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Building a bridge and getting over It

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After years of hauling around emotional baggage, I set out on a mission to rid myself of resentment and pain. I knew real happiness waited out there somewhere, but for decades finding it was more difficult than most would imagine.

This is my story of self-discovery. It is a story of pain, loss, and betrayal. More importantly, it is the story of how I came to terms with my past, learned to live happily in the present, and how I built the bridge that would get me over it.

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First published April 2, 2014

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Willow Cross

41 books299 followers
Willow Cross resides in Arkansas with her husband, two children still young enough to live at home, an enormous cat named Bitsy, and a scaredy-cat dog named Tank. Her home has been known to host the occasional ghost, and a few of her friends profess to be witches. Although she dearly loves Vampires and Werewolves, they are never invited for dinner.

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6,726 reviews5 followers
August 30, 2023
This novella is free on Amazon.

I could not connect to this story. It is very real in the world. Give it a try it may work for you. 2023
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Author 0 books94 followers
July 16, 2019
I’m trying not to sound mean in this review but this book was a blah, blah, blah to me and I was glad it was just a novella. Some of things she went through is relatable to many people, no new life dramas that you haven’t heard of that made it boring to me and repetitive. The author did give some helpful tips in the end that is worth exploring.
4 reviews
October 21, 2017
You could have been writing this book about ME!

You hit on SO many of the EXACT feeling and thoughts I have had. Thank you for this book. I have a new perspective on my life after reading it--TWICE!!!
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6 reviews3 followers
March 18, 2019
Excellent Th

This book resonates incredibly with me. I recognize so many behaviours patterns. It's been truly inspiring and reassuring knowing that I'm not the only one. I reread it 3 times so far!
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4 reviews
December 26, 2020
Relatable quick read

I found the author’s story very relatable and appreciate the guidance she suggests. The author doesn’t completely go into detail over her failed relationships but takes ownership and suggestions on how to move on! Just the read And reminder that I needed.
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52 reviews
May 4, 2018
Entertaining

Very practical and inspiring. I enjoyed reading it and listening to it. I faced the same fears and it helped me see things differently.
408 reviews5 followers
October 6, 2016
Simple and well written

No matter where you are in life, this book is worth reading. I found it honest and heartfelt, with applications everyone can use. Thank you Willow Cross
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555 reviews5 followers
January 7, 2015
This was a very inspirational biography of sorts. I enjoyed finding out even more about one of my favorite people as well as really feeling her struggles, but my favorite part would have to be that magical way Willow can bring a smile to my face even when pulling those heartstrings. This book is full of helpful advice & reminders to overcome your own struggles. This is why I totally adore this lady ... Willow reminds us that none of us are perfect & we all hit the low points now & again, but giving up will not pull us out of that spot nor will it all magically disappear. Finding something to grasp onto to pull ourself out is the only way. Find what works for you or tweak what worked for her to better suite you.
So much helpful goodness here! If you get nothing else from this tale you will most definitely feel the love she has for her babes. And hopefully a few smiles along the way.
Great book!!!
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1,661 reviews71 followers
April 30, 2014
This story was not at all boring for me, in fact it was an eye opening experience for me. Granted, this author did some rambling, but it actually made sense to me and got me thinking and wanting to use what I learned from this book in my own life. I know it must have been hard to write this but I want Ms Cross to know that by writing this, she has helped one more person who also struggles with the same problems and I will always be greatful to her for having the strength and courage to share this with the world. I love ya loads, Willow, and again I want to thank you for this book that has really touched me both heart and soul.

I received a complimentary copy of this book in return for an honest review.
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399 reviews10 followers
May 16, 2014
Getting Over It
By Willow Cross

Life hits hard sometimes and Willow Cross has felt its pain. The thing is Willow decided that there was a way thorough the pain and once she had gotten through it she wanted to share that with others. This is not a self-help book, and it isn't a feel sorry book. What it is, is a book that tells how Willow experienced her way through the heartache. It is well written and lets people know that when you are hurting there is a way to walk to get through it all and come out better on the other side. She shares from first hand experience and a lot of care to let others know that if she can make it so can they. Take a step and begin helping yourself through what life has thrown at you. Willow did so can you.

04/29/14
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417 reviews13 followers
May 7, 2014
The last 5 months of my life had completely spiralled out of control and although on the outside I now appeared fine, inside I was still falling apart. I was very slowly sorting my head out and reading this book, although not a self-help book, has really helped me refocus and think about things from a different perspective. I can’t thank the author enough for sharing her story, it truly is inspirational and I’m sure everyone would be able to relate to at least aspects of this book.
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188 reviews6 followers
August 25, 2014
this is a book all about Willow and her life with marriages, children, and her Ghost that haunted her, I love the bulls**t list and i think everyone should have one, I read this book at a sad time in my life and some of the things on the list had my laughing, It a great book and i hope that it will help other people with there life,
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234 reviews20 followers
May 6, 2014
I can relate to so much of this book!! I've had some similar experiences and I understand a lot of what Willow was talking about. I am in a much better place now than I was, but reading this made me realize I'm not completely there yet. I may still have a little work to do. Very positive!
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316 reviews2 followers
August 17, 2014
This was not what I expected it to be, but I still enjoyed it... I thought it would be a short story, not so much a biography - with that being said - it was still amazing.
This book is not only her story, it's a challenge... We all have demons, she gave us a way to beat them.
258 reviews2 followers
July 10, 2015
This book should be given to anyone needed to move on from their past. If you have someone that has lost a relationship this is the book for them
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3 reviews
June 10, 2016
So far it has been the stiff kick in the panties that I need to start working on me again. Although a self help book, it reads easier and is more entertaining than most of the textbook styled.
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