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Definitely Thriving: A Novel
The heartening and hilarious story of a woman who doesn’t have it all figured out just yet.
After accidentally-on-purpose exploding her listless marriage by being discovered in bed with the next-door neighbours, Clemence Lathbury returns to her hometown resolved to build a life for herself that is good and substantial, to become the kind of sensible woman who won’t be distracted by frippery and romance. It’s supposed to be Eat, Pray, Love, without the love part. But no woman is an island, and soon Clemence finds herself embroiled in neighbourhood drama; beginning a crusade at the local bookshop; becoming adopted by a well-groomed, one-eyed cat; and being forced to admit her attraction to two very different men—each a romantic lead in his own right. But how to choose? And never mind the complications of her quirky family …
A novel about friendship, community, and church jumble sales, Definitely Thriving is a celebration of people who are perfectly imperfect, and all the love and support that’s required for one woman to make it on her own.
After accidentally-on-purpose exploding her listless marriage by being discovered in bed with the next-door neighbours, Clemence Lathbury returns to her hometown resolved to build a life for herself that is good and substantial, to become the kind of sensible woman who won’t be distracted by frippery and romance. It’s supposed to be Eat, Pray, Love, without the love part. But no woman is an island, and soon Clemence finds herself embroiled in neighbourhood drama; beginning a crusade at the local bookshop; becoming adopted by a well-groomed, one-eyed cat; and being forced to admit her attraction to two very different men—each a romantic lead in his own right. But how to choose? And never mind the complications of her quirky family …
A novel about friendship, community, and church jumble sales, Definitely Thriving is a celebration of people who are perfectly imperfect, and all the love and support that’s required for one woman to make it on her own.
312 pages, Paperback
Published March 17, 2026
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Kerry Clare
6 books155 followers KERRY CLARE is the author of novels Asking for a Friend, Waiting for a Star to Fall and Mitzi Bytes, and editor of The M Word: Conversations About Motherhood. A National Magazine Award-nominated essayist, and editor of Canadian books website 49thShelf.com, she writes about books and reading at her longtime blog, Pickle Me This. She lives in Toronto with her family.
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March 20, 2026
Many, many years ago, much like Clemence, I blew up my life. I would like to think I communicated better but I'm sure I probably didn't. I found myself relating to much of this story and quite enjoyed the fact her life was messy! Life IS messy!! She rolled with it and created something for herself and I thought that was pretty awesome.
This book had me laughing out loud so many times! I mean, let's start off with the fact her husband goes by the name Toad. Too funny! Every time I read his name I snickered. The other characters were quirky and highly amusing. It's such fun cast. I really enjoyed this book!
My thanks to Anansi Press for my gifted copy.
This book had me laughing out loud so many times! I mean, let's start off with the fact her husband goes by the name Toad. Too funny! Every time I read his name I snickered. The other characters were quirky and highly amusing. It's such fun cast. I really enjoyed this book!
My thanks to Anansi Press for my gifted copy.
September 25, 2025
4.5 rounded up
I just finished Definitely Thriving while visiting Montreal and was delighted to discover the author is Canadian—what a lovely surprise! I couldn’t stop laughing at the dark humor, dry wit, and self-deprecating writing style, which had me hooked from page one. The self-sabotaging plan to escape a marriage is unforgettable, and the so-called “eat, pray, love” attempt to figure out the next phase of life felt surprisingly relatable. I adored the strong female friendships, the unapologetically intrusive Korean landlord, the parental worries, and the awkward coworker dynamic. While I secretly wished for a different love interest, I still found myself rooting for the actual MMC by the end. What really stayed with me was how the story showed that thriving doesn’t always mean having it all figured out—sometimes it’s about stumbling forward, being misunderstood, and still finding a path that feels true. The unhinged yet comical setting played out like a K-drama starring a western FMC, and the brilliant writing style kept me turning pages, even waking up at 2 a.m. to read more. I’m still not sure how I feel about the ending, but maybe that’s the point—life is unresolved too. Highly recommend.
Thank you NetGalley and House of Anansi Press for the ARC!
I just finished Definitely Thriving while visiting Montreal and was delighted to discover the author is Canadian—what a lovely surprise! I couldn’t stop laughing at the dark humor, dry wit, and self-deprecating writing style, which had me hooked from page one. The self-sabotaging plan to escape a marriage is unforgettable, and the so-called “eat, pray, love” attempt to figure out the next phase of life felt surprisingly relatable. I adored the strong female friendships, the unapologetically intrusive Korean landlord, the parental worries, and the awkward coworker dynamic. While I secretly wished for a different love interest, I still found myself rooting for the actual MMC by the end. What really stayed with me was how the story showed that thriving doesn’t always mean having it all figured out—sometimes it’s about stumbling forward, being misunderstood, and still finding a path that feels true. The unhinged yet comical setting played out like a K-drama starring a western FMC, and the brilliant writing style kept me turning pages, even waking up at 2 a.m. to read more. I’m still not sure how I feel about the ending, but maybe that’s the point—life is unresolved too. Highly recommend.
Thank you NetGalley and House of Anansi Press for the ARC!
March 18, 2026
Definitely Thriving follows the life of Clemence, a woman whose life is a bit of a mess after she sabotages her own marriage. She returns home to the Roncesvalles neighbourhood in Toronto with plans to find a new life with more substance and without interruptions from romance and other such nonsense.
With a quirky array of well-drawn secondary characters, a wonderfully flawed main female character in Clemence and an unexpected love interest, readers will enjoy following Clemence’s as she figures out who she is without society (or her family) telling her who she SHOULD be. I’ll admit that I had hoped for a different couple, but the pair who made it in the end was a wonderful surprise.
Peppered with humour and well-turned phrases that made me smile, this is a an Eat Pray Love kind of story … well, except for the love part (and add in a grumpy landlady). What it does have is charm and a relatable character who finds joy in the imperfect and allows herself time to pause, to stumble and make mistakes yet finds herself thriving despite not having it all figured out yet.
Final Thoughts: quirky, delightfully awkward and endearing
Disclaimer: My sincere thanks to the publisher for the paperback copy of this book which was given in exchange for my honest review.
With a quirky array of well-drawn secondary characters, a wonderfully flawed main female character in Clemence and an unexpected love interest, readers will enjoy following Clemence’s as she figures out who she is without society (or her family) telling her who she SHOULD be. I’ll admit that I had hoped for a different couple, but the pair who made it in the end was a wonderful surprise.
Peppered with humour and well-turned phrases that made me smile, this is a an Eat Pray Love kind of story … well, except for the love part (and add in a grumpy landlady). What it does have is charm and a relatable character who finds joy in the imperfect and allows herself time to pause, to stumble and make mistakes yet finds herself thriving despite not having it all figured out yet.
Final Thoughts: quirky, delightfully awkward and endearing
Disclaimer: My sincere thanks to the publisher for the paperback copy of this book which was given in exchange for my honest review.
