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The Myth Of Me: Escaping A Life Not Lived

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The Myth of Escaping a Life Not Lived by Darshan Jogi is a deeply introspective and poetic manifesto for those silently aching under the weight of societal expectations and internalized narratives. It is not a guidebook, but a confession- a soulful rebellion against the myths we inherit and the myth of success, control, validation, love, identity, and more. Jogi strips these illusions bare, exposing the silent suffering of living a life shaped more by fear and approval than by truth.

Drawing from the wisdom of philosophers like Dostoevsky, Camus, Krishnamurti, Carl Jung, Marcus Aurelius and more, the book explores the quiet collapse of a self built on borrowed meaning. It reflects on the fatigue of pretending, the hollowness of applause, and the longing to reclaim a raw, unfiltered existence.

Through lyrical prose and honest storytelling, Jogi speaks to the part of us that always knew something didn’t add up- the quiet self we silenced to survive. This book doesn’t promise clarity or perfection, but presence. It invites us to burn the scripts, question everything, and meet the version of ourselves that existed before the world told us who we should be.

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Published May 17, 2025

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47 reviews1 follower
June 26, 2025
The Myth of Me by Darshan Jogi is definitely a gripping book that will make you hold your breath till end. It is a insightful and emotional book of understanding yourself. Each chapter show the societal norms and pressure and breaks it. Each chapter is unique and interesting in its own way.
It talks about how our life is controlled by others, how we live our lives by the thought of judgement and pressure. The book breaks the myth of happiness, success, love. It was completely unhinged book that shows the harsh reality. Everyone has their own life struggles, own battles to fight, the book shows how important it is to stay emotionally strong to tackle every situation with ease.
It shows how according to society, the definition of success is money and fame. By chasing the unrealistic expectations of society we forget ourselves and our inner peace. Real success is not money, it's the inner peace and happiness that one have. Author completely breaks these society norms.
Every chapter has a poem and illustrations at the end, which makes it more easier to read for readers. The writing style was poetic but very interesting to read. The author encourages us to accept our life with flaws, and embrace the journey of life with calmness.
It is a perfect book, if you are on a journey of self- discovery and want to find true sense of life.
27 reviews
June 17, 2025
What is perfect life, anyway ?

Everyone has their own answer answers to this question. Or if we're being honest, the answers someone carefully loaded into our heads since our childhood.

The concept of perfect life has been -is written by us subconsciously in our childhood by observing the world around us.

"The Myths of Me" by Darshan Jogi is a thought-provoking exploration of identity, self-perception, and the often misleading narratives we construct about ourselves.

Through a blend of personal anecdotes and philosophical musings, Jogi invites readers to reflect on the various myths that shape our understanding of who we are.

Jogi's writing is introspective and engaging, drawing readers into his journey of self-discovery. The book challenges conventional beliefs about identity and life choices, urging readers to scrutinize the stories they tell themselves.

Echoing themes of authenticity and personal growth, "The Myths of Me" encourages the audience to peel away the layers of societal expectations, stereotypes, and personal insecurities.

One of the strengths of Jogi's work lies in his ability to combine relatable experiences with deeper insights, making complex ideas accessible and relatable.

Each chapter unfolds a new layer of the self, prompting readers to confront their own myths while finding solace in shared experiences.

Jogi’s candid approach adds a personal touch, making the book feel like a conversation with a wise friend rather than a detached narrative.

The prose is clear and engaging, with an encouraging tone that resonates well with readers seeking self-improvement or greater self-awareness.

Jogi's reflections about the myths of success, love, and purpose particularly stand out, offering a refreshing perspective on navigating life's challenges.

Overall, "The Myths of Me" is a compelling read for anyone interested in personal development and self-exploration.

It serves as a reminder that understanding oneself is an ongoing journey, often filled with obstacles and revelations.

This book is not just about the myths we create but also about the power of vulnerability and the freedom that comes from embracing our authentic selves.
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111 reviews
June 25, 2025
What if everything you believed about success, love, and identity wasn’t yours to begin with?
That’s deep but empowering question The Myth of Me boldly explores.

