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The perfect match can't be far--certainly not at a Regency-themed singles retreat--or so podcaster Zoe Dufour believes. After years of creating content for her relationship podcast inspired by Regency etiquette and era-appropriate rules for romance, she knows her listeners have anticipated this retreat. But she also attends with expectations of her finding the ideal modern-day gentleman who can meet every one of the nonnegotiables on her checklist.
  
Harrison Lundquist, Zoe's podcast producer and best friend's brother, reluctantly agrees to attend the retreat to capture footage while seeking a career-advancing promotion. He views the retreat as ridiculous. And Zoe's methods for finding her real-life Mr. Darcy? Downright absurd! But as he films her whirlwind dates, his growing feelings for her are sidelined by suitors vying for her attention. When Zoe realizes her ideal checklist might be holding her back, she must decide if she's willing to rewrite her rules and take a chance on the person who has been there all along.   
  
With this Regency-infused spin on a contemporary rom-com, Mollie Rushmeyer's witty characters, touch of whimsy, and sweet romance will win hearts.

351 pages, Kindle Edition

First published September 1, 2025

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Mollie Rushmeyer

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Mollie writes Contemporary Fiction with a Heart for History, a blend of modern settings and fascinating historical elements woven throughout.

A born and bred Midwestern gal, Mollie Rushmeyer, makes her home in central Minnesota with her husband and two beautiful daughters. She is not only a bibliophile (the dustier the better, in her opinion), she’s a true Britophile at heart. Tea and coffee fuel her travels, by Google maps at least, and her passion for the written word.

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944 reviews2,289 followers
September 30, 2025
So close to a 5 star!

If not for that annoying third act break up hinging on assumptions and miscommunication, this would be considered a perfect rom-com for me.

Zoe was opinionated and headstrong, which was a refreshing change from the typical insecure heroines in rom-coms. Harrison was also a solid love interest that held his opinion but wasn't rude about it. I really liked the protective nature of their relationship.

Best friend's brother trope is one of my favourites because it adds a familiar aspect to the characters' relationship. This author utilized this dynamic perfectly! There was banter, but also genuine mutual support between Zoe and Harrison. His filming of the dates was so funny.

I liked the setting and the side characters. They added interest to the storyline and Zoe's journey.

The faith content was also perfectly balanced. Not too preachy, but still present enough that it was obvious that the characters cared and practiced their faith.

This holds a special place for single Christians. Zoe's revelation about God's design for her and the care of her heart's desires was beautiful and considerate. It wasn't demeaning to those who want to be married, but it also pointed Christian singles to the Lord and His timing. I thought it was really well written.

Unfortunately, the conflict that arose in the relationship lowered the quality of the story for me. After everything the characters talked through and learned about each other, for her to get mad and blame Harrison for the thing was just annoying and a missed opportunity to show a mature and healthy option for dealing with hard emotions. It also drew out the story in a way that didn't add depth to Zoe's character. Harrison learned stuff I guess, but I wanted more out of their resolution.

Other than that though, I truly loved reading this and would highly recommend it.
I'll definitely be keeping my eyes out for more books by this author!

No language and only mild kissing. Strong faith content.
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701 reviews993 followers
September 5, 2025
The Rules of Falling for You by Mollie Rushmeyer
4 Stars
Blog Post: https://bookloveramanda.blogspot.com/...


What a delightful Christian rom-com with a Jane Austen twist!

Read if you like:

- Best Friends Brother Trope
- Jane Austen Elements in Books
- Podcast Details
- Books that make you Laugh
- Romance with lists/rules
- Regency References
- Forced Proximity
- Diabetes Rep
- Secret Admirer Letters
This was very charming. I liked how the author combined the regency inspired romance with a modern rom-com setting. We follow Harrison and Zoe in this book. Harrison is Zoe's podcast producer and best friend's brother. He agrees to attend a regency themed singles retreat with her to capture footage as Zoe searches for her real life "Mr. Darcy". Zoe has this ideal checklist, which undoubtedly has too many requirements lol. Harrison, the true man of her dreams, is right in front of her. When will she realize?

Harrison is such an honest man, a man of integrity. I loved how his cared about her. Zoe wasn't too sure about what to do with her feelings, but when things finally came to a close, I loved their resolution together. It was sweet.

This book beautifully highlights the message of trusting God’s timing instead of trying to control your love life with personal expectations or rigid “lists of requirements.” Usually those lists don’t truly matter and God’s plans are far greater. And even if you are not in a relationship, God's plan still remains true for your life.

I may have found myself being a little less engaged in some parts vs others, but overall I really enjoyed my time in this book. It made me smile, laugh and had the light hearted elements I enjoy in romance. Bonus points for this Jane Austen Pride and Prejudice fan here! :) p.s. 2005 P&P is my fav, haha!

