I fell down a rabbit hole and wanted to understand Petrarchan Love as it influenced Humanism in the Renaissance. I can appreciate the volume of his work, the importance of his work especially to Boccaccio and Shakespeare, and his endurance as a clue in crossword puzzles. It’s my understanding that this is a Victorian translation and might be something of a dud. I can confirm, I skimmed through most of these and don’t remember much of anything.
But I can state, for the record, how fucking creepy this is. He was in the clergy and thus forbidden to marry but fathered two kids by some unknown woman, all while mooning over this married woman for twenty years. He wrote her love poems after she died. His obsession caused problems in her marriage. Sir, you don’t KNOW her.
At any rate, Petrarchan Love is all about an intense, idealized, and usually unrequited love for an unattainable, often angelic lady. focusing on the lover's inner suffering, spiritual purification, self-absorption, and complex emotions (like despair, longing, and worship) rather than mutual satisfaction, with the beloved seen as a divine ideal or source of inspiration leading you to God as opposed to a real person with whom you share earthly pleasure or a life.
Who would want that?