WOW!!!!!
Even going in already excited about the premise, it's such a dramatic idea and shakeup to what you're used to with time looping device rules that I was being both surprised and going "oh and that makes total sense" as soon as I was reading the summary of the book jacket, and then immediately again when reading the very first page of the book. Even deliberately trying to take my time, I read this book in 2 days and had a nonstop great time doing so.
Lance Rubin's books have this brilliant best-of-both-worlds balanced dynamic in that writing that has so much life and heart and versatility while also having all the benefits of the thought and effort behind the scenes that make it a joy to read, both so easy to devour and so clearly continuously substantial, no tradeoff between what makes the reading delightfully enjoyable and what ideas there are to explore and consider. The way the overall plot flows along just as well as the experience of reading from one sentence or paragraph or page or section to another is all the more impressive with how easily 16 Forever's multiple time loops could get tangled up, but here is handled so deftly in what info is conveyed and how that there's absolutely no trouble for the reader—though there's plenty of motivation to wonder about it yourself before you're given details. Jumping right into the main character's situation as he also immediately learns about it is an incredible start to a read, and the investment and intrigue for the reader never stops.
Just like the balance between what comes from spontaneity vs. deliberation, or surface vs. substance, another remarkable element in any Lance Rubin books is the humor throughout, and 16 Forever is absolutely no exception. Not only is the clever and funny and voice in characters' narration and dialogue an inimitable delight, but an example of how the only opposite of being funny is not being funny—the emotion and earnestness and anything else that might be called "serious" elements are always supported by the writing, truly using comedy as a lens which can be turned on any ideas or moments, and what the use of that lens can do. 16 Forever and the author's other works all incorporate such strong themes that in a way distill to "Yeah, you just gotta feel those feelings" while fully getting into the messy reality of how it's still never really a matter of "just" doing that (or we'd already be doing it) with characters who are dealing with a lot of novel and sometimes intense situations, plenty to be thrilled about or terrified of, and varying obstacles in the midst of all of it, and can be getting caught up in any of this while beginning to really build up a new perspective on their life and world and consider new ideas about what they really want and how they can really have it—something adults can understand completely too, whether remembering tumult of the past or just relating to it in a present that never actually settles into a reliably static existence, even if that's pitched as ideal and attainable.
Jumping off of that, another remarkable element is how efficiently and effectively a sense of the setting of every moment is created. You know where you are, when you are, who's around, with little details set up and revisited throughout a scene. There's plenty of characters with different voices and personalities and interests, plenty of events touched on that are making up people's day-to-day lives, all handled while keeping the focus where we need the focus to be, without pretending that nothing really exists outside that focus—it always feels like the characters have full lives in a full world, and it makes it all the easier to connect and relate and imagine the situations they're in. This is only highlighted through the use of multiple POV narration, where we get a sense of a new perspective both visual and emotional.
The way character's observations and emotional states play off of and into each other is so in tune with their individual strengths and limitations alike—there's so much heart, characters are aware of and motivated by their feelings throughout, including consciously reflecting/remarking on them, and yet they all deal with the realistically complicated nature of this, made all the more impossible to really get a handle on (much less freeze into something permanently Understood & Handled) through the focus in turn on all these characters' new and longtime (and a combination of the two) relationships, giving such thoughtful focus to them all, to the strengths and trip-ups in both the novelty or familiarity of these relationships, and the value in all of them that makes them worth finding and wanting to keep. There's so much room found for the capacity of each individual relationship, and how these relationships affect each other. The thread of the romance between the main characters is very central while not in the least seeming like this does or must displace other connections and feelings or like it has to "transcend" the qualities that a real-life kind of dating experience at that age could have. The influence and connections possible between family, friends, mentors, acquaintances, strangers are all present with thought and care for the way all of this makes up all of our lives and who we are.
(Somehow, I forgot to touch on the specific element of how characters can clearly be expressing things about their emotions while holding back &/or not processing other feelings fully, and it's always so simple and powerful when the expression of those feelings come out in other ways through the description of actions that just crop up in the middle of their scene, just like happens in life, and the feeling of the genuine heart behind that is striking every time.)
Just like the matter of "You do have to feel your feelings," the simple but huge and answered-through-living-it questions about What Can Get Us Stuck and What Can Get Us Unstuck are explored throughout. It's such a fun and funny read while being all about living life and trying to figure things out and dealing with the whole spectrum of emotions, and how those can be totally present even in what seems like an unremarkable situation or something that's surely going smoothly Enough. The matter of moving towards living with more openness toward more possibilities, despite all the incredibly hard and even painful possibilities that come with that, are explored in this book which itself is so open and so alive that every bit of energy you put into reading it will be rewarded.
I was so excited to read this, and then getting to Actually Be Reading It was so special and a ride of getting a kick out of each page after another. Both immediately and then repeatedly surprised with the details of the story which keep combining to give you even more to be invested in; I sure can't think of any other time I had cause to look at the edges of the closed pages and be intrigued and excited by an element found there (a little Physical Book Copy bonus experience).
This thing is thoughtful, funny, fresh, such a great choice for anyone who enjoys YA with such a sense of humor and such heart out of appreciation for the kinds of little, would-be passing experiences that can totally be worthy of a ton of drama and novel of exploration. Absolutely get hold of this book and read it for yourself / recommend it for another reader, SO worthwhile, and check out other works of Lance Rubin's where you'll find the gift of more of the same—I'm only all the more hyped for any future works after getting to read 16 Forever. Get on it!!!