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Stripped Down: Unfiltered and Unapologetic
From the trailer parks of Vegas to the mansions of Nashville, Bunnie Xo has lived a lot of lives and seen the darkest sides of humanity. Her memoir, Stripped Unfiltered and Unapologetic, is cold, clear evidence that no one is irredeemable. With a heavy dose of humor and a refreshing sense of self-awareness, Bunnie pulls no punches as she shares her journey of redemption while offering some homespun wisdom to those who need a little saving themselves.
Alisa DeFord, known to her millions of fans as Bunnie Xo, started at the bottom and spent the first part of her life falling even deeper. Now, Bunnie Xo is one of today’s most successful podcasters and has paved her way through the entertainment industry as the owner of Dumb Blonde Productions, building an empire with heart and personality at the forefront.
Stripped Down is the story of how Bunnie Xo rose to the top, how she used her own wiles to reach her goals, how she knew redemption was up to her—and that no one could hand it to her—and a message to anyone who needs advice on breaking their own cycles.
Hilarious, earnest, thought-provoking, and occasionally downright shocking, Stripped Down is a modern-day rag-to-riches story and a message of hope to anyone struggling to redeem themselves.
Alisa DeFord, known to her millions of fans as Bunnie Xo, started at the bottom and spent the first part of her life falling even deeper. Now, Bunnie Xo is one of today’s most successful podcasters and has paved her way through the entertainment industry as the owner of Dumb Blonde Productions, building an empire with heart and personality at the forefront.
Stripped Down is the story of how Bunnie Xo rose to the top, how she used her own wiles to reach her goals, how she knew redemption was up to her—and that no one could hand it to her—and a message to anyone who needs advice on breaking their own cycles.
Hilarious, earnest, thought-provoking, and occasionally downright shocking, Stripped Down is a modern-day rag-to-riches story and a message of hope to anyone struggling to redeem themselves.
304 pages, Hardcover
Published February 17, 2026
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February 18, 2026
Stripped Down is a raw, unfiltered journey of self‑exploration, survival and transformation. I listened to the entire audiobook in one day because Bunnie’s voice and honesty pulled me in completely. She shares the trauma of her childhood — abandonment, SA, instability and being consistently overlooked — and the painful moments in her teens and adulthood that shaped her. She opens up about the struggles in her relationship with Jelly, the hard truths they faced, and how they rebuilt with honesty and commitment.
What moved me most was watching her grow into the woman she needed as a child: a steady mother figure for Bailee, a partner who shows up, and a woman who finally learns to show up for herself. Her story is heartbreaking, healing, and ultimately empowering. She doesn’t just survive — she rises.
What moved me most was watching her grow into the woman she needed as a child: a steady mother figure for Bailee, a partner who shows up, and a woman who finally learns to show up for herself. Her story is heartbreaking, healing, and ultimately empowering. She doesn’t just survive — she rises.
February 18, 2026
Excellent, Excellent, Excellent! I listed to the audio version, and so happy I did. Hearing Bunny’s voice as she read, you could feel her emotions. Listening to her choking up, and hear her sniffle had me in tears. Even listening to the acknowledgments had me in tears. She is an excellent writer, I hope she continues writing.
February 16, 2026
If you love Bunnie, you’ll love this truly Unapologetic and Unfiltered story. There were no bars held with this one. Bunnie had me laughing, crying, and wanting to stand next to her ready to defend her. Whatever you thought you knew about Bunnie, this sheds more light on how she became the truly amazing person she is today.
February 18, 2026
In how do you rate & review someone else's story? The guts it takes to be open and raw is already a 5⭐️ rating imo.
Being a Bunnie fan anyway, I felt like I heard about a lot of this from the podcast/ YouTube. But there was also a ton that I hadn't heard.
I think any of her fans know and expect the truth from Bunnie but hearing/ reading it in such a personal way hits differently.
I'm excited for her, J, the kids && their future
Being a Bunnie fan anyway, I felt like I heard about a lot of this from the podcast/ YouTube. But there was also a ton that I hadn't heard.
I think any of her fans know and expect the truth from Bunnie but hearing/ reading it in such a personal way hits differently.
I'm excited for her, J, the kids && their future
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February 17, 2026*audio version*
February 17, 2026
A work of art 😭👏🏼 forever a Bunnie XO fan and her story is a testimony of perseverance and overcoming the depths of hell.
