El placer de que todo te importe...

by David R. Hamilton, Gabriela Raidé (Translator)

Learn how practicing the art of kindfulness can support your mental and physical health, assist with memory and concentration, and help you find true happiness.

Kindfulness encapsulates all that mindfulness is but expands it with the addition of kindness. It brings all the benefits that mindfulness does and much more. Research has shown that kindfulness as a practice boosts happiness, relaxes the nervous system, reduces blood pressure and inflammation, helps to relieve muscular (especially back) pain, and even reduces the rate of wear and tear at the genetic level. Kindfulness takes us out of ourselves and our troubles and stresses, and shifts our focus onto the needs and well-being of others. It warms us from the inside.

This book is an invitation to bring kindness to work, to our neighborhoods, and into our homes. Kindfulness inspires us to see the best in each other, to value each other, and to treat each other with respect. It guides us to empathize with people’s challenges, to walk a mile or two in their shoes, and inspires us to do what we can to help. But kindfulness does not equate to being soft or a pushover. It can be fierce, passionate, and energy fuelled. It can be loud. Kindfulness can inspire us to laugh together, to dance together, to sing at the top of our voices. Kindfulness is a celebration of our humanness.

This book will teach you how to expand mindfulness away from self-focus with kindness, and provides a set of guidelines for living more kindfully. You will discover how kindfulness is both a practice and a way of being in everyday life that can bring us the joy and contentment we all crave.

Genres: Nonfiction, Psychology, Personal Growth

216 pages, Paperback

Published June 3, 2025

About the author

David has a first class honors degree in chemistry, specializing in biological and medicinal chemistry. He has the slightly geeky honour of having achieved 100% in his 3rd year university degree exam in ‘Statistical Mechanics’, which is a branch of quantum physics applied to chemistry.

After completing his PhD, he worked for 4 years in the pharmaceutical industry, first developing drugs for cardiovascular disease and cancer, then a year managing leadership and change projects. During this time he also served as an athletics coach and manager of Sale Harriers Manchester, one of the UK’s largest athletics clubs, leading the Junior Men’s team to three successive UK finals. Upon leaving the pharmaceutical industry, he co-founded the international relief charity Spirit Aid Foundation and served as a director for 2 years.

While writing his first book (2004-2005), he taught chemistry (main) plus ecology and mathematics (secondary) at West College Scotland (formerly, James Watt College of Further and Higher Education) and tutored chemistry at the University of Glasgow.

He’s now a bestselling author of 8 books (No’s 9 and 10 are due out in 2017) published by Hay House UK, and offer talks and workshops that use science to inspire – fusing neuroscience, the mind-body connection, kindness, and philosophical and eastern spiritual teachings. He also writes a regular blog on his website as well as occasional blogs for the Huffington Post (US edition) and Psychologies Life Labs, and is a columnist for Soul and Spirit Magazine. In 2016, David won the Kindred Spirit, ‘Best MBS Writer Award’.

He has been featured in numerous publications, including ELLE, RED Magazine, Psychologies, YOU Magazine, Good Housekeeping (both UK & US), and several newspapers.

You might wonder how he got into writing on the subjects he does. In his own words, “Well, during my time in the pharmaceutical industry, I was fascinated by the placebo effect – how people improve through believing they are receiving a drug – so I began to study mind-body interactions in my spare time. I decided to leave the pharmaceutical industry after 4 years because I wanted to educate about the mind-body connection, help people to believe in themselves more, and spread a little more kindness in the world in my own way.”

Reviews

[Chris Boutté · Rating 5 out of 5]

This didn’t know what to expect from this book, but I was blown away by it. Usually, books that talk about kindness can come off pretty cheesy, but this was awesome. David Hamilton teaches the reader about how kindness not only helps others, but it helps us too. In addition to turning to some research to back his arguments, he also discusses Buddhist philosophy and some other interesting topics. This is a great read, and I highly recommend it.

[Deborah Anderson · Rating 5 out of 5]

Truly amazing. I listened to this book as an audiobook over a period of a month when I had some me time. I love the idea of kindfulness, being kind to others as well as to yourself. There are examples given throughout the book.
I did feel that all politicians should be made to read this book and then practice what they have read but maybe that’s my last unkind thought? I will try to incorporate kindfulness whenever possible.
Thank you for writing such an amazing book!!

[Seamus Corry · Rating 5 out of 5]

Dr David R Hamilton thank you so much for writing this amazing book. Its packed of Kindfulness and Kindlines we can all use to brighten our days, reduce stress and create kindipples (one more for the dictionary editors).

I will gift you that one. Well worth a read. From one Trekkie to another. Live long and prosper my friend

[Marissa · Rating 2 out of 5]

I had such high expectations for this one and was heavily let down. Caught myself wanting to skim the contents when I got to the end just to be done with the book all together.

