When you break it all down, you have two you keep it, or you let it go.
Psychic medium and energy healer, Valentine deFrancis, does a deep dive into the psychological strategy of mimicking, breaking down the reasons and excuses people use for not moving forward with their lives.
“As children, we're at the mercy of conditioning from what we see and hear. Our parents' attention and love are what we're after, all the time. To acquire what we need from our caretakers when they’re not giving us what we need, we end up mimicking them—a form of self-bonding. Unfortunately, the problem arises when the adopted mechanism of mimicking no longer serves us, but instead, produces a battleground of uncertainty and fear.”