From the author of Good Grief, an intimate collection of poems and prose which offers a glimpse into the mind of a highly sensitive person, or empath.
In a world that has become increasingly difficult to navigate—physically, mentally, and spiritually—having empathy is more important than ever. But what if you have a highly sensitive mind? Highly sensitive people, known as empaths, have an expanded capacity to feel not only one set of emotions but also those of others. They experience life more deeply than the average person, leaving them more susceptible to nervous system dysregulation, emotional trauma, and abuse.
Divided into three parts—Body, Mind, and Soul—Brianna Pastor’s intimate collection of poems invites us to explore what it’s like to discover high sensitivity in adulthood and view life through an empathetic lens. Hopefully, by deepening our understanding of sensitivity and how it affects others, we can move one step closer to a more connected, healed world.
Poetry collection of heartfelt internal thoughts and supportive affirmations from a deeply sensitive, deeply sad, deeply empathic soul. Made me think Hang in there sad little kitten; you can do it, you are doing it! yes
Really enjoyed this slim collection of poems about living in the world as a highly sensitive person. Relatable and told in three parts about how the author's anxiety and empathy affect her bodily. Great on audio too read by the author herself. A great read for both National Poetry Month and Autism Awareness Month. Many thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for an early audio copy in exchange for my honest review.
My thoughts on Bellyache is that this is a collection best enjoyed in small chunks. Many of the poems are short and it’s tempting to just read it all at once (which I did), but I definitely would enjoy it more if I digested it piece by piece.
I do enjoy Brianna’s poetry and the topics she writes on. I’m excited to see what comes next.
Thank you Goodreads for sending this book to me. This author centers her poetry around mental health & trauma & what it means to heal with sensitivity.
In this age where everyone's consuming and promoting insta-poetry (with words that made zero sense and have unnecessary amounts of paragraph breaks), this is a gem. Not to put anyone down, but remember the internet in early 2016? Almost all celebrities were gushing online about Rupi Kaur and were spotted posing with her books on the gram?
God, I was such a fool to presume that may be I was stupid to not understand poetry since everybody else on the internet were giving raving reviews. Bellyache made me realise that there are some poems out there which speaks to me. The sheer volume of annotations and highlights I've added for this book would leave anyone shocked if they glanced at my e-reader.
I've been trying to savour this experience by reading a maximum of three poems each night. Putting one of my favourites here:
"Every time you held my hand, you'd turn your head the other way. You'd roll your eyes to the back of your head and take a deep sigh disguised as a breath. I want you to know, I could feel that."
These poems feel like a warm hug. I've been trying to detach from my corporate anxiety post works hours and who knew I'd find it here? ♡
I received this book in a goodreads giveaway, merci Harper Collins. Although I found the description a bit pretentious I ended up quite enjoying it and plan on using a few excerpts in my yoga class. It was readable and a good mix of embodied and abstract.
Divided into parts- Body, Mind and Soul- the Mind section had me in tears and bookmarking every other page- who is surprised though? I thoroughly enjoyed reading this in a single sitting over a mug of coffee in a local shop as poetry month comes to an end.
“Compassion goes both ways. I give you mine but I always have to ask for yours. I want to be human enough for you. I want the grace of taking off my mask and falling short.”
Loved this book!!! Usually not a huge fan of poetry, but so many of these poems resonated with me. I wish I could gift a copy of it to all my friends. Super accessible and simple enough for everyday moments. Read this one in a hammock at Bonnaroo music festival which was such a dream.
This author took the worlds out my soul and wrote them on hard pages. SO relatable and sometimes tearful. ( in a good way!) I resonated so much, I felt so not alone in this harsh world.
3.5 stars rounded up. Thank you NetGalley for the eARC! I related to so many poems in here. It’s a great collection for the empaths and those that feel all the things deeply.
4 stars ⭐️ I’ve always been someone who feels & loves deeper than most. I’ve always been a worrier and an overthinker. Reading this made me feel a lot less lonely than I usually do ❤️
2.75 ⭐️ Some lines in this book were remarkably insightful, but overall, this was straight up cliches in the form of bad motivational quotes. I felt like I was scrolling on Pinterest or Instagram and finding quotes from a person who thinks poetry is saying ”Thought: A weight. A mirror. A choice.”, and yes this is an actual poem from the book. From beginning to end I found myself longing to finish this book and put it back in my bookshelf. I was also thinking about whether it deserves a place there at all. It baffles me how a beautiful line like ”I sometimes wonder if I exist solely / to teach others what it is like to / lose unwavering love.” can exist in the same collection as obvious sayings like ”Sometimes / sometimes stepping back is helpful / in making a / great leap forward.” If this is what people think good poetry is like, I understand that many view it as awkward and cringe.