How do you rate a 200-year-old memoir from a different culture? The best I can do is to go on my level of enjoyment. But this is certainly a valuable book for anyone interested in late 18th/early 19th century China.
Born in 1763, Shen Fu was essentially a failed member of the literati—he did not succeed at civil service exams and ultimately gave up his studies in his teens, opting instead to follow his father into a career as a personal secretary for government officials. This meant his work was precarious, as said officials paid out of their own pocket, and he found himself consistently short of money and depending on more successful family and friends. He married an interesting woman, who in his recollections comes across as more intelligent than he was and also more sensitive, unhappy with the role she was forced into and without the outlets (most notably travel and sightseeing) that her husband found. Of the “six records,” only four are known to exist, covering overlapping periods of the author’s life but each with a different focus: marriage, leisure, hardships, and travel.
I read the Sanders translation (2011), which is perhaps not the prettiest language but which certainly excels in the supplementary material: it includes maps, a family tree, a chronology of events, and extensive footnotes explaining every cultural and literary reference in the text. Some of this is perhaps overkill, but the publisher certainly put work into it.
Some of the most interesting episodes, to me:
- The author’s wife, Yun, was bummed about not being able to attend a festival because she was a woman. The author helped her disguise herself as a man and passed her off as his cousin. The disguise fell apart when they encountered other women (relegated to a secluded spot) and she casually touched one on the shoulder, which was incredibly offensive until she revealed herself.
- When the couple are in their early 30s, Yun attempts to buy the author a 15-year-old concubine. He seems less interested than she is—despite an earlier episode in another town where he spends a lot of time on the “pleasure boats” with “singing girls,” and at one point has to smuggle two of them out of the city via the sewers because they weren’t allowed within city walls—but then Yun is really invested, openly telling her husband that she wants to be with this girl in some unspecified way herself. His family is pissed when they find out because Yun has become sworn sisters with a prostitute (the other sworn sister of hers who appears in the text is a prosperous wife, with whose family the couple eventually go to stay, though Yun later says they aren’t that close).
- When they go to stay with Yun’s well-off friends, the couple for some reason need to leave behind their children. So they hastily betroth their 14-year-old daughter to a cousin they have mixed feelings about, while setting up their 12-year-old son in job training with another relative. They assure the daughter they’ll be back in 2-3 years (!) and make her restrain her distraught brother on their departure, while also hiding the truth from him. This whole episode seems to be treated very matter-of-factly, though it can be hard to tell in translation.
- The author’s father apparently has the right to have his adult sons executed for unfilial behavior, which he reminds the author of before kicking him out of the house over stuff like being angry that Yun referred to him disrespectfully (“your old man”) in a private letter to her husband. Somehow no blame attaches to the father for this whole situation, which began with his getting Yun to procure him a concubine behind his wife’s back.
- The author and his friends love to go visit monasteries as a “retreat” to “the simple life” etc. etc., and come across exactly as insufferable as modern urbanites about it. At one point a monk asks one of his friends for local political news and the friend insults the monk and storms out of the monastery in disgust—the author and the rest of the friends apparently agreeing that it was inappropriate of the monk to bring up such vulgar matters when they are there to relax. Meanwhile they spend a lot of time playing drinking games with monks (and also without them, they drink a lot).
- The whole “singing girls” episode is also fun only from the perspective of the vacationing men. The girls reveal to the author that they were sold into prostitution, hate it, and are often treated poorly by the johns. His favorite seems to be hoping he will buy her from the madam, which he does not (for lack of money? Unclear).
Unfortunately the whole book is not quite so interesting. Here were my least favorite parts:
- Shen Fu’s opinions on bonsai pruning, flower arranging, household DIY, and garden layouts (basically all of Record Two)
- Shen Fu’s opinions on the merits of the literary classics (mostly relayed through stilted dialogue with his wife in Record One)
- Lengthy descriptions of the natural beauty of various tourist sites, plus lists of sites Shen Fu wants you to know were definitely not worth the trouble (Record Four—though happily I did also find some interest in his travel stories)
That said, in the end I’m glad I pushed through the parts that interested me less to finish the book; it’s not long and as a cultural artifact it is fascinating. Worth checking out if you are interested.