February 19, 2026
This was sad but so incredibly inspiring 🥹
February 18, 2026
BUNNIE !!!!
Bunnie... I dont know if you'll ever see this- but I'm writing as if this review would land in your hands..
this booooook. I felt every emotion reading this .. girl, your writing !??? Stoooop. So beautifully written! And that's coming from someone who reads hundreds of book a year.
First.. the way I cackled out loud .. the church- Madonna song listing part had me DEAD 😂 also.. the stanky fluff had me rolling !
I feel so connected to your story for many different reasons , the mommy/daddy issues. The partying . I turned to men to feel loved too. Became pregnant at 14. Failed marriages etc.. not to mention my intuitive self, spiritual giftedness. Also, my husband grew up in a tin can trailer in.... yep Las Vegas. His childhood also mirrors yours. We found each other in 2016 and have the most beautiful blended family.
I cried for your successful bits, when you stood up for yourself, when you couldn't stand up for yourself.. all the things .. but what really made me have to pause and wipe my tears was when you kept wanting to save those through and from all their pain- while they simultaneously caused yours .. even some of whom who wronged you their entire lives..
It's a true testament to your character. I hope you and J enjoy every bit of success and happiness that comes your way. I want to see the babies crawling at your feet. I want to see you have the peace and healing that comes with having all that you dream of.
I'm crying again ..
Anyways- I loved this. What a beautiful story ❤️
Bunnie... I dont know if you'll ever see this- but I'm writing as if this review would land in your hands..
this booooook. I felt every emotion reading this .. girl, your writing !??? Stoooop. So beautifully written! And that's coming from someone who reads hundreds of book a year.
First.. the way I cackled out loud .. the church- Madonna song listing part had me DEAD 😂 also.. the stanky fluff had me rolling !
I feel so connected to your story for many different reasons , the mommy/daddy issues. The partying . I turned to men to feel loved too. Became pregnant at 14. Failed marriages etc.. not to mention my intuitive self, spiritual giftedness. Also, my husband grew up in a tin can trailer in.... yep Las Vegas. His childhood also mirrors yours. We found each other in 2016 and have the most beautiful blended family.
I cried for your successful bits, when you stood up for yourself, when you couldn't stand up for yourself.. all the things .. but what really made me have to pause and wipe my tears was when you kept wanting to save those through and from all their pain- while they simultaneously caused yours .. even some of whom who wronged you their entire lives..
It's a true testament to your character. I hope you and J enjoy every bit of success and happiness that comes your way. I want to see the babies crawling at your feet. I want to see you have the peace and healing that comes with having all that you dream of.
I'm crying again ..
Anyways- I loved this. What a beautiful story ❤️
February 18, 2026
I love when an author narrates their own memoir, and listening to Bunnie XO tell her own story made this experience even more powerful. There’s something special about hearing the emotion, the pauses, the laughter, and the heartbreak in her actual voice—it adds a whole other layer of authenticity. I absolutely devoured this in a single day.
I don’t usually rate biographies because, honestly, who am I to rate someone’s life? But this one? Without hesitation—five stars.
Watching Bunnie’s growth and development unfold throughout the book was incredible. She doesn’t shy away from the messy parts, the mistakes, or the hard lessons. Instead, she lays them out with honesty and self-awareness, allowing you to truly see how far she’s come. The transformation isn’t just inspiring—it feels earned.
What stood out to me most, though, was her heart. The grace and forgiveness she extends to people who, by most standards, absolutely do not deserve it speaks volumes. That level of maturity and kindness doesn’t happen by accident; it’s something forged through experience, reflection, and strength. Her compassion never feels performative—it feels real.
This memoir is raw yet polished, vulnerable yet empowering. Whether you’re already a fan or just stepping into her world for the first time, it’s a story that stays with you.
I don’t usually rate biographies because, honestly, who am I to rate someone’s life? But this one? Without hesitation—five stars.
Watching Bunnie’s growth and development unfold throughout the book was incredible. She doesn’t shy away from the messy parts, the mistakes, or the hard lessons. Instead, she lays them out with honesty and self-awareness, allowing you to truly see how far she’s come. The transformation isn’t just inspiring—it feels earned.
What stood out to me most, though, was her heart. The grace and forgiveness she extends to people who, by most standards, absolutely do not deserve it speaks volumes. That level of maturity and kindness doesn’t happen by accident; it’s something forged through experience, reflection, and strength. Her compassion never feels performative—it feels real.
