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Soon By You
27 Dresses meets The Intimacy Experiment in this sexy, emotional, opposites-attract rom-com set in New York City's Modern Orthodox community.
If Arielle Becker has to serve as a bridesmaid one more time, she's going to scream. Between the expense, the collection of dresses she'll never wear again, the shower planning, the Spanx, the bridezillas, the family time, the heels, and a certain judgmental wedding singer she can't stop bumping into, she is exhausted, burned out, and seriously beginning to hate romance and all its celebrations. Besides, it's not like any of these girls are ever gonna turn around and do the same for her; Ari is not the kind of girl a good Jewish boy is looking to marry.
Judah Klein may be the tri-state area's most in-demand Modern Orthodox wedding singer and eligible bachelor, but after years of uninspiring setups, he's just about to give up on looking for his own Happily Ever After. Then a fiery, infuriating bridesmaid steps on his foot at a wedding, and before long, trading heated barbs turns into trading hotter kisses...and a realization that maybe he's been looking for the wrong life all along.
For the first time, Judah can finally get on board with a romance, and of course it's thanks to the one woman who has no interest in settling down - especially not with a guy who lives in the spotlight and has a professional reputation to uphold. But when neither one seems able to move on from a relationship that wasn't meant to go anywhere, they'll have to figure out whether there's a possible future for two people who've already given up on love.
If Arielle Becker has to serve as a bridesmaid one more time, she's going to scream. Between the expense, the collection of dresses she'll never wear again, the shower planning, the Spanx, the bridezillas, the family time, the heels, and a certain judgmental wedding singer she can't stop bumping into, she is exhausted, burned out, and seriously beginning to hate romance and all its celebrations. Besides, it's not like any of these girls are ever gonna turn around and do the same for her; Ari is not the kind of girl a good Jewish boy is looking to marry.
Judah Klein may be the tri-state area's most in-demand Modern Orthodox wedding singer and eligible bachelor, but after years of uninspiring setups, he's just about to give up on looking for his own Happily Ever After. Then a fiery, infuriating bridesmaid steps on his foot at a wedding, and before long, trading heated barbs turns into trading hotter kisses...and a realization that maybe he's been looking for the wrong life all along.
For the first time, Judah can finally get on board with a romance, and of course it's thanks to the one woman who has no interest in settling down - especially not with a guy who lives in the spotlight and has a professional reputation to uphold. But when neither one seems able to move on from a relationship that wasn't meant to go anywhere, they'll have to figure out whether there's a possible future for two people who've already given up on love.
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First published May 19, 2026
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Dahlia Adler
21 books2,859 followersDahlia Adler is the award-winning author of seven young adult novels, editor of five young adult anthologies, and founder of the website LGBTQReads. As a book blogger, her byline has appeared on Buzzfeed, B&N Reads, Reactor, Parents.com, and more. She enjoys ’90s rock, rewatching Grey’s Anatomy, finding great cover songs, crying at commercials, and extremely short walks on the beach. She lives in the New York City suburbs with her family.
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November 25, 2025Hi, readers, and thank you for checking out Soon By You! Hope you enjoy! A few things:
I made a handy glossary for some of the lesser-known terms in the book. Hope that helps! There's also a "Jewish wedding explainer" in the back of both the ARC and the book to walk you through a traditional Modern Orthodox ceremony.
Trigger Warnings (all discussions of things that happened in the past off-page): Deceased parents (including a death by Covid), Divorced parents, slut shaming
I made a handy glossary for some of the lesser-known terms in the book. Hope that helps! There's also a "Jewish wedding explainer" in the back of both the ARC and the book to walk you through a traditional Modern Orthodox ceremony.
Trigger Warnings (all discussions of things that happened in the past off-page): Deceased parents (including a death by Covid), Divorced parents, slut shaming
May 19, 2026
Always the bridesmaid, never the bride—and Arielle is fine with that, for now. She's not ready to settle down. But in her modern Orthodox community, young marriage is the norm (not least because there are a whole host of restrictions on what you can do with the opposite sex before marriage), and her friends are all pairing off, and she finds it easiest to keep things no-strings. That is...until a very buttoned-up wedding singer comes into the picture, and no-strings gets more complicated.
Adler's books are a delight, and this is no exception. In many ways this is a standard romance novel (enough so that I hesitated before picking it up, because Adler's queer books are my favourite, and the primary romance here is heterosexual), but with the not insignificant twist that the characters are almost all observant, Modern Orthodox Jews. This means: keeping kosher; keeping Shabbat (no work, no electronics, etc., from Friday evening to Saturday evening); men not listening to women sing; observing a whole host of different holidays that I know little about; and—for some of them—no touching the opposite sex. Now...this is a very steamy romance; some of the characters are more observant than others about who they will and won't touch (and some are more observant than others about whose music they will listen to, for that matter). The concept of a tefillin date sent me, because...well, of course in every religion that has more than one follower, there will be differences in belief and practice, but I haven't given all that much thought to what that might look like in Modern Orthodoxy.
Meanwhile, the relationship is doing interesting things. Arielle has a reputation, and it doesn't bother her—she knows what she wants, she knows her boundaries, she knows who her friends are, and she knows that the right guy will take her as she is. So when she and Judah have reservations about the possibility of a future, it's not really because of either of them not knowing what they want; it's because they haven't worked out (alone or together) how they can make their visions for the future align. And, well, there are some other complications along the way, but by and large we have a heroine who knows exactly who she is and what her limits are and a hero who is still figuring himself out but knows enough to respect the hell out of the heroine's autonomy. Plus, really genuinely interesting discussions about individual interpretations of religion and related choices.
I would have liked to know more about Arielle's job. (I applied for a job like that once; I still regret that I never got an interview, because I would have killed the interview and probably excelled at the job.) And also would not mind *cough* a bonus scene that takes place after the end of the book...although on the whole I really can't complain. Someday I will finish making it through Adler's backlist, and that will be a sad day until her next book comes out.
Thanks to the author and publisher for providing a review copy through NetGalley.
Adler's books are a delight, and this is no exception. In many ways this is a standard romance novel (enough so that I hesitated before picking it up, because Adler's queer books are my favourite, and the primary romance here is heterosexual), but with the not insignificant twist that the characters are almost all observant, Modern Orthodox Jews. This means: keeping kosher; keeping Shabbat (no work, no electronics, etc., from Friday evening to Saturday evening); men not listening to women sing; observing a whole host of different holidays that I know little about; and—for some of them—no touching the opposite sex. Now...this is a very steamy romance; some of the characters are more observant than others about who they will and won't touch (and some are more observant than others about whose music they will listen to, for that matter). The concept of a tefillin date sent me, because...well, of course in every religion that has more than one follower, there will be differences in belief and practice, but I haven't given all that much thought to what that might look like in Modern Orthodoxy.