The whole premise is to practice kindness as much as possible in daily life, but it was SOOO redundant, the same thing was said 243562w346 times and maybe I just already know how important being kind is, so I didn't need a refresher but either way......would not recommend per se. If someone is called to read this, I wouldn't say it was bad but just not the book for me.

Takeaways: (Why I gave 2 stars because I did have some good takeaways!)

-majority of humans are just trying to figure it out with the common goal of attempting to be as happy as possible
-its not the actual events of kindness, its how we interpret them
-taking the high road always feels better
-there are times when it takes more strength to be kind, then to react aggressively
-check in with yourself like how you would check in with a friend (common theme I am seeing throughout my self help journey)
-ups and downs are normal: written into human experience (like the waves, breath, heart beat, night and day)
-some major problems like systematic inequality, won't only benefit from a gentle nudge it requires a collective movement
-look at learning as something that enhances you, not something you HAVE to do
-everyone benefits from kindness-ripple effect
-acknowledge your mistakes and apologize

[Katie · Rating 5 out of 5]

I really enjoyed this read and found it insightful.

"Remember just as flowers need both sunshine and rain to grow, we need a mix of experience to truly blossom. Next time you're feeling a bit under the weather, say to yourself. This, too, shall pass, and after the rain, flowers will bloom. Stay vibrant, and always keep your chin up!"
"No rain, no flowers."

[Steve Vaughn]

This is a practical account on how being kind benefits everyone.

It is like, here is a checklist for good health:
- get lots of sleep
- excercise daily
- limit your caloric intake
- eat good food
- don't text while driving
- be kind to yourself and others.

I enjoyed the book

[Polina D · Rating 5 out of 5]

Another great book by David R. Hamilton, definitely worth reading it, great reminder for the importance of kindness!

[Neil M · Rating 5 out of 5]

Loved this book and David Hamilton research, style and approach, highly recommended!

[Karsten Jahn · Rating 1 out of 5]

Not my vibe…

[Adaya Medina · Rating 3 out of 5]

siendo un libro de autoayuda, tiene cositas interesantes.
Me gusta que sus datos sean de estudios médicos y que las principales dirrecciones provienen del budismo.

En sí, el libro nos dice que tenemos que volver a ser amables, en ser empaticos. En criar a personas que de adultos puedan vivir en comunidad, y no como ahora que cada uno va a su bola, y si ven a alguien que necesita ayuda, se dan media vuelta y se piran.

[Lightwhisper · Rating 4 out of 5]

Li a versão portuguesa da editora Pergaminho, O prazer de não se estar nas tintas, e achei-o muito científico e prático, ao que gostei, mas demasiado repetitivo sobre o mindfulness.. embora dite as vantagens e desvantagens e introduza o conceito de kindfulness :)

[Louise · Rating 5 out of 5]

Oerhört intressant forskning och presenterat på ett lätt sätt.

[Fiona · Rating 4 out of 5]

gives you purpose and courage to be kind to assholes even when it's not deserved by showing you how YOU actually feel better when you make OTHERS feel good aswell

[Allie Samuels · Rating 3 out of 5]

Felt repetitive

[Celly De Cuyper · Rating 3 out of 5]

Awesome concept, gets a bit repetitive though and didn't appreciate the hypocrisy of having advertisements for mental health apps after describing the destructive capitalist nature of said apps in the book...

[Ruby Lay · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is one of those books that you finish and find yourself thinking and talking about over the next few weeks in that funny way of “it’s so interesting, I just read in a book…”. I listened to the audiobook which is read by Hamilton himself with a glorious Scottish accent and cherished every moment.

An anecdote that has stayed with me in the months since I first read/heard it is when he shares a time where he made a mistake while driving to meet his terminally ill father for a doctor’s appointment and another driver showed him patience & kindness rather than aggression so beautifully he burst into tears. Since then, whenever I find myself getting frustrated or irritated by a bad driver he pops into my head and I immediately calm down. It’s so easy to be kind but in this setting in particular it’s sometimes easier to be mad.

I think this book would have different takeaways for different people. I actively try to be kind and adored his takes on the benefits of “kindfulness” as well as his allowance of the fact that you don’t have to be perfect and never angry to still see benefits of being kind. I didn’t know much of the science behind kindness & happiness and appreciated the blend of medical/scientific information and the more philosophical side of mindfulness and empathy.

Would absolutely recommend (and especially in the audio format).

[Ania · Rating 4 out of 5]

I enjoyed this book about kindness. It included the science behind stress, empathy and kindness. Then it gave easy to apply strategies and reminders how to live your life. It was a good book to finish as the year starts and there are opportunities for change.

[L-J Evans · Rating 5 out of 5]

An AMAZING book that I shall make everyone I know read - using kindness, of course.

[My only (tiny) criticism is that the book was obviously written for an American audience & could do with a good editing for British culture & language differences.]