October 6, 2025
Thank you House of Anansi Press Inc. for the advanced reader copy in exchange for an honest review. That being said, this book was not for me. It was really hard to root for such an awful main character.
Clemence Lathbury has purposely and selfishly destroyed her marriage to “start over” her life in her hometown surrounded by her friends and family. As I began reading this story, I thought,”Oh good, a redemption story”. Nope! Not at all. Clemence is supposed to be finding herself and learning to be happier without a man. She is not in her new place five minutes before she inquires about the hot married lawn man. Then she walks to a bookstore and immediately strikes up an affair with a super weird guy. What happened to her finding happiness in other aspects of life?
There may be other people who will love this book, but it was definitely not for me.
Clemence Lathbury has purposely and selfishly destroyed her marriage to “start over” her life in her hometown surrounded by her friends and family. As I began reading this story, I thought,”Oh good, a redemption story”. Nope! Not at all. Clemence is supposed to be finding herself and learning to be happier without a man. She is not in her new place five minutes before she inquires about the hot married lawn man. Then she walks to a bookstore and immediately strikes up an affair with a super weird guy. What happened to her finding happiness in other aspects of life?
There may be other people who will love this book, but it was definitely not for me.
March 17, 2026
✦ Rating: 3.75 ★
☾ Yes/No/Maybe? Yes- if you enjoy character driven stories about starting over and finding yourself again.
☾ For readers who love: character growth, messy life resets, quirky housemates, quiet romance, and stories about rebuilding your life after heartbreak.
✧✧✧✧✧
✦ Mood: introspective | hopeful | slightly chaotic life-reset energy
✦ Setting: Toronto, Canada…shared house living with a cozy neighborhood
Thank you House of Anansi for the gifted arc !
I really enjoyed following Clemence’s journey after her marriage falls apart. She’s basically starting over and trying to build a new life for herself, with a completely different lifestyle where she can finally live more freely. She moves into a house with a bunch of interesting characters and we get a lot of insight into her thoughts as she slowly settles into this new chapter of her life.
If you like books that focus more on character development, with a bit of romance and some quirky moments, this would definitely be for you. I liked the different characters we meet along the way and how they slowly become part of Clémence’s new life. Even though her past is still there, you can see her building new relationships and figuring herself out more, instead of taking things for granted like she did before.
Now… Charles and Toby!! 💛
At first I really wasn’t sure what to think about Toby. I couldn’t help but picture him as this delicate older man who could break at any moment. I felt like he was giving a few red flags at the beginning, but the more we got to understand his personality and why he acts the way he does, the more I warmed up to him.
Charles though… I wish we got more of him!! I really liked the connection that seemed to be building there and wanted to see more convos building the connection.
Overall this was a really enjoyable read. I really liked the sense of community in this story with characters like the landlady, the bookstore owner, and the handyman. They all added something nice to the story. I do wish we got to know a bit more about the other people living in the house and what they were up to. I feel like that could’ve added even more funny moments to the story as I kept wondering what they were upto and what the smells on the staircase were!
I also loved the BlogTO mention… that actually surprised me!
Toad at the end - RUDE !!! 😡
☾ Yes/No/Maybe? Yes- if you enjoy character driven stories about starting over and finding yourself again.
☾ For readers who love: character growth, messy life resets, quirky housemates, quiet romance, and stories about rebuilding your life after heartbreak.
✧✧✧✧✧
✦ Mood: introspective | hopeful | slightly chaotic life-reset energy
✦ Setting: Toronto, Canada…shared house living with a cozy neighborhood
Thank you House of Anansi for the gifted arc !
I really enjoyed following Clemence’s journey after her marriage falls apart. She’s basically starting over and trying to build a new life for herself, with a completely different lifestyle where she can finally live more freely. She moves into a house with a bunch of interesting characters and we get a lot of insight into her thoughts as she slowly settles into this new chapter of her life.
If you like books that focus more on character development, with a bit of romance and some quirky moments, this would definitely be for you. I liked the different characters we meet along the way and how they slowly become part of Clémence’s new life. Even though her past is still there, you can see her building new relationships and figuring herself out more, instead of taking things for granted like she did before.
Now… Charles and Toby!! 💛
At first I really wasn’t sure what to think about Toby. I couldn’t help but picture him as this delicate older man who could break at any moment. I felt like he was giving a few red flags at the beginning, but the more we got to understand his personality and why he acts the way he does, the more I warmed up to him.
Charles though… I wish we got more of him!! I really liked the connection that seemed to be building there and wanted to see more convos building the connection.
Overall this was a really enjoyable read. I really liked the sense of community in this story with characters like the landlady, the bookstore owner, and the handyman. They all added something nice to the story. I do wish we got to know a bit more about the other people living in the house and what they were up to. I feel like that could’ve added even more funny moments to the story as I kept wondering what they were upto and what the smells on the staircase were!
I also loved the BlogTO mention… that actually surprised me!
Toad at the end - RUDE !!! 😡
February 24, 2026
Do you ever put off reading a book because you genuinely don’t want it to end? That was how I felt reading this book.
In Definitely Thriving, Kerry Clare tells the heartening and hilarious story of Clemence, a woman who definitely does not have it all figured out. After accidentally-on-purpose blowing up her marriage by being discovered in bed with her next-door neighbour, Clemence returns to her hometown determined to build a life that feels good and substantial. She wants to become sensible. Grounded. Undistracted by romance. Think Eat, Pray, Love, without the love part.
I loved how it portrayed messy and real relationships. The messiness was not dramatized. It was not exaggerated for effect. It simply felt honest. The misunderstandings felt human. The tension felt real. The quiet disappointments felt lived in rather than manufactured.
Our main character felt deeply real. I’m sure there are some people out there who will say that she’s unlikable because of some of the choices she made. That’s life! Humans are not meant to be perfect. We are meant to have real feelings and real emotions. With that we sometimes hurt people. I appreciated that the novel allowed her to be flawed without punishing her. I felt like I could relate to this character while also feeling like I was talking to a friend. The voice felt sharp and intimate. I was actually laughing out loud while reading this. The humour felt natural and effortless.
I also loved the strong female friendships that were shown as well as the strong family relationships. The friendships felt layered and supportive without being overly sweet. The family dynamics added warmth and chaos. It was special to see community play such an important role.
This book feels like a celebration of people who are perfectly imperfect. Thank you houseofanansi for sending me this absolutely charming book!
In Definitely Thriving, Kerry Clare tells the heartening and hilarious story of Clemence, a woman who definitely does not have it all figured out. After accidentally-on-purpose blowing up her marriage by being discovered in bed with her next-door neighbour, Clemence returns to her hometown determined to build a life that feels good and substantial. She wants to become sensible. Grounded. Undistracted by romance. Think Eat, Pray, Love, without the love part.
