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Nearly Departed
Joel Foster is a hapless twenty-something. His girlfriend, Beth Lewis, would likely have been a hapless twenty-something, too, had she not been obliterated by a very large cement truck. Some time after Beth’s tragic death, Joel is still trying to juggle grief with the world of modern dating. And while he still feels like a widower, he has to find a new love before three years is up.
The catch? Just as Joel thinks he’s finally falling for someone, he starts getting haunted by Beth.
It’s not a ghost story, it’s a love story. With ghosts.
The catch? Just as Joel thinks he’s finally falling for someone, he starts getting haunted by Beth.
It’s not a ghost story, it’s a love story. With ghosts.
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March 20, 2025
I was lucky enough to receive a proof of Oakeley’s debut and oh my, what a debut it is! At once funny, tender and poetic, Nearly Departed is everything I hoped it would be. I found myself laughing aloud at many points (a rare treat in my reading experience), and I was reluctant to finish the book and leave behind the exquisitely-crafted characters and their poignant story! This novel will stay with me for a long time, and I can’t wait to see what the author - undoubtedly a remarkable writer - does next. 5 stars!!!
August 31, 2025
Nearly Departed is a refreshing take on the afterlife, blending humor with genuine heart.
The characters are vibrant and three-dimensional and its themes are delivered with wit and poise. I was hooked from the first page and thoroughly enjoyed its originality and the way it handles the non-linear and unpredictable emotions associated with grief.
A must-read for anyone looking for a fun, imaginative, and touching story with just the right amount of humour!
The characters are vibrant and three-dimensional and its themes are delivered with wit and poise. I was hooked from the first page and thoroughly enjoyed its originality and the way it handles the non-linear and unpredictable emotions associated with grief.
A must-read for anyone looking for a fun, imaginative, and touching story with just the right amount of humour!
August 31, 2025
Its amazing to see someone I know has written a published book!!! And one so funny and sweet too.
I absolutely loved it, and whizzed through it really quickly - even taking a break from a house party so I could go finish it in a quiet room.
Lucas writes so well about what it feels and looks and smells like to be young and living in London in the 2020s, and there are loads of really witty insights in there about dating culture in particular.
The parts that really excelled for me were the passages about food and visual art - Lucas writes so beautifully about the way that these make his characters feel, and how they connect us to each other.
Overall, it was giving major Richard Curtis Classic British Rom Com energy, and I was very MOVED at the end.
Write more books Lucas the people demand it!!!
I absolutely loved it, and whizzed through it really quickly - even taking a break from a house party so I could go finish it in a quiet room.
Lucas writes so well about what it feels and looks and smells like to be young and living in London in the 2020s, and there are loads of really witty insights in there about dating culture in particular.
The parts that really excelled for me were the passages about food and visual art - Lucas writes so beautifully about the way that these make his characters feel, and how they connect us to each other.
Overall, it was giving major Richard Curtis Classic British Rom Com energy, and I was very MOVED at the end.
Write more books Lucas the people demand it!!!
August 30, 2025
The set up for this book was an interesting concept and I sometimes find quirky main characters to be a plotline I love to follow. Joel Foster is a hapless twenty-something. His girlfriend, Beth Lewis, would likely have been a hapless twenty-something, too, had she not been obliterated by a very large cement truck. Some time after Beth’s tragic death, Joel is still trying to juggle grief with the world of modern dating. And while he still feels like a widower, he has to find a new love before three years is up. (this forced timeline is all of his own making).
The catch? Just as Joel thinks he’s finally falling for someone, he starts getting haunted by Beth.
It’s not a ghost story, it’s a love story. With ghosts.
Who wouldn't find this a little intriguing?
It was, and then it wasn't. I guess for me we were stuck in Joel's head a lot and it's at times not very interesting. I don't want to spoil the ending but it's a little anti-climatic. I guess the people who loved this story are probably the audience for a meandering, insecure character such is Joel. It just wasn't my cup of tea.
The catch? Just as Joel thinks he’s finally falling for someone, he starts getting haunted by Beth.
It’s not a ghost story, it’s a love story. With ghosts.
Who wouldn't find this a little intriguing?
It was, and then it wasn't. I guess for me we were stuck in Joel's head a lot and it's at times not very interesting. I don't want to spoil the ending but it's a little anti-climatic. I guess the people who loved this story are probably the audience for a meandering, insecure character such is Joel. It just wasn't my cup of tea.
August 22, 2025
Couldn’t recommend this more highly, if you’ve ever been in your late twenties, or just plan to be in them one day, you’ll find relatable, funny, poignant and just overall a great read.
Can’t wait for the next one!
Can’t wait for the next one!
September 8, 2025
”Love is simple. It’s about trying. But not too much, just the right amount—and as often as you can.”
This lovely, surprising novel strikes an impressive balance between the lighthearted charm of romantic comedy and the rawness of a story about grief and healing. Oakeley did a great job of weaving together humour and heartache, creating a novel that is both accessible and moving. ❤️🩹
The pacing kept me engaged from start to finish, and I loved the witty prose that easily could’ve undermined the story’s emotional impact, but it didn’t. Joel is a relatable and convincing main character. His journey of healing is portrayed in such a way that you can’t help but be frustrated with him and root for him every step of the way. Watching him gradually find his footing again was just heartwarming af 🫶🏼.
The audiobook production deserves special mention, the narrator’s delivery perfectly captures the story’s tone. He was a great choice!! 🎧 Thank you so much to NetGalley and W.F. Howes Ltd for this ARC!
