In Beyond I Do readers discover how choosing a mate has eternal consequences. Ainsley Meadows is in a safe, predictable relationship. But as her wedding nears, a battered woman and her child spark a long-forgotten dream and ignite a hidden passion. One that threatens to change everything, including her finance.
I loved this book. Jennifer is great at creating memorable characters. Even her insignificant side characters breathe. Her heroine is who I want to be when I grow up. I really loved her strength. No wishy washy or riding the fence. Once she made a decision, she stuck with it. Her determination to love her family member even though she seemed unlovable was touching. The hero was yummy and I fell in love with him right along with the heroine. And I thought the protagonist was just a jerk, but it turned out he had great motivation for being a jerk. Wonderful writing, wonderful characters, wonderful story.
Beyond I Do by Jennifer Slattery is a thoroughly appealing story about a woman’s quest to find stability after the upheaval of her childhood. Beyond the main story of a woman’s realization that her future husband is not the right choice for her and how she extricates herself from that relationship, there are many other subplots. Slattery’s story reveals the complicated relationship between parents and children through Ainsley and Chris’s less than perfect interactions with their parents--choices and lifestyles of the parents at fault, and some choices and actions of Ainsley and Chris. She explores the issue of children dealing with a parent with Alzheimer’s and the decisions that must be made for their welfare, plus a brother and sister’s inability to agree on decisions. She also writes about the plight of the homeless and single women with children whose lives are in jeopardy. Both main characters display the caring and attitude of Jesus to these less fortunate people. Moreover, the author shows how God reveals to people what their purpose and mission for life is. Both Ainsley and Chris realize that their choice of career (attorney and pharmaceutical rep) may not be the best course for their lives. The center of God’s will and his choice for their lives brings their greatest happiness and satisfying purpose. I highly recommend this romance which has much more depth to it than just a sweet, entertaining story worthy of Hallmark. I received this novel through TBCN in exchange for an honest review.
Our main character is loved by everyone.... except me. She is so mopey and desirous of that feel good Christianity. She doesn't feel like she is doing enough and yet no one talks to her the dangers of salvation by works. The love triangle with the obsessed psychiatrist was old, once we hit about the halfway mark I predicted all the things that ended up happening in the story-- ALL of them.
So, because of that I just didn't enjoy the book. I am sure for those looking for a pleasant read and Christian base will have no qualms about this read. It just wasn't for me.
I have really enjoyed all of this authors books. I have very few complaints. I think my only concern with this book was setting up a little bit of unreasonable expectations. But it laid out clearly, of unhealthy expectations in a relationship, how to walk through them and what you might face doing so. It laid out imperfections in a relationship as well, pointing out that this is not what you are seeking to avoid, but the abuse and control is not part of being imperfect.
Beyond I Do is a journey of love and self-discovery. Slattery does a great job bringing her story to life. She reveals the reality of the homeless and hurting while showing the reader what it looks like to be a true Christ-follower. Her protagonist is plucky, her antagonist determined. Her hero is compassionate and loving. For the cast, setting, and theme, I give Beyond I Do five stars.
She’s engaged to a domineering man but thinks it’s right due to her upbringing. But God has different plans and moves a Christian man next door starting his life over to be with his Mom who has Alzheimer’s. She realizes that her fiancé is not for her but the new young man might be an answer to her prayers.
This is a very well written book with so very much going on. The characters were easy to get to know and then root for them when things weren't necessarily going well. I always appreciate Jennifer's writing style and highly recommend this book.
Sorry, but despite the great messages in this book, and a wonderful ending for lots of characters, I struggled to persist. I found it so depressing through about 80% of the story. I, personally, need more uplifting content a lot sooner in the book.
This book was read in one session, couldn't put it down. Great storyline. Deals with true emotions and human nature and how we need to look at our motives through the eyes of Jesus. Very motivating and very relatable to us all.
The title confused me - it sounds like the story takes place after a wedding, but it does not. Rather, it's a story of finding real love and a better fit in life for both hero and heroine. A pleasant read.