This memoir is raw yet polished, vulnerable yet empowering. Whether you’re already a fan or just stepping into her world for the first time, it’s a story that stays with you.
February 19, 2026
I'm not sure there are words to describe how hauntingly beautiful this book was. Bunnie has a true gift for telling a story and really sucking you into her world. This book was impossible to put down (I did listen to the audio while I wait for my signed copy) and will live rent free in my head for days to come. I am floored by the connection I feel to her just from listening to her recount her life, and hearing how she rose from ash has given me hope for a better future. Not just for myself, but the possibility for a better future for anyone who dares to dream it for themselves. I can't say I've been a Bunnie "Stan" from the very beginning because I'm pretty far removed from the media and late to the party most of the time. What I can say is, ever since I've known of her existence, I have felt nothing but a glowing, beautifully positive aura radiating from her and now I see why. She has had a horrendously torturous life, and somehow in lieu of that, she has maintained love and light. I am truly in awe of her talent and her character and to know her on a personal level HAS to be a gift. Bravo. This just may be my read of the year. 1000/10
February 19, 2026
Stripped Down was an incredibly powerful read. I loved this book, even though parts of it were heartbreaking and devastating. Bunnie XO shares her story with honesty and courage, shedding light on the abuse she endured and the traumatic experiences she witnessed at the hands of both men and women in her life. No one deserves to be treated the way she was.
What stood out to me most was her strength. Despite everything stacked against her, she refused to give up. Her ambition, resilience, and determination to build a better life for herself and for the people she loved were truly inspiring. This book is painful at times, but it’s also empowering. It’s a testament to survival, growth, and choosing yourself, even when it feels impossible.
February 19, 2026
I didn’t expect to connect with this book as much as I did. It felt really honest. Bunny doesn’t try to act perfect or like she has all the answers — she talks about her own growth in a way that feels real and relatable.
Some parts made me uncomfortable (in a good way) because they forced me to look at myself and my patterns. I appreciated that she talked about accountability, not just blaming other people for everything that goes wrong. That stood out to me.
It’s not one of those fluffy “everything will be fine” books. It’s more about doing the work and being honest with yourself. If you’re into personal growth and relationships, I think it’s definitely worth reading.
Some parts made me uncomfortable (in a good way) because they forced me to look at myself and my patterns. I appreciated that she talked about accountability, not just blaming other people for everything that goes wrong. That stood out to me.
It’s not one of those fluffy “everything will be fine” books. It’s more about doing the work and being honest with yourself. If you’re into personal growth and relationships, I think it’s definitely worth reading.
February 18, 2026
WOW intense and a warrior
I hate reading but my god I had to read.this book, my heart broke so much for her , for all the abuse she has.gone.thru.and im only on chapter 7 its intense , emotional inspiring, shes a warrior , everyone read.this, if this dont save a.life, I dont know what will. I thank god ive never been thru what she has ever !!! , but she has come out on top and DESERVES IT ALL , 💔 😢 luv u bunny you are one amazing and strong women
I hate reading but my god I had to read.this book, my heart broke so much for her , for all the abuse she has.gone.thru.and im only on chapter 7 its intense , emotional inspiring, shes a warrior , everyone read.this, if this dont save a.life, I dont know what will. I thank god ive never been thru what she has ever !!! , but she has come out on top and DESERVES IT ALL , 💔 😢 luv u bunny you are one amazing and strong women
February 18, 2026
I will say this book has given me even more respect for Bunny than I already I had. She could have easily named names of clients, former abusers and others but she did not she kept their privacy. She wrote her story not to name names or make other look bad but to tell her story her way. She did not hold back and did not even pretend that she always in the right. The growth of Bunnie is amazing and inspiring. Thank you for this honesty.
February 19, 2026
It takes courage to put your entire life into a book, the good, the bad and the ugly. One thing about Bunnie, is she did the damn thing. There were points in the book I truly felt like I was on a FaceTime call with my best friend. She’s raw and real throughout the entire book. It’s not your typical autobiography, not because of her story, but the writing style she chose. Unfiltered is so fitting.