This lovely, surprising novel strikes an impressive balance between the lighthearted charm of romantic comedy and the rawness of a story about grief and healing. Oakeley did a great job of weaving together humour and heartache, creating a novel that is both accessible and moving. ❤️🩹
The pacing kept me engaged from start to finish, and I loved the witty prose that easily could’ve undermined the story’s emotional impact, but it didn’t. Joel is a relatable and convincing main character. His journey of healing is portrayed in such a way that you can’t help but be frustrated with him and root for him every step of the way. Watching him gradually find his footing again was just heartwarming af 🫶🏼.
The audiobook production deserves special mention, the narrator’s delivery perfectly captures the story’s tone. He was a great choice!! 🎧 Thank you so much to NetGalley and W.F. Howes Ltd for this ARC!
September 27, 2025
Took me an embarrassingly long time to finish this one. Every time I put it down, I’d somehow find myself reading literally anything else — shampoo bottles, takeaway menus, the back of the Weetabix box.
The premise is actually quite sweet: Joel, still reeling after the sudden death of his girlfriend Beth, gives himself three years to fall in love again. Enter Nina, just as things are finally looking hopeful. And then — because fate clearly has a dark sense of humour — Beth reappears as a ghost. Awkward doesn’t even cover it.
It’s tender and bittersweet, sure, but for me it never quite caught fire. Pleasant enough, but not exactly satisfying.
The premise is actually quite sweet: Joel, still reeling after the sudden death of his girlfriend Beth, gives himself three years to fall in love again. Enter Nina, just as things are finally looking hopeful. And then — because fate clearly has a dark sense of humour — Beth reappears as a ghost. Awkward doesn’t even cover it.
It’s tender and bittersweet, sure, but for me it never quite caught fire. Pleasant enough, but not exactly satisfying.
July 22, 2025
Thank you to Lucas Oakeley, Bedford Square Publishers and NetGalley for giving me access to this book in exchange for an honest review.
Trying to date when your ex won’t leave you alone is rough. Especially when she’s dead.
This is so nice! Unexpectedly tender and quietly profound.
Joel is trying to find love again after losing the woman he thought was it. But the universe? She’s got jokes. Especially when his one true love starts popping up… even though she’s, well, dead.
Lucas Oakeley’s debut is witty, warm, and just the right amount of ghostly. A heartbreaking exploration of grief, awkward dating, and trying to move on when your past won’t stay buried.
As a debut, this is phenomenal. Lucas, you smashed it. I’m watching your next move like a hawk.
Trying to date when your ex won’t leave you alone is rough. Especially when she’s dead.
This is so nice! Unexpectedly tender and quietly profound.
Joel is trying to find love again after losing the woman he thought was it. But the universe? She’s got jokes. Especially when his one true love starts popping up… even though she’s, well, dead.
Lucas Oakeley’s debut is witty, warm, and just the right amount of ghostly. A heartbreaking exploration of grief, awkward dating, and trying to move on when your past won’t stay buried.
As a debut, this is phenomenal. Lucas, you smashed it. I’m watching your next move like a hawk.
December 28, 2025
i literally cannot think of anything better than a book that is a love story with ghosts
October 16, 2025
This was lovely!
I listened to the audiobook and the narrator did a nice job. The writing itself was funny at times, and Oakeley really has a great way with words.
I thought the whole challenge of finding a partner within three years was quite weird, I didn’t see much sense in it. But it does get explained towards the end, and from that point on I was totally fine with the motives of the main character. Speaking of the end, it was really well executed. I really didn't see a certain development happen, but it was needed and the best way to wrap up the book.
Extra points for the English vibes and pop culture references.
I listened to the audiobook and the narrator did a nice job. The writing itself was funny at times, and Oakeley really has a great way with words.
I thought the whole challenge of finding a partner within three years was quite weird, I didn’t see much sense in it. But it does get explained towards the end, and from that point on I was totally fine with the motives of the main character. Speaking of the end, it was really well executed. I really didn't see a certain development happen, but it was needed and the best way to wrap up the book.
Extra points for the English vibes and pop culture references.
January 20, 2026
Full of dark humour and millennial references, this is an emotionally charged debut novel, that shines a light on how we navigate grief and the prospect of attempting to move on from the love of your life at young age.
Told in multiple perspectives from various characters, including dead ex-girlfriend Beth, the different POVs made for an interesting and entertaining read.
I did feel that some parts of the main character's POV went on a little too long, with some of the jokes dragged out - perhaps an intentional character flaw? But overall, I'd recommend this for anyone interested in finding a bit of a comfort read around the subject matter of love and loss.
Told in multiple perspectives from various characters, including dead ex-girlfriend Beth, the different POVs made for an interesting and entertaining read.
I did feel that some parts of the main character's POV went on a little too long, with some of the jokes dragged out - perhaps an intentional character flaw? But overall, I'd recommend this for anyone interested in finding a bit of a comfort read around the subject matter of love and loss.
January 4, 2026
Probably a 3.5 but I like the blokes insta content so I’m giving it a 4.
Funny and immensely readable. At times felt a bit like a barrage of references and similes but was an enjoyable read all in all. Good plot concept although did have a slight feeling it was a bit too hopeful to be made into a BBC Three series.
Would make an ideal sun lounger read, shame I read it in January in South London. Can’t have it all.
