Why Not?

by Ankitha Rajendaran

About the Book
WHAT IF THE WORLD'S MOST "DANGEROUS" PLACES HOLD ITS MOST GENEROUS SOULS?

With a passport stamped by over 100 unique countries, Ankitha Rajendaran has wandered where maps blur and stories hide. Why Not? is not about the destinations you know - it’s about the ones you’ve been taught to un-know. This book unravels the fragile threads between “dangerous” and “dazzling,” stranger and savior, fear and freedom.

Armed with curiosity and an Indian passport that opens as many doors as it slams shut, she slips into the cracks of misunderstood lands, where humanity burns brighter than headlines. But her greatest journey isn’t across continents; it’s into the raw, unguarded corners of herself. Ankitha’s tale is a rebellion against the myth of the fearless adventurer. Here, vulnerability is the compass. Missteps are the map. And the most perilous borders? The ones we build in our minds.

Ankitha Rajendaran is a full time marketing professional, blogger, and global nomad who’s navigated countless countries with her passport and her pulse. When she’s not animatedly debating geopolitics, she works and lives in Dubai with her husband, and a heart that’s always ready for the next “why not?”

About the Author
I am Ankitha Rajendaran, an Indian. Born in Chennai, raised in Oman, post-graduate from the US, currently living and working in Dubai. Over the last 10 years, I have been exploring the world on MY terms. I write a blog (with over a million views on google in 2024) where I share my journeys to misunderstood destinations, as well as practical tips to inspire people to plan their own trips to these countries.
I now want to take my escapades out of the blog and into book shelves - so this is my book An Indian Woman's Journey Through the World's Most Misunderstood Destinations. As a 36-year-old Indian woman, wife, and full-time marketing director, I have made it my life's mission to embark on journeys to explore some of the world's most challenging and unconventional destinations, defying the limitations of my "weak" passport. I didn’t quit my job, I didn’t become a full time influencer. I have been to 104 countries across all 7 continents & this is my story.

298 pages, Paperback

Published May 5, 2025

Reviews

[Aachal · Rating 4 out of 5]

Why Not? by Ankitha Rajendran is not just another travel book, it’s more like sitting with a friend who’s sharing stories you never expected to hear. She takes us into countries we usually only hear about in the news as “dangerous” or “unsafe,” but through her eyes, they become places full of warmth, kindness, and very real people.

What I loved most is that she doesn’t pretend to be fearless. She talks about the struggles, the doubts, and what it means to travel with an Indian passport. That honesty makes her journey feel even more real. The writing is simple, poetic at times, and it makes you see beyond maps and borders.

This book isn’t about ticking off destinations—it’s about changing how we look at strangers and the fears we carry inside us. For me, it wasn’t “where do I want to travel?” but more “what am I ready to unlearn?” That’s what makes this such a moving and unforgettable read.

[Khyati Gautam · Rating 5 out of 5]

What if the places we fear the most are the ones we most need to understand?

@wayfarer_anki ‘s Why Not? is not your typical travel memoir. It’s a deeply personal, poetic, and purposeful journey across borders, both geographic and emotional.

With the weight of an Indian passport and the lightness of boundless curiosity, Ankitha ventures into some of the world’s most misunderstood countries. But what she finds isn’t danger - it’s generosity, warmth, and a shared humanness that headlines rarely capture.

Each chapter is a quiet rebellion against stereotype. Her storytelling doesn’t just describe landscapes - it feels them.

Each chapter is a gate away to a portal of insights. I was amazed to know about regions of Iraq, Syria and others that are known for being hostile. But Ankitha helped me discover the humane side of them.

The writing is lyrical yet grounded, moving smoothly between soul-searching introspection and practical reflections. She lets us see both the chaos and the calm, the doubt and the discovery.

The book’s brilliance lies in its structure and emotions - it never loses its emotional heart while gently guiding us through unfamiliar lands.

Even if you’ve never left your city, Ankitha’s words make you feel like a fellow traveller.

Why Not? invites us to challenge our assumptions, embrace vulnerability, and see beauty where we were taught to see threat. A must-read for seekers of truth, lovers of people, and believers in the kindness of strangers.

[Madhura · Rating 5 out of 5]

Some books take you places; this one lets you become the journey. This book is not just a memoir of miles crossed—it is a hymn to courage, vulnerability, and the astonishing generosity of strangers in lands deemed “dangerous.” With her Indian passport as both key and barrier, she steps into places others avoid, proving that the truest maps are drawn not on paper but on the heart.

Reading her words felt like boarding flights I never took, wandering streets I’ve only seen in headlines, and meeting souls who offered warmth in landscapes painted with fear. Afghanistan whispered lessons in resilience, Syria echoed with the quiet roar of survival, Congo revealed raw contradictions, and South Sudan radiated a wisdom as ancient as the dust beneath its skies.

For me, a traveler still waiting for her wings, this book became an atlas of wonder. In author’s footsteps, I soared across borders, not with tickets but with her stories—each one dissolving the walls between “us” and “them.” Why Not? is not about checking off destinations; it is about rewriting the narratives we inherit, reminding us that the most extraordinary voyage is not outward, but inward—toward empathy, courage, and boundless human connection.

