A simple premise actually, When Answers Aren't Enough, Experiencing God as Good When Life Isn't speaks to our longing for God, who is really what we want in the midst of Life's greatest tragedies.
This is the book I wanted when my brother died and many times since. Matt Rogers was the young co-pastor of a church at Virginia Tech when thirty-three students and teachers died in the worst massacre in modern US history. In WAAE he writes about his experiences, thoughts, feelings and how he went about trying to console others, cope himself and finally come to grips with his changed relationship to God. Tragedy does change us as anyone who has lived through one knows and it changes how you think of and feel toward God.
Rogers doesn't presume to give any answers--that is the whole point of the book and its greatest strength. Instead he looks at tragedy closely, honestly and without mincing words. He calls "death" and "massacre", "death" and "massacre", not 'passing on' or something less. He doesn't cover up, pacify, downplay, brush aside, minimize or rush past--all the things the rest of the world tends to do in its discomfort with the whole subject of death and dying.
In Part 1, A Heavy Sinking Sadness, besides surveying the Virgina Tech massacre, Rogers also looks briefly at a few other incidents of suffering and death. It's his contention, in Part 2, Remembering the World That Was, that we can only be healed by Our Loving God, not by our own minds and answers. In returning to Eden, or its closest equivalent, the natural environment, for a period of time, the human spirit can often rediscover what has been lost. 'I do not need one more sermon assuring me God is good. I need to taste and see this for myself. And so I go to nature, am drawn into its wonders, where my questioning finally ceases. Here I am able to obey the instruction "Be still, and know that I am God." (p. 91) 'There is so much need at every turn, so much calling out for our attention, that it will take a determined restructuring of our lives to slow down, get away, and simply rest. And we'll have to trust that this resting is not wasted time, that it is actually life-giving and possibly the surest way of avoiding eventual despair. If we do not make a habit of sitting in silence, listening for the whisper of a good God, we will never hear it at all.' (p. 136)
Part 3, Breathless Expectation deals with moving forward, recognizing that one can't 'move on' as if the past never happened. By the same token, Rogers reminds us not to stay focused on death to the exclusion of our faith's most remarkable and beautiful event: the Resurrection. 'We must learn to think and speak as if resurrection were the grandest and most wonderful truth in the world. It is.' (p. 171)
Roger's book is a positive contribution to anyone dealing with grief, suffering, or death. Highly recommended!