Meanwhile, the relationship is doing interesting things. Arielle has a reputation, and it doesn't bother her—she knows what she wants, she knows her boundaries, she knows who her friends are, and she knows that the right guy will take her as she is. So when she and Judah have reservations about the possibility of a future, it's not really because of either of them not knowing what they want; it's because they haven't worked out (alone or together) how they can make their visions for the future align. And, well, there are some other complications along the way, but by and large we have a heroine who knows exactly who she is and what her limits are and a hero who is still figuring himself out but knows enough to respect the hell out of the heroine's autonomy. Plus, really genuinely interesting discussions about individual interpretations of religion and related choices.
I would have liked to know more about Arielle's job. (I applied for a job like that once; I still regret that I never got an interview, because I would have killed the interview and probably excelled at the job.) And also would not mind *cough* a bonus scene that takes place after the end of the book...although on the whole I really can't complain. Someday I will finish making it through Adler's backlist, and that will be a sad day until her next book comes out.
Thanks to the author and publisher for providing a review copy through NetGalley.
February 7, 2026
Overall I just loved this. I laughed and laughed throughout. But, I was 36% into Soon by You, loving our main characters and the group of secondaries as their friends, but struggling with all the references to our mc’s religion and Modern Orthodox community. No backlash, I jumped in wholeheartedly knowing the setting and community, wanting to learn and experience a life I’m unfamiliar with. Author was nice enough to supply a glossary of terms, but understandably I was constantly referring to it, so much so it took away from the storytelling experience. I’ve felt this before with authors writing mixed race families who speak English mixed with another language. You just can feel left out unless the author can work the definitions into the story itself, versus by way of a glossary. I’d say that’s my only complaint and the loss of a star. The wedding traditions were so interesting and spurned me on to research them and others they observed. Author has definite talent and a writing style I was comfortable with. Thanks to NetGalley for the ARC, the opinions shared are my own.
June 6, 2026
There should honestly be a support group for women who have spent half their adult lives buying bridesmaid dresses for other people’s happily-ever-afters while wondering where the heck theirs wandered off to.
Dahlia Adler’s Soon by You completely swept me away. St. Martin’s Griffin, thank you so much for the gifted copy.
I picked this one up because “always the bridesmaid” and “wedding singer” felt like a combination that was either going to be a lot of fun or a complete disaster. Thankfully, it was the first one.
Arielle Becker is beyond done with weddings. She’s tired of the dresses, the expectations, the money, and the feeling that everyone around her has life figured out except her. Then there’s Judah Klein, the wedding singer she keeps running into over and over again. He’s the guy everyone seems to love, but the more time I spent with him, the more I realized he’s carrying around his own baggage too.
These two annoyed each other so much at the beginning that I immediately knew I was going to have a good time.
What really worked for me was that neither of them felt perfect. Ari is confident one minute and questioning everything the next. Judah seems like he has his whole life mapped out, but underneath that he’s just trying to figure things out like everyone else. They both felt like actual people instead of romance-novel versions of people.
And their banter? So good. Half the time I couldn’t tell if they wanted to argue or kiss, and honestly I don’t think they knew either.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️½
“The rules changed when you’d touched and kissed and tasted every inch of someone’s body, when you cooked them dinner and sung to them during a storm and held them in your arms all night.”
One thing I really appreciated was getting a look into New York City’s Modern Orthodox Jewish community. I learned quite a bit, but it never felt like the story stopped to explain things. It just felt like being invited into someone else’s world for a few hours. The weddings, traditions, friendships, family dynamics, and community expectations all added so much to the story.
I also loved the side characters. They’re the kind of people who make a book world feel lived in, and by the end I found myself wanting more of their stories too.
If you enjoy opposites attract romances, wedding chaos, great banter, found family, and characters who have to stop getting in their own way long enough to admit what they want, I think this one is worth adding to your summer reading pile.
And now I need to know: what’s the last romance where you fell in love with the entire friend group right along with the main group?
Dahlia Adler’s Soon by You completely swept me away. St. Martin’s Griffin, thank you so much for the gifted copy.
I picked this one up because “always the bridesmaid” and “wedding singer” felt like a combination that was either going to be a lot of fun or a complete disaster. Thankfully, it was the first one.
Arielle Becker is beyond done with weddings. She’s tired of the dresses, the expectations, the money, and the feeling that everyone around her has life figured out except her. Then there’s Judah Klein, the wedding singer she keeps running into over and over again. He’s the guy everyone seems to love, but the more time I spent with him, the more I realized he’s carrying around his own baggage too.
These two annoyed each other so much at the beginning that I immediately knew I was going to have a good time.
What really worked for me was that neither of them felt perfect. Ari is confident one minute and questioning everything the next. Judah seems like he has his whole life mapped out, but underneath that he’s just trying to figure things out like everyone else. They both felt like actual people instead of romance-novel versions of people.
And their banter? So good. Half the time I couldn’t tell if they wanted to argue or kiss, and honestly I don’t think they knew either.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️½
“The rules changed when you’d touched and kissed and tasted every inch of someone’s body, when you cooked them dinner and sung to them during a storm and held them in your arms all night.”
One thing I really appreciated was getting a look into New York City’s Modern Orthodox Jewish community. I learned quite a bit, but it never felt like the story stopped to explain things. It just felt like being invited into someone else’s world for a few hours. The weddings, traditions, friendships, family dynamics, and community expectations all added so much to the story.
I also loved the side characters. They’re the kind of people who make a book world feel lived in, and by the end I found myself wanting more of their stories too.
If you enjoy opposites attract romances, wedding chaos, great banter, found family, and characters who have to stop getting in their own way long enough to admit what they want, I think this one is worth adding to your summer reading pile.
And now I need to know: what’s the last romance where you fell in love with the entire friend group right along with the main group?
July 29, 2025
I've been a fan of Dahlia's work ever since I first read her YA debut in 2014, and I was lucky enough to get an early copy of Soon By You (perks of being an author!).
Dahlia's writing is always witty, smart, and so freaking funny, and Soon By You is no exception. The dialogue at times is laugh-out-loud funny (I literally snort laughed at least three or four times), and I am OBSESSED with the MCs Arielle and Judah. Their dynamic is so fun (and did I mention how freaking HOT this book is??? SO hot) and their journey to finding their HEA felt so well earned.
As always, even when she writes about cishet couples, Dahlia is queer inclusive on so many different layers, which always makes me feel safe as a reader no matter the sexuality of her MCs.
Dahlia is truly a force to be reckoned with in Romance, and I cannot wait to read whatever she writes next.
Dahlia's writing is always witty, smart, and so freaking funny, and Soon By You is no exception. The dialogue at times is laugh-out-loud funny (I literally snort laughed at least three or four times), and I am OBSESSED with the MCs Arielle and Judah. Their dynamic is so fun (and did I mention how freaking HOT this book is??? SO hot) and their journey to finding their HEA felt so well earned.