Rating: 4.7/5

[Richa · Rating 4 out of 5]

Why Not? is unlike any travel memoir I’ve read—it’s more about the traveler’s evolution than a checklist of destinations. Ankitha’s insights linger, not because they’re dramatic, but because they’re so deeply human and hard-earned.

Her honesty is the anchor. She doesn’t pretend to be fearless or omniscient. She doubts, she hesitates, she questions her own motives. Yet, it’s exactly that humility that brings the stories alive. You feel what she feels, and it’s powerful.

This isn’t a book for adrenaline junkies. It’s for those who believe curiosity can break borders, internal and external. Her writing is beautiful without being flowery—clear-eyed and evocative. It left me wondering how much of the world I’ve dismissed simply because I misunderstood it.

[Shifali B · Rating 5 out of 5]

This isn’t a book about getting it “right.” Instead, it’s about how travel shifts the ground beneath your feet, showing you what really matters: courage, connection, and the stories you didn’t even know you were carrying.

As I read this book, I found a story not of invincibility but of adaptation. I saw how vulnerability has been the greatest teacher rather than an adversary. The author highlights the fact that your vulnerability is not something to hide. It’s something to embrace, for it’s in those fragile moments that we truly discover our strength.

Every chapter serves as a gateway to a wealth of knowledge. The knowledge of hazardous zones in Syria, Iraq, and other places astounded me.

Overall, this book isn’t a guidebook. It’s a map of the lessons the author has learnt, the people she met, and the moments that have changed her. It’s a story of breaking down barriers and building connections. It’s a story of how her understanding of the world shifted.

[Ankit Rastogi · Rating 5 out of 5]

“Why Not?” Is not just a travel memoir; it’s an emotional map of what it means to move through the world with curiosity, courage, and connection.

Ankitha takes us far beyond borders and bucket lists. From navigating a cyclone in Malawi to sharing meals with strangers in Rwanda, her stories are not just about the places, they are about the people. About finding humanity in the most misunderstood corners of the world.

This book is for anyone who:-
• Feels overwhelmed by fear but still wants to say yes to life
• Craves soul-deep travel, not just airport-to-airport tourism
• Believes that vulnerability is not weakness, but wisdom

Each chapter carries a quiet strength, a reminder that the world is not as scary as it’s made out to be, and that sometimes the boldest decision is to simply ask:
“Why not?”

If you are rebuilding trust in humanity or seeking a story that stirs your spirit, this book might just become your favorite travel companion.

✨ Raw, reflective, and deeply human.

[Sameer Gudhate · Rating 4 out of 5]

There are books you pick up for information, and then there are books that take you somewhere you didn’t even know you needed to go. Ankitha Rajendaran’s Why Not? is one of those rare ones. I’ll be honest — when I first heard it was a travel memoir, I expected the usual checklist: countries ticked off, exotic food tasted, a string of pretty sunsets. But within a few pages, I realized this wasn’t that kind of book. This wasn’t about the postcard version of travel. This was about stepping into places the world tells you to avoid and finding the heartbeat of humanity there.

The premise itself is striking: an Indian woman with a passport stamped over a hundred times, choosing not Paris or New York, but Iraq, Syria, and other places most of us only encounter through news headlines. It sounds reckless at first, doesn’t it? But as Ankitha gently unravels her experiences, you see it’s not recklessness — it’s curiosity, courage, and a deep belief that people are more than the narratives built around them. And in telling us her stories, she ends up holding a mirror to our own fears.

Her writing is deceptively simple — fluid, conversational, like she’s telling you stories over tea. At times, it’s lyrical, painting entire landscapes in a few strokes, and then suddenly it pulls back into something raw and unguarded. I noticed how she balances the intimate with the informative: you’ll get a description of a war-scarred street, but also a quiet moment of connection with a stranger offering her food. The pacing is just right; it never feels hurried, but it doesn’t linger too long either.

And here’s what I loved most: vulnerability is her compass. She doesn’t write like the fearless, invincible traveller — she writes as a woman who doubts, who feels afraid, who missteps. That honesty makes her voice not just authentic but deeply relatable. There’s a moment when she describes entering a region she had been warned against, her heart racing, her senses on edge — and then a local welcomes her with warmth. That tension, that shift, stays with you.

Structurally, the book is elegant. Each chapter is its own doorway into a misunderstood country, but they’re all tied together by a thread of questioning: what if we’ve been wrong about what’s dangerous, about what’s safe? Instead of neat conclusions, she offers insights that linger, nudging you to rethink not just travel, but how you view the world.

The themes go beyond geography. It’s about borders — the ones drawn on maps, but also the invisible ones we carry inside our minds. It’s about choosing curiosity over fear, and empathy over prejudice. And honestly, in today’s world of quick judgments and amplified divisions, this feels urgent.