I liked learning about the characters and following the twists in the plot. The faith element was believable overall. The combination of obstacles and life challenges were realistic.
There was suspense, friendship, broken relationships, and Jesus' love throughout the book. This is definitely a Christian novel, and I enjoyed the emphasis on obeying God whatever the cost.
This is a sweet story of love overcoming difficulties. It is a romance between a man and a woman but most of all it is about the unconditional love of God.
Amazing how one considered an expert had difficulty diagnosing himself. He could see the fault in others but not in himself. He had a blind eye or in denial.
This was a very good, Christian romance book. A lot of scripture references. Fun to read if you like romance stories . I would recommend this book highly.
I loved this story! There were some twists and turns that I wasn't too sure about but, in this case love did win. I loved Ainsley and Chris' journey. Richard made my teeth itch! HE WAS ABSOLUTELY OBNOXIOUS. All of the characters worked for me. The story blended nicely. The compassion that Chris had for Albert, Wanda, William and Rose was heartfelt. This was just a feel good story all the way around. I did not want it to end.
‘Beyond I Do’ is an excellent Christian novel! Once I began reading this author’s debut novel, I didn’t want to put it down. It is a great novel for any gal thinking about getting married, as ‘the big day’ is not a destination, but the beginning of the rest of her life with her husband. The author is wise, and very gifted to walk in the shoes of three primary characters sharing very real feelings. Conflicts seem to be between people but are really between temptation from the evil one and the leading of the Lord; who will each follow?
Ainsley is a sales rep and fiancé of Richard. He is an uptight psychiatrist trying to market his first book. He is from a high-society family with a father who is a respected psychiatrist. Both have long-term conflicts with at least one parent that demand resolution. Ainsley has life-changing situations, starting when delivering goods to an elderly woman from her church and while there, she hears a woman being beaten up. When she leaves, a boy watches from their window as if imploring her to help; Ainsley has found her calling. That day when she arrives home, Chris, a cheerful, friendly man is moving in next door.
Chris moved to Kansas City, MO from California. When his father died, Chris realized he had been so wrapped up in his law practice that he hadn’t visited his parents for too long. A huge regret was never saying goodbye to his father. He came home to attend to the needs of and regularly visit his mom who has dementia. She lives in a special facility but they are not taking good care of her. He wants to move her, but his sister refuses and wants to become their mother’s guardian. He purchases a coffee shop after a dream of owning one and employing homeless people.
Ainsley opens her Bible one day and is confronted with II Corinthians 6 and not marrying an unbeliever. She thought Richard to be a Christian, but he doesn’t live like one. Ainsley battles with the desire for a secure marriage and obeying the scripture she meditates on. She wants to avoid the pitfalls of her mother who changes jobs and men frequently. When Ainsley breaks up with Richard then is fired from her job, she can either trust God or herself for her future.
Ainsley is a young woman of strong convictions, yet finds it hard to trust in the Lord for everything. She is my favorite – I wish I had had her wisdom at her age! – with Chris as a close second. Gina, Ainsley’s close Christian friend, is a delightfully vivacious extrovert. She and Ainsley balance each other out and help each other spiritually and share over chocolate. Richard is controlling, and just not a likable man as he tries to hold onto Ainsley and sell his newly-published book.
I appreciate the author’s use of scripture. It is enlightening to see Ainsley’s and Chris’ prayers and how they interact together as Christians. There are wonderful spiritual lessons in this novel. There are also struggles with the desire to repair decades-old challenges with family members and be Jesus to them. Many of us have faced similar challenges to these two! I highly recommend this novel to older teens and women of any age. It engages the reader with a sound scriptural foundation demonstrated through everyday people in real-life situations.
From a grateful heart: I was given the book by Book Fun (The Book Club Network) and here is my honest review.
The message in this book makes it a must read. Whether you’re already married or hope to be, do not miss this. Ainsley Meadows is ready to marry the man of her dreams. But is he really? It’s a predictable, safe relationship, but will that be enough for the years after she says I do?