As always, even when she writes about cishet couples, Dahlia is queer inclusive on so many different layers, which always makes me feel safe as a reader no matter the sexuality of her MCs.
Dahlia is truly a force to be reckoned with in Romance, and I cannot wait to read whatever she writes next.
December 12, 2025
I’m sad I didn’t enjoy this as much as I wanted to. I just couldn’t get invested in the relationship between Ari and Judah. At one point, another character says “I’ve never seen two people so skilled at getting in the way of their own happiness.” It’s true, and very frustrating to read about. Genuinely don’t know how I was physically able to read the incredibly extended third act break up because I was rolling my eyes the whole time. You could see it coming from a mile away, because zero of the issues they were having prior to their first date were resolved before they went on it, and of course it all came to a head during it. They have the same “I’m not what you want” “yes you are! But also I have to figure out my life!” conversation over and over and over. These characters are 29 and 32 and have the communication skills and emotional maturity of 13 year olds (maybe this is an insult to 13 year olds). I liked all the side characters better than them.
I always feel bad giving not so great reviews to ARCs but this just wasn’t for me. Judah and Ari were not a couple I enjoyed, and their relationship was not a fun one to read about.
Thank you to NetGalley for providing an ARC of this book.
I always feel bad giving not so great reviews to ARCs but this just wasn’t for me. Judah and Ari were not a couple I enjoyed, and their relationship was not a fun one to read about.
Thank you to NetGalley for providing an ARC of this book.
May 19, 2026
This was much different from what I expected. Always the bridesmaid, Ari is completely over the pressure surrounding romance and marriage, especially when her promiscuous reputation doesn’t fit the mold of the perfect Jewish wife. But then along comes the perfect opposites-attract situation! Judah Klein, Modern Orthodox wedding singer, golden boy, and most eligible bachelor.
For a good chunk of this story, it felt like the same conversations kept circling back around, but I absolutely loved how down bad Judah became. Seeing his composure completely unravel because of his attraction to Ari, in a way he’d never experienced before, was honestly so precious. Their chemistry was undeniably fiery, and I learned a lot from how heavily Modern Orthodox Judaism was woven into the story. It was really interesting!
I just wasn’t expecting this book to be quite so spicy or so heavily focused on the morality of their sexual desire. Which, to be fair, makes sense given Judah’s lack of experience, and it’s not like there wasn’t an emotional connection between them, because there definitely was. But the physical side of their relationship seemed to dominate so much of the romance, and that's just not my preference.
(spice level: 6 open-door scenes, explicit details)
I voluntarily read and reviewed an advanced copy of this book. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
For a good chunk of this story, it felt like the same conversations kept circling back around, but I absolutely loved how down bad Judah became. Seeing his composure completely unravel because of his attraction to Ari, in a way he’d never experienced before, was honestly so precious. Their chemistry was undeniably fiery, and I learned a lot from how heavily Modern Orthodox Judaism was woven into the story. It was really interesting!
I just wasn’t expecting this book to be quite so spicy or so heavily focused on the morality of their sexual desire. Which, to be fair, makes sense given Judah’s lack of experience, and it’s not like there wasn’t an emotional connection between them, because there definitely was. But the physical side of their relationship seemed to dominate so much of the romance, and that's just not my preference.
(spice level: 6 open-door scenes, explicit details)
I voluntarily read and reviewed an advanced copy of this book. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
June 2, 2026
I’m only rating this at all so you spare yourself from starting it. A great premise (waiting for two people who are seemingly incompatible realizing that they indeed are). In reality it’s about 85% sex. So if you’re into that kind of novel, I guess this would be on your “want to read” list. My copy didn’t even make the Goodwill pile.
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December 3, 2025This one was difficult for me to evaluate. There was so very much to like--the witty narrative voice, the way that Orthodox Jewish culture was woven into the story, affording the reader a glimpse into this community. I liked the relationship between the Klein brothers. That in fact was the highlight of the book for me.
But as for the main couple, they really didn't seem to have anything going for them but lust. We got pages and pages of raunch instead of character development on her part. I just don't believe that a marriage based on even 350-horse-power, fuel-injected lust is going to last a lifetime--or be a foundation on which to build a family. And largely that was due to Arielle, who didn't seem to be interested in anything but hooking up and partying (except occasionally playing with Legos) until near the end. And even then her crisis was all about her having to grow up at last, and not wanting to, just as she doesn't want a family, or to learn to cook, or read, or do much of anything beyond partying and hooking up. She was funny, and seemed like she'd be a good party friend, but the habits of age 20 don't wear so well at thirty, especially with a potential mate who has very different habits and interests.
Given that he'd come from a broken home, and had taken emotional damage from it, when I finished the last page and the supposed happy ending (with her insisting still that she didn't want "five kids" and lust-dazzled Judah giving in immediately) I couldn't help but wonder if those two were perpetuating a sad pattern.
But as for the main couple, they really didn't seem to have anything going for them but lust. We got pages and pages of raunch instead of character development on her part. I just don't believe that a marriage based on even 350-horse-power, fuel-injected lust is going to last a lifetime--or be a foundation on which to build a family. And largely that was due to Arielle, who didn't seem to be interested in anything but hooking up and partying (except occasionally playing with Legos) until near the end. And even then her crisis was all about her having to grow up at last, and not wanting to, just as she doesn't want a family, or to learn to cook, or read, or do much of anything beyond partying and hooking up. She was funny, and seemed like she'd be a good party friend, but the habits of age 20 don't wear so well at thirty, especially with a potential mate who has very different habits and interests.
Given that he'd come from a broken home, and had taken emotional damage from it, when I finished the last page and the supposed happy ending (with her insisting still that she didn't want "five kids" and lust-dazzled Judah giving in immediately) I couldn't help but wonder if those two were perpetuating a sad pattern.
December 3, 2025
DNF at 20%
I saw this was an option under “Read Now” on NetGalley, so I took a chance on this one because the cover was pretty and the story sounded like it could be fun. But I have been struggling through the first 60 or so pages, and this just isn’t for me. The story isn’t gripping me like it should, and there are other books I’d rather move onto.
I also struggle reading a romance novel that’s based so heavily around religion. Nothing wrong with doing that, but I just don’t really want to spend my time reading that.
I saw this was an option under “Read Now” on NetGalley, so I took a chance on this one because the cover was pretty and the story sounded like it could be fun. But I have been struggling through the first 60 or so pages, and this just isn’t for me. The story isn’t gripping me like it should, and there are other books I’d rather move onto.
I also struggle reading a romance novel that’s based so heavily around religion. Nothing wrong with doing that, but I just don’t really want to spend my time reading that.
November 13, 2025
Fun, sweet, and HOT. Dahlia Adler has always been a fantastic writer, but dare I say this is her BEST!
