- WOW, 5 STARS, I’ve never walked away from a book so refreshed. I originally discovered this book recommend to me on Spotify Audiobooks. The description intrigued me so much I found a copy via interlibrary loan.
- I didn’t realize how much I’d love this book. The topic itself was already super intriguing but man, this threw me for a loop and threw out all assumptions I had of the early 1900s.
- I love the introduction, it’s so rich and full of research context, the authors’ process of discovery. The way the author’s have both have set the scene is just so vivid and full. I have so many questions about the research process and how they pulled this timeline together. I want a documentary, this topic is fascinating!
Highlights ✨
- I’m shocked sex work was booming when the men:women ratio was out of whack. More men and less women in the population, higher demand for sex work. But when the women’s population increases, more women to marry, all of a sudden sex work is bad! EW brothels? Let’s shut them down. Your morality is in question! Let’s clean up the streets but now you have to literally be a street walker, there is no brothel for your protection. HUH?? The hypocrisy is unreal, only when it better serves men is it normalized. WILD.
- Also, to curtail men’s vices, with the though “if men’s urges were fulfilled they wouldn’t commit violent sex crimes.” Hence, not being satisfied in your marriage, seek a sex worker. But I’m in awe of learning how women were led to prostitution contrasted to the reasons we know of in contemporary times. Unfortunately it was super common in cases of rape, women were questioned of their morality, “you must be a promiscuous woman if he r**** you.” Then her fate is sealed once people know and she turns to sex work to survive. It’s so heartbreaking how society continues to treat women. The misogyny is disgusting and cruel and hard to read through without twisting my face.
- Also, the fact that if a woman was dressed nice and had jewelry, it was automatically assumed she was a prostitute!! But then on the other hand, the city mayor was out publicly with his mistress and it wasn’t taboo, just a common thing to do. I’m in awe!
- I was fascinated by the fact that city hall was doing free STI testing a woman had to be tested every 4 days to receive a certificate that deemed her healthy to work, but if she wasn’t healthy her face and full name would be up for the public to see IS WILD. I’m shocked they provided affordable/free resources to sex workers to help them during early 1900s.
- In the intro we learn more about the Red Light Abatement Act, societal taboo’s/exceptions to prostitution given the timing and political climate, black women’s wages and racist attitudes, Chinese women being kidnapped into prostitution compared to their white colleagues who made more money and had more freedom, queer men/gender bending in Barbary Coast.
- These topics could each use their own books but I appreciate seeing historic content addressing their existence and impact, even though these anonymous letters of response have no proof of race/ethnicity.
- I love the comparison of a loveless marriage to prostitution
- Oh this quote just absolutely broke my heart and still rings true today for all of the gossips in our lives “Why should these people have been so eager to find out something wrong with my life? Why couldn’t they have been all forgiving and broad-minded…?” (Page 225) That’s on period!!!
- “Remember that it’s the people who have made mistakes and suffered for them, that make the world worth while.” (Page 236)
- “Don’t let your good fortune make you hard toward us.” (Page 236) PERIOD that’s on privilege!
- What an ending and WHAT A BOOK, 5 STARS!