Darshan Jogi’s The Myth of Me is an insightful and emotionally rich journey into the process of understanding oneself. Through a sequence of deeply reflective chapters, the book slowly breaks down the social pressures, personal dilemmas, and false beliefs we unknowingly adopt. Each chapter uncovers a new layer of truth making the reading experience both personal and powerful.

This book isn’t your usual self-help read. It doesn't give you formulas routines. Instead, it holds a mirror to the soul and gently asks you to look closer.

Darshan Jogi has crafted something unique more of a book that feels. It speaks to the hidden struggle inside many of us like the pressure to perform, to become someone “worthy,” to constantly prove we’re enough. And in the middle of all that noise, we forget ourselves.

Through elegant storytelling, honest reflections, and deep analogies, Jogi invites you to let go of every label you’ve been given—by society, family, or even yourself and simply be. The chapter on borrowed identities truly made me pause. It reminded me that growth isn't about becoming something more, but often about unlearning what we're not.

What I loved most? The way the author doesn't instruct. He considers, shares, questions—and lets you do the same. Each page feels like a conversation. A few poems and illustrations found throughout add beauty and depth to the experience.

🌿 The Myth of Me is eye- opening in the best way—it encourages out of fixed flow and into consciousness. It’s a book you’ll carry in your thoughts long after the last page.

If you're tired of chasing definitions of success that don't feel like your own, or if you're just starting to ask deeper questions about who you really are—this book is for your.
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1,626 reviews45 followers
June 27, 2025
Darshan Jogi’s The Myth of Me is a courageous, lyrical excavation of the self—a philosophical memoir that leans into emotional honesty more than prescriptive self-help.This work can be situated within a tradition of existential and postmodern inquiry, challenging socially constructed narratives that dictate who we "should" be, rather than nurturing who we truly are. But what makes this book distinctive is not just its content; it's the quiet poetry with which Jogi dismantles illusions and invites the reader into intimate self-reflection.

This is not a book about self-improvement in the conventional sense. Jogi offers no steps, formulas, or promises of transformation. Instead, he presents a confessional, almost meditative resistance to the cultural scripts of success, identity, and belonging. These "myths," as Jogi frames them, are internalized stories we inherit from families, institutions, and social structures—stories that often disconnect us from our most authentic selves.

The work’s strength lies in its poetic structure and reflective tone. Each chapter reads like a vignette or philosophical meditation, rather than a linear narrative. While this may challenge readers expecting traditional storytelling, it mirrors the fragmented, non-linear process of self-discovery. The lack of structure is not a flaw but a feature—it disrupts our need for clarity, mirroring the chaos and beauty of unbecoming.

The Myth of Me is an elegy for the lives we perform and a quiet celebration of the lives we might yet reclaim. It does not offer answers but offers something rarer: space. Space to reflect, to unravel, and to listen—for perhaps the first time—to a voice within. For readers interested in existential literature, poetic memoirs, or spiritual self-inquiry, Darshan Jogi’s work will resonate deeply. It is less a book to be consumed and more a mirror in which one glimpses the self—fragmented, questioning, but still very much alive.

Must read♥️♥️
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525 reviews20 followers
July 10, 2025
Each morning we wake up and wear our roles like armour and perform what we are required too, we live not as we are but as we are required.

"The Myth of Me" by Darshan Jogi is a powerful book about understanding yourself. It challenges social norms, personal struggles, and the false beliefs we hold. Each chapter explores a different idea, making the reader reflect on their own life in a relatable and meaningful way.

We don't live , we survive, we don't feel, we perform.

The book is about a chain of thoughts on how to decipher your own life and the decisions we take in our life, how we can choose something.

I believe this book is a book of thoughts and experiences of many uncertain things that occur in our life, explaining the uncertainty and endless cycle of life and many more things that intensify the thought process.

Every chapter of the book consists of a poem related to the chapter content with a picture too. The poems share deep thoughts and convey the meaning and message of the chapter.

This book is for the people who neglect their emotions and their well-being. This one teaches how to control your emotions and work upon them, to be a better version of yourself, fighting with unknown demons of your life and darkness that blocks your path whenever you seek the light.

