The Anatomy of Peace, Fifth Edition: Resolving the Heart of Conflict

by The Arbinger Institute

The international bestseller on conflict resolution has been updated with a powerful new discussion guide for creating lasting change in organizations, relationships, and communities.

New from the Arbinger Institute, the authors of the bestselling Leadership and Self-Deception, comes an updated edition of its transformative work on conflict resolution.

What if the conflicts in our lives-from personal disagreements to workplace tensions to global divisions-all stem from the same root cause? The Anatomy of Peace shows how our biases and behaviors perpetuate cycles of conflict and, more importantly, how we can break free from these patterns to create lasting peace and meaningful change.

This book unfolds as a story. Yusuf al-Falah, an Arab, and Avi Rozen, a Jew, each lost his father at the hands of the other's ethnic cousins. The Anatomy of Peace is the story of how they came together, how they help warring parents and children come together, and how we too can find our way out of the personal, professional, and global conflicts that weigh us down, even when war is upon us.

This new edition includes a new preface and an extensive discussion guide that helps readers apply these principles in practical ways, making it an invaluable resource for organizations, teams, and individuals seeking to transform conflict into cooperation.

288 pages, Kindle Edition

Published August 5, 2025

Reviews

[Nicholas Tuck · Rating 5 out of 5]

This was my tenth time reading The Anatomy of Peace, and its impact only deepens with every visit. Alongside its predecessor, Leadership and Self-Deception, this book has been the single most influential force in shaping how I see and treat the people in my life. While the 5th edition introduces some interesting changes, the heart of the story remains a powerful mirror for my own life. Even though the writing is straightforward and the characters aren't overly complex, their journeys feel like those of close friends. I find myself getting emotional every time I revisit their struggles because they reflect my own so clearly.

I’ve realized that no matter how much I believe in these principles, I need this yearly reminder to stay 'out of the box' and with a 'heart at peace.' It’s a cycle of learning and relearning that I’m committed to for the rest of my life. If you want to change how you show up in the world, I cannot recommend this book enough.

[Maggie · Rating 4 out of 5]

I truly believe that if everyone read this book, the world would be a much better place. My fiancé and I read this together, recommend by our pastor while we were going through premarital counseling. It’s not a religious book by any means, but if you’re a couple that struggles with conflict resolution like we did, I recommend this book to you and your spouse. Our problems have gotten a lot better since developing a heart at peace. The beginning is a little slow, but once you get past chapter five the pace picks up. I’ll probably make this an every other year read.

[Kristin Eschliman · Rating 3 out of 5]

Read this for my career are its journey is to have you switch perspective and use different lenses as you communicate with people who don't agree with your opinion or are completely obsolete.

This one is dense, slow moving, but the audiobook was good as the narrators change to match the literary setting. Good read.

[Mikel Gregory · Rating 4 out of 5]

The main premise of the book is to establish peace within yourself and then you can truly resolve conflict with others. A fictional set of characters are used to illuminate the view and vision of peace. Some good thoughts and the concept of reducing and/or eliminating personal bias' is a great concept.

[Grace Rawson · Rating 5 out of 5]

“Have the honesty and courage to do what our honest, our work places, and our communities most need: to see others as people- even, and perhaps especially, when they are giving you a reason not to.”

Probably my favorite quote in the whole book!

[Allison · Rating 4 out of 5]

Having a heart at peace is the answer to all our problems I believe 🤍🤍

[Mindi Jeppson · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is the second time I’ve read this. I think it’s something everyone should read. I feel like I should read it at least once a year!