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Published October 24, 2023
I belong to the colourful and bright desert city of Jaisalmer — this culturally rich and beautiful city in Rajasthan is where many tourists come, and folk art and dance are the main attractions for tourists here. Every restaurant and resort in Jaisalmer provides folk music and dance shows to tourists for entertainment. A friend suggested that I do this job in the evening to get enough money for the family and that was also the only way to continue my school education. I would go to school from 12 to 5 pm and then dance from the evening till late night. [...] I was from a middle class family and nobody was a dancer in my family. So it was shock after shock for people around me, and to add to the grief, I was dancing for tourists at night — that was a kind of “shame job” and was looked down upon by one and all.(There is an "About Queen Harish" section at the back of the book, which clarifies some of the stuff we weren't entirely sure about, but doesn't expand on that particular piece.)
Harish Kumar was born in 1979, in a carpenter family in Suthar community in Jaisalmer in Rajasthan.[2] He started dancing at the age of 13.[3] Harish, who lost his parents, started drag dancing to take care of his sisters.[3] Inspired by 'Annu Master', the first drag performer in the Jaisalmer region, he started learning drag dance under him.[3] He practiced American tribal style belly dance to make his body more capable of all feminine movements.[4]He had a teacher! (This book very much gave me the impression that he was unique and first in doing drag -- especially given the early text about there being a clear "line in the sand" keeping you in your place as boy/man or girl/woman.) I get that that could take away from the evocative story being told in this book, but I hope we get more books about him that tell a fuller story.