Sis...Upgrade, Not Downgrade:: A Guide to Attracting Authentic Relationships

by Danielle Duncan

This self-help book is dedicated to every Black woman who has ever felt unseen, unheard, or undervalued in the world of dating and relationships. To those who have endured the sting of rejection, the pain of betrayal, and the frustration of settling for less than they deserve. To the women who have carried the weight of societal expectations, internalized racism, and the pressure to conform to unrealistic beauty standards, while still striving for genuine connection and lasting love. This is for the warriors who have fought battles unseen, who have picked themselves up after countless falls, and who continue to rise above adversity with grace, strength, and unwavering resilience. This is for the dreamers who still believe in the power of love, in the possibility of finding a partner who cherishes and respects their unique brilliance. This is for the sisters who lift each other up, who offer a shoulder to cry on, a hand to hold, and a voice of unwavering support. This book is a testament to your strength, your perseverance, and your unwavering spirit. May these pages serve as a beacon of hope, a guide on your journey toward self-discovery, and a catalyst for creating the authentic, fulfilling relationships you deserve. May you find within these words the courage to redefine your standards, to set boundaries with unwavering confidence, and to embrace the power of self-love as the foundation upon which all healthy relationships are built. This is a celebration of you, your journey, your triumphs, and your unwavering belief in the possibility of a future filled with genuine love, joy, and happiness. Never forget your worth, never underestimate your power, and never stop believing in the magic that awaits you. This journey may be challenging, but know that you are not alone. We are in this together, sister.

127 pages, Paperback

Published March 20, 2025

About the author

A little bit of a foodie, Danielle Duncan enjoys cooking good meals and watching the Food Network. Amidst hours spent with Downton Abbey and other period movies, she worked her way through a Master's in Writing Popular Fiction from Seton Hill University so she could write touching stories of her own...and now she's enjoying every minute of it.

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