Emotionally, the book got to me. I caught myself pausing mid-page to think about my own assumptions — the places I’ve written off without a second thought, the people I’ve judged from afar. It made me reflect on how often we let headlines decide our truths. There were passages that felt like quiet rebellions against cynicism, and others that read like gentle reminders that kindness often shows up in the unlikeliest corners.

If I had to point out a weakness, it would be that sometimes the reflective tone slows the momentum. A couple of chapters dip into philosophy when I was itching for more story. But then again, maybe that’s the point — travel isn’t just movement, it’s also stillness.

Personally, this book felt like a conversation I didn’t know I needed. As someone who’s always been fascinated by stories beyond the mainstream, I found Ankitha’s journey both validating and inspiring. I’d especially recommend it to readers who love travel memoirs with heart — if you’ve enjoyed Pico Iyer’s meditations or Elizabeth Gilbert’s honest wanderings, this will resonate. But even if you’ve never left your city, there’s something here: a reminder that the scariest borders are often the ones inside us.

By the time I closed the book, one thought lingered: maybe the next time I hesitate, the next time I let fear dictate my choices, I should ask myself Ankitha’s question — why not?

A brave, heartfelt, and deeply human read. For me, a solid 4.5/5.

And if you’re looking for a book that doesn’t just take you across countries, but across your own mental fences, this is it. Don’t be surprised if you find yourself quietly planning your own “why not” moment after.

[Gaurav Jaiswal · Rating 5 out of 5]

Ankitha Rajendaran’s Why Not? is a powerful travel memoir that documents her journey across more than 108 countries, including many places often dismissed as unsafe, misunderstood, or inaccessible such as Afghanistan, Syria, Congo, and Sudan. The book is not just about destinations; it is about courage, empathy, and human connection. Rajendaran approaches travel not as an escape but as a meaningful exploration of cultures, people, and the resilience of humanity.

The memoir is structured into three sections—Misunderstood & Extraordinary, Wild & Raw, and Least Visited & Soul Free. Each section captures different aspects of her travels, from shattering preconceived notions about conflict-ridden countries to experiencing nature in its most unfiltered form. Through this division, the book balances storytelling with cultural insight and personal reflection, keeping readers engaged throughout.

What makes this memoir unique is Rajendaran’s perspective as an Indian woman traveler. She candidly shares the challenges of navigating a world with a “weak passport,” facing visa restrictions, and dealing with stereotypes about both her gender and nationality. Yet, instead of being deterrents, these challenges become part of her story of resilience. Her experiences highlight how identity, privilege, and courage intersect in the world of travel.

Rajendaran’s writing stands out for its authenticity and vividness. Whether she is narrating a moment of quiet connection with locals in Syria or describing the raw wilderness of the Congo, her prose makes readers feel present in those places. Her encounter with gorillas in Congo’s forests, for instance, is written with such detail and emotion that it lingers long after reading.

Ultimately, Why Not? is more than a travelogue—it is an invitation to question boundaries and limitations. Rajendaran inspires readers to embrace curiosity and possibility, to see travel as an act of courage and connection rather than privilege. The title itself reflects her core philosophy: whenever hesitation arises, simply ask—Why not? Whether you’re an aspiring solo traveler, someone seeking to challenge societal norms, or simply craving narratives that humanize the “other,” this memoir is a must read.

[Komal Kumari · Rating 4 out of 5]

📖 Book Review 📖

Why Not? is not your usual travel book — it’s a soulful rebellion against fear and stereotypes.
Ankitha Rajendaran takes readers to places the world often calls “unsafe,” yet she shows us their warmth, beauty, and resilience.
Her writing is vivid, almost cinematic — cobblestones whisper, forests breathe, and silence speaks louder than words.

Every chapter feels like entering a new world, but also peeling back a layer of yourself. What I loved most is how she balances vulnerability with strength; she doesn’t pretend to be fearless, and that makes her voice real.

The people she meets — a woman weaving in Maaloula, a monk at St. Serge, locals protecting Madagascar’s forests — become the soul of the book.

They are not just characters; they’re reminders that kindness often thrives where headlines only show danger. There’s a tenderness in how she describes landscapes — mountains, monasteries, rainforests — but always through the eyes of human connection.
The Madagascar chapters, with lemurs, chameleons, and reforestation efforts, are breathtaking and urgent.

Her reflections are just as powerful as her journeys — the borders we build in our minds are often more dangerous than the real ones.
The book constantly shifts between awe and introspection, showing that travel is as much inward as outward.
I admired how she doesn’t romanticize struggle, yet she highlights resilience with respect and grace.
Some passages feel almost poetic, inviting you to pause and breathe with her.
It’s not about ticking countries off a list, but about finding humanity in unlikely corners.
She writes with honesty about fear, missteps, and vulnerability, making the journey deeply relatable.

Reading this book felt like traveling — not just across maps, but across emotions.
It makes you want to say yes more often, to places, to people, to moments.
For anyone who has ever wondered, “Should I go?” this book gently replies: Why not?
It’s a travel memoir, but more than that — it’s an invitation to live with openness and courage.

