Not a book to pick up and read unless you already have a grasp of that era of British history and the major players. I do so I found it worth the read. Definitely not the kind of nonfiction book that engagingly introduces the reader to an unknown world. The book drags at times and spends far too much on Mosley and his fascists than I cared to read about. I understand that from a research perspective that there is a lot of material on him and all his political shenanigans so it is tempting for the author to focus on that. However, the title of the book is the Lives of the Curzon Sisters, not A History of British Fascism Between the Wars, so I found the book a slog at times.
I was shocked also that the book basically ends after WWII yet Irene and Baba lived for decades after that. Decades! Were their families not keen to focus on the post war years for some reason? Was it too fresh? Was there not enough source material? Did the author get sick of the subject matter? The final chapter or so read like an outline and not a fleshed out chapter. I found that jarring.
If you are the type of reader that needs to identify with and feel positive towards the subjects, do not read this book. All the sisters were various levels of horribleness. Irene and Cimmie were doormats like their mother and Baba was a self absorbed narcissist like their father. At times the behaviors were hard to take. You want to reach through the pages and give them a good shaking and tell them to snap out of it. The Curzon sisters were not as charismatic as the Mitford sisters. I have read many books about the Mitford sisters and had always wanted to get the Curzon sisters side of the story so in that regard I felt this book was worth the read. Talk about not a fair fight - Cimmie/Baba or Diana. Obviously any man would pick Diana. The yucky part is that they were fighting for Mosley. Ewwww. Not only were his politics vile, but in his photos he looks so toady and gross. I guess in person he was very charismatic and it doesn’t come across in still photos? The fact he was such a ladies man astounded me. The bar must have been set very low. Perhaps he was good at oral sex and that was the draw? It baffles me. Seriously, go google him and then google Bryan Guinness. Guinness was gorgeousand a nice guy to boot. Diana left him for Mosley!? The mind reels.
Years ago I read the memoir of Nancy Astor’s ladies maid, Rose, so I enjoyed all the parts of the book with Nancy. I’ve read books about the Riviera of that period so also liked reading about that scene through the eyes of the Curzons. I have read books about Churchill and WWII so again, getting the perspective of the fascist side was interesting. I’ve read a biography of Elinor Glynn and her sister Lady Duff Cooper so reading about her via the eyes of the Curzons was fun. I have read the out of print memoir of Loelia, Duchess of Westminster, so when she popped up, I felt like an old friend had joined the party. I’ve read Pamela Hick’s memoir (daughter of Lord Mountbatten) so his portrayal here added to my knowledge. I’ve read easily 6 books about the Mitfords plus books about The Bright Young Things so all in all had a fair grasp of what was going on. I read about the Curzon girls in all of these books so I now feel my understanding of that time in history is that much deeper.
Quotes to help me recall the book:
When his devoted friend and closest lieutenant John Strachey married and rice was produced to throw at the bride-an American woman all his friends disliked -Mosley, his best man, whispered to the bridesmaids, "Throw it upwards. It hurts more." OF COURSE HE DID.
Every hour of the day seemed packed with concerts, plays, dances, private views, fancy-dress parties, cocktail parties followed by dinner, followed by bridge, followed by supper at the Hungaria or the Savoy. It never fails to astound me how the British upper class of that era did no work, not a job or any sort of regular life chores/errands.
"A dark autumnal day," wrote Harold Nicolson, visiting it in late November. "Thirty-two people in the house. Cold and draughty. Great sofas in vast cathedrals. Duff and Diana Cooper, Tom and Cimmie, Oliver and Lady Maureen Stanley, Harold Macmillan and Lady Dorothy, Brendan Bracken, Bob Boothby, Malcolm Bullock and Garvin [the editor of the Observer]. After dinner Nancy, fearful that her party was falling apart, whisked out her false teeth and put on a Victorian hat to make the party go. It did not." I find those vast English country houses and their weekend parties fascinating. Maybe from all those Agatha Christies I read as a girl?
Bryan, by contrast, would have liked nothing better than to lunch or dine every night with his beautiful young wife; Diana found such possessiveness stifling. "Who ever heard of married couples lunching together?" she would say scornfully. Ugh, Bryan, you deserved better!
(Arthur) Rubinstein whispered to one of his friends that he must go and console one of his old flames, desperate that he was getting married. As his biographer points out, while his wedding dinner was actually taking place, Rubinstein was in bed with this unknown woman. It was, of course, Irene.Oh Irene honey, no no no. What a bad idea all around! She was such a doormat with men.
"I have told her all the women I have slept with," replied Tom.
"All, Tom?” asked Boothby incredulously.
"Yes, all," replied Tom. "Except, of course, for her sister and stepmother" -a reference to his early flings with Grace and Irene. EEEWWWWWW. Where to even begin with that! He slept with all 3 sisters plus their stepmom!
Nanny Hyslop had been a central figure in the children's lives since their birth, valued by Cimmie for the total love and loyalty she gave the family.At the very least, Nanny would have expected to hear of any changes that might affect her from her employer himself. Yet Tom had not spoken to her since the previous November-almost three months ago.Irene was shocked to learn from Nanny that a governess had been hired, and from Nick that Diana Guinness's children were coming to live at Denham. The children had told Nanny that Tom planned to get rid of her in the autumn when Micky started schoolI want to read the biography of Nanny. I’ve read several servant memoirs over the years and the role of Nanny in those upper class British families was basically the role of mother. She was literally the children’s mother in every sense except that of giving birth. And for Mosley to try to kick her to the curb - UGH. Thankfully Irene stepped in to save the day.
Charles and Fern Bedaux already had twenty-four indoor servants, grooms, gardeners, gamekeepers and a separate laundry staff.Visitors were received by a butler and two footmen, but Wallis wanted more:a pastry cook, sous chef and scullery boy, a second butler and footman, four maids and two charwomen, five laundry-women, more gardeners, an extra chauffeur, a telephonist, a number of golf-course workers and a gatekeeper. Imagine the expense of all that staff! It’s like running a hotel. Also this interesting footnote - "Bedaux was indicted on a charge of treason (he had been engaged in laying a pipe across the North African desert to bring peanut oil to the Nazis). On the night of his indictment he committed suicide"
the duke took it for granted that his host would defray all incidental expenses. His mail was enormous and if he wanted a hundred letters put in the post, he would simply hand them over to be stamped and collected. His telephone bills continued to be colossal, and if the party lunched out the host was expected to pay.In contrast with the duke's stinginess, Wallis spent freely -on herself.In the month before her wedding, she ordered sixty-six dresses. Every weekend her favorite manicurist came from Paris, for a fee of ten shillings plus traveling expenses, to give her a pedicure and manicure100 letters!
When Somerset Maugham invited the Windsors to lunch their respective butlers negotiated over the menu and protocol for days, while at La Cröe guests were expected to curtsey to both Windsors on first seeing them in the morning and the duke's secretary had to take dictation standing up.Again, I want to know more about the butlers.
Micky, already in bed when Mosley called at Denham for dinner on his way to Wootton one evening, was told by Nanny Hyslop to call out a greeting to his father but refused, saying it would be an embarrassment as he had only seen him about four times in his life. Oh, what a heartbreaking story.
Irene thought Diana had furnished the house very badly ("only one small window in each bay opens so one suffocates"), perhaps because she so resented the sight of Hitler's photograph by Diana's bed. Irene removed the photograph of Göring and his baby from the sitting-room mantelpiece. EEEWWWWW