Would recommend. Thank you to Bethany House for a complimentary copy of this book to read and review. All thoughts are my own.
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632 reviews78 followers
August 4, 2025
This was such a fun story! I loved the best friend’s brother trope and the setting was perfect. Throw in some secondary character romances, unrequited love, secret admirer letters, and lots of lists and rules, and you’re in for a treat.

Harrison has had feelings for Zoe for years but has always been stuck in the friend zone. When he heads back home after a breakup, he takes a job working with Zoe and his sister on their podcast. His hope is to mend his friendship with Zoe. What he doesn’t expect is for all the old feelings to come rushing back. And worst of all, he is expected to film her dating at a singles retreat. If he can't have her, he wants to make sure only the best man does. But what if that best man is him? Would he take the risk of losing their friendship to throw his hat in the ring?

Zoe has always felt comfortable with Harrison. He’s always been there for her. But he’s her total opposite, and after many failed relationships, she needs a sure thing. So the list it is. As she and Harrison spend more time together, it’s hard not to notice how amazing he is with her. But he doesn’t follow the list, and he is only planning to stay in town temporarily. It seems far too risky to consider him as anything more than a friend. But is it a risk worth taking?

This was a fun read. Lots of Regency references, forced proximity, and the romance was oh so sweet. The side characters’ romances were just as enjoyable. I did have a few moments where I struggled to stay fully engaged, or maybe I just wasn’t grasping the depth of all the references to feel completely pulled in. But as the story went on, I found myself rooting for Harrison and Zoe and drawn into the push and pull of their feelings. Mollie has written a fun read with this one.

I received a complimentary copy. This review reflects my honest opinion.
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34 reviews9 followers
August 30, 2025
Pre-Read:
loving the regency era themed books this year 🫶
Thank you to netgalley and the publishers for an Audio ARC in exchange for an honest review.

During the read notes:
-I did not realize this was Christian fiction which is not my normal go-to. But it's always good to try new genres :)
-Why does Harrison keep calling himself a brother to Zoe? It's been a concerning amount of times.
-The narration pacing from Kyle Tait as our MMC is inconsistent enough to pull me out of the story, however Emma Faye as our FMC really has a believable podcast voice and I like her fast pace.
-I appreciate that even though this is a lighthearted romance book it's not romanticising their faith, with Zoe even discussing her struggles with her own faith.
-This is starting to show some odd traits, and I really hope that Zoe is going to want something more in life than just a husband. Because, it's just starting to feel like trad wife propaganda at this point.
-The obsession of being married by 30 is something I don't understand why we're still doing. but it just feels so infantilizing at points even though our FMC is 29.
- When someone mentions Ben "Oh brother, this guy STINKS"
-The level of regency dating rules is less Jane Austen and reads more as trad wife reasons
-I'm sorry but Kyle Tait doing a voice for a female character sounds like the discords mod memes and I cannot take it seriously
-The whole yearning situation is great, only when it turns into love. This "love" feels very service level for me :/

Overall, this story fell completely flat for me. The romance felt 2 dimensional and the characters constantly conflicted their own opinions. 1.75 ⭐️ rounded up

What I do like like about The Rules of Falling for You by Mollie Rushmeyer:
-The absolute pining from Harrison
-How much Zoe and Eden care about each other.
-Even though it's Christian fiction, it's not the focal point of the story

Why you might like this book:
-Clean, wholesome romance
-Brothers best friend
-HE falls first and long term pining
-Jane Austen SUPERFAN
-Historical costumes
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2,401 reviews224 followers
August 8, 2025
3.5 ⭐

If you enjoy Regency romance, Jane Austen, podcasts, romcoms, dual perspectives and contemporary romance sprinkled with faith and humour, this is not one to miss!

Zoe Dufour, 29, believes waiting for her Mr Darcy is worth the wait. She’s been focused on finding him before her 30th birthday, and, after several mismatches and mishaps, she has compiled a list of requirements she’s looking for.

How wonderful to be reminded that there’s more to a relationship than chemistry and good looks. It’s also good to take time out to laugh at ourselves!

I was gifted this copy and was under no obligation to provide a review.
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70 reviews18 followers
August 29, 2025
*Full Review*

🩵The Rules of Falling for You by Mollie Rushmeyer🩵

🎧🎉 ARC Audiobook!! 🎉🎧

📖Expected Publication Date: September 2, 2025📖

Tropes and things you’ll like:

🎀 Best Friend’s Older Brother
🎀 He falls first
🎀 Friends to Lovers
🎀 Grumpy x Sunshine
🎀 Forced Proximity
🎀 Slow Burn
🎀 A Singles Regency Retreat
🎀 Known each other since childhood
🎀 The cute, witty banter!
🎀 A TON of Jane Austen quotes and comments

WHAT. A. BOOK.
A Regency-inspired RomCom that is also Christian Fiction??!
Sign me up!!! 🙌🙌

~ Narrators ~
I listened to the audiobook and I may (at first) disliked the narrators but, soon enough it started clicking with the characters and I started imagining them to sound like the narrators.

