, the price of peace, the freedom we cherish, faith, persecution, and sadly, how adversity can bring out the best and worst of humanity.
Steven T. Collis is a law professor at the University of Texas at Austin, founding director of the school's religious freedom clinic, and founding faculty director of Texas's Bech-Laughlin First Amendment Center. He received an MFA in creative writing from Virginia Commonwealth University and graduated from the University of Michigan Law School. He is the author of the nonfiction titles Deep Conviction: True Stories of Ordinary Americans Fighting for the Freedom to Live Their Beliefs and The Immortals: The World War II Story of Five Fearless Heroes, the Sinking of the Dorchester, and an Awe-Inspiring Rescue. He and his wife are parents to four children.
Rating: 4 stars of 5.
conrade
This book has been provided courtesy of Shadow Mountain Publishing and NetGalley without requiring a positive review. All opinions offered above are mine unless otherwise stated or implied.
Jae Pil's story begins with him being drafted to serve in the Communist Army. His family were Christians. The communist party's ideals were constantly at odds with what he and his family believed. His family mission was to build a church and to enable people to worship properly without fear. Unfortunately, living in a land with a godless ideology makes their mission difficult. These constant struggles present Jae Pil with a dilemma to choose between his country or his faith; the Communist Party or God. Eventually, at great risks to his own life, he decides to do what he could to escape from the communists. That begins a gripping journey from a place he felt enslaved to his desired place of freedom. Alas! Even the land of South Korea is not kind to a defector from North Korea.
Lieutenant Kang's character plays the role of the officer in charge of the prisoners of war, in particular, trying to extract sensitive information from Ward. He also uses various forms of torture and threats to get what he wants from the prisoners. The author manages to compress many acts and behaviors of the Chinese soldiers into this one character. His hatred for the American system took root when he was young. He deems the Americans as people who imposed their wills on the Korean people, and he needs to do his part to liberate Korea from such American influences.
Initially, the stories seem to be separated with no association between these two men. Gradually, their paths converged and they worked together in a dangerous escape. The later part of the book becomes an exciting adventure of miraculous events enabling them to escape.
The title of the book gives readers a clue about where the book is headed. Rightly so. Ward and Jae Pil both believe in God, more so for the latter in terms of his own personal and family sacrifices. At least Ward has a family to return to in America. For Jae Pil, it is a painful separation from the family he loves. Collis does a good job in showing us the different perceptions in terms of ideology, faith, and liberation. All are driven by their own sense of good. This reminds me that war in itself is evil, and evil will beget evil. In any war, there is no innocent people. Everyone will have to take a side, and it is often a challenge to choose the lesser of two evils. The Communist have their ideals. The American system of democracy and freedom has their flaws. The Chinese perspective continues to toggle between Communist socialism and modern capitalistic concerns. The truth is that all of these people are human. They are all under God, regardless of whether they acknowledge God or not. In spite of the miracles that Ward and Jae Pil have seen, wars bring about their fair share of horrors and injustice. True freedom only comes when we see our God in heaven.
Based on a true story, Collis tries to stay as faithful as possible to recollections from the families and records of the key characters. As a fiction, this novel is an exciting read. Yet, this novel is inspired from real events, which reminds me once again that sometimes, books of fiction speak more about reality. Collis has given us much food for thought about war, the price of peace, the freedom we cherish, faith, persecution, and sadly, how adversity can bring out the best and worst of humanity.
Steven T. Collis is a law professor at the University of Texas at Austin, founding director of the school's religious freedom clinic, and founding faculty director of Texas's Bech-Laughlin First Amendment Center. He received an MFA in creative writing from Virginia Commonwealth University and graduated from the University of Michigan Law School. He is the author of the nonfiction titles Deep Conviction: True Stories of Ordinary Americans Fighting for the Freedom to Live Their Beliefs and The Immortals: The World War II Story of Five Fearless Heroes, the Sinking of the Dorchester, and an Awe-Inspiring Rescue. He and his wife are parents to four children.
Rating: 4 stars of 5.
conrade
This book has been provided courtesy of Shadow Mountain Publishing and NetGalley without requiring a positive review. All opinions offered above are mine unless otherwise stated or implied.