Funny and immensely readable. At times felt a bit like a barrage of references and similes but was an enjoyable read all in all. Good plot concept although did have a slight feeling it was a bit too hopeful to be made into a BBC Three series.
Would make an ideal sun lounger read, shame I read it in January in South London. Can’t have it all.
August 29, 2025
Enjoyed this! I feel like it’s really clear how much the author is a 90s baby and grew up with the David Nichols, Nick Hornby yearning men characters. Even to an extent the light humour of Helen Fielding. This really does feel like an ode to the hazy, optimistic 90s/00s rom coms
October 27, 2025
A 99p kindle book for my weekend city break to Madrid (aka to survive the Hell that is Stansted airport during half term). Did the trick but nothing special xxx
November 19, 2025
Nearly 4 stars
January 7, 2026
I’m sure it’s been said a hundred times but I really wish good reads did half stars! Not good enough for a 4 but a 3 seems harsh. Decent, easy to read book. The main character, Joel was a bit irritating but not unbearable.
July 8, 2025
Usually not into ghosts but I’m into this, 5 starrrrrrs
July 31, 2025
A Tender, Witty, and Unforgettable Exploration of Love After Loss
Nearly Departed, Lucas Oakeley’s debut novel, is a bold, genre-blending story that left a deep impression on me. It's a heartfelt, darkly funny exploration of grief, healing, and the strange, winding paths we take to find love again—even when the past refuses to stay buried.
The novel opens with Joel, whose long-term girlfriend Beth has died suddenly, leaving him shattered. The depth of Joel’s grief is palpable, and Oakeley does a remarkable job of portraying that raw emotional landscape. The premise alone—Joel makes a reluctant promise to fall in love again within three years of Beth’s death, only for Beth to return as a ghost just as he meets someone new—sets the tone for a story that is both emotionally resonant and unexpectedly playful.
Beth’s ghost is a standout character: sharply drawn, emotionally intelligent, and full of life (ironically). Her chapters add richness and texture to the story, offering a refreshing perspective that deepens our understanding of both her and Joel. The supernatural twist isn’t just a gimmick—it’s woven meaningfully into the emotional core of the novel, allowing for a beautiful exploration of unfinished love and the complexities of moving on.
Oakeley writes with honesty and a touch of irreverence, capturing the contradictory nature of grief—how it can be sad, absurd, awkward, and even funny, sometimes all at once. There are moments that made me laugh out loud and others that completely caught me off guard with their emotional truth.
Joel is a deeply introspective protagonist, and while his journey is often messy and uncomfortable, that’s what makes it feel real. His connection with Nina is gently developed and believable, and while she may seem "too good to be true" at times, she brings light into the story exactly when it’s most needed.
This book won’t be for everyone—but it was definitely for me. I found it original, affecting, and full of humanity. Oakeley has a real talent for capturing the awkwardness and authenticity of love in all its stages, and I’m genuinely excited to see what he writes next.
Thank you to NetGalley and Bedford Square Publishers for the opportunity to read and review an ARC of this book in exchange for an honest review.
Nearly Departed, Lucas Oakeley’s debut novel, is a bold, genre-blending story that left a deep impression on me. It's a heartfelt, darkly funny exploration of grief, healing, and the strange, winding paths we take to find love again—even when the past refuses to stay buried.
The novel opens with Joel, whose long-term girlfriend Beth has died suddenly, leaving him shattered. The depth of Joel’s grief is palpable, and Oakeley does a remarkable job of portraying that raw emotional landscape. The premise alone—Joel makes a reluctant promise to fall in love again within three years of Beth’s death, only for Beth to return as a ghost just as he meets someone new—sets the tone for a story that is both emotionally resonant and unexpectedly playful.
Beth’s ghost is a standout character: sharply drawn, emotionally intelligent, and full of life (ironically). Her chapters add richness and texture to the story, offering a refreshing perspective that deepens our understanding of both her and Joel. The supernatural twist isn’t just a gimmick—it’s woven meaningfully into the emotional core of the novel, allowing for a beautiful exploration of unfinished love and the complexities of moving on.
Oakeley writes with honesty and a touch of irreverence, capturing the contradictory nature of grief—how it can be sad, absurd, awkward, and even funny, sometimes all at once. There are moments that made me laugh out loud and others that completely caught me off guard with their emotional truth.
Joel is a deeply introspective protagonist, and while his journey is often messy and uncomfortable, that’s what makes it feel real. His connection with Nina is gently developed and believable, and while she may seem "too good to be true" at times, she brings light into the story exactly when it’s most needed.
This book won’t be for everyone—but it was definitely for me. I found it original, affecting, and full of humanity. Oakeley has a real talent for capturing the awkwardness and authenticity of love in all its stages, and I’m genuinely excited to see what he writes next.
Thank you to NetGalley and Bedford Square Publishers for the opportunity to read and review an ARC of this book in exchange for an honest review.
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July 23, 2025
When Joel's girlfriend of five years, Beth, dies suddenly, he feels like his life is over. He thought they'd be together forever, and he doesn't know how he is supposed to start all over again with someone new. Reluctantly, he makes a promise to himself to fall in love again before three years elapses since Beth's death, and, with this milestone fast approaching, he can't believe his luck when he meets Nina. Beautiful, honest and funny, Nina could be the woman Joel thought he would never meet. But, just when he starts to imagine that falling in love again could be possible after all, Beth is back, and her ghost has plenty of ideas of what Joel should be doing with his life in her absence.