June 13, 2026
WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THIS BOOK!!!!!!!!!
okay so i’m having a weird pride month where some of my favorite books i’m reading are m/f. but like…. queer m/f. i actually went into this thinking it was completely straight (and being like dahlia adler whyyyyy) but it was almost immediately evident to me that the mmc is ace which was just,,,,, such a wonderful surprise. his rep was done really well and i love how it interacted with his relationship with judaism (how it made it easy for him to be shomer negiah and once he found someone he was sexually attracted to he was like hm. idk about that one chief!). i also just love a male ace character,,, i feel like we don’t get many and it’s just Fun. but yeah, great unexpected rep, along with a gay side character who had a small but interesting plotline about being gay and modern orthodox and two super side queer characters. so yay! no straight books for me!
but the reason i was willing to read this even if it was entirely straight is judaism!!!! and wow that did NOT disappoint. i’m not modern orthodox, i’m not even that observant, but it’s just so. wonderful. to see jews exist in the world and get complex, fun, sexy, messy stories. to have judaism written about in such a smart, modern, and knowledgeable way. reading this felt like drinking water after being parched bc i’ve read sooooooo many bad jewish books and this was not one of them!!!!!! this is what i want so badly!!!!!!
i loved the plot a lot. at first i was kinda annoyed at he didn’t stay shomer negiah for long because i thought it would be hot and yearny if they couldn’t touch/had very charged glimpsing touches (very p&p 2005 me thinks) but i really like the structure/way this book went. i also at first was like Wow they are Fucking a Lot in the Middle of this Book what is going to Happen later as conflict!!!, but i really liked the way it progressed, the way the horny sexiness (and it was hot!) turned into emotional intimacy and the realization that the other person is meant for them while also pursuing someone else. (so like,,, vaguely structured like heated rivalry?? for reference). i loved all of the weddings, the side characters, the jewish holidays!!!! (pesach my beloved), and the relationship. goddamn.
they were SOOOOOOOOO. like seriously. i shipped them so hard. they had amazing banter and they worked really well for each other and the speeches!!!!!!!!!!! holy shit, i was tearing up, i was yearning, i was laughing, it was everything. i really loved their starting dynamic (woman who everyone calls a whores meets Good Jewish Boy semi famous singer who’s never kissed anyone) but i love even more that their dynamic deepened and changed and grew. singing stuff was fun too + smutty editor job, honestly could have had more of both but i also understand that it wasn’t rlly the point of the book.
anyways. yeah. this is how you do a romance!!!!!!! fucking god i love romances. and i need to write a jewish one so so so so badly. guys please i need to.
so yeah! i think i enjoyed this one just a wee bit :)
okay so i’m having a weird pride month where some of my favorite books i’m reading are m/f. but like…. queer m/f. i actually went into this thinking it was completely straight (and being like dahlia adler whyyyyy) but it was almost immediately evident to me that the mmc is ace which was just,,,,, such a wonderful surprise. his rep was done really well and i love how it interacted with his relationship with judaism (how it made it easy for him to be shomer negiah and once he found someone he was sexually attracted to he was like hm. idk about that one chief!). i also just love a male ace character,,, i feel like we don’t get many and it’s just Fun. but yeah, great unexpected rep, along with a gay side character who had a small but interesting plotline about being gay and modern orthodox and two super side queer characters. so yay! no straight books for me!
but the reason i was willing to read this even if it was entirely straight is judaism!!!! and wow that did NOT disappoint. i’m not modern orthodox, i’m not even that observant, but it’s just so. wonderful. to see jews exist in the world and get complex, fun, sexy, messy stories. to have judaism written about in such a smart, modern, and knowledgeable way. reading this felt like drinking water after being parched bc i’ve read sooooooo many bad jewish books and this was not one of them!!!!!! this is what i want so badly!!!!!!
i loved the plot a lot. at first i was kinda annoyed at he didn’t stay shomer negiah for long because i thought it would be hot and yearny if they couldn’t touch/had very charged glimpsing touches (very p&p 2005 me thinks) but i really like the structure/way this book went. i also at first was like Wow they are Fucking a Lot in the Middle of this Book what is going to Happen later as conflict!!!, but i really liked the way it progressed, the way the horny sexiness (and it was hot!) turned into emotional intimacy and the realization that the other person is meant for them while also pursuing someone else. (so like,,, vaguely structured like heated rivalry?? for reference). i loved all of the weddings, the side characters, the jewish holidays!!!! (pesach my beloved), and the relationship. goddamn.
they were SOOOOOOOOO. like seriously. i shipped them so hard. they had amazing banter and they worked really well for each other and the speeches!!!!!!!!!!! holy shit, i was tearing up, i was yearning, i was laughing, it was everything. i really loved their starting dynamic (woman who everyone calls a whores meets Good Jewish Boy semi famous singer who’s never kissed anyone) but i love even more that their dynamic deepened and changed and grew. singing stuff was fun too + smutty editor job, honestly could have had more of both but i also understand that it wasn’t rlly the point of the book.
anyways. yeah. this is how you do a romance!!!!!!! fucking god i love romances. and i need to write a jewish one so so so so badly. guys please i need to.
so yeah! i think i enjoyed this one just a wee bit :)
May 19, 2026
I wanted to love this book so much. I love Jewish wedding stories, books with Jewish representation, and Jewish romances. I’d also seen so many rave reviews, so I went in really excited.
But unfortunately…something just didn’t full work for me.
And this feels like such an unpopular opinion and I’m sorry! I wanted to connect with it more than I did, but I have to be honest.
For me, too much of the relationship conflict revolved around Arielle’s sexual history and the idea that she wasn’t the kind of woman a “good Jewish boy” like Judah would marry. It felt like the story kept circling back to shame and a reputation that made Arielle feel so judged. I think the book tried to dig deeper emotionally, but ultimately, it kept going back to the same thing.
That said, I did enjoy the Jewish representation, the wedding atmosphere, and the glimpse into Modern Orthodox dating culture. Though I was surprised (spoiler alert, but also probably not surprising) how quickly Judah abandoned some of his strongly held religious convictions when it came to physical boundaries.
Overall, while this wasn’t a perfect fit for me personally, I can understand why so many readers loved it, especially if you enjoy opposites-attract romances, wedding-centred stories, and books that explore faith, identity, and expectations within a tight-knit community.
But unfortunately…something just didn’t full work for me.
And this feels like such an unpopular opinion and I’m sorry! I wanted to connect with it more than I did, but I have to be honest.
For me, too much of the relationship conflict revolved around Arielle’s sexual history and the idea that she wasn’t the kind of woman a “good Jewish boy” like Judah would marry. It felt like the story kept circling back to shame and a reputation that made Arielle feel so judged. I think the book tried to dig deeper emotionally, but ultimately, it kept going back to the same thing.
That said, I did enjoy the Jewish representation, the wedding atmosphere, and the glimpse into Modern Orthodox dating culture. Though I was surprised (spoiler alert, but also probably not surprising) how quickly Judah abandoned some of his strongly held religious convictions when it came to physical boundaries.
