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224 pages, Paperback
Expected publication March 24, 2026
“A wise person realizes that our experiences determine who we are and that our choices reveal who we wish to be. We understand that when we accept our past, we unlock our potential. We grow and become better people.”
“I see how “Other” could be ominous and fearful to them because of its vagueness. But for many of us, it gives us room to breathe. A space where we can remain authentic to ourselves, without the confines of a label. East or West? I don’t know. Can’t I be everything? Can’t I be nothing? Why are the options so limiting? Why can’t this be a fill-in-the-blank form, rather than multiple choice? Why do I sometimes look Turkish and sometimes don’t?”
“In life, people will always judge us for the decisions that we make, because that’s all they can see. They don’t see our internal dialogue, our small battles or victories, our sleepless nights — they don’t get to see any part of our journey. They see only the end result. They watch from the outside. They judge only what they can see, and they can only see the front of the rug.”
“Travel to the east, to the west, straight ahead. Take on the twists and turns with enthusiasm. The goal is to experience all the best things that life can offer. If something is not working, go seek a different direction. Explore. People should aim to ‘get lost’ on purpose!”
“The problem is when you add more value to my experiences than to your own. I am not better than you. You are not better than me. You can still be happy for me while also protecting your own progress and not diminishing your own successes.”