~ Plot ~
This book had me rolling!!! So much humor and hilarious moments, and yet Rushmeyer puts the serious trials and faith into a greater perspective in how to live our lives to the fullest but still trusting in God, for He knows our future and does what is best for us.

—> Miss Zoe Dufour
The “Love advice by Regency rules” Podcaster. The Pride and Prejudice Enthusiast. The love of Harrison’s life…
She was great! A little stubborn at times (those times being a little more than frustrating with her choices regarding “suitors”) but she came through. I also felt like her having a chronic illness made her more real in a way for me.. I want to point out, as well, that she was a Plant Mama!! I literally kicked my feet and giggled 😂 (I don’t think I’ve ever read a book where the FMC is a plant lover.) 🤫It’s because my mom is one, haha🤫😂
Zoe had a sweet clumsiness about her and such a loving and shy spirit that made her so lovable.

—> Mr. Harrison Lundquist
The best friend’s brother. The podcast producer. The sweet guy who’s got it bad for his sister’s friend…
He was so hilarious and yet SO SWOONY! He was the reason I would burst out laughing while I was listening to the audiobook. And that library scene… and in his room.. *cough cough* [Blushes and giggles giddily] I’ll leave that to you in whether or not you want to find out what happens, and not just in those parts… every single one.

I just adored this book! A great lovely book with faith, love, and a whole lot of Regency vibes!
Would totally recommend! 💗💗

I received this eARC audiobook for free via NetGalley and RBmedia in exchange for an honest review!

⚠️ Age recommendation: 15+ ⚠️

My rating: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

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Ages 10-12 rating: ⭐️

Ages 13-14 rating: ⭐️⭐️💫

Ages 15-16 rating: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️


Sexual Content:
6 kisses (2 not detailed, 2 semi-detailed, 2 detailed), 3 almost kisses, a handful of cheek kisses, jaw kisses, forehead kisses, and hand kisses, a nose kiss, and embraces. Noticing (including muscles), Tingles, Nearness, Dancing, Winks, Blushes, Heat, Warmth, and Flirting. Looking at lips, wanting to kiss, thinking about kissing, and thinking about someone’s lips. Seeing a couple kiss (not really detailed). A mention of dating, dates, girlfriends and boyfriends, cheating, and relationships. Zoe goes on several dates (most of them go wrong).
Zoe tries not to look at Harrison when his wet and white shirt is plastered from his torso and up. A bit of jealousy. A mention of a man who cheated on a woman in the past (off page). Zoe is trying to look for a suitable man to be her “Mr. Right” in the singles retreat. Love, falling in love, and the emotions.

Profanity:
None

Violence:
A little bit of blood (from injuries) and pain.
[No fighting, killing , or anything violent really]

POVs:
Dual POV
Switches between Zoe Dufour and Harrison Lundquist
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763 reviews332 followers
September 9, 2025
This story was so adorable! The references to Jane Austen and other regency era things abound throughout the story and I loved it! The regency marriage market event was so cute. Zoe and Harrison have a very cute relationship. I thought a sweet best friend’s brother story! And good Christian content too!
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

I voluntarily reviewed a complimentary copy of this book which I received from the author. All views expressed are only my honest opinion.
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421 reviews63 followers
August 29, 2025
I will forever be chasing Jane Austin and her books. And for that reason, THE RULES OF FALLING FOR YOU caught my eye on the NetGalley list.

In this we meet podcaster Zoe Dufour. Her podcast centers around Regency etiquette and era-appropriate rules for romance, so of course Ms. Austin's books will make an appearance from time to time.
While her dating life leaves much to be desired, she has a great idea...she will compile a list of requirements and date regency style- with chaperones and all. This will make for great podcast content right?
Well, insert her best friend for laughs and who happens to bring along her brother as their producer and you've got some cute comedic moments. Harrison has his own POV in this, and we find a yearning for our FMC that is soooo Mr. Darcy-esque.

A very cute read, and closed door for those who prefer their romances sweet not spicy. This one is set for release September 2nd, so a big thank you to NetGalley and Tantor Audio for an advanced listeners copy.
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Author 5 books366 followers
September 30, 2025
In "The Rules of Falling for You," Mollie Rushmeyer combines podcasting, diabetes representation, Regency enthusiasts, and the Twin Cities of Minnesota into a fun read with all the Jane Austen references.

Avid romance readers will enjoy this contemporary novel that's positively PACKED with tropes! Best friend's brother, check. Opposites attract, check. Friends-to-more, checkity check check!

If you fancy a book where Hallmark meets Austenland, "The Rules of Falling for You" just might be your cup of tea!

I received a complimentary copy of this book from the publisher via NetGalley. A favorable review was not required. All views expressed are my own honest opinion.
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Author 11 books208 followers
August 23, 2025
If you’re looking for a book where the MMC YEARNS, look no further.
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917 reviews388 followers
September 22, 2025
I had such a fun time reading this book!