I loved how it portrayed messy and real relationships. The messiness was not dramatized. It was not exaggerated for effect. It simply felt honest. The misunderstandings felt human. The tension felt real. The quiet disappointments felt lived in rather than manufactured.
Our main character felt deeply real. I’m sure there are some people out there who will say that she’s unlikable because of some of the choices she made. That’s life! Humans are not meant to be perfect. We are meant to have real feelings and real emotions. With that we sometimes hurt people. I appreciated that the novel allowed her to be flawed without punishing her. I felt like I could relate to this character while also feeling like I was talking to a friend. The voice felt sharp and intimate. I was actually laughing out loud while reading this. The humour felt natural and effortless.
I also loved the strong female friendships that were shown as well as the strong family relationships. The friendships felt layered and supportive without being overly sweet. The family dynamics added warmth and chaos. It was special to see community play such an important role.
This book feels like a celebration of people who are perfectly imperfect. Thank you houseofanansi for sending me this absolutely charming book!
Review of advance copy received from Éditeur
Thank you so much House Of Anansi for the gifted PR box for an honest review.
I absolutely loved that book. This story is all about living in the present while forgiving yourself and the power of community. It's about women wanting different things. And that's perfectly fine.
I felt so much hope and joy while reading it. The main character, Clemence, was perfectly imperfect. I loved reading about her journey. Finding her spot into her new life, taking her time and just going through things one step at a time. It was inspiring.
And the way, Clemence and Toby love books just like us. 👌👌👌. You don't stop reading for anyone. You stop for the right one. ❤️.
It's been a while since I loved reading a book written in third person, but I wouldn't have loved that book so much if it was written in another way.
It was just perfect and I know I'll be rereading this, when I just need to breathe, stop and reset.
Read this if you love :
✨ Community, friendships ;
✨ A Story about a Woman finding herself back ;
✨ Characters who love books as much as us ;
✨ Romance ;
✨ Unique story.
I absolutely loved that book. This story is all about living in the present while forgiving yourself and the power of community. It's about women wanting different things. And that's perfectly fine.
I felt so much hope and joy while reading it. The main character, Clemence, was perfectly imperfect. I loved reading about her journey. Finding her spot into her new life, taking her time and just going through things one step at a time. It was inspiring.
And the way, Clemence and Toby love books just like us. 👌👌👌. You don't stop reading for anyone. You stop for the right one. ❤️.
It's been a while since I loved reading a book written in third person, but I wouldn't have loved that book so much if it was written in another way.
It was just perfect and I know I'll be rereading this, when I just need to breathe, stop and reset.
Read this if you love :
✨ Community, friendships ;
✨ A Story about a Woman finding herself back ;
✨ Characters who love books as much as us ;
✨ Romance ;
✨ Unique story.
February 16, 2026
A woman decides to blow up her life and start over. A fun book- perfect for reading in the bath or summer readin.
March 18, 2026
This book is a bit of a quandary to review. I liked the first half a lot. After her marriage ends, Clemence has returned to Toronto, where she grew up, determined to begin her life anew. She’s focusing on her own independence and finding opportunities within her community to discover what may be the next right step for her. This includes tackling feminism and equality at a quirky used bookstore, befriending a one-eyed cat, as well as getting tangled up in a church fundraiser.
I loved the Bridget Jones’s Diary vibes, and my mind basically heard Renée Zellweger narrating the first 100 pages. I enjoyed Kerry Clare’s clever and witty writing style throughout the entire novel.
However, Definitely Thriving lost me with the Toby storyline in the second half.
I actually think this would be an interesting book to buddy read, or read for a book club, because I suspect there will be varying opinions on the ending.
I loved the Bridget Jones’s Diary vibes, and my mind basically heard Renée Zellweger narrating the first 100 pages. I enjoyed Kerry Clare’s clever and witty writing style throughout the entire novel.
However, Definitely Thriving lost me with the Toby storyline in the second half.
I actually think this would be an interesting book to buddy read, or read for a book club, because I suspect there will be varying opinions on the ending.
March 11, 2026
"Funny, surprising, real and impossible to put down!" I’m quoting myself here — from the jacket copy of Kerry Clare’s latest novel, Definitely Thriving.
Full disclosure: Kerry is my friend. But the reason we’re friends is actually because of her writing. Years ago, I heard her speak at the Toronto Reference Library when she was launching her debut novel, Mitzi Bytes, and I remember thinking: this woman is so funny and her writing is so good that I want to be her friend, simply so I can have more of that wit in my life.
Luckily for readers, Kerry is also an incredibly sharp observer of people. Definitely Thriving feels so real that the characters come across like neighbours you might run into on the street. The Toronto setting adds an extra layer of charm, and reading it felt a bit like sitting across from Kerry while she tells you the story over tea.
A little bit Bridget Jones, a little bit Kim’s Convenience, but mostly completely its own thing, which is to say it's warm, insightful, honest, messy, and just so well done. Highly recommend!!
Full disclosure: Kerry is my friend. But the reason we’re friends is actually because of her writing. Years ago, I heard her speak at the Toronto Reference Library when she was launching her debut novel, Mitzi Bytes, and I remember thinking: this woman is so funny and her writing is so good that I want to be her friend, simply so I can have more of that wit in my life.
Luckily for readers, Kerry is also an incredibly sharp observer of people. Definitely Thriving feels so real that the characters come across like neighbours you might run into on the street. The Toronto setting adds an extra layer of charm, and reading it felt a bit like sitting across from Kerry while she tells you the story over tea.
A little bit Bridget Jones, a little bit Kim’s Convenience, but mostly completely its own thing, which is to say it's warm, insightful, honest, messy, and just so well done. Highly recommend!!
March 17, 2026
Hear me out…
This is foremost a story about community and evolving as a person.
YES, the story starts off with her cheating on her husband. But if you don’t let that hold you back it’s a wild and wonderful book. It really challenges your thinking and encourages you to reflect on community. At first I was conflicted.. I felt the FMC was becoming modest and minimalistic or denying her privilege and romanticizing a less than stellar life. But a good book imo can encourage the reader to challenge their perceptions, and mine definitely changed. Instead I found myself marvelling at the FMC and her choices, as she built community around herself, evolved as a person, and chose the life SHE wanted to live.
The book doesn’t go the way you think it will and I loved that aspect! Theres, comedy, character development, heartwarming moments, and romance all packed into one. Anansi never disappoints with insightful and sometimes quirky books by Canadian authors.
My fav parts
- The FMC is 33 and chooses to restart her life
- So many literary references throughout
- Quirky side characters
- The bookstore!!
Thank you to Anansi for the ARC in exchange for an honest review!
This is foremost a story about community and evolving as a person.
YES, the story starts off with her cheating on her husband. But if you don’t let that hold you back it’s a wild and wonderful book. It really challenges your thinking and encourages you to reflect on community. At first I was conflicted.. I felt the FMC was becoming modest and minimalistic or denying her privilege and romanticizing a less than stellar life. But a good book imo can encourage the reader to challenge their perceptions, and mine definitely changed. Instead I found myself marvelling at the FMC and her choices, as she built community around herself, evolved as a person, and chose the life SHE wanted to live.