Nearly Departed, Lucas Oakeley's debut novel, has a unique premise which unfortunately fell down in execution for me. Joel is a mopey, introspective protagonist, which is the point, but I just didn’t find his rambling narration engaging or sympathetic. Asides from peripheral characters, such as Joel's friend Alice, don't add anything much and feel like a waste of story space. Beth's ghost is by far the strongest presence and most defined character, and the chapters which are written from her perspective are those which really drive the narrative towards a resolution. They also give the reader a new perspective on Joel's hapless nice guy persona.
There are moments, especially when Joel reminisces about his and Beth's sex life in off-putting detail, where a neon sign might as well announce, 'This was written by a man.' I don't think Oakeley intended for the line 'he filled her mouth with his penis' to be uncomfortably aggressive, but that's how it read to me. I wasn't invested in the burgeoning romance between Joel and Nina, who seems like far too much of a catch to invest as much time as she does in this weirdo.
There are amusing moments, and I did think that Oakeley did a good job of capturing the long-term experience of grief and its myriad associated, often contradictory, emotions, but ultimately this one wasn't for me.
Thank you to NetGalley and Bedford Square Publishers for the opportunity to read and review an ARC of this book in exchange for an honest review.
Nearly Departed, Lucas Oakeley's debut novel, has a unique premise which unfortunately fell down in execution for me. Joel is a mopey, introspective protagonist, which is the point, but I just didn’t find his rambling narration engaging or sympathetic. Asides from peripheral characters, such as Joel's friend Alice, don't add anything much and feel like a waste of story space. Beth's ghost is by far the strongest presence and most defined character, and the chapters which are written from her perspective are those which really drive the narrative towards a resolution. They also give the reader a new perspective on Joel's hapless nice guy persona.
There are moments, especially when Joel reminisces about his and Beth's sex life in off-putting detail, where a neon sign might as well announce, 'This was written by a man.' I don't think Oakeley intended for the line 'he filled her mouth with his penis' to be uncomfortably aggressive, but that's how it read to me. I wasn't invested in the burgeoning romance between Joel and Nina, who seems like far too much of a catch to invest as much time as she does in this weirdo.
There are amusing moments, and I did think that Oakeley did a good job of capturing the long-term experience of grief and its myriad associated, often contradictory, emotions, but ultimately this one wasn't for me.
Thank you to NetGalley and Bedford Square Publishers for the opportunity to read and review an ARC of this book in exchange for an honest review.
July 26, 2025
3.25 rounded down
I finished this book last night, and I find it quite challenging to review. The narrative weaves together clever and profound themes, but there are also elements that felt lacking, leaving me with mixed feelings.
One area where the author, Oakley, truly excelled is in depicting the intricacies of grief. The portrayal of messy, complex emotions surrounding loss is striking. Oakley captures the nuances of what it means to grieve—those unspoken thoughts, unfinished conversations, and the struggle to move forward after tragedy. This depth adds a layer of authenticity to the experience of loss.
However, where the novel fell short for me was in its character development, particularly with the protagonist, Joel. While I understand that he is grappling with a traumatic event, his character felt somewhat one-dimensional, lacking the emotional depth I hoped to see. I can certainly relate to how Beth, the other main character, might feel frustrated with their relationship. Joel's responses often lacked the complexity necessary to convey the weight of his experience.
On a more positive note, I found Beth's ghost to be the most compelling character in the story. She brought a unique perspective, and her presence highlighted the themes of unresolved emotions and communication—yet I was puzzled by her choices. Without giving too much away, it was difficult for me to understand why it took her so long to express her feelings to Joel. This delay created moments that felt drawn out and, at times, even cringe-worthy, especially as Joel struggled to move on.
Overall, while there were elements that could have been stronger, I still consider it a worthwhile read. Given that this is a debut novel, I believe Oakley has showcased a commendable talent for storytelling and a deep understanding of human emotions.
I want to extend my gratitude to the author, the publishers, and NetGalley for providing the ARC of this book. My review reflects my own thoughts and opinions.
I finished this book last night, and I find it quite challenging to review. The narrative weaves together clever and profound themes, but there are also elements that felt lacking, leaving me with mixed feelings.
One area where the author, Oakley, truly excelled is in depicting the intricacies of grief. The portrayal of messy, complex emotions surrounding loss is striking. Oakley captures the nuances of what it means to grieve—those unspoken thoughts, unfinished conversations, and the struggle to move forward after tragedy. This depth adds a layer of authenticity to the experience of loss.
However, where the novel fell short for me was in its character development, particularly with the protagonist, Joel. While I understand that he is grappling with a traumatic event, his character felt somewhat one-dimensional, lacking the emotional depth I hoped to see. I can certainly relate to how Beth, the other main character, might feel frustrated with their relationship. Joel's responses often lacked the complexity necessary to convey the weight of his experience.
On a more positive note, I found Beth's ghost to be the most compelling character in the story. She brought a unique perspective, and her presence highlighted the themes of unresolved emotions and communication—yet I was puzzled by her choices. Without giving too much away, it was difficult for me to understand why it took her so long to express her feelings to Joel. This delay created moments that felt drawn out and, at times, even cringe-worthy, especially as Joel struggled to move on.
Overall, while there were elements that could have been stronger, I still consider it a worthwhile read. Given that this is a debut novel, I believe Oakley has showcased a commendable talent for storytelling and a deep understanding of human emotions.
I want to extend my gratitude to the author, the publishers, and NetGalley for providing the ARC of this book. My review reflects my own thoughts and opinions.