A Podcaster who finds herself in a Regency wra singles retreat with her best friend and her friend's very handsome brother. Antics of matchmaking mixed with a very sweet romance and with a theme of learning that what God has for you may not be what you started out wanting, but His plans are always best.

I loved the sweet storyline and the singles dating games were such fun to read about!


*thank you to Bethany House for a complimentary copy, all thoughts are my own.
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2,865 reviews203 followers
September 9, 2025
I went back and forth about this book a bit. Overall, I enjoyed this sweet best friend’s brother romance. It was also a friends to more romance, as well, since Harrison and Zoe grew up as friends, too.

I really liked how well Harrison knew Zoe and how much he was tuned into what she needed health wise with her diabetes. He was so attentive to her needs and provided wonderful support for her at all times.

I did eventually find myself frustrated with Zoe simply because once Harrison made his interest and intentions fairly clear and was very straightforward in how he was feeling toward Zoe, she still wavered between seeming to not understand that he cared for her and thinking she needed someone completely different than Harrison. So, although I liked these two and wanted them to find happiness together, I also found myself wondering how Zoe could be such a bad judge of character over and over again.

I liked that the audio book was narrated by dual narrators and even with my frustrations with Zoe at times, I still enjoyed the story. I did enjoy that there was a clear faith thread throughout the novel.

I received a complimentary copy of this book. All opinions are my own.

You can read this review on my blog:
https://brittreadsfiction.wordpress.c...
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October 6, 2025
This was a fun regency romp! At the same time, I’m not quite sure what to rate it. I enjoyed it, but the ending nearly had me chucking the book across the room. Which I guess is a “kudos to the author moment” for inciting such fury inside me hahah. Nothing against Rushmeyer, I just really can’t stand the third act breakup trope.

*slightly spoilery ahead*
As much as I enjoyed the characters and unfurling of the story, Zoe’s inability to trust the goodness in Harrison was tiresome—which largely played into the “breakup”. But, the ending was sweet and definitely made it all worth it!
*end of spoilers*

My favorite characters were Jake and Eden though! Truly the MVPs of this whole shebang!

Anyway, I enjoyed this story and appreciated all the ties to Austen and literature. While there were a few descriptive moments of noticing that felt a little unnecessary, in my opinion, I appreciate when characters aren’t afraid to acknowledge what they find attractive about someone they like. Though I prefer them to be qualities vs solely physical appearance-based. This book definitely had a blend of both.

Oh, and that library was a dream!

Perfect for fans of contemporary romance with a regency flair, lots of heart, and romance found in unlikely places.

I’d definitely read another book by this author in the future!

Thank you Bethany House Publishers for providing me a copy of this book. All opinions expressed are my own.
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Author 1 book499 followers
September 5, 2025
4.5 stars

Oh my goodness, what a delightful book! It’s equal parts fun, meaningful, and sweet with the kind of swoony tension that kept me forgetting to breathe and had me fanning just from locked gazes. (I mean… ok Zoe, I know you prefer the BBC adaption of P&P but the sparks of suppressed longing between you and Harrison are ‘Matthew Macfadyen’s hand flex’ level of delicious.) The friendship between Zoe and Eden (Harrison’s sister) made me smile as much as Harrison and Zoe made me swoon, and the addition of Jake to their group dynamics was the perfection I didn’t know I needed. Mollie Rushmeyer’s writing voice brims with wit and heart, and I didn’t want to stop reading once I’d started. She throws in enough drama to keep it from being too easy for Harrison to reveal his feelings for Zoe but not so much that it felt unrealistic or frustrated me.

We all know how much I love a good friends-to-more romance, and The Rules of Falling for You definitely fits the bill – with an added layer of ‘best friend’s brother’ (or ‘sister’s best friend’, depending on whose POV you’re using) to make it even more spark-filled and grin-inducing. From the first moment we see Harrison’s gaze twinkling at Zoe across the restaurant in the opening scene, I knew I was in love. With him, yes of course, but also with THEM and their romance potential. I stayed enthusiastically invested in their waltz around each other, rooting (sometimes out loud) for these two to finally get their feelings sorted out. (Translation: Yes, i yelled at fictional characters. Don’t judge me.) Adding to my enjoyment was Harrison’s reluctant participation in all things Regency despite being a pretty wonderful amalgamation of Austen’s most beloved heroes, flaws and all. Zoe’s infectious enthusiasm for finding her own perfect hero makes her relatable to so many of us who have been in love with romance since we knew what it was, and so do the important lessons she learns about herself, about surrender, and about true Love along the way.

Bottom Line: The Rules of Falling for You by Mollie Rushmeyer is a delightful friends-to-more romance brimming with breathless chemistry, giggle-out-loud moments, all things Austen, and heartfelt lessons of faith. I would love having Zoe and Eden as besties, and I certainly wouldn’t complain about spending time with Harrison either. Nor would I complain about another book with these characters, especially if it involved getting Eden and Jake’s POV from the singles’ retreat! With a slow-burn tension worthy of a BBC period drama, The Rules of Falling for You is as entertaining and swoony as it is tender. Definitely a romance and characters you’ll root for from the very first page. (And, seriously, have I mentioned how swoony it is??) Perfect for fans of Jane Austen, Pepper Basham, and Austenland!