The book doesn’t go the way you think it will and I loved that aspect! Theres, comedy, character development, heartwarming moments, and romance all packed into one. Anansi never disappoints with insightful and sometimes quirky books by Canadian authors.
My fav parts
- The FMC is 33 and chooses to restart her life
- So many literary references throughout
- Quirky side characters
- The bookstore!!
Thank you to Anansi for the ARC in exchange for an honest review!
March 27, 2026
Definitely Thriving is such a fun, lighthearted read about self-discovery and starting over. It’s one of those books that feels easy to settle into, especially when you’re in the mood for something simple, warm, and quietly reflective.
After her life takes an unexpected turn, Clemence returns to her hometown to rebuild from the ground up. As she navigates relationships, work, and her own sense of identity, she slowly begins to carve out a life that feels truly her own.
What I loved most was the quiet life Clemence is trying to create for herself. There’s something so comforting about the slower pace she leans into, and honestly, it’s the kind of life I find myself craving. Watching her figure things out, even imperfectly, made the story feel relatable and grounded.
There was also a surprising turn in the central relationship that I didn’t see coming, and I really appreciated that it didn’t follow the more obvious path. It added a bit of freshness to what could have been a very familiar story.
Sometimes I just need a simple story that lets me breathe a little, and this book delivered exactly that. Add in a bookstore setting, a cast of quirky characters, and a one-eyed cat, and it becomes such a charming and cozy read.
Overall, Definitely Thriving is a gentle, comforting read about rebuilding, finding your rhythm, and creating a life that feels right for you.
After her life takes an unexpected turn, Clemence returns to her hometown to rebuild from the ground up. As she navigates relationships, work, and her own sense of identity, she slowly begins to carve out a life that feels truly her own.
What I loved most was the quiet life Clemence is trying to create for herself. There’s something so comforting about the slower pace she leans into, and honestly, it’s the kind of life I find myself craving. Watching her figure things out, even imperfectly, made the story feel relatable and grounded.
There was also a surprising turn in the central relationship that I didn’t see coming, and I really appreciated that it didn’t follow the more obvious path. It added a bit of freshness to what could have been a very familiar story.
Sometimes I just need a simple story that lets me breathe a little, and this book delivered exactly that. Add in a bookstore setting, a cast of quirky characters, and a one-eyed cat, and it becomes such a charming and cozy read.
Overall, Definitely Thriving is a gentle, comforting read about rebuilding, finding your rhythm, and creating a life that feels right for you.
March 19, 2026
This book was such a delight!
I didn’t really know what to expect going in to it, but what I got was an almost cozy, slice of life story about a woman who’s thrown her whole life away to start over & live an unapologetic life on her own terms. And it’s just so charming!!
I really liked the dichotomy of ‘having it all’ and still being miserable vs living a life outside of what society tells you to want and flourishing in the joy of your own choices.
Thank you so much to Anansi for the free book!! 💛💛
I didn’t really know what to expect going in to it, but what I got was an almost cozy, slice of life story about a woman who’s thrown her whole life away to start over & live an unapologetic life on her own terms. And it’s just so charming!!
I really liked the dichotomy of ‘having it all’ and still being miserable vs living a life outside of what society tells you to want and flourishing in the joy of your own choices.
Thank you so much to Anansi for the free book!! 💛💛
March 24, 2026
I kept thinking how nice it was to read about women my age. We are amazing... and complicated ... I love us. Also, today I want to run away from my life and live in an old lady's attic working one day a week at a dilapidated used bookstore, eating canned fish, drinking tea and reading books.
March 22, 2026
this was so charming and funny!
Review of advance copy received from Netgalley
Definitely Thriving by Kerry Clare is a novel about self-rediscovery. After a dramatic life swerve, Clemence Lathbury decides the only way to rid herself of her husband of seven years—whom she suspects she may never have truly loved—is to have him catch her cheating with the quirky swingers who live next door. What follows is a comical character study of a woman who deliberately detonates her life in exchange for a reset: a chance to rebuild, learn to trust her instincts, and perhaps finally make decisions worthy of that trust.
Clemence returns to her hometown of Toronto, trading Seattle for a fresh start in a dingy attic studio apartment blessed with exceptional light. Adding to her upheaval, she has also been furloughed from her web magazine job after the publication abruptly folds, leaving her to begin again from scratch.
Kerry Clare populates the novel with a charming—if delightfully motley—cast of characters. There’s Jillian, Clemence’s seemingly perfect best friend, who is quietly having an affair with the therapist she enlisted to save her marriage. Mrs. Yeung, Clemence’s rigid landlady, only rented her the attic apartment because she assumed the name Clemence belonged to a man. Mrs. Yeung’s son Charles, easily the most attractive distraction Clemence encounters, works as the boarding house handyman during his summer break from teaching. And then there’s Toby—pale, allergy-ridden, and vaguely corpse-like—whom Clemence finds perplexing when she isn’t sneaking off to snog him in closets.
On the page, Clare’s prose moves with ease. She flexes her linguistic muscles through an ironic narrative style that gently satirizes both Clemence and her colorful orbit. The humor lands well, and the novel remains consistently entertaining. At times, however, the pacing slows under the weight of extensive character backstories, evoking shades of Mrs. Dalloway, where nearly every figure arrives fully burdened with history.
What lingered with me long after the final page was Clemence’s search for community—for people to care about and, more importantly, people willing to care for her in return. Despite their unconventionalities, the characters surrounding Clemence ultimately offer her more compassion and belonging than she ever expected to find.
Definitely Thriving will appeal to readers who delight in eccentric personalities—the kind of people others might overlook but whom Clemence takes the time to truly see. Through her own brand of wonderfully bizarre behavior, she disarms her neighbors and gradually builds connections. This is, at its heart, a cozy comedy about people and the unexpected communities that help us begin again.
This review is made possible by NetGalley and House of Anansi Press who provided the advance reader copy.
Clemence returns to her hometown of Toronto, trading Seattle for a fresh start in a dingy attic studio apartment blessed with exceptional light. Adding to her upheaval, she has also been furloughed from her web magazine job after the publication abruptly folds, leaving her to begin again from scratch.
Kerry Clare populates the novel with a charming—if delightfully motley—cast of characters. There’s Jillian, Clemence’s seemingly perfect best friend, who is quietly having an affair with the therapist she enlisted to save her marriage. Mrs. Yeung, Clemence’s rigid landlady, only rented her the attic apartment because she assumed the name Clemence belonged to a man. Mrs. Yeung’s son Charles, easily the most attractive distraction Clemence encounters, works as the boarding house handyman during his summer break from teaching. And then there’s Toby—pale, allergy-ridden, and vaguely corpse-like—whom Clemence finds perplexing when she isn’t sneaking off to snog him in closets.
