This is not just a lovely story; it is a romantic one, it is heart-breaking one and also a very important one. One I hope many read because it is a romantic story that carries a weighty theme, of illness, of choice and of hope and survival.
I am not a huge follower of romcom books, so I was glad that ‘The Man I Never Met’ offered so much more and had real substance to the story and the characters. While like all romantic stories, it has the compulsory happy ending, this one dealt with and sought to raise awareness about a very real problem among men. Yes, testicular cancer.
Touching, credible and tormenting and with an outcome I could not predict as I was reading.
The Storyline
A call to a wrong number makes the connection between Hannah and Davey. He is calling for a job interview in England and she, the unexpected recipient of the call that will change her life.
After successfully landing the job, Davey is making plans to relocate to the UK and realises Hannah could be more than his first friend in a new country. As the chemistry between them ignites feelings and attraction that take both by surprise, they begin to plan a future. However, just when you think you might hear wedding bells someday, their plans are unravelled like confetti in the wind.
The expected journey does not happen when Davey falls ill and after hospital tests is diagnosed with stage 3 testicular cancer. Cutting off ties with Hannah, he begins intensive chemo while she is forced to continue life 3000 miles away, being denied even friendship from Davey.
Another unexpected happens when Hannah goes on holiday with a friend George who turns out to tick more boxes that Hannah thought. Even the one that says ‘boyfriend’ material.
I will stop there with the plot because to read this is to enjoy it. To immerse yourself in the story is to become more aware of this illness (if you didn’t know already) and to observe this story is taking me back to one of those well known phrases, that is also used in the book “If you want to make God laugh, tell him you’ve got plans”
Review and Comments
While ‘The Man I Never Met’ avoided the overly gushing expressions of love, it had real emotion. Instead of the run of the mill friends to lovers or enemies to lover’s trope, this story had great meaning and messages for everyone. It was authentic and all too real.
Without knowing the authors story, I knew Elle Cook had some first-hand experience of cancer, either as a nurse, a patient or one that has the unenviable job of watching loved ones go through this illness and gruelling treatment. There was a heart-breaking moment when Davey refuses any more treatment and it brought me back to the time my own father was in a cancer ward and a young boy refused treatment and begged his parents to let him go, he could not take the treatment any more. I am teary eyed writing this and it changed my outlook because until then I couldn’t fathom anyone saying ‘no more’ while there was life, but I understood it after that. A very heartbreaking theme the book also draws on.
Note to the author
Thank you for writing this beautiful story. Thank you to your husband for allowing his story to be told that will raise awareness of testicular cancer. This story was told with great sentiment, purpose and meaning. It could have been gloomy and downbeat given the theme and your own personal experiences. However, your story telling turned this into a lovely romance that most people can connect with. Thank you and I hope continued years of health and happiness for you both.
Back to the story …
Yes, in places the love story felt a little far-fetched, but that was overshadowed by the real and harsh realities of dealing with cancer and it’s treatment. It was authentic and credible without being a gloomy story.
Instead for me, this story was one of hope, of awareness and most importantly of survival and my kind of love story - One that’s built from solid foundations and getting to know your partner. I’m not into bed hopping stories where the guys know the colour of your bedsheets before they know the colour of your eyes.
This book has the perfect balance between the happy and heavy themes, just like life. Its standout is the inspiration it took to write the book. Its joy was in the beautiful relationships that were built around this story and the writing gives this the ‘feel good’ factor that will match any romantic story.
A story that is moving, evocative, credible and told with love, hope and survival at its core.