In the book, I saw a line that is: "In our society, there is often a conflation between need and want." Needs are essential for survival, while wants are often driven by societal pressures, status, and the desire for validation. It is beautiful how the author has written and tried to help us comprehend this, and I feel he is right about this. It is the best thing I found in this book.

The whisper of life binds you in an endless loop, but when you understand it, you become free from the loop and start seeing the beauty of life.

The book has lots of inspirational thoughts and thought processes that strike and convey the message of motivation towards life.
174 reviews3 followers
July 21, 2025
Darshan Jogi’s "The Myth of Me" is unlike anything I’ve read in the self-exploration genre. It doesn’t offer easy answers or neat formulas for change—instead, it holds up a mirror. From the first few pages, I felt like the book was speaking directly to the part of me I usually keep hidden. Jogi’s poetic prose, raw honesty, and unfiltered emotion made me pause often and reflect more deeply than I expected. It was both confronting and comforting.

What struck me most was how the book dismantled common societal ideals we chase without questioning—success, control, and even love. Jogi doesn’t preach; he confesses, and in doing so, he creates space for readers to do the same. I didn’t feel judged or lectured, only seen. The vulnerability throughout made the book feel like a private conversation I didn’t know I needed but couldn’t walk away from.

Each chapter felt like peeling back another layer I didn’t realize I’d built up over the years. The “myths” Jogi explores aren’t abstract—they’re the daily lies we tell ourselves to keep fitting in, to feel safe, to be approved of. The book challenged me to examine how much of my life I’ve built from fear rather than authenticity. It was hard to read at times—but in the best way. It left me asking better questions.

By the final chapter, I didn’t feel like I’d finished a book; I felt like I’d finished a conversation with my truest self. Jogi doesn’t promise transformation, but he offers something far more valuable—permission. Permission to let go of identities that no longer serve us, and to live more honestly, even if it’s messy. I can’t recommend "The Myth of Me" enough for anyone feeling lost in a life that looks right but feels wrong.
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216 reviews7 followers
June 19, 2025
The Myth of Me by Darshan Jogi is a thoughtful and gripping book where the author shares honest reflections that feels more like a personal conversation. He challenges common ideas about success, happiness, complexities, redemption, identity, perfect love, and control, helping readers question the beliefs they may have accepted without realizing. It skillfully says how the world considers success as valid only when it's visible. The world tends to measure it with money, fame, tittles but for many it's the peace of mind, creative fulfillment, and a slower life lived on their own terms. 

Perhaps we can say, real success is not in achieving what the world applauds, but in becoming who we truly are, without the noise. The book also talks about the necessity of emotional freedom in a meaningful relationship, and how relationships help individuals understand their true selves, revealing the flaws and imperfections with clarity. The author has included a thematic flow map in the beginning which gives a clear insight into the content of the book. The Myth of Me is a journey from illusion to reclamation. 

What makes this book stand out is how personal and relatable it feels. Darshan Jogi blends life experiences with deep thoughts, inviting readers to look inward and face the myths they've carried for years. The combination of engaging story telling, simple writing style, well crafted chapters and attention to details creates an immersive reading experience. I would highly recommend this book to every individual. Overall, The Myth of Me is a powerful and inspiring read for anyone interested in self-discovery and growth.
358 reviews5 followers
June 30, 2025
𝘜𝘯𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘕𝘰𝘪𝘴𝘦, 𝘙𝘦𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘤𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘚𝘦𝘭𝘧.

What if everything you believed about success, identity, and happiness wasn’t entirely your own belief, but borrowed from the world around you? This book by the author begins with this silent question and takes you on an intimate, reflective journey to uncover the truth beneath layers of societal conditioning.

This is not your typical self-help book. It doesn’t hand out advice or formulas for success. Instead, it opens a doorway into the author’s own experiences, inviting you to gently question your own. Through heartfelt stories and deeply personal reflections, the author explores what it truly means to live authentically, free from the myths we’ve accepted about love, control, perfection, and what makes a life ‘worthwhile.’