Rating: 4/5
Happy Reading 📚

[Shweta · Rating 4 out of 5]

Often we don't question the narratives we’ve been fed about the world, and that's primarily due to our lack of experiencing different places and cultures. So we mostly form an understanding based on the content we consume from travel news, bloggers or influencers nowadays.

Why not? Is a travel memoir which is not filled with glossy photographs and curated anecdotes, it is raw, relatable and deeply intimate. Author Ankitha's external exploration of various places also expands the inner terrain of human thoughts & emotions. With an Indian passport in hand and a curiosity-filled heart, she has taken up a new journey each time on the roads that are less travelled.

What makes this book stand out is its honesty. The author doesn't show herself as an adventurer; she is a normal traveller like us. New places, border checks, and being surrounded by strangers and different kind of food made her doubtful & nervous as an outsider. Her vulnerability makes this book profound, as you don’t just observe her travels; you experience them with her.

The countries she chooses to visit are ones we’re often told to fear, as they are reduced to war zones, danger, or instability. But Ankitha’s experience is different. She found not only a welcome as a tourist but also witnessed warmth, unexpected acts of kindness and moments of shared humanity that challenged the typical picture plastered across our TV or mobile screens.

The landscapes described are breathtaking, and the emotional value lingers long after you put the book down. Among all the beautiful descriptions, I was so moved by the bond and love of the gorilla family depicted in the chapter of the Republic of Congo. The way their intimacy & harmony has been captured is beyond words for me.

Ankitha's honest, vulnerable and eye-opening journey is an answer for all those travel lovers who have been told, "Don't go there!" A must-read not only for travel dreamers but also for every one of us deserving the true freedom of soul.

[Ishika Hirani · Rating 5 out of 5]

Why Not? By Ankitha Rajendaran is a beautiful travel memoir delving into the heart of Many Brave travel stories of the author which inspires you to step out of your comfort zone and explore the world with free thoughts.The book is divided into three parts,Taking readers on a journey filled with Adventures and Courage.This book sheds light on the beauty and kindness of some places that are often misjudged by the media and people.With the author's heart touching experiences,We get to know the actual stories of people living there.Ankitha's Memoir is a testament of Courage, Motivating readers to look beyond the set narratives and understanding the world with your own personal experiences. 

One of my favourite aspects of this book was its connectable narration.Ankitha's Journey to different countries felt truly relatable and the way she emphasized on the beauty and familiarity of the often considered "dangerous or least visited countries/places" of the world like - Iraq, Syria, Afganistan, Sudan etc. forced me to change my whole opinions about them completely.The Kindness of People, The Astonishing beauty of Islands and The Delicious foods of these countries is something which makes them truly special.The hopeful message of discovering your own home in unknown places and meeting the kindest of strangers through travel made this book a totally memorable read for me. 

Overall, Why Not? Is an Impactful yet Connectable book presenting readers with the themes of Faith,Courage,Hope, Adventures and Knowledge.This book not only inspires readers to go and explore the world but it also proves to be a significant guide for anyone who's looking forward to travelling the countries which are often linked to many false judgements.The Author encourages all the readers to always look for kindness and hope even in the most uncertain places.In conclusion, I will highly recommend this Heart Touching Memoir to all those individuals who are willing to bring their next why not moments in their lives.

[Prince Raj · Rating 5 out of 5]

The author conveys her journey wasn't just about seeing the world, it was about redefining it and share the story not to boast about it but to break down the barriers and misunderstanding everyone about certain countries and places, and bring a little more truth into the world.

She travelled to most of the places which follow Islam and Christianity and those places are generally not considered safe for a woman, as I researched online and also read how the author kept her fear at bay and also took care of her own safety.

The author has bifurcated her travelling experiences into three sections and each section covers some area in the world map that covers the places she visited and experienced their environment and the culture difference.

In the first section of the book which is "Misunderstood and Extraordinary", she shares about the tales from Afghanistan, Syria , Iraq and hormuz Island Iran.

In the second "wild and Raw" she shares about Tales of Congo, Madagascar, Gabon and South Sudan, the places where I have never gone and will not see.

In the third the "least Visited and Soul filled" section she shares about Sudan, Turkmenistan, and Principe and Comoros.

This book is not just a guide for a traveller it is a map of the places the author has visited, through the story she also gives some valuable tips to the traveller who wants to visit the city like the author.

You can say that this is the tale of a wolf who wandered far from her pack, a lone adventurer roaming the uncharted wild armed with a little more than a curiosity.

In her journey she travelled to lots of places and experienced lots of cultural differences and pushed her fear of the unknown, inviting us to join not as a reader or a tourist but as a fellow explorer.

She has mostly written good things about those places she visited and experienced. Highly recommended!

[Onyx Codex · Rating 4 out of 5]

A raw, moving exploration of so-called ‘dangerous’ places that reveals more about kindness, fear, and ourselves than any travel guide ever could.

Reading Why Not? feels like sitting across from a friend who has just returned from places you never dared to dream of, spilling stories that tug at your fears and undo them one by one. Ankitha Rajendaran doesn’t write like a travel guide. Instead, she writes like someone peeling back the labels we’ve all been taught to trust, like “dangerous,” “unsafe,” “other.” As a reader, I found myself wincing at my own assumptions while simultaneously feeling the thrill of discovery in corners of the world I’ve only seen as red zones on maps declared by the news.