(I voluntarily reviewed a complimentary copy of this book.)

first reviewed at Reading Is My SuperPower
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331 reviews65 followers
September 21, 2025
OVERALL STAR RATING: 4/5
CLEAN RATING: 5/5

A Regency RomCom that will speak to every Jane Austen loving heart. This story is absolutely packed full of Austen references from start to finish. Quirky and loveable characters, great banter, Diabetes rep, light faith elements woven throughout and a fun best friend’s brother trope.

A lot of us like to plan and make lists in our everyday life – some of us like to make lists about exactly what we expect in life. Such is the case for podcaster Zoe Dufour. Her very specific checklist for finding a man almost confines and strangles her perception of those around her and nearly causes her to miss the perfect match that might have been right in front of her all along.

Zoe is setting off on an epic adventure to a Regency themed singles retreat. She’s determined to find her match and document the journey along with her podcast producer, Harrison, who also happens to be her best friend’s brother. Harrison’s forced knowledge of all things Regency is just adorable. Growing up with his Austen obsessed sister has him embarrassingly well versed in the Regency world. Zoe has never considered Harrison a match to Mr. Darcy – far from it, but their time spent together during this retreat might just having her seeing him through a different lens.

Harrison has always had a heart for Zoe and it’s sweet to watch their relationship start to “click”. Now, if only Zoe can cast aside this ridiculous checklist of hers. This story is a great reminder that while we naturally as humans like to take the reins and control our lives, God is the one that knows what’s best and allowing Him to orchestrate our heart’s desires is always going to be the smartest decision.

I received a complimentary copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.

*For more reviews and bookish content, be sure to follow me on Instagram @aliciasbooksanctuary
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297 reviews163 followers
August 29, 2025
⭐️⭐️⭐️💫(3.5)

Release date: September 2, 2025

Podcaster Zoe Dufour heads to a Regency-themed singles retreat, determined to meet her ideal gentleman who checks every box on her list. But her producer—and best friend’s brother—Harrison thinks the whole idea is absurd. As sparks fly behind the camera, Zoe must decide if love looks less like rules and more like risk.

I’m basically this main character and I feel exposed 🙈😂 There is no one who loves a list more, struggles to realize perfectionism isn’t always good, yet wholeheartedly believes the perfect romance is out there. Her optimism is infectious, but her heartfelt fears are what will endear you most. They’re certainly what endeared Harrison 🥹 This man is down bad and men should take notes on his dedication to pining. There’s something so pure about his angsty unrequited love that makes this burly, hockey-playing man tender. Honey, if someone is willing to cosplay for you, there’s no need to question their commitment.

If you’re a fan of Jane Austen, Austenland, or any form of Regency romance—AND cosplay—I’ve found your book of the year.

I’d also be remiss if I didn’t mention how comforting both characters’ quick little thoughts to God were. This author has a beautifully effortless way of showing how present the Lord can be in any moment without having to frame every scene around prayer or faith.

Thank you @bethanyhousefiction for the ARC 🥰 #BHPFiction I am so looking forward to reading Mollie’s next book to see where she takes this spunky and heartfelt writing style of hers.

Perfect for you if you like:
Unique mix of contemporary and regency
Cosplay
Sweet pining
Jane Austen superfans

Similar to:
Love at First Book by Jenn McKinlay (open door)
Book Boyfriend by Emily Wbiberley and Austen Siegemund-Broka
Some Like it Scot by Pepper Basham

⛔️closed door romance (kisses only)
⚠️sick parent, past proposal rejection
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896 reviews38 followers
August 24, 2025
Overall: 2.75⭐️ (rounded up)
• Audiobook Narration: 1.75⭐️
• Prose/Story: 3.25⭐️

This one was tough to get through—and unfortunately, the narration played the biggest role in that struggle. I genuinely dislike when an audiobook performance impacts my overall rating of a story, but in this case, it was impossible to ignore. I did round up, though my gut was leaning closer to a 2⭐️.

The Story:
The prose itself was fine, and I really enjoyed the concept. The blend of present-day storytelling with historical fiction touches was engaging, and it even made me want to take a vacation and have an adventure like this myself. Under different circumstances, I think I would have enjoyed the book more.

The Audio:
The audiobook is dual narrated by Emma Faye and Kyle Tait. At first, Faye’s narration seemed promising—her natural pace was refreshingly brisk, and she had a sweet, pleasant tone. However, at times her words blurred together, making it difficult to catch every detail at normal speed. Still, that would have been an easy adjustment on my end.

Things shifted in Chapter 3 when Tait’s narration began. His pacing was drastically different—painfully slow compared to Faye’s quick delivery. Normally, dual narrators try to match rhythms so listeners don’t have to constantly adjust playback speeds. That balance was missing here, and it pulled me out of the story again and again.