July 14, 2025
Thanks to NetGalley and Bedford Square for the advanced copy of this title in return for an honest review.
I love romance novels and I love mystical, ghostly stories, so this sounded right up my street.
The cover really grabbed me. It's simple but it looked so cute.
It's an interesting look at death and grief. I will say now that I fully believe in ghosts and spirits and whatnot, and I believe I have seen the ghosts of passed loved ones, and so the idea that you may still be able to see a loved one after death (even if not in the best of circumstances) is very comforting for me.
I liked that our protagonist was a man. Most of the romance books I read involve a lot of female main characters which I have no issue with, but it's a fresh take on it to see it thorough a male character. I admit, it did mean I struggled to really feel a connection with Joel but I did like him.
It surprisingly manages to be funny and jokey but at the same time be sensitive and tender. It's the perfect balance.
Whilst I enjoyed it from the off, I found it got even better as it went along. Lucas has really found a strong voice as it gets to the second half. So whilst the beginning was good and enjoyable, it got stronger and became really good as it went on. It was more developed, more layered.
Lucas has created a great sense of place and environment to support the characters' stories.
I read a lot of romcoms, and whilst I generally enjoy them, they can get a bit samey, but that's okay because it's what I want and expect from the genre. But it was refreshing to read a romcom that was unique. It still gave me everything I expected from the genre, but he's made it fresh and exciting which piqued and held my attention.
I read it one sitting. Even though it has some difficult topics, it doesn't feel too heavy and is quite easy to fly through.
I believe this is Lucas' debut and I think it is a promising start and I'll keep my eye out for what comes next.
I love romance novels and I love mystical, ghostly stories, so this sounded right up my street.
The cover really grabbed me. It's simple but it looked so cute.
It's an interesting look at death and grief. I will say now that I fully believe in ghosts and spirits and whatnot, and I believe I have seen the ghosts of passed loved ones, and so the idea that you may still be able to see a loved one after death (even if not in the best of circumstances) is very comforting for me.
I liked that our protagonist was a man. Most of the romance books I read involve a lot of female main characters which I have no issue with, but it's a fresh take on it to see it thorough a male character. I admit, it did mean I struggled to really feel a connection with Joel but I did like him.
It surprisingly manages to be funny and jokey but at the same time be sensitive and tender. It's the perfect balance.
Whilst I enjoyed it from the off, I found it got even better as it went along. Lucas has really found a strong voice as it gets to the second half. So whilst the beginning was good and enjoyable, it got stronger and became really good as it went on. It was more developed, more layered.
Lucas has created a great sense of place and environment to support the characters' stories.
I read a lot of romcoms, and whilst I generally enjoy them, they can get a bit samey, but that's okay because it's what I want and expect from the genre. But it was refreshing to read a romcom that was unique. It still gave me everything I expected from the genre, but he's made it fresh and exciting which piqued and held my attention.
I read it one sitting. Even though it has some difficult topics, it doesn't feel too heavy and is quite easy to fly through.
I believe this is Lucas' debut and I think it is a promising start and I'll keep my eye out for what comes next.
August 13, 2025
Rating: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
💬 “He crained his head and squinted to get a better look but was relieved when he realised it was only Beth. He was relieved, of course, until he remembered Beth was dead.”
💭 Oakeley's debut novel, NEARLY DEPARTED, is a fantastic blend of the heartbreaking and the hilarious, a truly unique story that feels both quiet and profound. I sped through it and enjoyed every minute.
Joel is a hapless twenty-something whose girlfriend, Beth, has been tragically killed. We meet him as he's navigating the awkward and often painful world of modern dating, all while still feeling like a widower. The story takes an unexpected turn when, just as Joel thinks he's finally ready to move on, he starts getting haunted by Beth.
This premise, although perhaps slightly unconventional, was so well executed you’d think it was the norm. Oakeley writes characters that feel incredibly real. Joel, and the people around him, are so well-crafted with a depth that really brings them to life. I found myself feeling a mix of empathy and annoyance at their cringeworthy and deeply human moments.
Oakeley also captures grief perfectly, not just focusing on sadness, but also on the messy, awkward, and deeply contradictory feelings that can accompany it.
My favourite part of NEARLY DEPARTED however has to be the witty, warm prose, peppered with dialogue that is sharp and authentic. Oakeley manages to slot laugh-out-loud moments seamlessly into a story that is, at its core, a tender exploration of loss and love.
Overall, NEARLY DEPARTED is a wonderfully unexpected and heartfelt read. If you’re looking for a book with an original voice and characters you'll think about long after you've finished, this is it. I can't wait to see what Oakeley writes next.
💬 “He crained his head and squinted to get a better look but was relieved when he realised it was only Beth. He was relieved, of course, until he remembered Beth was dead.”
💭 Oakeley's debut novel, NEARLY DEPARTED, is a fantastic blend of the heartbreaking and the hilarious, a truly unique story that feels both quiet and profound. I sped through it and enjoyed every minute.
Joel is a hapless twenty-something whose girlfriend, Beth, has been tragically killed. We meet him as he's navigating the awkward and often painful world of modern dating, all while still feeling like a widower. The story takes an unexpected turn when, just as Joel thinks he's finally ready to move on, he starts getting haunted by Beth.
This premise, although perhaps slightly unconventional, was so well executed you’d think it was the norm. Oakeley writes characters that feel incredibly real. Joel, and the people around him, are so well-crafted with a depth that really brings them to life. I found myself feeling a mix of empathy and annoyance at their cringeworthy and deeply human moments.