One of the most compelling themes is the idea that success isn’t about applause, titles, or bank balances. Rather, it lies in the peace we carry, the joy in our work, and the freedom to live slowly, creatively, and honestly. The book also beautifully addresses the role of relationships, not as destinations, but as mirrors that reflect our truest selves and help us heal.

With a clean, conversational tone, thoughtful illustrations, and a thematic map at the start, the book flows with ease while still stirring something deep within. The author’s strength lies in making complex emotions feel accessible and real.

This is not just a book, it’s a quiet revolution. One I’d highly recommend to anyone ready to meet themselves, beyond the myths.
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11 reviews1 follower
June 26, 2025
Review: The Myth of Me by Darshan Jogi

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ (5/5)

The Myth of Me isn’t just a self-help book — it’s a mirror, a companion, and a gentle nudge toward rediscovering who we truly are beneath the layers we’ve unknowingly adopted from the world around us.

Darshan Jogi has crafted something truly unique: a reflective journey that doesn’t tell you what to think, but invites you to feel. Through poetic prose, honest storytelling, and raw vulnerability, he explores the quiet struggles many of us carry — the pressure to perform, the chase to be “worthy,” and the constant noise that drowns out our inner voice. And in doing so, he reminds us that growth isn’t always about becoming more — sometimes, it’s about unlearning what we’re not.

What touched me most was how personal the book felt. It was like reading someone’s private diary — full of doubts, truths, fears, and clarity. Each chapter ends with a poem, adding depth and emotional resonance. It made me pause, reflect, and often reread just to soak in the feeling.

This isn’t a guidebook filled with steps or advice. It’s a conversation — honest, compassionate, and healing. It doesn’t instruct you; it invites you to explore, to question, and to simply be.

If you’re tired of chasing borrowed definitions of success, or you’re just beginning to peel back the layers of who you think you should be — The Myth of Me is for you. It’s not about fixing yourself. It’s about finally coming home to yourself.
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75 reviews6 followers
June 27, 2025
The Myth of Me
Darshan Jogi

"We are not the labels the world gives us, nor the roles we wear. We are the space between the stories, the silence beneath the surface- endlessly becoming, never fully defined."

I wonder if humans are just here as a part of evolution or we do have a meaning, a purpose to fulfil. During our course of existene on this Earth, we have somehow managed to get ourselves entangled in the materialistic happiness and display rather than enjoying the mere truthness of the nature, the emotions and humanity and harmony.

This book, 'The Myth of Me' by Darshan Jogi is a poetic and introspective work of literature that challenges the narrative, the myth, the falso rules we live by.

Jogi has tried to show us our own true, raw and unfiltered version through his eloquent and confessional tone. He has questioned and explained the elements like love, ambitions, identity, morality and belonging piece by piece to give a clear vision to us.

Areas of Strength:
• Deep poetic voice
• Introspective storytelling
• Confrontational themes and questions.

This book is a thought provoking collection of ideas which have been brought to light through research and experiences. A reflective mirror, a quiet conversation with self to find out true personality and meaning.

The book is recommended for the readers who seek answers, who believe in their soul and want to search within themselves the power of their existence and those who are open to introspection.
11 reviews1 follower
July 1, 2025
This book beautifully explores the myths we believe about ourselves, how we often justify our actions in the name of honour, telling ourselves it's all for a better life, a better future, or out of kindness. But then reality hits, and we realize it was all an illusion.

The book delves into the beliefs we hold onto, forgetting that at our core, we are simply human beings. We seek happiness through validation, try to control everything, and constantly strive to live by the terms set by society, where success is measured by money, fame, and material things. We try so hard to please others, but why?

When you finally lift the veil of illusion, you begin to see your true self. You realize that you don’t need to become someone else just to fit into society.

The author beautifully explains the importance of self-worth, understanding your emotions, and realizing that real happiness is found in the little things like drinking your favourite coffee, talking to your people, dancing your heart out without fear of being judged, or watching the rain pour happiness from the sky. The search for a perfect, happy life won’t lead to a final destination. Life is full of twists and turns, and we can’t control everything and that’s what makes it beautiful. You don’t need to have control all the time.

Each chapter ends with a touching poem that answers your questions in the simplest yet most impactful way straight from the heart.