In addition to pacing, his delivery style just didn’t work for me. Many words came across as overly deliberate or even questioning mid-sentence, which left me unsettled and distracted from the plot. I ended up listening at 1.75x just to make it manageable, but that meant Faye’s chapters were sped up too fast. I’m surprised this discrepancy wasn’t caught during production, as it made for a frustrating and, at times, uncomfortable listening experience.

Final Thoughts:
The story itself had potential, with a charming plot and some enjoyable touches. Unfortunately, the audiobook production undermined that potential. If you’re interested in picking this one up, I’d recommend skipping the audio and waiting for the ebook or physical edition when it releases on September 2nd.

I was fortunate to receive a complimentary ALC from Tantor Audio NetGalley, which gave me the opportunity to share my voluntary thoughts.

How I Rate
Because I mostly read ARCs, I focus on how I think fellow readers with similar tastes will respond. I sometimes round up or down based on pacing, prose, or overall impact, and I try to keep my personal preferences from weighing too heavily.

⭐️ 1 Star – Finished, but not for me; I never DNF ARCs.
⭐️⭐️ 2 Stars – Struggled due to writing, content, or editing issues.
⭐️⭐️⭐️ 3 Stars – Decent read with untapped potential; recommend with some reservations.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 4 Stars – Really enjoyed it and would recommend for several reasons.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 5 Stars – Exceptional; lingers in my mind well after reading. A story I’d gladly revisit.

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285 reviews121 followers
August 19, 2025
🩷 Book Review 🩷

Thank you to the author and the publisher for this #gifted book!*
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Title: The Rules of Falling for You
Author: Mollie Rushmeyer
Genre: Romcom
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Synopsis: Zoe Dufour with the help of her best friend Eden has gained quite the online following with her Regency-romance themed podcast, but her real life romance is lacking to say the least. As she nears thirty, she increasingly feels the pressure to find a man before she’s an old maid. But her rules of dating seem to be a little outdated. Until she stumbles upon the Minnesota Marriage Mart—a Regency-themed singles retreat. Seeing this as the perfect podcast opportunity, Zoe and her team—which now includes Zoe’s older brother Harrison—set out to see if Zoe can find her perfect match and record some good content in the process. And Harrison is dreading it. And as much as he cares for his sister and her best friend, he’d rather be anywhere else. But as the dates turn into disasters, Harrison realizes his care may be deeper than he thinks. Will Zoe be able to see the Regency man she’s looking for has been there all along?

Analysis: Can I just tell you what an adorable story this is?! This has a Pride and Prejudice meets Bride Wars feel but with a bit of a gender twist. Even though I’m not a huge classics reader, this book met all the marks with the regency references set in modern time! I think any Jane Austen fan will absolutely love this one. It’s cute and sweet and oh-so-funny! Some of Zoe’s failed dates still bring a smile to my face 😂 I wouldn’t put this one as super realistic (even though I did tell Mollie she should work on that regency retreat 😉). But I think you’ll find you relate to the characters and their emotions. I also loved how Mollie added the faith elements without it feeling forced or cheesy. If you’re looking for a sweet romcom to close out your summer, this is the perfect book to try!

Star Rating: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

*I received a complimentary copy of this book. All thoughts and opinions expressed in this review are my own.
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266 reviews33 followers
September 25, 2025
I fully acknowledge that I am the right audience for this book and that I had a rollicking good time reading it while indulging in all things Jane Austen. Other Janeites will appreciate the literary references while seeing the main characters live out their own Regency adventure. In meeting Zoe, a popular podcaster who seeks to accomplish thirty Regency-themed tasks before her thirtieth birthday, we are treated to a whole host of fun while learning how certain medical conditions affect her and her family. Harrison, on the other hand, is the producer who is reluctantly cast into an Austenesque world and brings a dose of reality with him. Together, their scenes steal the show, especially given Zoe’s propensity toward accidents and clumsiness.

While I nearly smiled throughout every chapter due to how charming the characters were, I was just as touched by the spiritual content in the book. Zoe and Harrison are sensitive to the lessons that God is teaching them, and more importantly, respond in faith based on how they are growing in their walks with God. Even when it is easy to fall into old ruts and patterns of behaviour, there is the recognition that God is at work in their lives and that they need to keep trusting Him. This creates a beautiful love story that extends beyond genteelness and civility to pure devotion and faithful steadfastness. Readers who enjoy a self-aware story about Regency-era fascination will find The Rules of Falling for You to be humorous and romantic as the characters “never love by halves.”