On the page, Clare’s prose moves with ease. She flexes her linguistic muscles through an ironic narrative style that gently satirizes both Clemence and her colorful orbit. The humor lands well, and the novel remains consistently entertaining. At times, however, the pacing slows under the weight of extensive character backstories, evoking shades of Mrs. Dalloway, where nearly every figure arrives fully burdened with history.
What lingered with me long after the final page was Clemence’s search for community—for people to care about and, more importantly, people willing to care for her in return. Despite their unconventionalities, the characters surrounding Clemence ultimately offer her more compassion and belonging than she ever expected to find.
Definitely Thriving will appeal to readers who delight in eccentric personalities—the kind of people others might overlook but whom Clemence takes the time to truly see. Through her own brand of wonderfully bizarre behavior, she disarms her neighbors and gradually builds connections. This is, at its heart, a cozy comedy about people and the unexpected communities that help us begin again.
This review is made possible by NetGalley and House of Anansi Press who provided the advance reader copy.
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March 28, 2026Clemence Lathbury’s life doesn’t exactly fall apart—it detonates. When she’s caught in a scandalous situation that effectively ends her already stale marriage, she retreats to her hometown determined to rebuild her life in the most practical, sensible way possible. Her new plan is simple: no romance, no drama, and absolutely no chaos. Just quiet self-improvement and emotional stability.
Of course, life has other plans.
Back home, Clemence quickly discovers that starting over isn’t nearly as neat or controlled as she imagined. Instead of solitude and self-reinvention, she finds herself swept into the everyday chaos of small-town life: meddling neighbors, family expectations, local gossip, and a bookshop that may or may not need saving. Throw in a scruffy one-eyed cat who seems determined to adopt her, and Clemence’s carefully designed “no nonsense” life quickly begins to unravel in the best possible ways.
Kerry Clare writes Clemence with humor, honesty, and a refreshing lack of perfection. She’s messy, impulsive, sometimes frustrating—but always deeply relatable. Watching her navigate the complicated balance between independence and connection becomes the heart of the story. The novel doesn’t rush toward tidy answers; instead, it allows Clemence the space to stumble, reflect, and slowly discover what kind of life actually makes her happy.
The supporting cast brings even more warmth to the story. The quirky townspeople, Clemence’s family, and the two very different romantic possibilities add layers of humor and emotional tension. Rather than feeling like a traditional love triangle, the romantic subplot becomes part of a broader exploration of identity and belonging. Clemence isn’t just choosing between men—she’s figuring out what kind of future she wants.
At its core, Definitely Thriving is about the imperfect process of rebuilding your life. It celebrates community, second chances, and the unexpected ways people—and occasionally cats—help us grow into the next version of ourselves. Funny, heartfelt, and full of small moments that feel deeply real, it’s a reminder that thriving doesn’t always look the way we think it will.
I had the opportunity to read this book ahead of publication, and these are my honest thoughts.
Of course, life has other plans.
Back home, Clemence quickly discovers that starting over isn’t nearly as neat or controlled as she imagined. Instead of solitude and self-reinvention, she finds herself swept into the everyday chaos of small-town life: meddling neighbors, family expectations, local gossip, and a bookshop that may or may not need saving. Throw in a scruffy one-eyed cat who seems determined to adopt her, and Clemence’s carefully designed “no nonsense” life quickly begins to unravel in the best possible ways.
Kerry Clare writes Clemence with humor, honesty, and a refreshing lack of perfection. She’s messy, impulsive, sometimes frustrating—but always deeply relatable. Watching her navigate the complicated balance between independence and connection becomes the heart of the story. The novel doesn’t rush toward tidy answers; instead, it allows Clemence the space to stumble, reflect, and slowly discover what kind of life actually makes her happy.
The supporting cast brings even more warmth to the story. The quirky townspeople, Clemence’s family, and the two very different romantic possibilities add layers of humor and emotional tension. Rather than feeling like a traditional love triangle, the romantic subplot becomes part of a broader exploration of identity and belonging. Clemence isn’t just choosing between men—she’s figuring out what kind of future she wants.
At its core, Definitely Thriving is about the imperfect process of rebuilding your life. It celebrates community, second chances, and the unexpected ways people—and occasionally cats—help us grow into the next version of ourselves. Funny, heartfelt, and full of small moments that feel deeply real, it’s a reminder that thriving doesn’t always look the way we think it will.
I had the opportunity to read this book ahead of publication, and these are my honest thoughts.
Review of advance copy received from Netgalley
I went into this pretty blind—so I really didn’t know what to expect— but Definitely Thriving is the kind of book that has you enjoying the chaos of someone else’s life while secretly reflecting on your own. I absolutely loved this.
Clemence Lathbury is wonderfully, delightfully imperfect—her choices are messy, her intentions noble but sometimes completely misguided, and her journey home is anything but straightforward. From accidentally detonating her marriage to being drawn into neighborhood antics, bookshop crusades, and the affectionate tyranny of a one-eyed cat, Clemence’s story is a warm, witty, and surprisingly relatable look at what it means to rebuild a life on your own terms.
What really works here is Clare’s ability to make imperfection feel celebratory. Imperfection should ALWAYS be celebrated (in my opinion), but you very rarely see it being celebrated on this level. Clemence is flawed, often ridiculous, and sometimes frustrating, but never punished for it. Regardless of how frustrating she can be, you still can’t help but root for her. Her humor is effortless, her voice sharp and personable, and her relationships—whether family, friends, or potential love interests—are layered, chaotic, and tender in equal measure. I especially appreciated the depiction of strong female friendships that aren’t saccharine but still full of heart, and the way community itself is given life and warmth.
The only small critique I have is that the story occasionally meanders with side plots and neighborhood drama, but honestly, that only adds to its charm. By the final chapters, I found myself cheering for Clemence in every perfectly imperfect decision she made and laughing out loud more than once. This was heartwarming, funny, and full of hope. This was ultimately a reminder that life is messy and unpredictable but at the end of the day— it’s worth it.
Thank you to NetGalley and House of Anansi Press for this eARC!
Clemence Lathbury is wonderfully, delightfully imperfect—her choices are messy, her intentions noble but sometimes completely misguided, and her journey home is anything but straightforward. From accidentally detonating her marriage to being drawn into neighborhood antics, bookshop crusades, and the affectionate tyranny of a one-eyed cat, Clemence’s story is a warm, witty, and surprisingly relatable look at what it means to rebuild a life on your own terms.
What really works here is Clare’s ability to make imperfection feel celebratory. Imperfection should ALWAYS be celebrated (in my opinion), but you very rarely see it being celebrated on this level. Clemence is flawed, often ridiculous, and sometimes frustrating, but never punished for it. Regardless of how frustrating she can be, you still can’t help but root for her. Her humor is effortless, her voice sharp and personable, and her relationships—whether family, friends, or potential love interests—are layered, chaotic, and tender in equal measure. I especially appreciated the depiction of strong female friendships that aren’t saccharine but still full of heart, and the way community itself is given life and warmth.
