“Darby, love...” is a magical collection — equal parts wonder, chaos, and aching humanity. It’s a conversation between the living and the dead, mum and son, steeped in love, loss, and the quiet beauty of life's messiness. Born from a series of viral Instagram posts about Darby's mum that captivated millions.
Darby Hudson is a poet and writer whose work has previously appeared in Best Australian Poems (Black Inc. Books) in 2012 and 2013.
I bought this after reading some of Darby's posts about his mum on Instagram. This is a collection of conversations and sayings from his mother. It's simple but funny, loving and powerfully affecting.
This book was inspiring, amazing, uplifting. I wanted to know Darby's mum, I wanted to be Darby's mum. This collection made me see how magical it must have been to be in her orbit. May we all be lucky enough to find someone as caring, kind, and creative as she was. May we all find ways to see the world as she did.
This book is just so adorable, whimsical, and philosophical. It's a wonderful legacy to Darby's mum by sharing a clearly vivacious personality with strangers in the most unique way.
I read this in less than half an hour, but what a gorgeous little book. There aren’t that many words in it, but the ones in there are more than enough. Please see a few that I loved below -
‘Darby, love, never apologise for something, then fart. It’s not a time to relax.’
‘Darby, love, let’s go open my overdue bill on the beach while watching an incredible sunset and see which emotion wins.’
‘Darby, love, I was out for a walk, and a senior citizen - older than I am - asked me what day it was, and I said Tuesday. And moments later, I realised it was a Monday. So as she walked away, I chuckled to myself, thinking I’d accidentally given us both an extra day to live. I-have-no-idea-what-day-it-is is always my favourite day of the week.’
Cried multiple times especially at the last poem. My favorite books are the ones that I come out of feeling grounded. I wasn’t expecting it, but this cute little poem book did it for me. I’m inspired to talk to strangers and walk in the rain and see beauty and magic in every experience. The world needs more Patricia’s.
But I wish there were pages and pages more of these quirky, insightful musings. I’d love to have met her for a walk in the park in our house robes to dish about the state of the world and feed the birds together. At least we have these “Alive things” she said to help us realize we aren’t the only divergent thinkers:) I love Darby’s mum!
Beautifully written and makes you just feel good. It makes you take a step back and realize life really isn’t that serious. Can’t recommend this enough.
This book is poetry. It captures the heart, mind and soul of a person I don’t know, but by the end of it, through these words, I feel like I know her. I feel really nostalgic and sentimental reading this book, because there’s so much wisdom inside it. It’s gorgeous and really heartfelt. An excellent read.
Such a beautiful book. You will smile as you read one or several of the lovely things Darby's mum said. She sounds like someone you'd love to have met, such a character. I think this is a perfect book to gift to anyone who needs a pick-me-up, a smile, or just a reminder that it's the little things that make life magical.
“Darby, love, an adult will place a flower next to a dying bee to commemorate it. But a child will place a flower next to a dying bee to give it the will to live.”
I miss being a child. Most importantly, I miss the way I thought as a child. Sometimes I wonder if I lost that certain edge I had in my soul; the recklessness and the freedom. Damn…
A collection of deeply integrated expression of a beautiful human being who understood life as it is, as it was and made a irreplaceble fingerprint to this world. Its funny, random, sentimental and spiritual. I love it.
Full of love, this gem is something I’ve kept for morning coffee. I’ve read it several times through. Even though I always think I’ll just take in a couple of pages I can’t stop once I crack open the cover.
Oh how I loved this book- so full of love and wonder and whimsy - the perfect antidote for the troubled times we live in - as for me I’m feeling a little leafy so I’m off to read a tree ❤️