Overall, while this wasn’t a perfect fit for me personally, I can understand why so many readers loved it, especially if you enjoy opposites-attract romances, wedding-centred stories, and books that explore faith, identity, and expectations within a tight-knit community.
December 4, 2025
Thank you to NetGalley and St. Martin’s Press for the ARC ✨
I was initially interested in Soon By You because of the description; I loved stepping into the world of Modern Orthodox Jews, the idea of differing ideas of love and faith being key conflicts in the story. While I wasn’t sure what my expectations were, they were certainly exceeded.
I love a romance with fleshed out characters, and Judah and Arielle both had rich inner monologues about their individual struggles. I loved the exploration of Modern Orthodox Judaism and the unique pressures that come with it and how these were explored different through the two main characters. Also, this was much steamier than I expected, but in a very welcome way. The leads had such a clear chemistry and I was rooting for them. Even if they frustrated me, I felt their anxieties were very real and appreciated how much we were able to get into both of their heads.
I did feel the pacing was a bit off. The first half had me hooked and had steady build up between the two leads, but did feel the will they/won’t they in the second act went in too long without any major development. This was made up for by the third act resolution, which had me swooning.
Overall, I was pleasantly surprised by this. It was refreshing to read a take on a romance from a world I don’t come from, and the characters had great chemistry. This was a fun read, and I’d happily read any other books by Adler.
I was initially interested in Soon By You because of the description; I loved stepping into the world of Modern Orthodox Jews, the idea of differing ideas of love and faith being key conflicts in the story. While I wasn’t sure what my expectations were, they were certainly exceeded.
I love a romance with fleshed out characters, and Judah and Arielle both had rich inner monologues about their individual struggles. I loved the exploration of Modern Orthodox Judaism and the unique pressures that come with it and how these were explored different through the two main characters. Also, this was much steamier than I expected, but in a very welcome way. The leads had such a clear chemistry and I was rooting for them. Even if they frustrated me, I felt their anxieties were very real and appreciated how much we were able to get into both of their heads.
I did feel the pacing was a bit off. The first half had me hooked and had steady build up between the two leads, but did feel the will they/won’t they in the second act went in too long without any major development. This was made up for by the third act resolution, which had me swooning.
Overall, I was pleasantly surprised by this. It was refreshing to read a take on a romance from a world I don’t come from, and the characters had great chemistry. This was a fun read, and I’d happily read any other books by Adler.
March 20, 2026
Everyone loves Arielle as a bridesmaid or a good time for a night, but she can't seem to picture herself as a bride. Over her many weddings, she constantly runs into good boy Jewish wedding singer, Judah, and can't help but clash. But there's a fine line between animosity and lust, and soon the two are locking lips. At the same time, Judah's singing goes viral and his career is on the rise. With his image to protect and Arielle's self-doubt and fear of commitment, the two agree to keep things casual. Their close bond, undeniable chemistry, and ultimately jealousy would seem to suggest it's anything but...
Oh gosh, I loved this book so much. I've read other books by Adler, mostly her YA reads, and this one felt so fresh and new. It had emotional depth, interesting insights in Jewish culture and sexuality, undeniably hot leads and scenes, and a satisfying ending. I was rooting so hard for Arielle and Judah--definitely a ship. It also shows that you can have a wonderfully spicy book without "going all the way." Would definitely recommend this one, and want to try more adult novels from this author!
Thanks to to St. Martin's for my ARC! All thoughts and opinions are my own.
5 stars - 10/10
Oh gosh, I loved this book so much. I've read other books by Adler, mostly her YA reads, and this one felt so fresh and new. It had emotional depth, interesting insights in Jewish culture and sexuality, undeniably hot leads and scenes, and a satisfying ending. I was rooting so hard for Arielle and Judah--definitely a ship. It also shows that you can have a wonderfully spicy book without "going all the way." Would definitely recommend this one, and want to try more adult novels from this author!
Thanks to to St. Martin's for my ARC! All thoughts and opinions are my own.
5 stars - 10/10
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May 7, 2026Give me the Jewish romance chaos my heart needs.
March 13, 2026
'The rules changed when you'd touched and kissed and tasted every inch of someone's body, when you cooked them dinner and sung to them during a storm and held them in your arms all night."
Not to be dramatic, but this book changed my brain chemistry. I lost sleep over this book, literally unable to stop reading until I realized the fucking sun was coming up. I devoured this.
I don't even know how to get my thoughts together about this incredible book. First, the Jewish rep was IMMACULATE. I'm not modern Orthodox myself, but I felt so represented and seen. I really identified with Arie. I loved her wit, her sass, her confidence and vulnerability and insecurities. I love how she was unashamed to be herself, still trying to figure out what she wants in life, how to navigate a new era where everyone she loves is getting married, leaving her wondering and feeling overwhelmed. I loved how much she loved being Jewish, being part of the community, but also found freedom in her sexuality, saw the flaws in the religion (like there are in all), and proudly stood firm by it. It was so real to see how Ari saw her self-worth in her sexual prowess, so used to being someone for fun and never to settle down with that she could never consider anything else. The judgment she received for her "reputation" drove me crazy, but it was so real. She was funny, assertive, stubborn, and overall someone I saw myself in so much.
Judah Klein....... man of my dreams!!! I'm actually mad he's not real. I loved his grumpiness in the beginning, how enamoured he was by Ari, how all-consuming his love for her grew. I loved seeing how he began to learn more about himself and his wants and desires, his relationship with his faith and observance. The romance and chemistry between these two was electric. I couldn't get enough of them. The way they understood each other, brought out humour and sass, learned from each other and were so comfortable to be wholly themselves was just so beautiful!! Also, the spicy scenes were perfect. So sexy, with humour and heart and heat. I'm obsessed.
Also, the humour in this book was top-tier. I openly laughed - especially at Akiva, whom I adore. I also loved Ari's best friend. The friendships and support in this book was just so incredible. I found myself so emotional at the end (a particular scene had me losing my mind because of the cultural significance and just how romantic the moment was), and I was sad to see this beautiful book end.
A million stars, if you couldn't tell already. I loved every second, and it's an all-time favourite. Dahlia Adler, please write more adult romances, I am obsessed!!!!
Thank you so much to St. Martin's Griffin for the advanced copy!!
Not to be dramatic, but this book changed my brain chemistry. I lost sleep over this book, literally unable to stop reading until I realized the fucking sun was coming up. I devoured this.