What makes the book so compelling is not only the landscapes, but also the author’s unflinching honesty. She doesn’t posture as a fearless explorer. Instead, she admits to her doubts, her missteps, and the emotional weight of carrying an Indian passport through border after border. That vulnerability is disarming which allows us readers to travel beside her without the pressure of being “brave.” Some passages feel almost confessional, as if she’s letting you glimpse the fragile undercurrent beneath every daring step.

By the end, Why Not? didn't leave me with a checklist of destinations Instead, it left questions about the borders inside me. It’s not really a book about travel, rather, it’s a meditation on how we choose to see strangers, and how often the kindness of those strangers reveals our own limitations more than theirs. For me, it was less about “Where will I go next?” and more about “What fears am I willing to lay down?” That shift is exactly what makes this book stay with me long after I finished reading.

[Farzana Hussain · Rating 5 out of 5]

A Travelogue For Keen Enthusiasts🗾🙌

Author Ankitha Rajendra in her book, "Why not?", which is not your typical travel memoir delves into a long journey which is authentic with a lot of curiosity. The Author who has visited over 100 countries focuses on uncovering the hidden humanity and kindness in various places where our opinions may differ. The countries she visited may not be in the bucket list of most travelers but the personal stories are encouraging with inspiration and resilience and the hospitality of each destination she visited will truly win your heart.

The beautiful lines in the book:

"This is why I travel - to find the rare in the ordinary, to uncover the stories hidden in the sands of time", will resonate with every reader. The vivid descriptions of the different places, landscapes and situations the Author experienced with her husband is truly impressive. The depth of the insights of the Author's narrative is appraising and commendable.

Ankitha Rajendaran, has written a masterpiece encouraging readers to not be vulnerable but connect with others to grow and discover the humanity that divides and bridges stereotypes. The Author says that go out and turn your fears into curiosity and the vulnerability you have by being brave and having the strength to pursue your dream. She says if I have taken the step you can too, Why not?. Trust yourself to navigate the unknown.The book challenges and serves as a testament to readers to find deeper connections with the world. If you want to experience traveling with a different perspective on global travel this book is definitely for you!

[Preetha · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is a travel memoir, but not an ordinary or typical one. In this book, the author shares her personal travel experiences in countries that are rarely visited - sounds exciting, right?

In this book the author reveals her real experiences of travelling to places that are often assumed or labeled as “unsafe” by many. I appreciated how the destinations included parts of the Middle East and some African countries which are not commonly featured in travel books. In fact, I discovered the names of a few countries for the first time through this book, which fascinated me by revealing their existence and beauty. More than just describing the places, the book focuses on the people who live there, their lifestyle, their hospitality, etc, and the author's personal experiences with them. 

The narration felt like a friendly conversation, let's say, like listening to a close friend who shares her travel experiences with you. That’s exactly the vibe I got while reading, and it made the book feel very personal and engaging.

Personally, I especially enjoyed the chapter about travelling to Afghanistan because on social media we often hear that it's not a safe place to travel, especially for women. But under the subtitle of “Was it worth it?" the author answers this question honestly and it felt somewhat convincing as well. 

What I liked about this book is how the realistic travelogue is presented, unlike portraying only the good or the aesthetic side of the travels. Each chapter starts with a famous quote and ends with the author's take. Such a fascinating read and I recommend reading this book slowly and calmly to experience its full beauty.

[Sumit RK · Rating 5 out of 5]

'Why Not?' is a part travelogue, part memoir that keeps you hooked right till the end. Going off the usual path, the book explores countries which are usually considered 'unsafe' or 'unusual' by most travellers. The book explores not just the countries but seeks to look beyond the media narrative, to understand the people and the culture.

The book narrates the author's travels to countries with complex histories like Afghanistan, Iraq, Syria, Congo and Burundi among others. Divided into 3 parts, the first part explores countries misrepresented or misunderstood— like Afghanistan and Syria categorised for their violence. The second part explores unexplored countries like Madagascar and Congo. The final part explores, some hidden, isolated places like Sudan and Turkmenistan. Each chapter is journey into the unknown and a journey leaving behind preconceived notions.

This book is not a travel guide but a collection of the author's varied experiences through some less explored lands. The book narrates stories of people and cultures, and understanding the world through them. The book helps the readers, look at the different side of the countries, far different from what is portrayed in the media. The book also encourages to overcome your prejudicee and overcome your fear. In a way, 'Why Not' challenges the readers to travel with full freedom and explore the world in its true sense. The human experiences experienced by the author; the warmth and the hospitality make it a truly heartwarming read.

Overall "Why Not?" is a excellent read that introduces to a world, in a way never explored before. Recommended to everyone.