If you want to meet the real you, then this book is for you.
76 reviews
June 22, 2025
“The Myth of Me” by Darshan Jogi is a thought-provoking, soul-stirring reflection on the journey of self-discovery. This book gently dismantles societal expectations, internal conflicts, and the illusions we often live by, through a series of deeply introspective chapters—each myth more relatable than the last.

Darshan Jogi encourages us not to chase perfection, but to accept our flaws, find clarity in chaos, and embrace the ever-evolving nature of being human.

Jogi’s writing is poetic yet practical, philosophical yet personal. He uses analogies and metaphors—like the resilience of a willow tree over an oak—to illustrate how strength comes from adaptability, not resistance. The chapters on Validation, Redemption, and Emotional Truth especially hit hard, offering a mirror to our inner selves.

What makes this book stand out is that it doesn't offer clichéd advice. Instead, it challenges readers to sit with uncomfortable truths, unlearn conditioned beliefs, and redefine their personal definitions of love, success, justice, and identity.

Whether you're just starting your self-awareness journey or are years into it, “The Myth of Me” is a companion worth keeping—for the questions it raises, the clarity it offers, and the courage it inspires.

Highly recommended for seekers, thinkers, and anyone tired of chasing someone else’s version of success.
June 26, 2025
The Myth of Me by Darshan Jogi is a contemplative and enlightening read with themes of self-identity, community expectations, and the subtle beauty of being comfortable with imperfection.

Unlike the self-help genre where it often feels like the author is detached or lecturing from above, this book reads like an honest conversation raw, artistic, and vulnerable. The author clearly unpacks many of the subtle myths we all live by about love, success, worth, and identity, and invites you to question, unlearn and rewrite the meaning of what is valuable in this life.

Jogi’s simplicity was the beauty of the work. Each chapter builds upon his relatable struggles, and he ends each chapter with authentic poems that feel as if they are warm nudges to press pause and reflect. There are explorations of the need to be validated, to be overwhelmed by feeling of emotional freedom, and self-exploration of self at your own pace.

While some chapters could have taken the opportunity to have explored the topics a little deeper, nonetheless, the overall feeling of the book stays with you especially if you are navigating transitioning in your life, experiences of self-doubt, or if you have begun to tire of society's checklists.
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124 reviews3 followers
June 30, 2025
A book which made me question. Showing myths...which are only just a myth. Just bcoz it's was said that way doesn't mean it's true or it's should be done only that way. To see things differently rather than like everyone else.


It's showing the truth...to find a sense of peace. Instead of trying to control everything in our life...sometimes Try to make it flow like water. "You must be shapeless, formless like water" is the my favorite line. And it’s absolutely felt so true.

To do what we love instead of thinking what others will think. To be happy for yourself instead of waiting for someone else approval. "Embrace self acceptance" which we all should do. To put ourself first instead of other and their opinions. To live for ourselves.


The book also focuses on many other things like love, relationships, freedom, to be free from myths we all clung to, to be a human and still be free. To live our present and enjoy this...this moment.
And the poems are my favorite. They are so deep , filled with a lot of emotions and meaning.

I learned alot from this book and it’s made me question, rethink and change. It teached me to let go of the myths and to be myself...The way I want to be.
139 reviews
June 30, 2025
This book was truly thought-provoking.
It felt like I was having a deep conversation with a close friend. The author explores important subjects like identity, success, and healing in such an honest and relatable way. When I picked up the book, I didn’t expect it to turn out this good—it completely surprised me.

The book sheds light on how so many of us live under the constant pressure of societal expectations or the fear of being judged. In trying to please everyone, we forget who we are and what we truly want. We end up doing things just to make others happy, even when they go against our own desires. We convince ourselves it’s worth it—but is it? Is living in a toxic environment really worth sacrificing our peace?

The author emphasizes that we should live for ourselves, not according to what society demands. He shares his personal journey and how he found guidance through philosophy. And he beautifully reminds us that this journey of self-discovery doesn’t really have an endpoint—it’s ongoing.