I don't even know how to get my thoughts together about this incredible book. First, the Jewish rep was IMMACULATE. I'm not modern Orthodox myself, but I felt so represented and seen. I really identified with Arie. I loved her wit, her sass, her confidence and vulnerability and insecurities. I love how she was unashamed to be herself, still trying to figure out what she wants in life, how to navigate a new era where everyone she loves is getting married, leaving her wondering and feeling overwhelmed. I loved how much she loved being Jewish, being part of the community, but also found freedom in her sexuality, saw the flaws in the religion (like there are in all), and proudly stood firm by it. It was so real to see how Ari saw her self-worth in her sexual prowess, so used to being someone for fun and never to settle down with that she could never consider anything else. The judgment she received for her "reputation" drove me crazy, but it was so real. She was funny, assertive, stubborn, and overall someone I saw myself in so much.
Judah Klein....... man of my dreams!!! I'm actually mad he's not real. I loved his grumpiness in the beginning, how enamoured he was by Ari, how all-consuming his love for her grew. I loved seeing how he began to learn more about himself and his wants and desires, his relationship with his faith and observance. The romance and chemistry between these two was electric. I couldn't get enough of them. The way they understood each other, brought out humour and sass, learned from each other and were so comfortable to be wholly themselves was just so beautiful!! Also, the spicy scenes were perfect. So sexy, with humour and heart and heat. I'm obsessed.
Also, the humour in this book was top-tier. I openly laughed - especially at Akiva, whom I adore. I also loved Ari's best friend. The friendships and support in this book was just so incredible. I found myself so emotional at the end (a particular scene had me losing my mind because of the cultural significance and just how romantic the moment was), and I was sad to see this beautiful book end.
A million stars, if you couldn't tell already. I loved every second, and it's an all-time favourite. Dahlia Adler, please write more adult romances, I am obsessed!!!!
Thank you so much to St. Martin's Griffin for the advanced copy!!
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May 18, 2026Thank you to NetGalley, St. Martin's Press, and Dahlia Adler for the arc in exchange for an honest review.
I struggle with rating this.
My favorite things about this were getting a look into a new culture; some of the overall analysis of religion generally and how, even within the same religion, it can look different for different people; and, of course, the side characters. Specifically, I loved Akiva, Liana, and Gideon.
There were two major things I did not like in this: the slut shaming (the "Bend her like Becker" nickname drove me NUTS and would just not go away), which by the way it is not lost on me that not a single one of the people that talked about Ari felt in any way the same about the dudes she had hooked up with, so misogyny abounds here; and the relationship between Ari and Judah, even if it did go from enraging to lukewarm by the end.
First off, it would be nice to know where exactly Ari stood on getting married and/or having kids at the start or middle of the book. Because sometimes it seemed like she was absolutely not interested at all in any circumstances, sometimes it was "I want to be married because all my friends are," and sometimes it was "I just haven't found the guy, and I'm never going to."
The thing is, if it was any of them but the first one, I would be fine with it. But it seemed to me like she was REALLY on the not settling down. And that's something I am not a fan of at all in romance books when it is the FMC. Women are already pressured enough to always feel like they need to want to get married, so seeing someone go from "it's not for me and I know I'm never going to want it" to "I'll do it to keep you" is just not enjoyable to me at all.
On the other hand, there is Judah. The description of this book says he's not a hookup guy, and kind of makes it sound like it's that he hooks up with her then immediately expects them to be serious. This is....kind of the opposite of that and goes along with the slut shaming. Judah knows Ari has hooked up with a lot of guys and, because of that, he will hook up with Ari no problem, but for most of the book he has no actual interest in a relationship with her because she has an awful reputation (despite being a literal virgin) and he wants a "nice" girl.
Just, you know, not in bed.
Thankfully, Judah does at least eventually recognize that this all makes him a massive hypocrite, but it wasn't really an annoyance I got over at any point. Especially since he didn't really stand up for her until Akiva and Gideon both kind of told him off.
Honestly, the dynamic between them both for most of the book felt, to me, like they weren't characters from the same book. They didn't mesh. What they want in life doesn't mesh and, even at the end, it still doesn't really feel like it does. It feels like both of them are settling and compromising and, with the exception of a few conversations, it feels like they are making those compromises based on lust and sexual attraction rather than anything else, and that is reflected by how many spicy scenes there are.
The few conversations they had were actually pretty enjoyable. There is one in particular where Ari talks about her connection to her religion being based largely in the traditions, community, history, and culture versus Judah feeling/appearing to feeling more strongly about it than that, and how it is okay that they each take something different away from it. It, along with many conversations with the amazing side characters, were what made me willing to finish the book and see where it went. It is honestly really hard to not dnf a romance book when you don't feel like there is a HEA connection available between the main characters.
I struggle with rating this.
My favorite things about this were getting a look into a new culture; some of the overall analysis of religion generally and how, even within the same religion, it can look different for different people; and, of course, the side characters. Specifically, I loved Akiva, Liana, and Gideon.
There were two major things I did not like in this: the slut shaming (the "Bend her like Becker" nickname drove me NUTS and would just not go away), which by the way it is not lost on me that not a single one of the people that talked about Ari felt in any way the same about the dudes she had hooked up with, so misogyny abounds here; and the relationship between Ari and Judah, even if it did go from enraging to lukewarm by the end.
First off, it would be nice to know where exactly Ari stood on getting married and/or having kids at the start or middle of the book. Because sometimes it seemed like she was absolutely not interested at all in any circumstances, sometimes it was "I want to be married because all my friends are," and sometimes it was "I just haven't found the guy, and I'm never going to."
The thing is, if it was any of them but the first one, I would be fine with it. But it seemed to me like she was REALLY on the not settling down. And that's something I am not a fan of at all in romance books when it is the FMC. Women are already pressured enough to always feel like they need to want to get married, so seeing someone go from "it's not for me and I know I'm never going to want it" to "I'll do it to keep you" is just not enjoyable to me at all.
On the other hand, there is Judah. The description of this book says he's not a hookup guy, and kind of makes it sound like it's that he hooks up with her then immediately expects them to be serious. This is....kind of the opposite of that and goes along with the slut shaming. Judah knows Ari has hooked up with a lot of guys and, because of that, he will hook up with Ari no problem, but for most of the book he has no actual interest in a relationship with her because she has an awful reputation (despite being a literal virgin) and he wants a "nice" girl.
Just, you know, not in bed.
Thankfully, Judah does at least eventually recognize that this all makes him a massive hypocrite, but it wasn't really an annoyance I got over at any point. Especially since he didn't really stand up for her until Akiva and Gideon both kind of told him off.
Honestly, the dynamic between them both for most of the book felt, to me, like they weren't characters from the same book. They didn't mesh. What they want in life doesn't mesh and, even at the end, it still doesn't really feel like it does. It feels like both of them are settling and compromising and, with the exception of a few conversations, it feels like they are making those compromises based on lust and sexual attraction rather than anything else, and that is reflected by how many spicy scenes there are.
The few conversations they had were actually pretty enjoyable. There is one in particular where Ari talks about her connection to her religion being based largely in the traditions, community, history, and culture versus Judah feeling/appearing to feeling more strongly about it than that, and how it is okay that they each take something different away from it. It, along with many conversations with the amazing side characters, were what made me willing to finish the book and see where it went. It is honestly really hard to not dnf a romance book when you don't feel like there is a HEA connection available between the main characters.