[Arzoo Chaudhary · Rating 4 out of 5]

BOOK REVIEW

Why Not? by Ankitha Rajendaran is a captivating travel memoir that transcends the genre’s usual boundaries. Rather than offering a simple itinerary of destinations, Rajendaran weaves a deeply personal narrative about journeying as an Indian woman into “misunderstood lands” while carrying the realities of a so-called “weak” passport, cultural expectations, and her insatiable curiosity.

The book stands out for its poetic, purposeful, and honest voice. Rajendaran’s writing is self-reflective, digging into her cultural roots, lived experiences, and the stereotypes she faces as a woman of color traveling solo.

Throughout the memoir, she emphasizes how travel becomes a form of gentle rebellion—challenging traditional roles, questioning the societal narrative around who “gets” to travel, and advocating for agency and self-reliance.

One of the book’s most poignant themes is the universality of human connection. Rajendaran’s experiences—from Afghanistan and Syria to Gabon and Madagascar—highlight how dignity, hope, and generosity exist across political and cultural divides.

Instead of sticking to tourist hot spots, Rajendaran explores regions often misunderstood or overlooked. Her stories from post-conflict zones or culturally restrictive societies offer fresh, empathetic perspectives that dissolve biases.

Overall, Why Not? is not just a travel memoir—it’s a call to courage and curiosity. If you’re seeking a mix of introspection, adventure, and gentle rebellion, Ankitha Rajendaran’s debut work is a compelling, inspiring read

HIGHLY RECOMMENDED

[JT · Rating 4 out of 5]

“Vulnerability doesn’t mean walking into situations unprepared or naive. It means recognizing that no matter how well you plan, the world will always surprise you.”

This book combines travelogue with self reflection and introspection. The author recognizes her privileges and challenges as she embarks on a journey around the world. She wants to find the stories unheard and untold. She wants to travel to places far and beyond and discover new lands with new tales.

In this book, the author narrates her experiences as she finds her passion to travel. Then she goes on to visit Afghanistan, Syria , Iraq and Iran which are considered unsafe for women travellers. She narrates her travels there in detail with colloquial details. She brings forth the positives and the unique characteristics of the location as well as the locals. She shares the stories of struggle as well as harmony she experiences herself.
On similar lines, she shares her journey through Africa.

The author has presented her honest view through this book. Including her inner dilemmas, her struggles as a brown female, she sheds light on the real nature of travel and how one’s perception changes after actually visiting a place. She tries to counter the myths and illusions surrounding the most controversial regions of the world and narrates a heartfelt account of her voyage.

Overall, this travel memoir depicts the significance of travel and its impact on a person. This book will surely make the reader book tickets to an unknown land.

[Christeena Thomas · Rating 4 out of 5]

Opening Ankitha Rajendaran’s Why not? feels exactly like stepping onto a plane. It’s an instant journey, a travel memoir that gives you the thrill of visiting different countries without ever needing a passport. This book is a blueprint for dismantling the prison we build in our minds, showing how one simple question can cut through the noise of fear and global headlines.
​What resonated with me deeply was the author's vulnerability, especially when she describes her "Gilded Cage ,a life of stability that became suffocating. Reading her story isn't just about seeing exotic places; it's about accompanying her through every "practical, messy, and deeply personal" moment of facing fear, whether she's lost on a street she can't read or standing speechless before a breathtaking view. The book captures the feeling that travel is a "quiet renewal hidden from the harshness above."

​My favorite quote, which captures the book's true essence, is: "This is why I travel- to find the rare in the ordinary, to uncover the stories hidden in the sands of time."

​Her journey, the small rebellion of choosing self-discovery, echoes the enduring message of Maya Angelou, who taught us that the caged bird sings of freedom. In Why not?, the song is that quiet, insistent whisper asking: "Why not?"

​I recommend this book to anyone who needs a gentle push to prioritize their curiosity, or to those who feel anchored to the ground when every part of them wants to soar. It will inspire you to find the rare and the beautiful in the world, and in yourself.

[Maitreyee Sarma · Rating 5 out of 5]

Why Not is an amazing book on adventurous soulful travels where the raw beauty and wild spirit of some lesser known destinations across the world comes alive so vibrantly in the form of elegant words penned with a touch of poetic vibes from the author that you literally feel like travelling with each turn of the page. With travel tips and feelings and plannings before the trip and the after thoughts of travel experience that the author has jotted in the book gives it an enchanting reading experience.

The author who has described some journeys in the 'misunderstood and extraordinary' section shows the lesser explored side of it by narrating about the experience of warm hospitality of locales along with the magnificence of their historical wonders and natural paradise.

The 'wild and raw' section reveals the author's challenging journey into the hearth of the wilderness and the narration of the unknown priceless stories of beauty in it along with the experience of being close with varied wildlife simply blows you away.

The author has brought alive a completely fascinating travel experience of hers in the 'least visited and soul filled' section by telling about the lesser visited places which are actually heavens on earth teeming with rich wildlife, tropical paradise and historical wonders.

[Rajendra Kumar · Rating 4 out of 5]

In "Why Not?," author Ankitha Rajendaran invites readers to embark on a transformative journey that transcends traditional travelogues. With a passport stamped by over 100 countries🗺️, Ankitha shares not just her experiences but the profound lessons they imparted.

