Undoubtedly a good writer and communicator, Jen Hatmaker tells the story of her waking up to the reality that she is living a comfortable Christian life that serves comfortable Christians which is not the point of the gospel. I read this book hoping to get answers on how to address the deep needs of our world today. That was a tall order for anyone and I don't believe there is an easy answer. She gets around to the point which is that WE need to be the answer. Inconveniently, she and hubby decide to leave their cushy lives and move to the South side of town (which doesn't seem like a huge, dramatic change) in order to be with this other community, live with them, serve them with the ultimate goal of converting them to Christ and to their church.
I was with her one minute, and irritated with her the next. I certainly appreciated the message that we need to follow Christ and do his good works and in doing so, we fall more in love with who Jesus is, cultivate a deeper faith and live a more satisfying life. She says all this and writes a chapter on how living the life of Christ automatically creates followers. I'm with you there, Jen.
And then, the ultimate goal is to get them into her church. It's as though she is grappling with her own spirituality right before our eyes. She one minute argues that the point is not the church, and then ultimately, the point is to get them all to church. She argues that we become servants to them by living alongside them gaining their trust and confidence so that (drum roll please) they eventually come to the church.
I think it's enlightening to see a self processed wealthy, white American realize how her position in life has afforded her luxuries that others are not, ignorance being one of those luxuries, and then she peels away at the skin of it to see the juice beneath, the place where the real life of everything is harvested. She admits her faults and rallies against them so that others can too. And then she comes right back around to an entire chapter that basically boils down to a new form of marketing with a demographic pie chart leading the way to "the new way." Like all good Christian writers, she sites a passage from the Bible, "To the Jews I became like a Jew, to win the Jews." (1 Corinthians 9:20)
Ultimately, while I appreciate the story, her personal struggle, her families brave decision to step outside their comfort zone, I am put off by the final message of recruitment. I find it sort of horrifyingly typical of the Christian movement that we must see others profess to not just loving Jesus, but showing it by participating in the church (even though the church is not the answer). The final message, I hoped, would have a pie chart of how many people were fed, how many were sheltered, etc. That is, I believe, the point. Not how many people are recruited to what we know and define as christianity.