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Many thanks to Bethany House Publishers and LibraryThing for providing a complimentary copy of this book for review consideration. All opinions are my own.
Profile Image for Celeste.
1,213 reviews2,546 followers
September 10, 2025
The Rules of Falling for You is a Christian rom-com that is also a love letter to Jane Austen and all things Regency. Zoe Dufour is the creator and host of a relationship podcast inspired by Regency-era etiquette and romance. She has a checklist of nonnegotiables for her own relationships, and it doesn’t look like anyone will ever measure up to her sky-high expectations. Enter news of the Minnesota Marriage Mart, a Regency-inspired single’s retreat. If Zoe can ever find her perfect modern gentleman, it will surely be here. She is joined at the retreat by her best friend and podcast co-founder, Eden, as well as Eden’s brother, Harrison, the podcast’s new producer. Harrison has carried a torch for Zoe for years, but she can’t seem to see him outside of being her best friend’s brother. Not that he could ever hope to win her heart, anyway, as he knows they don’t make sense on paper. And then there’s that checklist of hers…

I liked both Zoe and Harrison immediately. The supporting cast, from others involved in the podcast like Eden and Jake, to fellow retreat attendees like Sophia and Milton, were really charming additions to the story. I related a lot to Zoe, to her love of books and to her accident prone tendencies. But the miscommunication and Zoe’s focus on her list drove me crazy on occasion. I know that there wouldn’t have been much to the plot without those elements as sources of tension, though. Someone can seem perfect for you on paper, but that doesn't mean they're actually the right person for you. And that’s a lesson Zoe had to learn for herself.

I will always have a soft spot for books written specifically for book lovers, and this romance fits the bill. If you’re someone who loves classical literature, especially the works of Jane Austen, The Rules of Falling for You was written with you in mind. While being an Austenite isn’t a requirement for enjoying this novel, all of the references to her work and her characters added an extra layer of joy to my experience. I must confess, while part of me loves all the literary puns and jokes, another, smaller part of me found them cheesy. Incredibly enjoyable, but they did have me rolling my eyes on occasion. As for the faith element, I think Rushmeyer implemented it really well. It wasn’t a huge focus of the plot, but it was a steady presence in the lives of our protagonists, one that became more focal as they grew and came to understand more deeply that God is trustworthy, even in our darkest of times.. And it always felt organic, never forced.

The Rules of Falling for You is a hug of a book. If you’re looking for a story that feels like a Christian Hallmark movie in novel form, this is for you. And if you’re a lover of all things Regency, this is for you. It’s a charming story that brought a smile to my face every time I picked it up.
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675 reviews90 followers
August 26, 2025
This was such a fun story! I mean how could you not love a story that has a female character that absolutely loves all things Regency and is obsessed with Jane Austen and a bestie who loves all things Lord of the Rings. There is definitely a best friends brother's trop on this story and I loved it! Harrison is quite the leading man and had some amazing swoony moments.

Harrison and Zoe have known each other since they were younger and have liked each other but circumstances made it to where they never professed their love towards each other, instead they remained great friends. Both Zoe and Harrison carry some baggage that they need to deal with. Zoe goes full force with this list of what seems impossible traits in looking for a mate. Harrison also has his own past hurts and believes that Zoe is living in this dream world and needs to step back into reality.

Overall I thought this was a great and fun story. There is a light faith thread throughout and it is told in dual point of view so you get both of their perspectives. The side characters were wonderful, I kind of want to know more about Harrison sister Eden and Jake... just a throwing it out there Ms. Rushmeyer!

I received a copy of this book for review. All views are my own.
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1,170 reviews
September 3, 2025
I must confess. I’ve never been a regency fan, and I only read the classics because I was required to in college. I know enough to be dangerous, and that’s about it.

BUT…

Mollie Rushmeyer has me wanting to revisit the classics my girls fell in love with and still love today. Zoe is so much clumsy fun, all heart, and hosts her own podcast about all things proper and period.

Harrison is obviously in love with Zoe, but she’s his little sister’s best friend. And he doesn’t get the Regency inspired stuff and nonsense she’s peddling.

It doesn’t help that he’s a witness to the most humiliating moment of Zoe’s life and the stupid things he said.

He volunteers to help with the podcast and somehow gets roped into attending a real life Regency event.

And that’s when the hilarity ensues!

If you love etiquette and classic romantic literature, period dramas and all the fancy, you will love this book! And if you’re like me and are meh on the whole thing, guess what? You’re going to love this book too!

I received an advance copy from the publisher. I’m under no obligation and my review has not been solicited.
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1,309 reviews74 followers
July 29, 2025
"We're just two imperfect people leaning into and giving back the grace and acceptance we've received."

This is Mollie Rushmeyer's debut in the romcom genre and it was such a fun adventure. Zoe's list-making, perfectionist, romance-loving first person voice was delightful to get to know. Zoe felt very real with her struggles, fears, and ambitions. Harrison was a relatable, down-to-earth hero who was completely devoted to Zoe though he suffered great angst from this unrequited love. His first person voice was sarcastic, witty, and charming. Their banter, as well as the banter between Eden and Harrison, was quite enjoyable. I loved how all things Regency were entwined in the story and how solid Zoe and Harrison's friendship was from the beginning. Yes, Harrison was Zoe's best friend's brother but he was also a very close friend, which made the romance more realistic. Though the faith thread wasn't heavy, it held the two main characters together; they were almost complete opposites except for their shared love for God and family.
It was really fun and special to see a Regency house party re-enacted in the 21st century. The pacing of the story lagged a bit in certain places; I know that romantic angst is the crux of all Regency (and Regency-infused) novels but Zoe and Harrison could have ruminated a little less, especially at the retreat. That being said, if you enjoy delicious romcom with a hefty dose of Regency era, you will totally love this book.