Oakeley also captures grief perfectly, not just focusing on sadness, but also on the messy, awkward, and deeply contradictory feelings that can accompany it.
My favourite part of NEARLY DEPARTED however has to be the witty, warm prose, peppered with dialogue that is sharp and authentic. Oakeley manages to slot laugh-out-loud moments seamlessly into a story that is, at its core, a tender exploration of loss and love.
Overall, NEARLY DEPARTED is a wonderfully unexpected and heartfelt read. If you’re looking for a book with an original voice and characters you'll think about long after you've finished, this is it. I can't wait to see what Oakeley writes next.
October 24, 2025
This is what it would probably look like when your grief manifests into a ghost.
The story mostly followed Joel, and his effort to move on from his girlfriend, Beth, who had an untimely death. And while trying to do so, he starts seeing Beth's spectre. Or is it? It's quite ambiguous whether Beth truly reappeared in Joel's life as an apparition, or merely a figment of his imagination. And the most memorable part for me was when Joel broke down after showing Beth her watch that he had fixed after she crashed. He realized that all this time what he did was just trying to fix things instead of processing everything - a trait that has made him fail to properly grief and subsequently, move forward.
The flashbacks of their relationships were adorable and they sounded like they truly loved each other. So I was quite dumbfounded when the 'breakup scene' happened. But I guess that's what relationships are - one second everything's going well, and the next you find your ghost of a girlfriend tell you she'd dreaded the idea of spending their life with you. What's unfair is Beth's death, in a way, gave Joel a forever honeymoon phase with her. Begs you the question will he ever move on, no matter how much love he has for his current partner.
I enjoyed the pace in the early chapters, but found it faltering a bit towards the end. I do like the style of writing though, a story like this would definitely need to be imbued with some humor.
The story mostly followed Joel, and his effort to move on from his girlfriend, Beth, who had an untimely death. And while trying to do so, he starts seeing Beth's spectre. Or is it? It's quite ambiguous whether Beth truly reappeared in Joel's life as an apparition, or merely a figment of his imagination. And the most memorable part for me was when Joel broke down after showing Beth her watch that he had fixed after she crashed. He realized that all this time what he did was just trying to fix things instead of processing everything - a trait that has made him fail to properly grief and subsequently, move forward.
The flashbacks of their relationships were adorable and they sounded like they truly loved each other. So I was quite dumbfounded when the 'breakup scene' happened. But I guess that's what relationships are - one second everything's going well, and the next you find your ghost of a girlfriend tell you she'd dreaded the idea of spending their life with you. What's unfair is Beth's death, in a way, gave Joel a forever honeymoon phase with her. Begs you the question will he ever move on, no matter how much love he has for his current partner.
I enjoyed the pace in the early chapters, but found it faltering a bit towards the end. I do like the style of writing though, a story like this would definitely need to be imbued with some humor.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
July 23, 2025
Nearly Departed is a poignant love story that follows the path of Joel Foster, a man who lost his long-term girlfriend in a tragic accident. Even after three years he's struggling to overcome the grief he feels over her loss, but he's trying to move on by dipping his foot back into the dating pool. He had promised her that he would move on within three years, but he's finding dating again to be a juggle when the ghost of his girlfriend is around every corner (figuratively), and then quite literally as he starts getting haunted by Beth.
Love stories that feature ghosts have become a personal favourite, but despite me wanting to enjoy the story more it just didn't happen that way unfortunately. What I did enjoy about the book was the friendships Joel had in the book and that the complexities of grief were handled delicately. What I didn't enjoy was that Joel as a main character just came across as gloomy, even when he started to try move on with his life he didn't ever appreciate who and what he did have left in his life. I also thought the references to alcohol were overdone in an unnecessary way. There were times when the book made me laugh, but all in all it was a slow read that left me wanting more from the story.
Thanks to Bedford Square Publishers and NetGalley for the e-ARC.
Love stories that feature ghosts have become a personal favourite, but despite me wanting to enjoy the story more it just didn't happen that way unfortunately. What I did enjoy about the book was the friendships Joel had in the book and that the complexities of grief were handled delicately. What I didn't enjoy was that Joel as a main character just came across as gloomy, even when he started to try move on with his life he didn't ever appreciate who and what he did have left in his life. I also thought the references to alcohol were overdone in an unnecessary way. There were times when the book made me laugh, but all in all it was a slow read that left me wanting more from the story.
Thanks to Bedford Square Publishers and NetGalley for the e-ARC.
August 8, 2025
Joel and Beth were together for five years before she unexpectedly died in a tragic accident. It is nearly three years later and Joel has vowed to himself that he will fall in love again. However he is struggling to move on and this is when the ghost of Beth appears, inconveniently while he is on a date with Nina for the first time.
Beth tries to guide Joel into moving forward and offers him dating tips. I found this quite amusing. She also has a confession to make to Joel, which I think is meant to enable him to move forward. I found this tore at my heartstrings. It seemed rather cruel and painful, an unexpected twist to the story.
Nearly Departed depicts the rocky path of navigating grief while trying to move forward. It is sensitively drawn for the most part.
I found the pace of the book rather slow at times but, as others have written, the chapters with Beth really added another dimension to the story. She’s sparky and interesting, far more so than Joel‘s character. Joel is rather gloomy and dull, albeit realistic; after all there are plenty of people just plodding along in life, not doing anything particularly dynamic or exciting.