June 6, 2024
2024: Second time reading this one and standing by my initial review. Won’t be the last time I revisit this one!
2022: Already want to read this one again. Any ‘ole review won’t do it justice. A must read.
2022: Already want to read this one again. Any ‘ole review won’t do it justice. A must read.
June 7, 2022
Plot:
It was a routine exercise. Retired from World War Two, Captain Ward Millar stayed in the reserve for a few extra dollars, not realizing how soon America would go to war again. June 11, 1951, Ward was in South Korea, fighting North Korea, thousands of miles away from his wife, Barbara. His goal was to make his required number of flights to return home and stay home. When the end of his plane caught fire, Ward made the terrible choice to eject into enemy territory, rather than die in the sky. Breaking both ankles on impact, Ward waited for the American rescue team to come and pick him up. But they missed him, leaving Ward to be captured by the enemy.
Kim Jae Pil did not want to fight. The North Koreas burned down his church, forced a gun in his hand, and stole his parent's land - all for the good of the people. But how can it be good for their people, if it goes against Jae Pil’s belief? When an American plane crashed, Jae Pil saw it as a time to act as he died in the fires and escaped back to his village. Reuniting with his mother, she said that all their family fled south, but she stayed back waiting for Jae Pil to return. About to take a break for the border, Jae Pil was spotted in the village and questioned why this able-bodied young male was not enlisted. Enlisting under a different name, Jae Pil looked for opportunities to escape.
Thoughts:
Steven Collis wrote this true story of an American pilot, and a Korean soldier, both trying to escape the Korean War. Taken from the third-person perspective of Ward and Jae Pil, Collis does an excellent job narrating the story and making this history book seem lively. Not knowing much about the Korean War, Collis has the North vs. South ideologies displayed beautifully throughout the book, as Jae Pil, our North Korea Soldier, was constantly told about the benefits of communism, and how great the North is, without actually believing it. Reading about Jae Pil's struggle with accepting what his people want, due to how it went against his religion, made the war seem very real. Ward was also an amazing character, who dealt with inhumane things during his time as a prisoner of war, while still keeping faith that he would see his Barbara again. Where this book does not dive into the horrors of war, as the content is pretty clean despite the story premise, Collis does not shy away about what this story is about. Collis really played into the aspect of “when times are harsh, have faith”, as both Ward and Jae Pil turned towards their religion when things got rough. Not that this is a religious text, as Collis plays the line between our characters praying to their god, but then dealing with the trauma around them on their own. The part of the story I did not like is how long it took Ward and Jae Pil’s storyline to overlap. The entire story had these two characters parallel to each other and only began to have them interact within the last fifty pages. Given the title, I figured these characters would have a lot of intense moments together when in reality they only had one or two. Overall, this is an awe-inspiring and memorable story about how two enemies can find faith in each other to overcome the impossible and escape the hell they find themselves in.
It was a routine exercise. Retired from World War Two, Captain Ward Millar stayed in the reserve for a few extra dollars, not realizing how soon America would go to war again. June 11, 1951, Ward was in South Korea, fighting North Korea, thousands of miles away from his wife, Barbara. His goal was to make his required number of flights to return home and stay home. When the end of his plane caught fire, Ward made the terrible choice to eject into enemy territory, rather than die in the sky. Breaking both ankles on impact, Ward waited for the American rescue team to come and pick him up. But they missed him, leaving Ward to be captured by the enemy.
Kim Jae Pil did not want to fight. The North Koreas burned down his church, forced a gun in his hand, and stole his parent's land - all for the good of the people. But how can it be good for their people, if it goes against Jae Pil’s belief? When an American plane crashed, Jae Pil saw it as a time to act as he died in the fires and escaped back to his village. Reuniting with his mother, she said that all their family fled south, but she stayed back waiting for Jae Pil to return. About to take a break for the border, Jae Pil was spotted in the village and questioned why this able-bodied young male was not enlisted. Enlisting under a different name, Jae Pil looked for opportunities to escape.