The writing style is poetic, and what I loved the most were the poems and quotes at the start of each chapter. They stay with you. If you’re someone who’s searching for answers to the question “Who am I?”—you should definitely give this book a try.
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254 reviews5 followers
July 9, 2025
Darshan Jogi’s The Myth of Me is not just a book—it’s a soft, aching song. A quiet call to those who’ve worn masks for too long, who’ve followed paths drawn by others. With pages that feel like whispered truths, Jogi gently asks: Whose life are you really living? His words are not rules but reflections—simple, honest, and raw. They speak of fear disguised as duty, of dreams buried under approval, of love chased but not felt.

The beauty of this book lies in its stillness. It does not shout—it invites. Like sitting by a river, it lets your thoughts wander and return home. Through lyrical prose, Jogi opens the door to self-seeing—to question the stories we cling to and the roles we act out without knowing. He touches on wounds we often ignore: the pressure to smile, to succeed, to fit. Yet he does so with warmth, never blame.

This book may not be for those seeking step-by-step answers. It doesn’t offer blueprints, but instead a mirror. At times, the meandering style may feel like walking through fog. But even in that mist, there is light—a sense of courage blooming. The Myth of Me is for every soul who feels the ache of an unlived life and dreams of freedom, even if they don’t yet know how to find it.
53 reviews2 followers
June 26, 2025
An amazing journey into the self, one that reads less like a traditional self-help manual and more like a conversation with a trusted friend. When i started this book, I didn't knew it would turn out to be one of the best book I've read so far. Jogi writes with a gentle authority, exploring themes like success, indentity, etc in a way that encourages honest reflection rather than offering ready-made solutions. His storytelling is personal and grounded, which makes the book a friendly book for all. One of the book’s greatest strengths lies in its ability to make the reader pause and reconsider long-held beliefs.

The author invites us to look beyond societal expectations and listen more deeply to our inner truths. The chapters are well crafted and to the point without making the book boring. The writing style is amazing along with an attractive book cover. For anyone interested in self-exploration or looking to redefine their path on their own terms, this book offers a refreshing and empowering perspective—one that encourages growth not through perfection, but through presence and truth. Highly Recommended.
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72 reviews
June 26, 2025
The Myth of Me by Darshan Jogi is a heartfelt and emotional journey of understanding yourself. It’s not like the usual self-help books. Instead, it feels like a real and honest conversation. The author talks about important topics like success, love, identity, and happiness, and makes you think about how much of what we believe is actually shaped by society.

Each chapter is thoughtful and easy to connect with. The writing is simple, poetic, and full of meaning.
The author breaks the myths we've been taught: that success equals money, that perfection is the goal, and that love must follow a script. Instead, he redefines these concepts through gentle analogies, honest storytelling, and poetic reflections.

What makes this book special is that it doesn’t give advice—it makes you reflect. It reminds you that real success isn’t about money or fame, but about being true to yourself.

Each chapter ends with a heartfelt poem and is paired with simple illustrations, making the experience even more immersive.

It’s a calming and meaningful read for anyone trying to find peace and understanding in a busy, confusing world.
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105 reviews1 follower
June 30, 2025

'𝘞𝘦 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘢𝘴 𝘸𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘢𝘴 𝘸𝘦 𝘳𝘦𝘲𝘶𝘪𝘳𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦.'

'The Myth of Me' is a self-help book that takes readers on a journey of self-reflection. This book talks about life, love, success, identity, and worth. The author shares his experiences and perspectives about the myths he believed and how he always lived to 'fit in', craving approval from everyone just to feel enough.

The chaotic, unpredictable, uncertain, and imperfect life, when approached with thoughtfulness, seems beyond the myths of success, happiness, and oneself. Written in simple yet impactful language, it's easy to understand and connect to. What I loved most is that every chapter ends with a beautiful poem, complemented by pretty illustrations.

✨This book conveys the message to think out of the box, to break the boundaries society created, to stop chasing and just breathe. Give yourself the time and moment of self-reflection; all the 'what ifs' that occur to us when we're in chaos or in silence are sometimes necessary to get over others' approval and find a way to meet the true self that always exists within.