As a debut novel I think this shows promise.
Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for the opportunity to read an advanced copy.
7/8/25
Beth tries to guide Joel into moving forward and offers him dating tips. I found this quite amusing. She also has a confession to make to Joel, which I think is meant to enable him to move forward. I found this tore at my heartstrings. It seemed rather cruel and painful, an unexpected twist to the story.
Nearly Departed depicts the rocky path of navigating grief while trying to move forward. It is sensitively drawn for the most part.
I found the pace of the book rather slow at times but, as others have written, the chapters with Beth really added another dimension to the story. She’s sparky and interesting, far more so than Joel‘s character. Joel is rather gloomy and dull, albeit realistic; after all there are plenty of people just plodding along in life, not doing anything particularly dynamic or exciting.
As a debut novel I think this shows promise.
Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for the opportunity to read an advanced copy.
7/8/25
July 25, 2025
(Disclaimer: I was lucky enough to receive a proof copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.)
3.5 ⭐️ (But easily a 4⭐️ when formatting issues are resolved.)
Nearly Departed is the story of modern day dating with the added ingredients of grief, but most importantly, the ghost of your ex girlfriend in the mix.
A comical yet poignant voice, Oakley’s writing style is brilliant. He got me tearing up, he got me laughing out loud, he got me doing the cute little “aww” nose scrunchies. The rare breed of a male written and male lead rom-com, I adore this!
The characters here are so real and very well written. I could definitely believe these cast of characters are a part of my own friendship group. I also felt like the depiction of grief was very honest and raw where it needed to be. I appreciated that. I also loved the route the story took. (I didn’t see it coming!) I just wish the beginning wasn’t so drawn out. Honestly, if the pacing at the start had been a little quicker, this could have been a 5 star read for me.
The formatting of the copy I received was quite messy. The header and footer of “Nearly Departed” and “Lucas Oakley” appeared randomly and sporadically throughout the novel, which was very jarring. Especially when I was particularly engrossed in a plot point. Also parts of the book felt like they had been copied and pasted in the wrong place. For example, Joel starts mopping up a drink mid conversation at one point, which feels quite random, only to turn the page and then read about the spill happening as the conversation ends. Again jarring, but easily fixed.
Overall though, what a debut! The perfect spooky season read for us romance readers. I look forward to hearing of Oakely’s success and maybe see more rom-coms from him in the future?
3.5 ⭐️ (But easily a 4⭐️ when formatting issues are resolved.)
Nearly Departed is the story of modern day dating with the added ingredients of grief, but most importantly, the ghost of your ex girlfriend in the mix.
A comical yet poignant voice, Oakley’s writing style is brilliant. He got me tearing up, he got me laughing out loud, he got me doing the cute little “aww” nose scrunchies. The rare breed of a male written and male lead rom-com, I adore this!
The characters here are so real and very well written. I could definitely believe these cast of characters are a part of my own friendship group. I also felt like the depiction of grief was very honest and raw where it needed to be. I appreciated that. I also loved the route the story took. (I didn’t see it coming!) I just wish the beginning wasn’t so drawn out. Honestly, if the pacing at the start had been a little quicker, this could have been a 5 star read for me.
The formatting of the copy I received was quite messy. The header and footer of “Nearly Departed” and “Lucas Oakley” appeared randomly and sporadically throughout the novel, which was very jarring. Especially when I was particularly engrossed in a plot point. Also parts of the book felt like they had been copied and pasted in the wrong place. For example, Joel starts mopping up a drink mid conversation at one point, which feels quite random, only to turn the page and then read about the spill happening as the conversation ends. Again jarring, but easily fixed.
Overall though, what a debut! The perfect spooky season read for us romance readers. I look forward to hearing of Oakely’s success and maybe see more rom-coms from him in the future?
September 16, 2025
Entertaining but slightly incoherent
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If you’ve seen Ghost (and who hasn’t?) or Ghosts Of Girlfriends Past, or Just Like Heaven, or (even more pertinently) Over Her Dead Body, you know what you’re in for. Joel lost his lovely Beth to a cycle accident three years ago and he’s still trying to get over her. Just as he starts to feel something for first date Nina, he sees Beth again, but not in the flesh. She’s back in her ghostly form, although she doesn’t know why, but while she’s there, she’ll try to help Joel woo Nina. The clock, however, is ticking; Beth hasn’t got forever and Joel needs to move on. What is it that brought Beth back? And what will help her, and Joel, move on?
As entertaining as this was, the lack of coherence in the supernatural elements lost it half a star, and Joel’s general uselessness didn’t help. Why did Beth fall for him? And what keeps Nina coming back, despite his seeming penchant of fainting at the very worst of moments? The romance/s were fine, the writing good, and even the light comedy was good for the eyes (I didn’t laugh out loud, sorry) but not one for the ages. Feels ripe for a film adaptation, where we won’t need to be in Joel’s head for very long, if at all.
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If you’ve seen Ghost (and who hasn’t?) or Ghosts Of Girlfriends Past, or Just Like Heaven, or (even more pertinently) Over Her Dead Body, you know what you’re in for. Joel lost his lovely Beth to a cycle accident three years ago and he’s still trying to get over her. Just as he starts to feel something for first date Nina, he sees Beth again, but not in the flesh. She’s back in her ghostly form, although she doesn’t know why, but while she’s there, she’ll try to help Joel woo Nina. The clock, however, is ticking; Beth hasn’t got forever and Joel needs to move on. What is it that brought Beth back? And what will help her, and Joel, move on?