Thoughts:
Steven Collis wrote this true story of an American pilot, and a Korean soldier, both trying to escape the Korean War. Taken from the third-person perspective of Ward and Jae Pil, Collis does an excellent job narrating the story and making this history book seem lively. Not knowing much about the Korean War, Collis has the North vs. South ideologies displayed beautifully throughout the book, as Jae Pil, our North Korea Soldier, was constantly told about the benefits of communism, and how great the North is, without actually believing it. Reading about Jae Pil's struggle with accepting what his people want, due to how it went against his religion, made the war seem very real. Ward was also an amazing character, who dealt with inhumane things during his time as a prisoner of war, while still keeping faith that he would see his Barbara again. Where this book does not dive into the horrors of war, as the content is pretty clean despite the story premise, Collis does not shy away about what this story is about. Collis really played into the aspect of “when times are harsh, have faith”, as both Ward and Jae Pil turned towards their religion when things got rough. Not that this is a religious text, as Collis plays the line between our characters praying to their god, but then dealing with the trauma around them on their own. The part of the story I did not like is how long it took Ward and Jae Pil’s storyline to overlap. The entire story had these two characters parallel to each other and only began to have them interact within the last fifty pages. Given the title, I figured these characters would have a lot of intense moments together when in reality they only had one or two. Overall, this is an awe-inspiring and memorable story about how two enemies can find faith in each other to overcome the impossible and escape the hell they find themselves in.
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February 26, 2025Steven T. Collis’s Praying With the Enemy is a powerful blend of historical drama, survival narrative, and spiritual reflection. Based on a true story, the novel follows the harrowing experiences of a downed American pilot and a North Korean Christian during the Korean War, whose paths intersect in a way that underscores the themes of faith, humanity, and the unexpected connections forged in times of crisis.
Collis’s background as a writer of faith-driven narratives lends the novel both authenticity and depth. The Korean War is often overshadowed by the conflicts that came before and after it, but Praying With the Enemy brings it to life in a deeply personal way. Rather than focusing on large-scale battles or political maneuvering, the story zooms in on two men Colonel Ward Millar, an American pilot shot down behind enemy lines, and Kim Jae Pil, a North Korean who risks everything to help him. The novel’s title signals one of its central themes: prayer. While this is a book that deals with war, survival, and resistance, it is ultimately a story about faith in action.
Collis excels at building tension, particularly as Millar navigates the brutal realities of being a prisoner of war. Jae Pil’s story is equally compelling, as he balances his faith with the dangers of living under a regime that sees religious belief as a crime. His decision to help Millar is not only courageous but also deeply rooted in his spiritual convictions.
Even readers who do not typically gravitate toward religious themes will likely appreciate how faith is woven into the story. It is not presented as an easy solution to suffering but as a force that sustains both men in their darkest moments.
For readers who enjoy historical fiction, survival narratives, and faith-based stories that do not shy away from the harsh realities of war, this book is an excellent choice. It is both harrowing and uplifting, a reminder that even in the darkest of times, faith and human connection can be powerful forces for good.
For more thoughts on this book, check out my video review: https://youtu.be/AUlMginSqPM
Collis’s background as a writer of faith-driven narratives lends the novel both authenticity and depth. The Korean War is often overshadowed by the conflicts that came before and after it, but Praying With the Enemy brings it to life in a deeply personal way. Rather than focusing on large-scale battles or political maneuvering, the story zooms in on two men Colonel Ward Millar, an American pilot shot down behind enemy lines, and Kim Jae Pil, a North Korean who risks everything to help him. The novel’s title signals one of its central themes: prayer. While this is a book that deals with war, survival, and resistance, it is ultimately a story about faith in action.
Collis excels at building tension, particularly as Millar navigates the brutal realities of being a prisoner of war. Jae Pil’s story is equally compelling, as he balances his faith with the dangers of living under a regime that sees religious belief as a crime. His decision to help Millar is not only courageous but also deeply rooted in his spiritual convictions.
Even readers who do not typically gravitate toward religious themes will likely appreciate how faith is woven into the story. It is not presented as an easy solution to suffering but as a force that sustains both men in their darkest moments.