Ainsley strives to do what God wants her to do. She goes to church, visits the sick and shut-ins, volunteers at a women’s shelter, but her fiancé Richard Hollis, a psychiatrist, is more interested in marketing his new book. He figures he will keep her busy enough after marriage with social functions to cut down on her time to associate with such people.
Her neighbor, Chris Langley, just moved in. His mother is in an assisted living home. She has Alzheimer’s. He sold his lawyer practice and bought a coffee shop in order to be closer to his mother. God has given him a vision for the coffee shop. Will it come to pass? Or will it go under first?
Ainsley is terrified of ending up like her mother, jumping from relationship to relationship, job to job. Who does God want her to marry? I loved how this theme was handled in this book. As opposed to just jumping into a marriage without thinking about the repercussions, Ainsley is feeling unsettled and wondering where these feelings are coming from. She wants to pray about God’s will and know who He has picked out for her. Being a Christian and your fiancé not, brings discord into their marriage from the beginning. He does not understand her desire to help others, go to church, volunteer her time. And when she voices these concerns, his response is to blame her childhood and the games her mother played for her indecisiveness about their upcoming marriage. When she questions his faith, he promises to go to church more. She is not convinced of his faith and salvation, however.
Beyond I Do is a great book for young adults on the verge of marriage. It lays out questions you should ask, concerns you should talk about, and getting the discussion of salvation and faith out in the open to be sure both parties are on the same page. A relationship with Jesus is a personal one. It is a real relationship. Are you hearing from Him? What is He telling you? Before making that big time commitment, make sure it is the one He wants for you. Blessings from God do not bring added trouble.
This line stayed with me after reading this book: “Christianity isn’t about doing anything. It’s about accepting what Jesus Christ has already done.” We can’t earn His grace; it is freely given. Pick up this book today for a great read. I can’t wait to read more by this author.
I received a free copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
Deb’s Dozen: 12-Word Summaries Discovering dreams, fearsome fiancé, finding forgiveness, helping the homeless, a God-given love.
Ainsley Meadows is looking for love and stability. She believes she’s found these things in Richard, her fiancé. However, she is troubled as Richard seems to become more and more controlling – telling her what she will do instead of asking. In fact, Richard seems opposed to those things Ainsley holds dear. At the same time that she is questioning her relationship with Richard, she is having difficulty dealing with her mom, a dysfunctional parent who goes from one man to another with great abandon. Ainsley must discover who she is, what her dreams are, and that there is so much more to a marriage beyond, “I do.”
Ainsley struck a chord with me emotionally. She is very believable and wants very much to do the “right” things. Richard, on the other hand, is from the beginning a louse. I kept wondering why Ainsley couldn’t see through him, but then acknowledged that I’ve been in relationships where I’ve not been able to see the forest for the trees, too. How Ainsley works through her relationship with Richard, with her mom, and with God is the stuff of real life. Will Ainsley follow her heart, her dreams, and her God, or will she choose security over love. You’ll enjoy Ainsley’s story – you’ll want to shake her at times, and at others you’ll find her journey all too familiar. Beyond I Do is a 4-Star book – you’ll enjoy reading her story.
Beyond I Do is Jennifer Slattery's debut novel written to encourage people to go beyond their comfort zones to help the impoverished, addicted, at-risk, and broken. While these themes are prevalent in the book, the characters carry the novel. Jennifer has a fulfilling career ahead as a novelist as well as her ministry efforts in her local community. Anyone who "enjoys, long, leisurely strolls with her husband, mall-dates with her daughter, and chatting with her girlfriends over hot, flavored milk with a hint of coffee" is someone I look forward to hearing from again. Jennifer definitely lives her life "out loud."
I was given a complimentary copy of Beyond I Do by New Hope Publishing for my unbiased review.
Ainsley Meadows is engaged to be married to Dr. Richard Hollis - but she starts to question the relationship. Chris Langley has decided to leave his lawyer job and move to Kansas City to be closer to his mother, who is suffering from early stages of Alzheimer. Both Christians, they start to realize that there might be something for them in the store - dreams fulfilled, friendships formed, callings answered - and love waiting.