          The book📒 is thoughtfully divided into three distinct parts: "Misunderstood and Extraordinary," "Wild and Raw," and "Least Visited and Soul Filled." Each section illuminates the author’s encounters with diverse cultures and resilient individuals in places often dismissed by mainstream narratives.

          Through compelling storytelling, Ankitha takes us beyond the superficial tourist experience, revealing the powerful lessons embedded in communities that defy stereotypes. Her travels, from navigating tense checkpoints in Iraq to exploring the lush rainforests🌳 of Congo provide a rich backdrop to her internal voyage.

        Ankitha’s writing rejects the archetype of the fearless adventurer; instead, it celebrates curiosity as a form of courage. Her writing is both reflective and engaging, drawing the reader into her journey not just across landscapes, but into the depths of her own identity. This book is a must-read for anyone yearning to dive deeper into the cultural tapestry of our world🌍 with open eyes and an open heart💛🌇

[Ishika · Rating 5 out of 5]

The essence of the book is in the title - Why Not? She embodies the question in all her endeavors. Reading it made me perceive the world differently. Ankitha doesn't only talk about the places; she portrays the people, their generosity, their strength, and how beautiful everything can be even in difficult situations. It actually made me realize how people live in regions of the globe we hardly hear of, and it made me desire to live it myself—visit the bazaars, touch the culture, and really engage with natives.

What I like best is how genuine she is. She's not faking bravery; she's self-doubting, vulnerable, has setbacks, and keeps going. And sprinkles bits of advice and tricks for travelers along the way, which makes it so handy if you ever intend to tread in her footsteps.

This book has inspired me to be more curious, more open, and yes more resolute to travel the world myself. I want to see things as they truly are, meet people as they truly are, and welcome the unknown. I am waiting with bated breath to see if she writes about additional countries because I will be in line early to read it!

So if you’re someone who wants to travel not just with your feet but with your heart, or if you’ve ever wondered what it’s really like in those misunderstood corners of the world, grab this book. It’s inspiring, heartwarming, and eye-opening, all at the same time.

[Afrin Parveen · Rating 5 out of 5]

Why Not? is not your typical travel guide. It’s a personal, thoughtful, and meaningful journey across both countries and human connection.

With an Indian passport and a curious spirit, Ankitha travels to places like Iraq and Syria-- places many see as dangerous. But instead of fear, she finds kindness, generosity, and a shared sense of humanity that people often ignore.

Every chapter of the book challenges common stereotypes. The author doesn’t just describe what she sees, she makes you feel it.

The book opens eyes to the real side of countries which are often seen only through stories of destruction & war. Through her travels, Ankitha shows the human side, the smiles, the warmth, the everyday lives that rarely make headlines.

Her writing is poetic yet clear. It moves between deep personal thoughts and helpful reflections. She shows us both the messy and the beauty, the fear and the joy of travel.

The strength of the book is in its heart. It stays honest and emotional while taking us to unseen places.

"Why Not?" is a reminder to look beyond fear, stay open minded, and find beauty in the unexpected. A beautiful read for anyone who believes in kindness, truth, and the magic of human connection.

[Dipak Pal · Rating 4 out of 5]

Ankitha Rajendaran’s "Why Not?" is a powerful travel memoir that challenges the way we see the world. Instead of writing about popular tourist destinations, she takes us into countries that are often labeled as “dangerous” or “forgotten.” From Afghanistan and Syria to Madagascar and South Sudan, each chapter opens up a new perspective, showing us that behind the headlines of war, poverty, or unrest, there are real people with warmth, generosity, and resilience.

Author's writing blends personal reflection with cultural observation, making the book feel both intimate and eye-opening. Each story feels raw and authentic, reminding us that sometimes the greatest discoveries happen when we step beyond fear and prejudice.

"Why Not?" is more than a travelogue it’s an invitation to rethink how we view the world and its people. Author shows us that beauty exists in unexpected corners, and that the borders we imagine are often more limiting than the ones on a map. This book is a celebration of human spirit, kindness, and curiosity. For anyone who has ever wondered what lies beyond the comfort zone, or questioned the way the world is portrayed, this book gently whispers back: “Why not?”

[Blossom · Rating 5 out of 5]

Ankitha Rajendaran’s “Why Not?” is a book that challenges conventional thinking and inspires readers to step out of their comfort zone. Right from the first few chapters, the author creates a strong connection by addressing everyday struggles like fear of failure, self-doubt, and hesitation to chase dreams. The tone is conversational, almost as if a friend is speaking to you and urging you to believe in yourself.

The strength of this book lies in its practicality. Instead of offering vague motivational quotes, Ankitha Rajendaran presents relatable scenarios and actionable ways to change your mindset. The book constantly pushes you to replace “what if it goes wrong?” with “why not give it a try?”—a shift that feels empowering as you read. It has the power to spark courage in even the most hesitant reader.


