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Kanojo ni Naritai Kimi to Boku #3
I Wanna Be Your Girl, Volume 3
Being in love with your best friend is hard enough but turns out, being a good friend can be even harder. Hime and Akira aren't speaking to each other after an argument. Both want to apologize, but they need to come to terms on what being a girl means for both of them. Can these childhood friends find a way to understand each other or will this be the end?
A boy's interest in Hime caused Akira to be upset and jealous, and the two best friends haven't spoken in weeks. Although they both want to make up, they know this problem is deeper than a crush paying attention to someone else.
It has to do with him seeing Hime as a girl, and not Akira. Akira is jealous that no one thinks twice about Hime being an girl, while Hime herself is grossed out that a boy might see her as nothing but a girl. The two are left to question their relationships with their gender, and their relationship with each other. Can they find a way to accept each other and make up?
A boy's interest in Hime caused Akira to be upset and jealous, and the two best friends haven't spoken in weeks. Although they both want to make up, they know this problem is deeper than a crush paying attention to someone else.
It has to do with him seeing Hime as a girl, and not Akira. Akira is jealous that no one thinks twice about Hime being an girl, while Hime herself is grossed out that a boy might see her as nothing but a girl. The two are left to question their relationships with their gender, and their relationship with each other. Can they find a way to accept each other and make up?
224 pages, Paperback
Published February 3, 2026
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March 12, 2026
...I am really not a fan of how Hamuro and others keep trying to talk Hime out of wanting to be seen as a boy. Hamuro even says “You can’t just wish you weren’t a girl! It’s a part of who you are!” Why does no one (including the author) want to consider that maybe Hime is transgender too? It’s really starving to give “transmascs transition just to escape misogyny” which is ughhhhhh. being female/a girl can suck physically and socially but “I want to not be a girl” is different from “I want being a girl not to suck” and totally exclusively cisgender people normally just stick with the latter because they’ve got nothing else going on to push them to the former!
Ugh now that I think about it, since Akira says she "never once thought of myself as a boy" it really seems like that idea (idk if it has a name) that you can only trans if you've known from birth... would explain why Hime figuring out she's trans doesn't seem to even be considered as a possibility. 👎
Also the contrast between aro teacher reminding Akira being a girl is not the same thing as being someone’s girlfriend vs Hamuro asking Hime to be his girlfriend so she can “try it out until you know how you want to be a girl." sooooo which one is it? I don't think we're meant to take Hamuro as being manipulative... was it just necessary to put in fake dating trope at any cost?
Anyways I did think it was cool we have an aroace character who called himself just “aromantic” (I've heard through the grape vine he is canonically aroace?), nice balance to other aroace manga characters who just call themselves “asexual”. Tbh it would probably be 2 stars for the iffy stuff above if we didn't have Sasaki.
Oh also the split between volumes is kind of whack -- this one opened still in the last scene of volume 2.
Ugh now that I think about it, since Akira says she "never once thought of myself as a boy" it really seems like that idea (idk if it has a name) that you can only trans if you've known from birth... would explain why Hime figuring out she's trans doesn't seem to even be considered as a possibility. 👎
Also the contrast between aro teacher reminding Akira being a girl is not the same thing as being someone’s girlfriend vs Hamuro asking Hime to be his girlfriend so she can “try it out until you know how you want to be a girl." sooooo which one is it? I don't think we're meant to take Hamuro as being manipulative... was it just necessary to put in fake dating trope at any cost?
Anyways I did think it was cool we have an aroace character who called himself just “aromantic” (I've heard through the grape vine he is canonically aroace?), nice balance to other aroace manga characters who just call themselves “asexual”. Tbh it would probably be 2 stars for the iffy stuff above if we didn't have Sasaki.
Oh also the split between volumes is kind of whack -- this one opened still in the last scene of volume 2.
February 17, 2026
There's eo many loveable characters in this series!!! Even Hasegawa is becoming likeable, I'm still not much of a fan of him, but he's getting better! Sasaki Sensei is an icon, I love a aromantic king and genuinely I feel like everything with him was so incredibly done! It took me a second to get used to Hime's new look, but I love it, she looks so much happier! I just want Hime and Akira to make up already 😭💔 these girls are breaking my heart! There's so much more I could say about this volume, I loved it so much!!
March 28, 2026
After finishing this series I can say that the exploration of different gender identities and sexualities is great for a manga since that kind of representation is limited. It was definitely a fun read but my biggest complaint was gender identity based on feelings towards others.
Hime, her entire gender experimentations were just because of Akira. We never got to really understand how she felt about her own presentation of her gender other than when she cut her hair.
Hamuro, love the idea of him being some kind of drag queen but again it was just for his sister and not his own desire to express a side of himself.
Sexuality in this was also quite shallow and over complicated at the same time. There were some good representations such as Ishimiya or The teacher but other than that it was either not explored enough or overly complex in Hime which had a stereotypical ending.
She ended up presenting as a woman and ending up being with a man, it felt like all of her character development didn’t matter. She could’ve had more to her but I feel like that ending washed away the complexity the author attempted to give her.
Once again, it was a fun read but very inconsistent, either too simplified or complex with the representations.
Hime, her entire gender experimentations were just because of Akira. We never got to really understand how she felt about her own presentation of her gender other than when she cut her hair.
Hamuro, love the idea of him being some kind of drag queen but again it was just for his sister and not his own desire to express a side of himself.
Sexuality in this was also quite shallow and over complicated at the same time. There were some good representations such as Ishimiya or The teacher but other than that it was either not explored enough or overly complex in Hime which had a stereotypical ending.
She ended up presenting as a woman and ending up being with a man, it felt like all of her character development didn’t matter. She could’ve had more to her but I feel like that ending washed away the complexity the author attempted to give her.
Once again, it was a fun read but very inconsistent, either too simplified or complex with the representations.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
March 4, 2026
There's still a fracture between Hime and Akira as this third book in the series continues their story, which in essence is one of identity. The idea of what it means to be a girl or be seen as more than a girl or as a person as well as concepts of femineity permeate the plot. It will be interesting to see how the author wraps all this up. As a sidenote, like other reviewers, I was pleased to see the inclusion and development of Sasaki-sensei, someone who is aromatic and perfectly comfortable as he is, caring for and loving his students. Perhaps he will have his own series at some point.
June 3, 2022
Amo al maestro, es bien bello ver figuras adultas así en este tipo de historias. Y me fascina el crecimiento de las protagonistas.
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