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Relationship Goals Challenge: Thirty Days from Good to Great

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ECPA BESTSELLER Based on the #1 New York Times bestseller Relationship Goals and the author’s wildly popular sermon series, this 30-day challenge helps you take your relationship from good to great!

Feeling tired of romantic relationships with no purpose—or looking to put more spark in your long-term love? Pastor Michael Todd draws on the themes of Relationship Goals to give you a month of biblically rich “let’s go deeper” challenges designed just for couples.

We’re not talking simple date ideas or tips on what flowers to buy. We’re talking daily Scripture, intentional questions, and victorious outcomes as you get real about seeking God’s goals for you individually and together.

As Michael looks at three key values of romantic relationships—purpose, healing, and oneness—he helps you find answers to questions like

How can we communicate with greater intentionality?
How does our relationship affect who we’re becoming as individuals?
How are we going to fight well, with our greater purpose in mind?
How do we find healing for deep-seated issues?
How do our spiritual lives affect our life as a couple?

Take the next thirty days to create new habits that will set you down solidly on the road to meeting your relationship goals. At the end of this month-long challenge, you can look back on the goals you’ve already met and set new ones to look forward to. So get ready to win in relationship . . . together. Do you accept the challenge?

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Published February 24, 2021

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Michael Todd

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Michael Todd is the #1 New York Times bestselling author of RELATIONSHIP GOALS and the lead pastor of Transformation Church in Tulsa, Oklahoma.

Michael's driving passion is re-presenting God to the lost and found for transformation in Christ.

Michael speaks at a variety of influential churches, events, and conferences each year, including Elevation Church, C3 Conference, Lakewood Church, VOUS Conference, Relentless Church, XO Conference, and many others.

Michael and his wife, Natalie, have been married since 2010 and live in Tulsa, Oklahoma, with their three beautiful children: Isabella, Michael Jr., and Ava.

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668 reviews59 followers
November 7, 2020
Oh my word! This book was just so amazing and what a book. Super duper excited to have read this . Huge thanks to Waterbrook and Multnomah for my ARC. Relationship Goals Challenge is divided into 30 days and believe me when I say that there are the best 30days you will have. I have been so incredibly blessed to read this book because it's so incredibly amazing and I highly recommend it. I want everyone to read this book because it's life-changing.
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695 reviews68 followers
December 28, 2020
Easy read with questions that make you think. I'll probably read this again with my boyfriend and talk through the discussion prompts more.
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329 reviews5 followers
February 18, 2021
Excellent book! This has great challenges and discussions. Very relatable. Definitely recommend this book.
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2,451 reviews
November 27, 2020
This book was received as an ARC from WaterBrook & Multnomah in exchange for an honest review. Opinions and thoughts expressed in this review are completely my own.

I really enjoyed this book and the message Michael pushed through this challenge. Michael gave great advice all pertaining to remembering your purpose in life, being determined for what you want, and most importantly doing what's best for your love and strength of your relationship. I loved the wordplay Michael used throughout the book in relating to the modern times and also I loved at parts that he mention celebrity couples and to remind us that we are not them and what might work for them doesn't always necessarily work for us. This book is sure to put some minds into perspectives leading to smiles on faces.

We will consider adding this title to our Self Help collection at our library. That is why we give this book 5 stars.
161 reviews4 followers
March 11, 2021
Drawing on the themes of his New York Times bestseller, Relationship Goals, Michael Todd leads his readers through a 30-day series of strengthening relationships. Whether married, engaged, or simply in a serious relationship, these challenges are meant to push couples to a greater understanding of each other and God in their relationship. Filled with daily Scripture and intentional questions, Relationship Goals Challenge leads readers through thoughts like:
How can we communicate more clearly?
How can our relationship grow us both as individuals?
What does it mean to "fight well?"
and many more!

In a world that values individuality, a good marriage book is hard to find. I was pleasantly surprised to see that Relationship Goals Challenge went beyond the surface level and provided some true insight. Vulnerable and sincere, Todd's writing goes beyond your typical marriage advice. These 5-10 min reads are meant to be followed with discussion time as a couple and the questions included certainly draw out some good conversation. This would be a good challenge to review every few years to keep marriages growing and strong. If you're ready to invest in your marriage, the Relationship Goals Challenge would be a good place to start.

*Disclaimer: I received a free copy of this book from the publisher. All opinions are my own.
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February 20, 2021
Pastor Mike Todd is super effective when it comes to relationships. This book is a great counterpart to his first book, relationship goals. You definitely want to read that one before reading this challenge. The challenge is a day by day reading (31 days) with an applicable verse and how you can improve your relationship and put it into practice. Mike is an honest guy. He will call your bluff if you have skimped in any area of your relationship with God and your partner. He pushes you to be a better person overall. I like that he gives you a space to write down anything you felt Led to write down after that days reading. Each days reading all ties back to God and who we are to honor. The best part is that each day is short enough to where you feel accomplished for getting some reading done especially if you don’t have a lot of time to read. Would recommend this book to Any of my married or dating friends!
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Author 4 books50 followers
December 1, 2020
This is the perfect accompaniment to 'Relationship Goals'. 30 days, 30 tips on how to do relationship and marriage better, 30 practical suggestions to implement the tips and a fabulous little summary of the 30 suggestions at the end to keep as a ready reckoner for repeated use. It takes only 5-10 minutes each day to read and then another 10-20 minutes to discuss with your partner.

Having read Relationship Goals a few months back it was a good reminder of some of Todd's practical wisdom learnt through his own marriage with Natalie. It's similarly vulnerable and challenging.

I expect the 'Challenge' is a good book to read every few years to give one's marriage a pick-me-up.

I received an early ebook version of the book from the publisher via NetGalley with no expectation of a favourable review.
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14 reviews1 follower
August 21, 2024
This is a great guide to ground yourself and your partner (if you have one) to become one instead of two different people. I read this as a single woman and still appreciated every step of the journey.
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1 review2 followers
July 5, 2021
Very relatable in my life. I highly recommend this book.
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36 reviews2 followers
November 22, 2021
Quick read. This 30 day challenge seems like a great thing to do with your significant other. I liked that he used scripture for each day of the challenge.
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April 7, 2021
I think this challenge is great for couples. I am single but I still found it helpful and hope to do it again when day with my future partner.
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May 9, 2021
Pretty boring I thought. It wasn’t applicable to much of what I’m going through currently. I read it because my grandma highly recommended it to me despite me being single. I think it’d be more valuable to me if I was in a relationship.
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