Originally started mid 2025 and dnf-ed because I was bored. Recently, I picked it back up again and quickly realized why I dumped it.
As of 01/19/2026, the Mr. Joo guy only now realized his covert and covert verbal, physical, and sexual abuse of Kim Dan and is trying to make up for it. It took like 70 chapters for this guy to be like, "Wait, what if I'm the problem and the reason why Kim Dan doesn't like him.
Also during these most recent chapters in the countryside arc, I felt so proud of Kim Dan for standing up for himself and treating Mr. Joo as a job. We love a self-respecting king!!
However, even still, those moments of excusing the abuse that he had endured still appear faintly. I am not sure why he even agreed to go back to his abuser (regardless of the money), and it felt that throughout this whole series that the trauma that Kim Dan went through is just pushed to the side and excused as angst. This is especially exemplary when Kim Dan accidently sprays the drugged spray on Mr. Joo's foot, causing him to lose his "precious" win streak. The mental, physical, and verbal abuse that Kim Dan endured haunted him even after he left for the countryside, and yet Kim Dan still felt solely guilty. I know that this is a common feeling that many people in toxic relationships feel, so seeing this portrayed in this manner is not unrealistic; however, when this series is marketed as a "romance," it definitely becomes problematic.
I definitely would not call this a romance since there is nothing romantic to the abuse and hurt that is consistently present throughout this whole relationship. Because it took damn near 70 chapters to even get an ounce of self-realization, the author seemingly writes this whole story as "the woes of an unconventional romantic falling-in-love story" when this series is more genuinely similar to Killing Stalking if anything. Like with that series, the story itself was interesting because it was so out-there, but it did not feel romantic whatsoever.
The fact that this is the same author as BJ Alex is baffling. I found out mid-series with a BJ Alex cameo and a... uhhh... certain bedroom play..., and it was shocking how dissimilar they were. I mean, there are similar plot points and tropes with the second top coming into the picture to the steal the bottom away and the first top gets possessive or whatever, but the manner in which Mr. Joo hurts Kim Dan is not comparable to the simple arguments that the couple in BJ Alex had. It almost feels like Mingwa was trying to recreate the success of BJ Alex but for a way more intense audience, and I personally wasn't really having it. This was especially the case with the lack of consent (well, there was some, but the waters are really really muddy). Fuck no.
There is definitely way more I could say about different parts of this series, but since it is not done yet, I'm only going to discuss my main points. I kept reading this series purely out of the curiosity of watching a car crash, but damn does that scene gets old when it's simply replayed over and over again until 70 chapters in. I am still curious to see how Mr. Joo and Kim Dan's relationship progresses over time now since actual character development of those two are finally happening, but they will probably be a while since I am now caught up and there is supposedly a hiatus occurring.
The only reason why this series is not 2 stars is because of the writing style sucking you into the story and this recent character development. I do not believe that this series is 1 star material since my definition of that is like Colleen Hoover levels of delusional abuse-is-romance and bad writing. Even though my review sounds like I am categorizing them as the same, this series does have some more redeeming qualities like the inclusion of the other well-written characters, character banter, and a decent overarching plot. The smut was a bit much, but hey, this is the BJ Alex author, so is it really surprising?
Anyways, Potato is the best character hands-down.