How I Came to Read This Book: I definitely heard about it by way of Indigo spotlighting it. I listened to the audiobook.
The Plot: We all know smartphones are kind of the worst. Dr. Kaitlyn Regehr is focusing less on hype and more on science, studies, and facts to help drive home the realities of how we are consuming content on our phones, and what the possible repercussions are, as well as providing actionable solutions to help break bad habits. With a particularly strong focus on young people's smartphone use and addiction, the book is a balance of history lesson, trend watch, and strategy.
The Good & The Bad: Overall, I commend this book for being a tight, condensed little read. It's not hitting you over the head with a lot of jargon and theory. It's basically shining a light on how things came to be the way they are (and honestly the history lessons were some of the most interesting bits of the book), what it might mean for us long-term, and what we can do about it. I will say that I don't specifically identify as someone who has a strong smartphone addiction, so in some ways, the book didn't feel hyper-relevant to me on that level. I've already trained my algorithm, and I gave up infinite scrolling around the time of the pandemic.
But the real shining elements for me actually came from the strong focus on the next generation's use and reaction to smartphones. As a parent, this is something that unsettles me, and I look to my friends with older kids for guidance. This book also shed some additional light on the realities of giving kids unbridled access to social media, and while I still don't have a clear cut answer as to what exactly I'm going to do (other than the 'ride-along' idea, which I really liked), it certainly illuminated a lot of risk to me that I maybe was a bit naive about. On the flip side, I'll say that if you aren't a parent, you might find this book is too focused on moderating young people's use and not necessarily actionable enough for how to curb an adult addiction.
A good portion of the book also tries to lasso the very tricky concept of "whose responsibility is it" when it comes to both the addictiveness of the apps on our smartphones, and the content itself. The author rightfully acknowledges this is a tangled web. While the book is about smartphones, ostensibly it's also largely about social media apps designed to keep us glued to our phones (although another section I appreciated was the delve into quality vs. quantity of screen time - I feel very differently about me spending time editing a video on my phone than I would of me scrolling through other people's content). Is it Apple's fault we now have a portable world in our pocket? Is it TikTok's fault for creating a hyper-accurate algorithm? Is it Meta's job to moderate content for different audiences, or the internet as a whole? There's a lot of tricky, navel-gazing questions here that the author doesn't fully wrap her arms around (understandably), that sort of take up space without a satisfying resolution.
Of course, by the time we get to the conclusion, Regehr also acknowledges that this book was tricky to write because so much of it is unfolding in real time. And I appreciated her mentioning that parents are very much stumbling around in the dark because we don't have a north star to reference to help guide how we handle this aspect of parenting. There is a hopeful note that perhaps future generations will laugh and mock how irresponsible we were with content creation and consumption, but I don't know...this book was often pretty hard to get through because it felt so searingly overwhelming and dark and hard to solve (particularly when diving into the story of a young girl who took her own life, largely motivated by harmful content served up to her on social media).
This book is an important read. It's well-crafted, even if it very honestly admits it doesn't have all the answers. While there weren't maybe quite as many gems in her for me than I would have liked, that's also maybe a positive sign that I'm doing alright, consumption-wise. And I've certainly recommended it to more than a few friends grappling with the same questions I am. My child is currently not exceptionally interested in screens, and I don't let her fade away into an algorithmic wormhole of videos, literally ever. But I know that day will come, and I at least feel like I've got some ways to approach it.
The Bottom Line: A valuable, succinct read that comes at a massive problem admitting its own shortcomings; but still offers nuggets of insight, wisdom, and strategy.
Anything Memorable?: No.
2025 Book Challenge?: Book #58 in 2025