For readers who enjoy historical fiction, survival narratives, and faith-based stories that do not shy away from the harsh realities of war, this book is an excellent choice. It is both harrowing and uplifting, a reminder that even in the darkest of times, faith and human connection can be powerful forces for good.
For more thoughts on this book, check out my video review: https://youtu.be/AUlMginSqPM
May 29, 2022
Ward is on his thirtieth mission in Korea when things go wrong and he crashes, breaking both ankles. As he spends time in captivity, the urge to escape is strong, but his mobility is almost nonexistent. While trying to stay alive, he begins to think more about God, and ultimately to pray. Despite his wife's faith, he's always denied that God cares about what happens on earth to individuals, but as he looks back over his imprisonment, it's hard to avoid seeing God's hand. Coming from a Christian family, Jae Pil rejoiced in their freedom when the Japanese were kicked out of North Korea. Then the Communists came and freedom was no more than a memory. Impressed into the army, he constantly seeks a chance to escape to South Korea. When he stumbles upon a downed American pilot, is Ward his passport to safety or the thing that will finally get them both killed?
I'm not a huge reader of war books, but the idea of a man growing his faith while in captivity and one of his jailers sharing the same faith while both endeavour to escape sounded interesting. And it was. I think I expected more interaction between the two, so I spent too much time trying to work out when the two storylines would converge, but nevertheless it was a good story. It probably goes without saying that it isn't a light read - prisoners of war aren't known for having easy lives - but it's not so heavy as to bog the reader down in the horror of all Ward experiences. In fact, though there's scope for plenty of graphic detail, there's (thankfully) nothing too descriptive. I particularly appreciated the inclusion of a historical note telling the reader about what's fact and what fiction in the story. All in all, a clean, well written, thought-provoking story based on an amazing incident in the Korean War. It definitely includes Christian themes but doesn't get overly preachy.
Note that I received a complimentary copy of the book from NetGalley. I was not required to write a positive review and this is my considered opinion of the book.
I'm not a huge reader of war books, but the idea of a man growing his faith while in captivity and one of his jailers sharing the same faith while both endeavour to escape sounded interesting. And it was. I think I expected more interaction between the two, so I spent too much time trying to work out when the two storylines would converge, but nevertheless it was a good story. It probably goes without saying that it isn't a light read - prisoners of war aren't known for having easy lives - but it's not so heavy as to bog the reader down in the horror of all Ward experiences. In fact, though there's scope for plenty of graphic detail, there's (thankfully) nothing too descriptive. I particularly appreciated the inclusion of a historical note telling the reader about what's fact and what fiction in the story. All in all, a clean, well written, thought-provoking story based on an amazing incident in the Korean War. It definitely includes Christian themes but doesn't get overly preachy.
Note that I received a complimentary copy of the book from NetGalley. I was not required to write a positive review and this is my considered opinion of the book.
July 5, 2022
4 1/2 stars rounded up. What an amazing story! I loved books based on true stories, and this did not disappoint. Set during the Korean War, we get to know two different characters. A North Korean soldier and an American POW.
Pilot Captain Ward Millar ejects over enemy territory in North Korea. With debilitating injuries, he is easily captured. With no medical attention, his legs do not heal, and he continues to be stuck in all these POW camps. He has multiple attempts at escaping, but each falls through and he is forced to return to the camp (unknown to his captors). His faith stays strong throughout though, and he knows he will do everything within his power and the power of God to return to his family.
North Korean Kim Jae Pil was drafted into the Army. His family has embraced Christianity, but that is unacceptable in North Korea, so they must hide it. He yearns to escape to South Korea and live with more freedom. But being in the Army does not make this escape easy. He manages to defect from the Army, but is reenlisted just a short time later.
Cpt Millar and Kim cross paths and discover a similar faith and purpose, even through the language barrier. We then get to watch as the two attempt a very daring escape.
I loved this story. It was heartbreaking to read about how the Americans treated the Koreans. After living there for 2 years, I came to love the Korean people, so this really was hard to read about. Makes me wish people would just be kind! But overall an encouraging read and I loved watching how the faith of both men helped get them where they needed to be.
Thanks to NetGalley and Shadow Mountain for an ARC in exchange for my honest review.
