Every Man: Why Violence Against Women is a Men’s Issue, and How You Can Make a Difference

by Dr Jackson Katz

Brought to you by Penguin.

Why have we failed so badly to end men’s violence against women?
What can we actually do about it?

This insightful, provocative and practical handbook suggests a bold and potentially game-changing solution.

Pioneering educator, expert scholar, and activist Jackson Katz has spent the last 30 years educating people around the world on men's violence against women, and advocates that although not all men are part of the problem, every man can -- and should -- be part of the solution.

In this galvanizing book, Jackson reveals indispensable everyday tools that will help men from all walks of life become part of the solution to gender-based violence. Find out how to respond when a friend or colleague makes a misogynistic comment; learn how to intervene in incidents that may seem small but can lead to violence; and discover how you can become a role model for boys and men who need positive leadership in their lives.

This is the essential listening for every man who wants help build a healthier and safer society.

Genres: Feminism, Nonfiction

Audible Audio

Published February 20, 2025

Reviews

[Pelle · Rating 5 out of 5]

if you love the women in your life, read this book.

[Zübeyir Savaş · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book is essential reading for every man, as well as for those who oppose men's violence against women, children, other men, and LGBTQ individuals. If you are among the many who want to take action but are unsure where or how to begin, this book offers invaluable guidance. Thank you for your efforts, Dr. Katz.

[Anna Schrafft · Rating 4 out of 5]

Every man should read this. No questions.

[Renaud Houde · Rating 4 out of 5]

Le livre explique très bien le problème soulevé, la première moitié explique plusieurs choses qui devraient être de base mais qui ne le sont pas encore malheureusement. La deuxième partie est plus axée sur des solutions, qui sont effectivement pertinentes pour commencer à régler le problème.

[Ross Ballantyne · Rating 5 out of 5]

An easy to read introspection about violence against women, and the reframing of the issue as one for men to take action against. This book tackles the issues of male-dominant spheres, and understands the issues that men face speaking up about sexism towards women, while providing support for taking action and being better. Dr Katz also makes a point to tackle the shame and guilt men feel about their past inaction, and their own acts of misogyny, opening up a path forward to leave the past behind by acting on a better future

[Alistair · Rating 5 out of 5]

Essential reading for all men, especially those who claim to stand for gender equality but don't take action. Dr Katz provides all the information and steps you can take to become an ally and help change the dialogue in how men and society tackle men's violence against women.

[Mara S · Rating 4 out of 5]

Important, timely book containing many important and practical insights. The only missing element for me, as a large part of the book is about how to go from here, is the cultivation of empathy/herpathy in men. The book mostly focuses on encouraging men to become active bystanders, which is great and would make a difference. It is stated, as an advice towards men, to take accountability. However, men will simply not do that if they lack empathy and reflection. Without empathy men simply won’t care. The core to tackling the problem is raising men with empathy and a less fragile ego. All the rest is blisters on an open wound. I feel that part of the patriarchy is a taboo on stating men in general possess a lot of narcissistic tendencies - and this book unfortunately does not deviate from that premise.

[Johanna Vanderpol · Rating 4 out of 5]

thoughtful, makes sense, and offers strategies for making personal changes, a good resource for men (and women)

[Karel · Rating 5 out of 5]

A must read for every man who loves the women in his life.