The only small critique I have is that the story occasionally meanders with side plots and neighborhood drama, but honestly, that only adds to its charm. By the final chapters, I found myself cheering for Clemence in every perfectly imperfect decision she made and laughing out loud more than once. This was heartwarming, funny, and full of hope. This was ultimately a reminder that life is messy and unpredictable but at the end of the day— it’s worth it.
Thank you to NetGalley and House of Anansi Press for this eARC!
October 1, 2025
Dear Reader,
Filing today: Definitely Thriving by Kerry Clare– a delightfully messy, heartwarming story about starting over and stumbling into joy.
Clemence Lathbury accidentally-on-purpose detonated her listless marriage (yes, discovered in bed with the neighbors 😳) and the town is abuzz! She has headed back to her home town determined to rebuild her life into something substantial. no frippery, no romance, just sensible womanhood. Naturally, that plan unravels quickly. What follows is a swirl of neighborhood drama, a crusade at the local bookshop, a one-eyed cat who decides she's theirs, and the unavoidable chaos of family and new love interests.
And Reader, let me tell you... I went in expecting to like this book, but I ended up loving it! Kerry Clare brings such humor and relatability to Clemence's journey that I found myself rooting for her in all her perfectly imperfect choices. Honestly, who hasn't at least fantasized about throwing their carefully constructed life into chaos just to see what happens?
The first half charmed me, but it's the back half where this novel truly shines. Picture me, sitting in the airport, grinning like a fool at my Kindle. So much so that the stranger across from me finally commented, "You must be reading something really good." (Spoiler: I was!)
This book is equal parts funny, touching, and hopeful. If you're a woman over 30 looking for a story that feels both deeply relatable and wonderfully escapist, this one belongs on your TBR.
✨ ARC provided by NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. Thank you for the opportunity to read this gem!
Rating: ⭐ 4.8 / 5
Spice: 🌶️ 2 / 5 (closed door)
Until the next chapter,
Lady TBR
Filing today: Definitely Thriving by Kerry Clare– a delightfully messy, heartwarming story about starting over and stumbling into joy.
Clemence Lathbury accidentally-on-purpose detonated her listless marriage (yes, discovered in bed with the neighbors 😳) and the town is abuzz! She has headed back to her home town determined to rebuild her life into something substantial. no frippery, no romance, just sensible womanhood. Naturally, that plan unravels quickly. What follows is a swirl of neighborhood drama, a crusade at the local bookshop, a one-eyed cat who decides she's theirs, and the unavoidable chaos of family and new love interests.
And Reader, let me tell you... I went in expecting to like this book, but I ended up loving it! Kerry Clare brings such humor and relatability to Clemence's journey that I found myself rooting for her in all her perfectly imperfect choices. Honestly, who hasn't at least fantasized about throwing their carefully constructed life into chaos just to see what happens?
The first half charmed me, but it's the back half where this novel truly shines. Picture me, sitting in the airport, grinning like a fool at my Kindle. So much so that the stranger across from me finally commented, "You must be reading something really good." (Spoiler: I was!)
This book is equal parts funny, touching, and hopeful. If you're a woman over 30 looking for a story that feels both deeply relatable and wonderfully escapist, this one belongs on your TBR.
✨ ARC provided by NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. Thank you for the opportunity to read this gem!
Rating: ⭐ 4.8 / 5
Spice: 🌶️ 2 / 5 (closed door)
Until the next chapter,
Lady TBR
Review of advance copy received from Author
I've been a Kerry Clare fan since reading her sophomore novel, Waiting for a Star to Fall. I missed her debut, Mitzi Bytes, which requires rectification - is that a word? - and I loved the examination of the tricky tests of female friendships in Asking for a Friend. But for pure delight, Kerry's newest novel, luckily set to hit shelves on the feast of St. Patrick, March 17th, Definitely Thriving is my fave Clare book. Heroine - which is the perfect term, not only for the literary device of main character, but also for the way she bucks convention and takes the trajectory of her life into her own hands - Clemence Lathbury, "accidentally-on-purpose" blows up her marriage by engineering a romp in her own bed with the married couple next door at the precise time her husband, Toad, is due home from work. Clemence moves back across the country to her GTA area home and finds a small attic apartment in Roncesvalles to begin a quest to figure out who she really is when she isn't trying to be who everyone else thinks she should be. In a neighbourhood trying to hold tightly to its character while on the verge of gentrification, Clemence finds her people in a curmudgeonly corner store and musty bookshop owner, a reclusive, allergic, socially awkward bookstore employee, and an eclectic, nosy landlady and her very handsome son who may or may not be married. Clemence also has two sisters, two parents and two best friends who are anxious to have her back in the fold so they can fix her life. If you are a fan of church jumble sales, over-stocked, disorganized book stores, one -eyed cats, and interfering busy bodies, this lazer sharp comedic commentary on family, friendships and unconventional women looking for their place in a conventional world is for you.
March 19, 2026
Clemence wants to live like an “excellent woman” and atone for the dramatic way she broke up her marriage, so she relocates to a dingy boarding house. Her self-deprecatingly thoughtful search for a new way to live takes place in a Toronto neighborhood that also dabbles in reinvention. She’s working as hard on her downward mobility as Bridget Jones sweated in pursuit of a better life. And riffing on Eat, Pray, Love by staying in one unremarkable place, eating tuna from the can, helping with the church jumble sale, and avoiding love, which is, naturally, impractical.
As she remains steadfast in her quest despite the perplexed questions of family and friends, she brings out courage to change in her new friends. People are capable of surprising themselves and others, most dramatically in the bookstore closet... Clemence has a unique literary voice that may be a little homage to Barbara Pym, but is completely fresh and satisfying.
For readers of all tastes but especially rewarding as a contemporary tale for readers of Barbara Pym. And lovers of the ancient arts of tea drinking, book indexing, and broom closet bonking. Finally, I have to congratulate Anansi on the cover, which charmingly conveys both approachability and subversion.
I read this book courtesy of the author, the publisher House of Anansi Press and Netgalley. Thank you. Opinions are my own.
As she remains steadfast in her quest despite the perplexed questions of family and friends, she brings out courage to change in her new friends. People are capable of surprising themselves and others, most dramatically in the bookstore closet... Clemence has a unique literary voice that may be a little homage to Barbara Pym, but is completely fresh and satisfying.
For readers of all tastes but especially rewarding as a contemporary tale for readers of Barbara Pym. And lovers of the ancient arts of tea drinking, book indexing, and broom closet bonking. Finally, I have to congratulate Anansi on the cover, which charmingly conveys both approachability and subversion.
I read this book courtesy of the author, the publisher House of Anansi Press and Netgalley. Thank you. Opinions are my own.