A must-read.
228 reviews3 followers
July 19, 2025
The Myth of Me is not just a reading experience—it is a self- reflective mirror that requires you to look inward and assess the ideas around how you identify. Darshan Jogi's level of honesty was raw; reading it felt both connotative and denotative as if he articulated ideas we have all shelved in our minds at different points.
As soon as I turned the first page, I felt a deeper silence come over me. This book speaks to anyone who has felt lost, confused or separated from the life your living. It doesn't make grandiose claims but it encourages the reader to pause, reflect and start to peel off the self-imposed ego you wear.

The language of the book is poetic and relatable; philosophical yet pragmatic. I loved that the book doesn't preach but, it gently communicates truths for your mind to percolate and absorb. Each chapter was like a conversation with the wiser version of yourself.

An amazing book for anyone on a journey of discovering self, healing, or just someone who wants to escape the surface noise and reconnect with something real in themselves. It definitely isn't about escaping a life not lived; it is about living, finally like for real.
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139 reviews
June 22, 2025
This book felt like someone wrote down the thoughts I have but never say out loud. The Myth of Me is a self-help book, but it’s not like the usual ones. What made it special for me was the way each chapter ends with a poem, simple, deep, and full of emotions. That was my favourite part!

Reading this book felt like reading someone's private diary, raw, honest, and full of self-reflection. The author opens up about his confusion, flaws, fears, and truths. I felt connected to it on a personal level, like I was not alone in my thoughts.

Honestly, this book felt more like a poetry collection than a guidebook. And I truly think it would have been perfect if released as a poetry and reflection journal.

This book is not about giving advice, it’s about showing that we all have our own battles, and being authentic is more important than being perfect.

Read this book if you're on a journey of self-understanding. Not everything is a solution, sometimes it's just about being real with yourself.
95 reviews5 followers
June 24, 2025
The book talks about how we all live our lives. Under the weight of expectations or judgment or ambitions, we forget who we are, who we truly are. We justify ourselves, we lie to ourselves that the sacrifice is worth it, but is it really? So we need to let the honesty do its work even though it's brutal and leads to guilt. Only then can we see ourselves for who we are.

The author also talks about his personal journey, where he looked for guidance from true philosophers. He also tells us there is no endpoint for this journey. He breaks the myths of happiness and success and that we can't force love, and it should flow naturally. He also talks about self-worth, emotional freedom, and growing through imperfections, paradox of perception. How simplicity teaches us to exist in each moment without judgment.

I loved the poems and illustrations the author showed in every chapter, they fit perfectly. I appreciate the author for trying to help others break free of these myths and also sharing his journey so beautifully.
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116 reviews4 followers
June 29, 2025
The Myth Of Me by Darshan Jogi is an emotional, thought provoking book that explores the topic of identity, healing and self- discovery.

The book talks about how often we loose ourselves while fulfilling the societies expectations and forget our true identity. The author challenges us to be honest with ourselves even if it is uncomfortable because it's the only way we can see who we truly are behind the facade.

The author also shares his own personal journey and how he seeked guidance from the writings of different famous philosophers like Kafka, Dostoevsky and Camus. He also talks about how happiness and success are not things we can chase blindly and how love too shouldy come naturally and not be forced.

I also loved the poems and the illustrations in every chapter of the book it perfect suited the theme of the book.

Overall this was a great book. The writing of the book is very simple yet powerful which makes it very engagingbfor the readers. Highly recommend this book.
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49 reviews
July 1, 2025
TITLE :- The Myth of Me
AUTHOR:- Darshan Jogi

TROPES :- 🤞Self help
🤞 Realisation
🤞Escaping societal expectations
🤞Personal Transformation
🤞 Clarity

⁉️Have you ever paused to ponder the essence of your existence?
"Is this really me , my life or I myself is a character playing a role"
That's exactly what this book reflects and asks you so deep , so silent yet leaving a powerful impact.