I very much wanted to love this book. Mostly because Ms Slattery' s five star writing skills - they are truly of high quality, she can get you "there" immediately. She is very good in describing details and mood of the situation. And her heart is obviously with the less happy fellow people - poor, struggling, suffering. I appreciate that.
But - the world created here is very much black and white. The all of the Christians are very good people, the unbelievers are simply not. Christians are loving and serving others, unbelievers are scheming and irresponsible crowd. This is simply not true. Everybody sins, and some of the past sinners have became the great saints, so let's not play God like that. I also had a hard time to connect with the heroine. Chris, the hero, is at least manly and mature, but Ainsley is, unfortunately - not. She is judgmental, unforgiving and bland. Surprisingly, I liked Richard. Sure, he is a troubled guy to say the least - but I see where he is coming from. And while he is behaving like a jerk, he is at least real and not bookish. And I liked Gina - she is your standard sassy best friend, but a true firecracker! Everybody needs a Gina in their lives. And while I appreciate the authoress's love for the details - the novel feels prolonged.
Having said all that - thanks for the message of solidarity, Ms Slattery. I need to think more about my fellow sisters and brothers suffering under the heavy burdens. This is what I will take from the novel, and it is an important message.
Beyond I Do is more overtly Christian than most novels I read, even though most of them are marketed as Christian fiction! The characters quote Bible verses (well, some of them do), although it is a little strange seeing the references in brackets, and are actively pursuing their Christian walk. Well, most of them. But that’s the basis of the story …
Ainsley Meadows has always dreamed of helping less fortunate women—women like her mother, perhaps—but instead she has settled for security: a secure job as a pharmaceutical sales representative, and a safe relationship with Dr Richard Hollis, a psychiatrist with plans to publish the next breakthrough bestseller in his field. But a few chance remarks from Richard and she’s starting to wonder if she’s made the right decision: is he really a Christian? It’s a big question, and certainly one which has to be answered before any marriage can take place.
Meanwhile, Ainsley has a new next-door neighbour, Chris, who has bought a local café and wants to be able to share his faith with the customers. However, it seems the existing staff and customers aren’t so keen on the idea. Meanwhile he’s getting pestered by his sister, who doesn’t want to move their mother to a home which will offer better care, and he’s attracted to his pretty neighbour. The one with the rich boyfriend …
Beyond I Do forces readers to ask some tough questions about our own faith and priorities. Sure, Ainsley doesn’t always have a choice in her situations, but she shows us the importance of seeking God first, and being obedient to His will. A solid first novel.
Thanks to Jennifer Slattery and New Hope Publishers for providing a free book for review.
Ainsley’s priorities were stability and security. Or so she thought. She didn’t want to repeat the mistakes of her parents, and marrying into a wealthy family offered the stability she desired — until the needs of those less fortunate tugged at her heart and challenged her to reexamine those priorities. Her greatest desires conflicted with where she was headed, and that realization affected not only the decisions she was making, but also the very core of who she was and would become.
What is it you want out of life, and who do you want to become? If you can’t answer those questions, you really aren’t ready to decide on a partner who will walk that path with you. Beyond I Do addresses that very issue.
Already married? Not in “the market”? Never fear – there is a challenge for you, too! Ainsley’s compassion for the battered woman and her young son lead her to get involved with a ministry in her community to help meet the needs of those less fortunate. When your heart is tugged by a need, do you actively get involved? It is easy to sit in a pew and talk about the church caring for the widows and orphans, but it’s something different entirely to participate in meeting those needs. May we all be as brave as Ainsley in reaching out to others with a kind word and … a cup of coffee, a meal, a gift, a song… Let us truly be His hands and feet to those around us.
(I received a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for an honest review. The thoughts expressed here are entirely my own.)