I received a complimentary copy courtesy of Bethany House via Interviews and Reviews and NetGalley. I was under no obligation to post a positive comment. All opinions are my own.
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178 reviews70 followers
October 22, 2025
I’m quickly falling in love with books by contemporary authors set in the Regency era so reading a contemporary rom-com full of Regency era vibes was so much fun!

First off, the idea of a weeklong Regency-themed single’s retreat—it was the setting I didn’t know I needed, but totally did! That mixed with the hijinks, drama, and interesting side characters made for good laughs and some serious eye rolls (at the characters, not the plot).

Mollie did a lovely job making faith feel organic in this story. I also loved the storyline surrounding Zoe’s diabetes and her mom’s fibromyalgia—it added depth to her character and her struggles. Also, this is my first time (that I can recall) reading first he falls first trope and I’ve decided that I need more of it! 😍

I really enjoyed reading this one and totally recommend this clean, sweet Regency-infused rom-com!

I received a complimentary copy of this book. My review is voluntary and all opinions are my own.
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59 reviews
August 29, 2025
Charming and heartwarming. Thank you NetGalley for the audio arc! I thoroughly enjoyed listening to “The Rules of Falling for You.” This was a cute combo of Austenland meets podcast meets dating show. Our FMC, Zoey, has had her heartbroken a few too many times and decides that a checklist for a boyfriend is just what she needs to make sure she meets her perfect gentleman. She’s obsessed with all things regency and Jane Austen and has a podcast dedicated to all those things with her best friend. When the opportunity comes available to attend a Regency Retreat, where lovers of Jane Austen can dress up and take a step back in time, Zoey and her friend take the podcast on a journey to meet their own perfect gentlemen. There is one catch though, Zoey’s best friend’s brother, Harrison, is their cameraman and he doesn’t buy into all of the rules Zoey has placed for herself, he wants to swoon her and help her see what real love really is. Can he sway her away from her list? Or will she get in her own way? I enjoyed listening to Zoey’s disastrous dates, and loved the way Harrison absolutely yearns for her.
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96 reviews
August 28, 2025
What a delight this book was! A sweet tale for all regency lovers without the spice (but plenty of sizzle!) There were so many laugh out loud moments (I.e. tripping down the stairs in her regency finery— only to have a dashing suitor catch her at the bottom; a unfortunate mishap when her not-so-charming date falls in the water and tries to recreate the Darcy-wet-shirt-scene from the BBC P&P) not to mention all the fabulous references to characters from Austen’s classics. The true icing on the cake was the best friend’s brother being the MMC and not loving all the regency things but attending (and participating) in all the regency events at this illustrious retreat! Add in a sprinkle of betrayal and miscommunication and even the third act break up made sense! All in all a delightful book.

*thanks to NetGalley for this ARC*
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58 reviews
August 31, 2025
So lucky to be an ARC reader thank you. This is a delightful romance novel that combines elements of a best friend’s brother trope with a slow-burn romance. The story is enriched by the close proximity between the characters, which adds to the tension and chemistry. A unique aspect of the book is its frequent references to Jane Austen, which will appeal to fans of classic literature. The main character’s obsession with the Regency era is cleverly integrated into the plot, culminating in an interesting Regency camp setting where their love is finally realised. Additionally, the novel includes some spiritual references, adding depth to the narrative. Overall, it’s a sweet and engaging romance book
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74 reviews3 followers
August 31, 2025
This was such a delightful book! I am a huge Jane Austen fan, and I love reading Regency period books. The Rules of Falling For You is set in modern day, but lots of references to Jane Austen’s works and the Regency period. I’m not a huge contemporary fiction rom-com reader, but I do love Jane Austen as well as the long time friends to lovers trope. I thought this would be a fun book to read! I had just finished some heavier books as I am a primarily historical fiction fan, so this was a nice “palate cleanser” of a book that was light-hearted with just the right touch of humor and a little bit of angst. You know that Zoe and Harrison will have their HEA, but how will they get there? I loved Harrison as a swoony MMC. This was a sweet, clean read. As Christian Fiction, it does make references to their faith and God’s sovereignty and goodness, but it does not feel heavy handed. You can make all the lists and plans that you want, but God will give you something far better than you could even ask for. I would definitely recommend this book if you enjoy Rom-Coms, Regency period and Jane Austen in general, especially if you are also in agreement that the 1995 P&P is the best version! 😉

I received an Advanced Reader Copy of The Rules of Falling For You in exchange for an honest review. All opinions expressed are my own.
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