November 18, 2025
Thank you so much to the author for sharing this ARC with me through NetGalley. Oh my goodness I absolutely LOVED this book! Arielle is an independent boss lady who doesn’t see herself going down the expected path of life while Judah is known for his vocal talent and being a “Nice Jewish Boy”. When the two of them continue to cross paths at weddings and events, they find something in one another which they haven’t found in anyone else previously. I really enjoyed Ari’s friends and family, as well as Judah’s brother, Akiva (and also some of Ari’s friends) keeping the two of them honest throughout the story.
They were simply SO into each other but had a difficult time coming to terms with it/justifying it when there were so many reasons they didn’t work… right? Wrong. This book is full of romance and spice and facing internal battles.
At the end of the book there is a Jewish Wedding Explainer, which was very cool to read through to get a better understanding of everything as a non-Jewish reader. I liked to hear about the traditions and customs of the religion throughout the story, learning many new things along the way! Great pacing too!
They were simply SO into each other but had a difficult time coming to terms with it/justifying it when there were so many reasons they didn’t work… right? Wrong. This book is full of romance and spice and facing internal battles.
At the end of the book there is a Jewish Wedding Explainer, which was very cool to read through to get a better understanding of everything as a non-Jewish reader. I liked to hear about the traditions and customs of the religion throughout the story, learning many new things along the way! Great pacing too!
May 19, 2026
4.5/5 stars
Soon By You is a romantic comedy set in New York City’s Modern Orthodox Jewish community.
I love that the title is a phrase used in the Jewish Orthodox world to wish Jewish singles luck in finding a match soon.
The book has dual third person POVs.
Arielle/Ari Becker (29) is a fiery bridesmaid with a reputation. Judah Klein (32) is an in demand wedding singer for Modern Orthodox Jewish weddings.
I love books that feature Jewish Rep. This book is extremely Jewish. It showcases Modern Orthodox Judaism, which is not featured enough in romance books. I loved getting this view into the Orthodox Jewish dating and wedding scenes.
The two main characters constantly cross paths at various weddings throughout the year. This is a spicy enemies to lovers/adversaries to lovers/opposites attract book. It has steamy scenes, but it also includes such fun banter. I loved Ari’s friend group. And I loved seeing everything the couple had to do to be together.
Thanks to You Had Me At HEA and St Martin’s Press for allowing me to read this book.
Soon By You is a romantic comedy set in New York City’s Modern Orthodox Jewish community.
I love that the title is a phrase used in the Jewish Orthodox world to wish Jewish singles luck in finding a match soon.
The book has dual third person POVs.
Arielle/Ari Becker (29) is a fiery bridesmaid with a reputation. Judah Klein (32) is an in demand wedding singer for Modern Orthodox Jewish weddings.
I love books that feature Jewish Rep. This book is extremely Jewish. It showcases Modern Orthodox Judaism, which is not featured enough in romance books. I loved getting this view into the Orthodox Jewish dating and wedding scenes.
The two main characters constantly cross paths at various weddings throughout the year. This is a spicy enemies to lovers/adversaries to lovers/opposites attract book. It has steamy scenes, but it also includes such fun banter. I loved Ari’s friend group. And I loved seeing everything the couple had to do to be together.
Thanks to You Had Me At HEA and St Martin’s Press for allowing me to read this book.
February 17, 2026
This is the romance book of my DREAMS. I’m jealous that Dahlia Adler wrote this book and that I didn’t but I’m so glad I got to read it. This book is finally the modern orthodox romance I’ve been waiting for my entire life.
Soon By You tells the story of Arielle Becker, UWS wild girl, and Judah Klein, staid buttoned-up Jewish singer. I loved Arielle and Judah both together and apart and I found their dilemmas so realistic. Their relationship was both incredibly hot and so heartfelt with such true to life details. When I usually read books about the Orthodox community I need to actively stop myself from nitpicking the details but in this story all the details were actually right. I never in my life thought I’d see the day where a romance hero goes to minyan twice a day and learns with a chavrusa. Dahlia Adler gets a star just for that.
Thank you to Netgalley and St. Martin’s Press for an advanced copy of this book.
Soon By You tells the story of Arielle Becker, UWS wild girl, and Judah Klein, staid buttoned-up Jewish singer. I loved Arielle and Judah both together and apart and I found their dilemmas so realistic. Their relationship was both incredibly hot and so heartfelt with such true to life details. When I usually read books about the Orthodox community I need to actively stop myself from nitpicking the details but in this story all the details were actually right. I never in my life thought I’d see the day where a romance hero goes to minyan twice a day and learns with a chavrusa. Dahlia Adler gets a star just for that.
Thank you to Netgalley and St. Martin’s Press for an advanced copy of this book.
April 28, 2026
Soon by You by Dahlia Adler is a kind of opposites attract, rom-com set in a modern Jewish Orthodox community.
The strongest aspect of the novel is its portrayal of Orthodox Jewish life. Adler clearly writes with care and familiarity, and the details of Ellie’s community with its expectations, traditions, and social dynamics which feel authentic without being overwhelming. The romance is understated to the point of feeling underdeveloped. Readers looking for a strong emotional payoff or a memorable love story may come away disappointed. Instead, the book leans heavily into introspection, which works in parts but also contributes to pacing issues, there are stretches where not much seems to happen. Ellie is relatable in moments, though her single-minded focus on finding a soulmate gets repetitive, and the pacing drags in places.
That said, the novel’s message about balancing tradition with personal identity is meaningful, and the ending, while quiet, is satisfying in its own way. Overall, Soon by You has a lot going for it in terms of voice and perspective, but uneven pacing and a somewhat muted emotional arc keep it from being more impactful.
Thank you NetGalley and St. Martin's Press for the eARC. All opinions are my own.
The strongest aspect of the novel is its portrayal of Orthodox Jewish life. Adler clearly writes with care and familiarity, and the details of Ellie’s community with its expectations, traditions, and social dynamics which feel authentic without being overwhelming. The romance is understated to the point of feeling underdeveloped. Readers looking for a strong emotional payoff or a memorable love story may come away disappointed. Instead, the book leans heavily into introspection, which works in parts but also contributes to pacing issues, there are stretches where not much seems to happen. Ellie is relatable in moments, though her single-minded focus on finding a soulmate gets repetitive, and the pacing drags in places.
That said, the novel’s message about balancing tradition with personal identity is meaningful, and the ending, while quiet, is satisfying in its own way. Overall, Soon by You has a lot going for it in terms of voice and perspective, but uneven pacing and a somewhat muted emotional arc keep it from being more impactful.
Thank you NetGalley and St. Martin's Press for the eARC. All opinions are my own.