Pilot Captain Ward Millar ejects over enemy territory in North Korea. With debilitating injuries, he is easily captured. With no medical attention, his legs do not heal, and he continues to be stuck in all these POW camps. He has multiple attempts at escaping, but each falls through and he is forced to return to the camp (unknown to his captors). His faith stays strong throughout though, and he knows he will do everything within his power and the power of God to return to his family.
North Korean Kim Jae Pil was drafted into the Army. His family has embraced Christianity, but that is unacceptable in North Korea, so they must hide it. He yearns to escape to South Korea and live with more freedom. But being in the Army does not make this escape easy. He manages to defect from the Army, but is reenlisted just a short time later.
Cpt Millar and Kim cross paths and discover a similar faith and purpose, even through the language barrier. We then get to watch as the two attempt a very daring escape.
I loved this story. It was heartbreaking to read about how the Americans treated the Koreans. After living there for 2 years, I came to love the Korean people, so this really was hard to read about. Makes me wish people would just be kind! But overall an encouraging read and I loved watching how the faith of both men helped get them where they needed to be.
Thanks to NetGalley and Shadow Mountain for an ARC in exchange for my honest review.
February 22, 2023
I wanted to post about Praying with the Enemy today as it’s about a POW from the Korean War, and we just went and visited my husband’s grandfather’s grave who fought in the Korean War. I don’t really know much about the Korean War, but this has definitely piqued my interest and I will be doing some research!
This book was such a riveting read! I read the author’s notes at the end of the book when I was about half way through, and it said he only took liberties with some of the conversations, and meshed a few people into one character, but everything else is really what happened to Ward Millar. 😳
I was on the edge of my seat though most of the book. I’d think he was about to escape, but it wouldn’t work out, then he’s almost escaping again, and then he’s still stuck where he is.
Most if the book would go back and forth between Ward Millar’s perspective and Kim Jae Pil’s perspective - a North Korean Christian who was trying to escape to the south. Interspersed in those was Ward’s wife, and then toward the end of the book Kang - the commander keeping track of Ward - had a few chapters in his perspective.
I would definitely recommend this book to anyone who enjoys a good war based Historical fiction. It focuses mainly on Ward’s escape efforts, it didn’t really seem like the North Koreans were mean or tortured him much, so it’s not graphic that way. The only slightly graphic part was at the beginning when Ward broke both his ankles ejecting from his plane.
Thank you to @shadowmountainpub for an advanced copy of this book. It releases June 7. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
This book was such a riveting read! I read the author’s notes at the end of the book when I was about half way through, and it said he only took liberties with some of the conversations, and meshed a few people into one character, but everything else is really what happened to Ward Millar. 😳
I was on the edge of my seat though most of the book. I’d think he was about to escape, but it wouldn’t work out, then he’s almost escaping again, and then he’s still stuck where he is.
Most if the book would go back and forth between Ward Millar’s perspective and Kim Jae Pil’s perspective - a North Korean Christian who was trying to escape to the south. Interspersed in those was Ward’s wife, and then toward the end of the book Kang - the commander keeping track of Ward - had a few chapters in his perspective.
I would definitely recommend this book to anyone who enjoys a good war based Historical fiction. It focuses mainly on Ward’s escape efforts, it didn’t really seem like the North Koreans were mean or tortured him much, so it’s not graphic that way. The only slightly graphic part was at the beginning when Ward broke both his ankles ejecting from his plane.
Thank you to @shadowmountainpub for an advanced copy of this book. It releases June 7. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
August 25, 2022
My Rating: 4.5 stars!!! What an amazing story!! This book is historical fiction—based on a true story. Captain Ward Millar and Kim Jae Pil should have been enemies, but instead became friends and allies. Captain Millar flew planes for the United States. His plane exploded and he had to eject deep into enemy territory. Kim Jae Pil fought as a soldier for the North Koreans. Kim Jae Pil escaped from the front once but had to go back into service when the North Koreans found him. Neither man was where he wanted to be—behind the North Korean line. Both men had a glimmer of faith and a desire to be free.