By the end, the book leaves you with a sense of renewed confidence. It is not just a motivational read but also a reminder that the only real limits are the ones we set for ourselves. “Why Not?” is a perfect companion for anyone struggling with indecision or seeking inspiration to move forward in life. Ankitha Rajendaran has delivered a book that motivates without being overwhelming, making it a must-read for self-growth enthusiasts.

[Radhika · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is a captivating travel memoir that embodies the spirit of adventure and self-discovery. Ankitha's writing style is smooth and engaging, painting vivid pictures of the places she visits and the people she meets. What stands out most is the depth of insight she brings to life's lessons and philosophies, making this book more than just a travelogue. Her candor and authenticity shine through, allowing readers to experience her journey alongside her.

This book is a must-read for anyone with a passion for travel, self-discovery, or embracing new challenges. Ankitha's approach is inspiring, and her stories linger long after you finish the book, encouraging you to ask yourself: "Why not?" Whether you're a seasoned traveler or just starting to explore, "Why Not?" will resonate with you, challenging your assumptions and broadening your perspective on the world.

Ankitha's travel to over 108 countries, many of which are misunderstood or rarely visited, is a testament to her courage and curiosity. Her experiences offer a fresh perspective on meaningful travel, emphasizing connection, resilience, and the importance of human relationships. By sharing her stories, Ankitha aims to inspire readers to challenge their own biases and explore the world with an open mind.

[Karen Lea · Rating 5 out of 5]

I have followed along on Ankitha Rajendaran’s travel adventures on Instagram for the last several years so when I found out she wrote a book, I had to purchase it. In “Why Not?”, Anki doesn’t just share stories of her travels, she paints a vivid – and often contradictory – picture of the incredible places she’s visited … places the casual traveler would never consider visiting. These are places we hear about (usually negatively) on the news or faraway lands that may seem unwelcoming, impoverished, or even dangerous. Why would anyone want to go to these places?? Anki says, “Why Not?” Anki is a woman who prefers to form her own opinions based on her own observations and experiences … I admire that! So – Spoiler Alert – her journeys to many of the world’s least-visited countries was one of discovery and wonder. The people, the cultures, the foods, the history, and the traditions of these unique destinations that Anki describes in raw, authentic, and literary detail reminded me that the human experience is a universal one. Did Anki’s book inspire me to choose the road less traveled? Of course! Why not?

[Pratap Mahato · Rating 5 out of 5]

“Why Not?” by Ankitha Rajendaran is an inspiring and thought-provoking book that encourages readers to challenge their doubts and fears. The central theme revolves around questioning limitations, whether they are imposed by society or created within our own minds. The writing style is simple, relatable, and filled with motivating insights that make you pause and reflect on your own life choices.

What I liked most about the book is its positivity and practical approach. Instead of just preaching, the author uses everyday examples and situations to show how small shifts in thinking can lead to big changes. It’s not a heavy philosophical text but a light and uplifting guide that anyone can pick up and connect with, regardless of age or background.

Overall, “Why Not?” is a refreshing read for those who feel stuck, hesitant, or afraid to take risks. Ankitha Rajendaran delivers a clear message: opportunities open up when you dare to ask yourself why not? If you are looking for motivation wrapped in an easy-to-read style, this book will definitely leave you energized and ready to push your boundaries.

[Fatima Shamsi · Rating 5 out of 5]

I didn’t expect Why Not? by Ankitha Rajendaran to stay with me the way it did. At first glance, it looks like a book about travel, but as I read on, I realized it was more about self-discovery and courage than ticking places off a map. Her writing made me think about my own journey—how I move through life, the choices I make, and what I might be missing in the rush.

What I loved most is how she takes us into places we hardly hear about, like Afghanistan, Syria, or Madagascar, and shows a side of humanity that rarely makes it to the headlines. Instead of fear or judgment, her stories highlight generosity, resilience, and unexpected warmth. Reading about her challenges as a solo woman traveler also felt eye-opening, because she doesn’t just describe the landscapes—she questions the roles and limits society tries to impose.

The book flows beautifully between reflection and experience. Even when she writes about doubt or fear, it feels hopeful and grounding. By the end, I didn’t feel like I had just read about someone else’s travels—I felt like I had been a fellow traveler, learning about courage, kindness, and connection in surprising places.

[Khushi Singh · Rating 4 out of 5]

I just finished reading "Why Not?" and it's definitely a book that sticks with you. It’s not a typical travel memoir, it’s more of a deep dive into places everyone else tells you to avoid or are misunderstood like Afghanistan and Syria. The author traveled to over a hundred countries while still holding down a full-time corporate job, which is crazy inspiring to be honest.

The core of the book is her amazing philosophy summed up in the title- Why not? It's a question she applies to everything. The stories go beyond just travel, it captures the heart of the people she meets showing their kindness and resilience in the face of challenges. Reading about her experiences, from vibrant markets to war-torn regions made me feel connected to the world in a new way and made me think about people who live in such circumstances. She challenges stereotypes and navigates the struggles of traveling with an Indian passport. The author has sprinkled tips and tricks throughout the book for travelers, making it super practical too.

This book is a beautiful reminder that the world is full of hope and connection no matter where you go.