As entertaining as this was, the lack of coherence in the supernatural elements lost it half a star, and Joel’s general uselessness didn’t help. Why did Beth fall for him? And what keeps Nina coming back, despite his seeming penchant of fainting at the very worst of moments? The romance/s were fine, the writing good, and even the light comedy was good for the eyes (I didn’t laugh out loud, sorry) but not one for the ages. Feels ripe for a film adaptation, where we won’t need to be in Joel’s head for very long, if at all.
January 19, 2026
One morning Joel's long-term girlfriend Beth is hit by a cement truck and dies. Three years later Joel, now in his late 20s, is getting back into the dating scene. Things are starting to go well with Nina, until the ghost of Beth suddenly appears and only Joel can see her.
Nearly Department is a humorous, low-stakes rom-com, following Joel as he comes to terms with his grief of losing Beth, learns to move on, and navigates the awkward dating scene. Apart from Beth being the ultimate ghost wing-woman, the plot is very relatable.
The narrative can be a bit overly descriptive; it comes across as an endless stream of consciousness with not a lot of dialogue.
The chapters only take place in one area/activity at a time, so they come across as very, very short.
For example, one chapter takes place entirely during a dinner date, another during a few minutes at work while job hunting on a PC, and one during a run in the park. Additionally, aside from when it says "Number of days to fall in love = X", there's no clear passage of time.
[This review is based on NetGalley ARC provided in exchange for an honest, unbiased opinion]
Nearly Department is a humorous, low-stakes rom-com, following Joel as he comes to terms with his grief of losing Beth, learns to move on, and navigates the awkward dating scene. Apart from Beth being the ultimate ghost wing-woman, the plot is very relatable.
The narrative can be a bit overly descriptive; it comes across as an endless stream of consciousness with not a lot of dialogue.
The chapters only take place in one area/activity at a time, so they come across as very, very short.
For example, one chapter takes place entirely during a dinner date, another during a few minutes at work while job hunting on a PC, and one during a run in the park. Additionally, aside from when it says "Number of days to fall in love = X", there's no clear passage of time.
[This review is based on NetGalley ARC provided in exchange for an honest, unbiased opinion]
September 7, 2025
Set around east London, Nearly Departed is a love story about grief, dating, letting go, and being in the phase in life where all your friends are either getting married or breaking up. It also comes with a side of ghosts (fun!).
It has some really fun references to London Fields, Hackney Marshes and Shoreditch, and it gives a quick (but memorable) shout-out to the cycleway between Clapham and Hackney.
It follows Joel, a middle class twenty-something who aims to fall in love again before the 3 year anniversary of the death of his last girlfriend, Beth. What he doesn’t predict is that just as he begins to see a new future with someone else, Beth is about to come back and haunt him with some unfinished business.
This book has a great premise, and characters that feel authentic. However, I saw another review here that mentions that we spend a lot of time in Joel’s head, and I would say that’s pretty accurate. I wish there had been a bit more dialogue? I also wish Alice & Sam had been fleshed out a bit more as characters.
Regardless, a good read!
It has some really fun references to London Fields, Hackney Marshes and Shoreditch, and it gives a quick (but memorable) shout-out to the cycleway between Clapham and Hackney.
It follows Joel, a middle class twenty-something who aims to fall in love again before the 3 year anniversary of the death of his last girlfriend, Beth. What he doesn’t predict is that just as he begins to see a new future with someone else, Beth is about to come back and haunt him with some unfinished business.
This book has a great premise, and characters that feel authentic. However, I saw another review here that mentions that we spend a lot of time in Joel’s head, and I would say that’s pretty accurate. I wish there had been a bit more dialogue? I also wish Alice & Sam had been fleshed out a bit more as characters.
Regardless, a good read!
July 21, 2025
3.5⭐️ - Proof copy from NetGalley
I enjoyed Nearly Departed. The story follows Joel, whose girlfriend Beth tragically died nearly three years ago after being hit by a cement truck. Joel has a self-imposed deadline of three years to move on and find love. As that deadline approaches, he reluctantly signs up for dating apps to try and move forward. But just as he begins to dip his toe back into the dating world, he sees Beth and she starts haunting him.
What unfolds is a unique and surprisingly funny exploration of grief, guilt, and letting go. Oakley strikes a delicate balance between emotional depth and humour, and his writing brings the characters to life in a way that feels genuine and human. Joel’s voice is particularly strong - flawed, heartfelt, and easy to root for.
I did find myself hitting a bit of a slump in the middle, but I’m glad I stuck with it.
A heartfelt, quirky read about what it really means to move on.
I enjoyed Nearly Departed. The story follows Joel, whose girlfriend Beth tragically died nearly three years ago after being hit by a cement truck. Joel has a self-imposed deadline of three years to move on and find love. As that deadline approaches, he reluctantly signs up for dating apps to try and move forward. But just as he begins to dip his toe back into the dating world, he sees Beth and she starts haunting him.
What unfolds is a unique and surprisingly funny exploration of grief, guilt, and letting go. Oakley strikes a delicate balance between emotional depth and humour, and his writing brings the characters to life in a way that feels genuine and human. Joel’s voice is particularly strong - flawed, heartfelt, and easy to root for.
I did find myself hitting a bit of a slump in the middle, but I’m glad I stuck with it.
A heartfelt, quirky read about what it really means to move on.
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