✨Reading this book feels like diving Deep and giving a check what I am carrying inside. Not at all a typical narrative it's a mirror to oneself each pages felt like reading a personal journal raw and reflective.
The poetic flow of language, the truth in each line and most of all how it helds space for the readers. Each chapter ends up with poems making the read more intriguing.🔥

If you are craving for a moment of truth and clarity pick up THE MYTH OF ME. 📖

It's a gentle reminder that it's your life, your story it doesn't have to be what the world has written. Live it your way.
Recommending this to all the beautiful souls who are healing and questioning their existence
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195 reviews6 followers
June 29, 2025
The Myth of Me by Darshan Jogi is a deep and honest book that feels like having a heart-to-heart conversation with a friend. It talks about success, love, identity and how we often try to live up to society’s expectations instead of being true to ourselves. The author shares his personal thoughts and life experiences in a simple and relatable way. What makes this book special is how it gently helps you reflect on your life, without giving direct advice. Each chapter ends with a short poem and illustration, making the experience even more meaningful. He reminds us that real success is not about money or fame but about peace of mind and living on your own terms. The book is easy to read, with a clear structure and thoughtful writing. It’s perfect for anyone on a journey of self-discovery. Highly recommended for those seeking truth and inner peace.
37 reviews
July 10, 2025
The Myth of Me by Darshan Jogi is a beautifully raw and soul-touching book that invites readers to look deeply within. Rather than offering solutions or steps to follow, it acts as a gentle mirror, reflecting the hidden fears and silent longings we often ignore. Jogi questions the myths we build around success, love, and identity, revealing how much of our life is shaped by seeking approval rather than following truth. His poetic style, combined with short reflective poems and illustrations at the end of each chapter, makes the experience intimate and deeply moving. The writing feels like a quiet conversation on a lonely evening, comforting yet challenging. The book encourages us to break free from imposed labels and find peace in our true self. For anyone feeling lost or burdened by society's expectations, this book feels like a warm companion on the path to self-discovery.
43 reviews1 follower
July 20, 2025
The Myth of Me starts with a hauntingly gorgeous prologue that feels like a reflection held to the soul. Throughout these pages, the author's words feel raw and intense. The format of the book explores who we are beyond the masks we wear in the world. It gives us the opportunity to pause and question ourselves for a moment - that unfiltered self which lies silent under the scripts society creates around achievement, approval, and fear. The prose reads like poetry, but with a sharp knife that cuts so deeply you feel as if you are having a dialogue with the deepest part of your own mind. To anyone who has ever questioned their true purpose, or even for us "disillusioned people" who have trouble processing our own experiences amidst the cacophony of expectations, Myth of Me feels like visiting home to yourself.
95 reviews1 follower
June 29, 2025
The Myth of Me is a thoughtful and heartfelt book that feels like having an honest chat with a close friend. Darshan Jogi shares personal stories and reflections that make you pause and think about your own life.

He talks about how society often measures success through money, fame, and titles—but reminds us that real success can simply be peace of mind, doing what you love, and living life on your own terms. The book also explores love, identity, and emotional freedom, showing how relationships can help us grow and understand ourselves better.

With simple language and deep insights, this book encourages readers to let go of old beliefs and reconnect with who they truly are. It's easy to read, relatable, and full of moments that make you reflect.
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87 reviews5 followers
June 26, 2025
The Myth of Me by Darshan Jogi is one of the most honest books I’ve read. It talks about life, struggles, and how we often live just to meet others’ expectations. It made me stop and think about how much pressure we put on ourselves to fit in.

What I really liked is how the book doesn’t try to give advice. Instead, it helps you understand yourself better. Every chapter ends with a short poem and an illustration, which made it even more meaningful.

The writing is simple but powerful. It feels like the author is just having a real conversation with you. If you’re someone trying to figure out life or just want a book that feels honest and deep, this one is perfect.
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3 reviews
June 26, 2025
The book dismantles the illusions we often mistake for truth: the myth of success, the myth of control, and even the myth of love. Jogi’s prose is lyrical yet piercing, inviting readers to confront the roles they’ve unconsciously accepted and the dreams they’ve quietly buried. It’s not a comfortable read—but it’s not meant to be. It’s a mirror held up to the soul, asking: Whose life are you really living?

If you’ve ever felt like you’re performing rather than living, this book might just be the nudge—or the jolt—you need.
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