Book review: Jane Ziegelman Once There Was a Town: The Memory Books of a Lost Jewish World.
St. Martin’s Press, with heartfelt thanks to the publisher and NetGalley for my gifted ARC.
This is one of those books that asks you to slow down and listen. Not skim, not rush, not read with one eye on the clock. Jane Ziegelman invites the reader into a quiet, deliberate act of remembrance, and once you step inside, it feels almost disrespectful to hurry. I expected a history lesson. What I got instead was a deeply human meditation on memory, loss, and the stubborn will to record a life even after that life has been violently interrupted.
At the center of this book are yizkor books, memorial volumes created by Jewish Holocaust survivors to honor the towns and communities that were destroyed. Ziegelman explains their origins, structure, and purpose, but what makes this work so compelling is how personal it feels. By circling back again and again to Luboml, her family’s ancestral shtetl, she gives the reader something solid to hold onto. This isn’t abstract history. It’s names, kitchens, schools, marketplaces, arguments, prayers, and recipes. It’s people being people right up until history refuses to let them continue.
What struck me most was how much life is here. There is grief, of course, but before that comes texture. Muddy roads and crowded markets. Massive loaves of bread baked for hours. Study houses humming with debate. Young couples stealing moments of privacy. These details matter, and Ziegelman treats them with reverence. She understands that genocide doesn’t just erase bodies, it erases routines, jokes, rivalries, and the thousand small habits that make a place feel like home.
The writing is thoughtful and restrained, which makes its emotional weight even stronger. Ziegelman never needs to overstate the horror. She trusts the reader to feel it on their own, especially once the inevitable destruction arrives. One line in particular stopped me completely: “To remember a town is to insist that it once mattered, even if the world tried to erase it.” That sentence feels like the spine of the entire book.
I also appreciated how this book examines the act of recording history itself. Yizkor books were not neutral documents. They were created by grieving people, often across continents, arguing over details, tone, and meaning. Ziegelman doesn’t smooth over those tensions. She lets us see memory as messy, emotional, and imperfect, which only makes it more honest. This is history shaped by love and loss, not distance.
Once There Was a Town is not a traditional Holocaust narrative focused solely on camps and death marches. Those realities are present, but they are not the whole story. This book insists that Jewish life before destruction deserves just as much attention as Jewish death during it. That insistence feels especially urgent now.
This is not a book I sped through. I read it slowly, sometimes putting it down just to sit with what I’d absorbed. By the end, I felt changed in a quiet way. More aware of how fragile memory is, and how powerful it can be when someone takes the time to preserve it.
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