Review of advance copy received from Netgalley
3.5 ⭐️
A fresh, funny take on starting over when life doesn’t go to plan. Kerry Clare’s Definitely Thriving blends wit, warmth, and small-town charm into a story about self-discovery and second chances.
This heartfelt story is about a woman who returns home after ending her marriage, only to find herself pulled into small-town chaos, unexpected love, and the messy joy of starting over.
I enjoyed how Definitely Thriving balances humor, heart, and a relatable sense of chaos that comes with starting over. Kerry Clare captures that messy, in-between stage of rebuilding your life in such a down-to-earth way, and the small-town setting adds warmth and charm to Clemence’s journey. She’s a perfectly flawed heroine, easy to root for even when her choices get messy. That said, the story moves at a slower, low-stakes pace, and a few side characters felt a bit underdeveloped. That being said, it’s an easy, uplifting read about community, self-discovery, and finding your footing again when life doesn’t go to plan.
I recommend this book if you like light, witty, and emotionally honest stories about reinvention, community, and second chances.
Thank you to Net Galley and House of Anansi Press Inc for an ARC in return for my feedback.
A fresh, funny take on starting over when life doesn’t go to plan. Kerry Clare’s Definitely Thriving blends wit, warmth, and small-town charm into a story about self-discovery and second chances.
This heartfelt story is about a woman who returns home after ending her marriage, only to find herself pulled into small-town chaos, unexpected love, and the messy joy of starting over.
I enjoyed how Definitely Thriving balances humor, heart, and a relatable sense of chaos that comes with starting over. Kerry Clare captures that messy, in-between stage of rebuilding your life in such a down-to-earth way, and the small-town setting adds warmth and charm to Clemence’s journey. She’s a perfectly flawed heroine, easy to root for even when her choices get messy. That said, the story moves at a slower, low-stakes pace, and a few side characters felt a bit underdeveloped. That being said, it’s an easy, uplifting read about community, self-discovery, and finding your footing again when life doesn’t go to plan.
I recommend this book if you like light, witty, and emotionally honest stories about reinvention, community, and second chances.
Thank you to Net Galley and House of Anansi Press Inc for an ARC in return for my feedback.
Review of advance copy received from Publisher
This sweet new Canadian novel was lovely and a pleasure to get to read an advanced copy of.
It will be out March 17th from House of Anansi Press.
Clemence Lathbury returns to her hometown after the end of her very unsatisfying, and frankly terrible sounding marriage, ready to try her hand at being alone.
Along the way, she meets the people around her and learns to connect with them, and most importantly, connect to herself. This is a woman who is savouring being able to do what she wants.
"No woman is an island, but these days Clemence's self-regard seems to be, which is almost like a superpower. She's not interested in external feedback, in the likes and the follows, and the doses of dopamine they result in."
The older I get, the more I seek out my own internal validation so it was a pleasure to read about a woman trying to find her own. And it is also often quite funny and I even laughed out loud sometimes.
And I love to read about a childfree woman just going about her life, I feel like we don't get to read about that enough!
Fun and full of the whimsy I crave to get out of my head, a delightful rollick!
It will be out March 17th from House of Anansi Press.
Clemence Lathbury returns to her hometown after the end of her very unsatisfying, and frankly terrible sounding marriage, ready to try her hand at being alone.
Along the way, she meets the people around her and learns to connect with them, and most importantly, connect to herself. This is a woman who is savouring being able to do what she wants.
"No woman is an island, but these days Clemence's self-regard seems to be, which is almost like a superpower. She's not interested in external feedback, in the likes and the follows, and the doses of dopamine they result in."
The older I get, the more I seek out my own internal validation so it was a pleasure to read about a woman trying to find her own. And it is also often quite funny and I even laughed out loud sometimes.
And I love to read about a childfree woman just going about her life, I feel like we don't get to read about that enough!
Fun and full of the whimsy I crave to get out of my head, a delightful rollick!
Review of advance copy received from Publisher
3.5 stars
My thoughts on Definitely Thriving by Kerry Clare were pretty much in line with many of the reviews I’ve seen. It’s a light, often humorous story about what it looks like to rebuild your life when things fall apart.
The book follows Clemence as she returns to her hometown after the end of her marriage and finds herself navigating the awkwardness of starting over. Between small-town drama, unexpected relationships, and plenty of personal reflection, the story explores that uncertain stage where you’re trying to figure out what comes next. I liked how Clare captures the messiness of that period in a way that feels relatable and grounded, and the small-town setting adds a cozy charm to the whole journey. Clemence is flawed but likable, which made it easy to stay invested in her story.
For me, the pacing leaned a bit slow at times and some of the supporting characters felt a little thin. Still, it’s an easy, comforting read about rediscovering yourself, leaning on community, and learning how to move forward when life doesn’t go the way you expected.
Thank you House of Anansi for the complimentary copy.
My thoughts on Definitely Thriving by Kerry Clare were pretty much in line with many of the reviews I’ve seen. It’s a light, often humorous story about what it looks like to rebuild your life when things fall apart.
The book follows Clemence as she returns to her hometown after the end of her marriage and finds herself navigating the awkwardness of starting over. Between small-town drama, unexpected relationships, and plenty of personal reflection, the story explores that uncertain stage where you’re trying to figure out what comes next. I liked how Clare captures the messiness of that period in a way that feels relatable and grounded, and the small-town setting adds a cozy charm to the whole journey. Clemence is flawed but likable, which made it easy to stay invested in her story.
For me, the pacing leaned a bit slow at times and some of the supporting characters felt a little thin. Still, it’s an easy, comforting read about rediscovering yourself, leaning on community, and learning how to move forward when life doesn’t go the way you expected.
Thank you House of Anansi for the complimentary copy.
March 21, 2026
Have you ever wondered what it looks like after you blow up your own life?
When we meet Clemence Lathbury she has done exactly that. After being caught (on purpose) in bed with the neighbours (yes, plural) she flees cross country to the city where she grew up.
She finds herself a tiny studio in the attic of a rooming house and begins a rather depressing attempt at an eat pray love journey (hot plates don’t facilitate diverse cuisine).
Her friends think she’s punishing herself, her parents think she’s crazy, and her ex-husband just won’t stop calling. Quickly though, she finds herself wrapped into the strange little neighbourhood and its quirky but honest cast of characters.
I was surprised by how much I enjoyed reading this book. Honestly, Clemence is not a good person. And I’m not really sure she grows much in that regard throughout, but she is certainly interesting. The unique voice that Kerry Clare writes with coupled with an unflinching self awareness kept me engaged on every page.
I think that this book will have a niche audience, but definitely worth a read for those in search of complicated female characters or who enjoy a slice of life setting.
Thank you to House of Anansi for sending me this review copy. All opinions in this review are my own.
When we meet Clemence Lathbury she has done exactly that. After being caught (on purpose) in bed with the neighbours (yes, plural) she flees cross country to the city where she grew up.