Praying with the Enemy is written so well! I love Mr. Collis’ writing style in this book—it hooked me from the very beginning. His writing flows well, is easy to read and understand, and his descriptions make it seem as if you are sitting in a disgusting POW camp right next to Captain Millar. Collis also has amazing character development in this book. Although this book is fiction, it’s based on a true story. Collis’ research shows through and it’s apparent he knows a lot about this story.
I loved this book! I learned a lot about the Korean War and about the power of hope and faith. Once I started Praying with the Enemy, I could not put it down! It kept me engaged and turning pages until I finished it. It’s so good! I would rate it PG-13 and recommend it for ages 16+. You may read my full review on my book blog: thereadathon.com.
Praying with the Enemy is written so well! I love Mr. Collis’ writing style in this book—it hooked me from the very beginning. His writing flows well, is easy to read and understand, and his descriptions make it seem as if you are sitting in a disgusting POW camp right next to Captain Millar. Collis also has amazing character development in this book. Although this book is fiction, it’s based on a true story. Collis’ research shows through and it’s apparent he knows a lot about this story.
I loved this book! I learned a lot about the Korean War and about the power of hope and faith. Once I started Praying with the Enemy, I could not put it down! It kept me engaged and turning pages until I finished it. It’s so good! I would rate it PG-13 and recommend it for ages 16+. You may read my full review on my book blog: thereadathon.com.
January 25, 2022
A compelling true, life story of a POW finding faith and hope.
Ward Millar, a pilot in the Korean war has his plane malfunction and catch fire forcing him to bail out over North Korea. He is quickly captured quickly hiding his wedding ring, an act that would become a source of comfort through his suffering. Through multiple miracles that his life is saved time and again. His wife having endured his leaving for combat has a connection to him and even though she is informed of his missing status she feels sure that he will return. It seems ironic that a Korean officer is determined that he will be executed, while he is saved by the Chinese command more than once. Many of the North Korean army are sure that they will prevail because of the “rightness” of the communist ideal and that it is only a matter of time before the war is won. Surprisingly it is a Korean, Kim Jae Pil who will come to his aid. Miller, who was not religious before his capture, had fashioned a small cross with a pair of sticks and it is seeing that cross that that brings Kim Jae Pil to want help Miller while he is seeking a way to the south and freedom. This story is riveting and will keep you involved as you wonder how he will ever survive. Thanks to the publisher and Netgalley for the copy. This is my review and all thoughts are my own.
Ward Millar, a pilot in the Korean war has his plane malfunction and catch fire forcing him to bail out over North Korea. He is quickly captured quickly hiding his wedding ring, an act that would become a source of comfort through his suffering. Through multiple miracles that his life is saved time and again. His wife having endured his leaving for combat has a connection to him and even though she is informed of his missing status she feels sure that he will return. It seems ironic that a Korean officer is determined that he will be executed, while he is saved by the Chinese command more than once. Many of the North Korean army are sure that they will prevail because of the “rightness” of the communist ideal and that it is only a matter of time before the war is won. Surprisingly it is a Korean, Kim Jae Pil who will come to his aid. Miller, who was not religious before his capture, had fashioned a small cross with a pair of sticks and it is seeing that cross that that brings Kim Jae Pil to want help Miller while he is seeking a way to the south and freedom. This story is riveting and will keep you involved as you wonder how he will ever survive. Thanks to the publisher and Netgalley for the copy. This is my review and all thoughts are my own.
June 12, 2022
People who don’t like war books will still like this book
This is a novel based on an incredible true story. While living in Korea many years ago, the author learned about an American pilot during the Korean War who escaped along with a North Korean Christian. He thought people needed to know about these two amazing men, so he visited with the families of Ward Millar and Kim Jae Pil to learn the details of their experiences.
The stories of of Kim Jae Pil, Ward Millar, and Ward’s wife Barbara Millar, are told in alternating chapters in this book. Kim Jae Pil, a North Korean Christian, was forced to fight in the army but wanted to escape to the South. He was looking for his father, sister, and grandfather and hoped to go back for his mother too. Ward Millar, a jet pilot in the Air Force, was captured as a POW in North Korea. If that wasn’t bad enough, both of his ankles were badly broken when he ejected from his plane, preventing him from standing or walking for months. Their paths cross and they help each other miraculously escape. A major theme is faith or the lack of it, and trust in God.