February 17, 2026
Amazing
Absolutely love her story and everything she has overcome. She is am amazing person I love her so much and I am so happy she shared her story with the world. Amazing read so many emotions happy sad mad she didn't hold back and let it all out. Thank you bunnie for sharing so many raw moments in your life im so proud of you
Absolutely love her story and everything she has overcome. She is am amazing person I love her so much and I am so happy she shared her story with the world. Amazing read so many emotions happy sad mad she didn't hold back and let it all out. Thank you bunnie for sharing so many raw moments in your life im so proud of you
February 19, 2026
"Remember, If you keep carrying old bricks, you'll keep building the same house. Drop that brick. Build something stunning."
Damn, what a statement. I've followed Bunnie for a few years and I've always been intrigued by her. her strength, her story and her passion. This book is not an easy read, but I finished it in one day. True to the title, it really is unfiltered and unapologetic.
Damn, what a statement. I've followed Bunnie for a few years and I've always been intrigued by her. her strength, her story and her passion. This book is not an easy read, but I finished it in one day. True to the title, it really is unfiltered and unapologetic.
February 18, 2026
ive followed Bunnie for years so when I heard she was writing a book I pre-ordered as soon as I could.....her story made me sob, laugh, and feel an incredible sense of joy knowing how far shes come. her and her family deserve the success and support. despite everything life did to her, she has been and become an amazing woman
February 18, 2026
Gut Punch
What a harrowing, gut-wrenching story. Biographies aren’t usually my go-to, but this one completely pulled me in. Engaging from the very first line to the last page. An incredible story, beautifully told, and much respect for the life you’ve built and shared. Truly a great read.
What a harrowing, gut-wrenching story. Biographies aren’t usually my go-to, but this one completely pulled me in. Engaging from the very first line to the last page. An incredible story, beautifully told, and much respect for the life you’ve built and shared. Truly a great read.
February 19, 2026
This book was AMAZING!! I was crying by chapter 3 or 4! I’ve heard of her struggles and the choices she has made so I thought I knew what to expect but man was I wrong. The pain she endured at such a young age, no child should have to go through that! Where she is today just shows her strength and resilience.
February 18, 2026
The book you never knew you needed
This was a very heartfelt book that I have read during a very difficult time in my life. Thank you Bunnie for giving me hope of better times to come.
This was a very heartfelt book that I have read during a very difficult time in my life. Thank you Bunnie for giving me hope of better times to come.
February 18, 2026
I can totally relate to her childhood and she has so much trauma scattered throughout her life that I could never judge her. I listened to it on audible. Came out today and I listened to it today. Loved it.
February 18, 2026
This spoke to my soul!!!
❤️ strongly recommend getting both the physical copy & Audio so you can truly feel like your reading it with Bunnie... while allowing those parts of yourself, you dont always show to others to be seen and heard❤️
❤️ strongly recommend getting both the physical copy & Audio so you can truly feel like your reading it with Bunnie... while allowing those parts of yourself, you dont always show to others to be seen and heard❤️
February 18, 2026
You'll enjoy getting Bunnies Background. Enjoy feels wrong like the wrong term because this book depicts much of the abuse the author experienced. The book is real and audiobook will test how much you can hold back tears and giggles!
February 18, 2026
awesome book
This book was amazing and had me into tears at times and then happy for all of you in the end. I wish you nothing but love and happiness ahead. We love your husband’s music as well but this book was awesome.
This book was amazing and had me into tears at times and then happy for all of you in the end. I wish you nothing but love and happiness ahead. We love your husband’s music as well but this book was awesome.
February 19, 2026
Fascinating
I literally couldn't put this book down! I love Bunnie Xo even more now. Her hard truth and undeniable strength amaze me! I laughed & cried and then it ALL made sense as to who she is today and why .. Undeniably a good human. ❤
I literally couldn't put this book down! I love Bunnie Xo even more now. Her hard truth and undeniable strength amaze me! I laughed & cried and then it ALL made sense as to who she is today and why .. Undeniably a good human. ❤
February 19, 2026
Loved this heartbreaking story of rising and overcoming. Devoured in one day, and already thinking about reading it again. This book will resonate with you. Thank you, Bunnie, for sharing your story. 🩷
February 19, 2026
If you listen to her podcast-you have already got this whole story. I did appreciate her reading it as it added emotion. And the message in the end was heartfelt. Just disappointed that there wasn’t anymore storyline that what the world has already heard if your an avid listener.
February 19, 2026
This is a difficult read at times. It is hard to read about so much trauma in people’s lives. It’s also amazing to see the resilience and determination that was made to make changes and grab ahold of the life and future that she wanted.
Review of advance copy
I was so sucked in that I finished it in a day!
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