Beyond I Do is an engaging story that kept me turning the pages until the end. There are several story lines that are interesting and the author did a great job of weaving them together and resolving each one. It is easy to relate to the characters and their struggles from the desire to make the right decision about marriage to struggling with a parent who is ill to dealing with parents who still wound your heart. Ainsley is a Christian who is growing in her desire to serve God and learning about making the wise choice. It speaks to the idea of being more concerned about a wedding than a marriage and asks the question of what happens “beyond I do”? As a Christian, I enjoyed reading about someone who talks to God and reads the Bible as I do yet is also shown to be a real person who struggles like we all do with anger, unforgiveness and doubt. If you are engaged but having doubts about marriage, if you are planning a wedding, if you have a parent who has Alzheimer’s, if you are struggling with a parent who has let you down or who tries to control you, I think you would relate to this story but then we all face moments of indecision, pain, unforgiveness and being let down so it is a great story for all.
BEYOND I DO by JENNIFER SLATTERY is packed full of scripter and Christian learning, with a message on matters of choosing a life partner.
Ainsley Meadows is searching for more. More than just a “marriage”. More than what her past threatens she could become.
Focused on his career, with a controlling family, Richard Hollis is determined to make Ainsley his wife.
Chris Langley has a plan. A plan that include big changes in his life. One that may prove to be the biggest mistake of his life, or the greatest decision he's made.
BEYOND I DO delivers a message for those seeking a relationship or are engaged. Marriage is an important, often daunting decision. One that will be with you the rest of your life, and not to take lightly. MS SLATTERY has woven together a story that will open your eyes to the impact choosing a life partner can have on your life, if not chosen with great thought and intent.
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Marriage draws close for Ainsley and Richard. Her job’s on the rocks and she’s searching for the best wedding location. Well, no need to panic. Everything’s under control. As always, Richard’s here.
Ainsley discovers another side of her fiancé when she ventures beyond her comfort zone to deliver a care package in a rough neighborhood of Kansas City. Although rekindled and on fire for the Lord, she’s reluctant to be Richard’s bride. But he’s determined to make her his own even at the expense of his future.
Almost as if in answer to prayer, Chris moves in next door to Ainsley. Their friendship blossoms as he establishes a Christian coffee shop and provides for his ailing mother with early Alzheimer’s. He becomes a thorn in Richard’s side and thwarts his plans at every turn.
A tale of grace, obedience, love, and obsession, I give this book five stars!
Jennifer Slattery has penned a novel that is both a good story and informative about a serious issue. I've read a few agenda novels and rarely feel inspired by them because it's difficult to turn hard cold fact into interesting fiction.
Slattery has a passion for the homeless and it shows in her novel. She also manages to weave in several other issues and more impressively ties them up satisfactorily. Mental illness, deceptions and bitterness that have taken root, elderly parents, family dynamics, relationships between believers and non-believers, and finding God's will and path are some of the topics her characters deal with.
Slattery also manages to write in comic relief to keep the book lighthearted.
Overall, Beyond I Do is definitely worth checking into further whether you just love a good romance or whether you feel a passion for social issues.
Jennifer Slattery’s debut novel Beyond I Do! is an inspirational contemporary romance that will satisfy Christian Fiction readers. Authentic, relatable characters make this an enjoyable read. Ms. Slattery’s spirited heroine displays active, living faith, but her fiancé doesn’t want her ministering to the battered and poor. Could she be engaged to the wrong man? She needs someone who’ll exhibit compassionate strength by serving others. Biblical wisdom provides hope for dysfunctional families, strength for those touched with infirmities, and instruction in social benevolence. Beyond I Do! presents the necessary foundation for a successful marriage, and challenges readers to honor their first love with obedient, thankful lives.
Ainsley is engaged to be married to a psychiatrist and soon to be published author named Richard Hollis the only problem with that is that he has a need to always rescue her. That is not the biggest problem though the biggest issue is that Ainsley is a Christian and is not sure if Richard is.
Beyond I Do is a story of romance but it is so much more than that, it is a story of making decisions that may very well hurt in order to be right with the Lord. It is the story of Ainsley's growing faith and the love she feels with Richard as well.