I normally don’t enjoy reading books about war, but I liked this book because it focuses on courage, faith, and perseverance, rather than the violence of war. I didn’t want to stop reading and I love the pictures at the end. This is a good reminder that God is aware of us and will help, and gratitude for all we have. Thanks to Shadow Mountain Publishing for an ARC to use for my review.
This is a novel based on an incredible true story. While living in Korea many years ago, the author learned about an American pilot during the Korean War who escaped along with a North Korean Christian. He thought people needed to know about these two amazing men, so he visited with the families of Ward Millar and Kim Jae Pil to learn the details of their experiences.
The stories of of Kim Jae Pil, Ward Millar, and Ward’s wife Barbara Millar, are told in alternating chapters in this book. Kim Jae Pil, a North Korean Christian, was forced to fight in the army but wanted to escape to the South. He was looking for his father, sister, and grandfather and hoped to go back for his mother too. Ward Millar, a jet pilot in the Air Force, was captured as a POW in North Korea. If that wasn’t bad enough, both of his ankles were badly broken when he ejected from his plane, preventing him from standing or walking for months. Their paths cross and they help each other miraculously escape. A major theme is faith or the lack of it, and trust in God.
I normally don’t enjoy reading books about war, but I liked this book because it focuses on courage, faith, and perseverance, rather than the violence of war. I didn’t want to stop reading and I love the pictures at the end. This is a good reminder that God is aware of us and will help, and gratitude for all we have. Thanks to Shadow Mountain Publishing for an ARC to use for my review.
June 21, 2022
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Overall Book Review:
Praying with the Enemy is a captivating tale that will grab readers’ attention from the very first paragraph. Based on a true story, the novel reveals the remarkable plight of Captain Wade Millar and Private Kim Jae Pil during the Korean War. Millar’s experiences as a prisoner of war are heartbreaking and astonishing. During captivity he meets Jae Pil, a young man forced into the North Korean army when all he wants is to worship freely as a Christian. To tell this incredible account, author Steven T. Collis uses Captain Millar, Jae Pil and a few other secondary characters as narrators. These various perspectives give insight from both the east and the western world. Collis details the ghastly, horrible conditions of armed conflict and sets a quick pace throughout — especially during the characters’ nail-biting plans to escape. Praying with the Enemy explores the impact of God and religion in times of trial as characters rely heavily on their beliefs. The novel wraps with a bittersweet ending and a deep appreciation for freedom.
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Overall Book Review:
Praying with the Enemy is a captivating tale that will grab readers’ attention from the very first paragraph. Based on a true story, the novel reveals the remarkable plight of Captain Wade Millar and Private Kim Jae Pil during the Korean War. Millar’s experiences as a prisoner of war are heartbreaking and astonishing. During captivity he meets Jae Pil, a young man forced into the North Korean army when all he wants is to worship freely as a Christian. To tell this incredible account, author Steven T. Collis uses Captain Millar, Jae Pil and a few other secondary characters as narrators. These various perspectives give insight from both the east and the western world. Collis details the ghastly, horrible conditions of armed conflict and sets a quick pace throughout — especially during the characters’ nail-biting plans to escape. Praying with the Enemy explores the impact of God and religion in times of trial as characters rely heavily on their beliefs. The novel wraps with a bittersweet ending and a deep appreciation for freedom.
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August 30, 2023
3.5
The story itself is a miracle, but the book is so so-so. It's quite wordy for a simple (though miraculous) story. The characters are fairly one-dimensional. I was particularly interested because of my background in Korea. I would've also liked more information about each of the character's return to "real life". The Korean soldier Kim Jae Pil had a hard time, placed in prison and being attacked by both sides because he didn't fit in anywhere. Ward Millar's testimonial was really the only reason he was released. There was little to no mention of how Ward Millar adjusted back to home life after this ordeal. I was especially curious about his broken ankles! And it's not too clear if there was any continuing connection between these two men. I'd also like to know more about the two other American soldiers who are prisoners that he meets in the pit and later learned get released. What is their story?
