After having a stillborn, my life felt like it was spiralling out of control. The truth is, I never was in control anyways, and even though I knew that, experiences like that will remind one of that fact. I found myself in undesirable soil, and Melia has shown me through her book that I can flourish even though I found the soil undesirable, and the pruning clips of the Gardener painful. I devoured the book after checking it out from the library, and will be purchasing a copy to own.