There's more to Stoicism than shrugging your shoulders and getting on with it, as Tom Hodgkinson discovers in this witty and enlightening book.
Stoicism is an enduring and ancient philosophy that can help you with everything from love and politics to money and spirituality. The Stoics were celebrated by the Romans, they influenced Christianity and even Shakespeare admired them. Today, both therapists and politicians will profess adherence to the Stoic creed. The “serenity prayer” is a Stoic statement. The Beatles' “Let it Be” is a Stoic song.
Tom Hodgkinson, author of bestselling How to Be Idle, goes back to the original philosophical texts and looks at the greatest Stoics in history – including Seneca, Cicero, Epictetus, Marcus Aurelius and St Augustine – to see if they can help us find fulfilment. He discovers that Stoicism is much stranger and more radical than you'd think.
With witty reflections on everything from ethics, grammar, rhetoric, education, friendship and the importance of occasionally letting your hair down, Tom Hodgkinson shares his genuinely funny and brilliant guide to the Stoic life.
Tom Hodgkinson (b. 1968) is a British writer and the editor of The Idler, which he established in 1993 with his friend Gavin Pretor-Pinney. He was educated at Westminster School. He has contributed articles to The Sunday Telegraph, The Guardian and The Sunday Times as well as being the author of The Idler spin-off How To Be Idle (2005), How To Be Free (released in the U.S. under the title The Freedom Manifesto) and The Idle Parent.
In 2006 Hodgkinson created National Unawareness Day, to be celebrated on 1 November.
A delightful, and charmingly irreverent look at the Stoic philosophy, introducing the reader to what the original philosophers actually said, divided up across various themes such as love, death, happiness, money and so forth.
Conveyed with enthusiasm and wit, and a sprinkling of (mostly classical) historical anecdote, Tom Hodgkinson promotes the value in Stoic thinking, as more properly understood, as opposed to the sort of modern misunderstandings that deploy the label in reductive fashion, to get away from it's association with old school ideas of "boys don't cry", stiff upper lip and all that.
In doing so he paints a colourful picture of the philosophy's development, it's flaws as well as it's strengths. The idea of achieving a 'pure' level of Stoic existence at it's most extreme would lead to an impossible existence for most humans, devoid as it would be of any of the passions.
But it's the work in progress, the aspiration that matters more than the end result. Developing a self-sufficiency, and a phlegmatic indifference to emotional whirlpools that can assail us through life, are guiding tools for managing the chaos; assisting with self understanding, encouraging political / community engagement, not letting the insane tyrannies of others destabilise your own well being, and developing fulfillment in what actually matters - what 'nourishes the soul' as opposed to the more frivolous concerns of the modern age.
As with any philosophical theory / treaty / tome, the value is in how you can use it. Take a little from this, mix it in with a little of that, and day by day be a little better.
Written with good humour and in a very breezy style, even those with the attention span of a gnat should be able to enjoy this!
This was published on 12th February 2026 with ISBN 978-1-3994-1558-3. I purchased it a week or so later at an independent bookshop in Bristol. It is extremely surprising to have Goodreads say it is not yet published and that the ISBN does not exist. The book gives an excellent grounding in Greek philosophy and encourages me to read more primary texts.