Ward Millar was so resourceful even with both of his legs broken; I wonder what would've happened if he didn't break his legs. But I think his broken legs were a big reason he wasn't shot right away to begin with.
I was glad to read this book and know of the events.
The story itself is a miracle, but the book is so so-so. It's quite wordy for a simple (though miraculous) story. The characters are fairly one-dimensional. I was particularly interested because of my background in Korea. I would've also liked more information about each of the character's return to "real life". The Korean soldier Kim Jae Pil had a hard time, placed in prison and being attacked by both sides because he didn't fit in anywhere. Ward Millar's testimonial was really the only reason he was released. There was little to no mention of how Ward Millar adjusted back to home life after this ordeal. I was especially curious about his broken ankles! And it's not too clear if there was any continuing connection between these two men. I'd also like to know more about the two other American soldiers who are prisoners that he meets in the pit and later learned get released. What is their story?
Ward Millar was so resourceful even with both of his legs broken; I wonder what would've happened if he didn't break his legs. But I think his broken legs were a big reason he wasn't shot right away to begin with.
I was glad to read this book and know of the events.
June 4, 2022
This book was very interesting and what I loved is that in the afterword the author notes that he went and spokes with both families in an effort to get their information right.
Such a heroic story of perseverance, faith, and bravery its a shame that their story is not as well known. I loved how each character found his faith during this harrowing ordeal.
I liked how we switched between the different POVS with Ward, Jae Pil, and Barbara. It really gave the reader a good encapsulating view about all sides of the situation.
I also felt that the author did a good job of providing the needed background information to understand what was at stake in the Korean war. As someone who is not familiar with the Korean war, it was crucial to me to get this information to under the motivations especially behind Jae Pil. I also felt that the way he did it was just the right amount of exposition.
My only complaint was that I thought the two characters would have met earlier. I feel like the summary gives the impression that they meet earlier than they do.
I also would have loved to have seen a picture of the church Jae Pil built!
Such a heroic story of perseverance, faith, and bravery its a shame that their story is not as well known. I loved how each character found his faith during this harrowing ordeal.
I liked how we switched between the different POVS with Ward, Jae Pil, and Barbara. It really gave the reader a good encapsulating view about all sides of the situation.
I also felt that the author did a good job of providing the needed background information to understand what was at stake in the Korean war. As someone who is not familiar with the Korean war, it was crucial to me to get this information to under the motivations especially behind Jae Pil. I also felt that the way he did it was just the right amount of exposition.
My only complaint was that I thought the two characters would have met earlier. I feel like the summary gives the impression that they meet earlier than they do.
I also would have loved to have seen a picture of the church Jae Pil built!
June 7, 2022
I pulled this book out to read during a 5+ hour track meet, only intending to read it a little bit while waiting for my son to compete. I didn't want to put it down! The story doesn't start out slow at all, the reader is thrust right into the middle of the action right from the start. Knowing that this is based on a true story made it even more captivating.
I knew a very little bit about the Korean War before starting this book, but I've never even pondered on the way the communist side thought. I also had no idea that the North was aided by the Chinese.
History and all of the why's fascinate me, but I was most in awe of the strength and courage of Ward and Kim Jae Pil. Both going through their own battles and struggles, both wondering why things were happening the way they were. In the end, we all get to see that things worked out just the way they needed to, and it could not have happened without divine intervention.
I appreciated the afterword letting the reader know what happened to both men. I do wish there was a little more detail about Ward's health, more specifically, his legs.
Definitely a book I recommend to any history buff or really, anyone.
I knew a very little bit about the Korean War before starting this book, but I've never even pondered on the way the communist side thought. I also had no idea that the North was aided by the Chinese.
History and all of the why's fascinate me, but I was most in awe of the strength and courage of Ward and Kim Jae Pil. Both going through their own battles and struggles, both wondering why things were happening the way they were. In the end, we all get to see that things worked out just the way they needed to, and it could not have happened without divine intervention.
I appreciated the afterword letting the reader know what happened to both men. I do wish there was a little more detail about Ward's health, more specifically, his legs.
Definitely a book I recommend to any history buff or really, anyone.
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