April 6, 2026
Soon By You was a really enjoyable read with engaging characters and a heartfelt storyline that kept me hooked from beginning to end. Dahlia Adler does a great job of creating emotional depth, and I found myself really invested in the main character’s journey.
The relationships felt genuine and well-developed, and there were plenty of moments that made me smile. The pacing was strong overall, though there were a few parts that felt slightly slower than others.
Still, I really loved this book. It had a lot of charm and left me with a warm, happy feeling at the end. It’s definitely one I’d recommend!
Thanks to NetGalley an the publisher for an advanced copy in exchange for an honest review.
The relationships felt genuine and well-developed, and there were plenty of moments that made me smile. The pacing was strong overall, though there were a few parts that felt slightly slower than others.
Still, I really loved this book. It had a lot of charm and left me with a warm, happy feeling at the end. It’s definitely one I’d recommend!
Thanks to NetGalley an the publisher for an advanced copy in exchange for an honest review.
May 28, 2026
Arielle is a Modern Orthodox Jewish woman who’s pushing 30, so she must be looking for love, right? Well, she’s certainly looking for some romantic & physical fun along the way, so it surprises her when Judah, a semi-famous Jewish wedding singer, kisses her and sparks fly. He’s 32 and single, and seemingly incapable of generating any excitement about a potential bride, which goes along with his super-frum (religiously observant) reputation. This book follows the will they or won’t they fall in love ( but not lust).
I really enjoyed this warm & funny book, with believable characters I was ready to root for, great Jewish details & rep, and a lot more spice than expected. I couldn’t put it down, but miss the characters now that I’m done. 4.5 stars.
I really enjoyed this warm & funny book, with believable characters I was ready to root for, great Jewish details & rep, and a lot more spice than expected. I couldn’t put it down, but miss the characters now that I’m done. 4.5 stars.
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May 12, 2026DNF @ 30%
I've really enjoyed books by the author in the past, so I'm a bit surprised at how much I didn't care for this title.
Truly, I think this book would be better as a movie than a written story. It's very tropey in a late 90s romcom way, which isn't necessarily a bad thing but I don't think they were conveyed very well within the story. It felt more like boxes were being checked off than natural story inclusions.
The meet-cute was insanely cliche and honestly I don't think it really made sense for them to have the reactions that they did to one another. It was needlessly dramatic.
The MMC sort of reminded me of Benjamin from Marvelous Mrs Maisel and the FMC sort of like Katherine Heigl in 27 Dresses - both decent characters with a lot of potential but I just couldn't get invested in them or their romance.
I'll still read future books by the author, but this one just wasn't for me.
I've really enjoyed books by the author in the past, so I'm a bit surprised at how much I didn't care for this title.
Truly, I think this book would be better as a movie than a written story. It's very tropey in a late 90s romcom way, which isn't necessarily a bad thing but I don't think they were conveyed very well within the story. It felt more like boxes were being checked off than natural story inclusions.
The meet-cute was insanely cliche and honestly I don't think it really made sense for them to have the reactions that they did to one another. It was needlessly dramatic.
The MMC sort of reminded me of Benjamin from Marvelous Mrs Maisel and the FMC sort of like Katherine Heigl in 27 Dresses - both decent characters with a lot of potential but I just couldn't get invested in them or their romance.
I'll still read future books by the author, but this one just wasn't for me.
May 31, 2026
I feel like I say this a lot but I don't usually have a lot of expectations when it comes to romcoms.
This one, however, was a very pleasant surprise. The characters (except for a few pages when it comes to Arielle), the story, even the spicy scenes were so good???? I honestly don't know a lot about the Jewish community and frankly speaking I don't really care either, but I understood the purpose behind it.
The highlight was actually Judah, he was so endearing and refreshingly honest, I loved him so much. I wish Arielle wasn't so stupid
This one, however, was a very pleasant surprise. The characters (except for a few pages when it comes to Arielle), the story, even the spicy scenes were so good???? I honestly don't know a lot about the Jewish community and frankly speaking I don't really care either, but I understood the purpose behind it.
The highlight was actually Judah, he was so endearing and refreshingly honest, I loved him so much. I wish Arielle wasn't so stupid
May 20, 2026
Soon by You is the epitome of a slow burn, but the kind that, when the spice hits, is quite the surprise—a delightful one at that. I enjoyed the characters and their dialogue. I appreciate the diversity-based themes and how they were incorporated within Judah and Ari’s relationship. There is certainly some angst and some decision-making that Judah needs to make that relate to his beliefs. I liked that it was the FMC, Ari, who was the experienced one. Judah is a sweet and special guy, and he and Ari make a great couple.
Thank you to St. Martin’s Press for the gifted e-copy. I am leaving this review voluntarily.
Thank you to St. Martin’s Press for the gifted e-copy. I am leaving this review voluntarily.
December 6, 2025
Thank you Thank you Thank you to NetGalley, St. Martin's Press and Dahlia Adler for sharing this ARC with me, in exchange for my honest review.
Soon By You is so freaking hilarious. From the very start I was in love with Judah and Arielle. There were many moments that I laughed-out-loud. The character development and world building are nothing short of a Five Star Michelin chef's kiss. I truly love every single thing about this book, and did I mention that I love the MC's, oh I so totally do. The side characters were very likable and added just the right amount of sprinkles to this story.
I highly recommend that y'all get this book, y'all won't be disappointed.
Soon By You is so freaking hilarious. From the very start I was in love with Judah and Arielle. There were many moments that I laughed-out-loud. The character development and world building are nothing short of a Five Star Michelin chef's kiss. I truly love every single thing about this book, and did I mention that I love the MC's, oh I so totally do. The side characters were very likable and added just the right amount of sprinkles to this story.
I highly recommend that y'all get this book, y'all won't be disappointed.
Did Not Finish
January 14, 2026DNF. I usually like reading stories that have people that I don't know a whole lot about, but something here isn't working for me. I'm not sure why.
May 27, 2026
Dahlia Adler’s Soon by You is an engaging example of a modern romantic comedy, offering an authentic, heartwarming, and utterly unputdownable look into the Modern Orthodox Jewish community. As a community member myself, I deeply appreciated the nuanced references and the honest depiction of the unique challenges facing our world today. Yet, the story remains entirely accessible to outsiders, who will find the traditions fascinating and can easily use the helpful glossary at the back. The main characters are so exceptionally well-defined, richly described, and real that they felt like people I know in my own life, making their emotional and romantic journeys incredibly easy to identify with. Balancing high-stakes cultural expectations with fantastic romantic chemistry and genuine depth, this spicy yet sincere novel is a brilliant, validating breath of fresh air that I could not put down—highly recommend! (5 stars!)
I only hope there is a sequel or two featuring some of the minor characters!
Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for an Advanced Reader Copy in exchange for an honest review.
I only hope there is a sequel or two featuring some of the minor characters!
Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for an Advanced Reader Copy in exchange for an honest review.
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