She finds herself a tiny studio in the attic of a rooming house and begins a rather depressing attempt at an eat pray love journey (hot plates don’t facilitate diverse cuisine).
Her friends think she’s punishing herself, her parents think she’s crazy, and her ex-husband just won’t stop calling. Quickly though, she finds herself wrapped into the strange little neighbourhood and its quirky but honest cast of characters.
I was surprised by how much I enjoyed reading this book. Honestly, Clemence is not a good person. And I’m not really sure she grows much in that regard throughout, but she is certainly interesting. The unique voice that Kerry Clare writes with coupled with an unflinching self awareness kept me engaged on every page.
I think that this book will have a niche audience, but definitely worth a read for those in search of complicated female characters or who enjoy a slice of life setting.
Thank you to House of Anansi for sending me this review copy. All opinions in this review are my own.
Review of advance copy received from Netgalley
Sharply funny, smart, and highly entertaining, Kerry Clare's latest is a fresh take on a woman seeking to build a life on her own terms. After accidentally-on-purpose destroying her marriage, Clemence, our bookish hero, is in serious need of a reset. As she settles into a dingy rooming house and her friends and family question her choices, she insists on figuring things out her own way. Her quest for "excellent womanhood" (as in the novels of Barbara Pym) involves a decrepit bookstore, a devoted cat, new love interests, a church jumble sale, and ultimately, the community she creates.
As comedic as it is, the novel asks serious questions about marriage, work and the cult of productivity, gentrification, and yes, books--what even is women's fiction?!
Definitely Thriving is also a love letter to bookstores and all kinds of reading. I loved it--highly recommend.
As comedic as it is, the novel asks serious questions about marriage, work and the cult of productivity, gentrification, and yes, books--what even is women's fiction?!
Definitely Thriving is also a love letter to bookstores and all kinds of reading. I loved it--highly recommend.
March 17, 2026
This is a story of rediscovering yourself and connecting with people and herself in unexpected ways. Clemence is unhappy in her marriage but instead of communicating she does something that destroys her marriage. Now back in her home town and convinced she needs to do penance for her actions she begins a mostly solitary life. But even a solitary life holds unexpected joy and as Clemence builds an unexpected community she begins to discover herself. Full of interesting characters and situations I found Clemence’s lack of communication and avoidance of things a bit frustrating. Yes i get it, the things were uncomfortable but many situations could have been avoided if she had just faced them and communicated. A story of self discovery and growth for readers that are looking for stories about starting over.
Thanks to Anansi for the gifted copy. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
Thanks to Anansi for the gifted copy. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
Review of advance copy received from Publisher
Thank you to @houseofanansi as part of the #AnansiReaderProgram for the #gifted copy of Definitely Thriving by Kerry Clare.
Clemence Lathbury has lost her job and imploded her unhappy marriage. She moves back to her hometown to start over. This time Clemence is determined to follow her heart and do what makes her happy. She has no real plans but being in the moment and the moment leads her to befriend a grumpy local shop owner, take on a project at a bookstore, help with the local jumble sale, and have a relationship with someone who might not be the most conventional, all while having an attraction to another man.
This was a story full of wit, it was reverant and a little bit messy, because let's face it life is messy. Clemence is trying to find herself in a life that seems to have gotten lost in expectations. She sleeps in, takes long baths every day, discovers herself, if you know what I am saying, buys a teapot because she loves it, loves her shabby apartment because it is hers. It is a story that reminds us that ultimately we need to be true to ourselves and follow the path that will bring us the most joy. It reminds us that life is too short to be unhappy.
I love the way that this story ended. Normally, I want everything wrapped up, I want an ending that feels finished and this story wasn't that. But, it fit the story and I was so satisfied with it none the less. Clemence is still on her journey and I get to imagine where that journey will ultimately take her. But, no matter what in the end the story leaves you hopeful and confident that Clemence will be just fine and she will definitely thrive.
Clemence Lathbury has lost her job and imploded her unhappy marriage. She moves back to her hometown to start over. This time Clemence is determined to follow her heart and do what makes her happy. She has no real plans but being in the moment and the moment leads her to befriend a grumpy local shop owner, take on a project at a bookstore, help with the local jumble sale, and have a relationship with someone who might not be the most conventional, all while having an attraction to another man.
This was a story full of wit, it was reverant and a little bit messy, because let's face it life is messy. Clemence is trying to find herself in a life that seems to have gotten lost in expectations. She sleeps in, takes long baths every day, discovers herself, if you know what I am saying, buys a teapot because she loves it, loves her shabby apartment because it is hers. It is a story that reminds us that ultimately we need to be true to ourselves and follow the path that will bring us the most joy. It reminds us that life is too short to be unhappy.
I love the way that this story ended. Normally, I want everything wrapped up, I want an ending that feels finished and this story wasn't that. But, it fit the story and I was so satisfied with it none the less. Clemence is still on her journey and I get to imagine where that journey will ultimately take her. But, no matter what in the end the story leaves you hopeful and confident that Clemence will be just fine and she will definitely thrive.
Review of advance copy received from Author
Hello! I wrote this book and I'm so glad you're reading it. I started writing DEFINITELY THRIVING because I wanted to write a book that would make me happy, and it grew into a story about a woman who decides to really listen to her heart and learn how to make herself happy. It's about a woman who's kinda sorta writing a book (EAT PRAY LOVE, but without the LOVE) but what she's really doing is finally getting to be the author of her own life, and I want that for all of us.
If you've enjoyed this book, please swing by https://kerryreads.substack.com/ for essays, updates, blog posts, and book recommendations. And if you want to go old school, and check out my blog directly (WHAT?), you can find me at https://picklemethis.com//.
If you've enjoyed this book, please swing by https://kerryreads.substack.com/ for essays, updates, blog posts, and book recommendations. And if you want to go old school, and check out my blog directly (WHAT?), you can find me at https://picklemethis.com//.
Review of advance copy received from Netgalley
Pick this book up if you like strong, independent, bookish women not afraid to blow up their lives in the pursuit of living authentically even when it means walking away from a seven year marriage, all her belongings and half a house.
I really respected Clemence's decision to live a life on her own terms. I enjoyed the community of misfit friends she makes in her new Roncesvalles neighborhood in Toronto and all the drama with them, her family and the two men she can't help developing feelings for.
Fun, heartfelt and inspiring. Some of Clemence's decisions made me uncomfortable but I still thought she was brave to flaunt societal and familial expectations to pursue happiness on her own terms. Many thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for an early digital and finished copy in exchange for my honest review.
I really respected Clemence's decision to live a life on her own terms. I enjoyed the community of misfit friends she makes in her new Roncesvalles neighborhood in Toronto and all the drama with them, her family and the two men she can't help developing feelings for.
Fun, heartfelt and inspiring. Some of Clemence's decisions made me uncomfortable but I still thought she was brave to flaunt societal and familial expectations to pursue happiness on her own terms. Many thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for an early digital and finished copy in exchange for my honest review.
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