In the 1950s, young Eilis left her small Irish town for Brooklyn, diving headfirst into an unpredictable new life. She was brimming with youthful hope until a letter from home suddenly made her loathe everything around her.
The story itself isn’t complicated - it’s neatly divided into 4 chapters that mirror the natural flow of beginnings, middles, and ends. The first and last chapters tell the story of Eilis leaving and then returning home, while the middle 2 chronicle her coming-of-age in Brooklyn.
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Growing up in a closed-off town, her world had been limited to her homemaker mother, a working sister, a bit of gossip among friends, and even her brothers working in Britain - symbols of a foreign realm.
Brooklyn, however, was an entirely different world. With help from a priest introduced by her sister, Eilis crossed the ocean and moved in with an Irish landlord. She even landed a job as a store clerk at a shopping center. Determined to one day work in an office like her sister, she attended night classes. For Eilis, her sister was the perfect mirror - lively, capable, and charming - yet she chose to stay with their mother, leaving this quiet, reserved sister to follow her own path. This deep sisterly bond is why Eilis’s letters to her sister were so much more intimate than the ones she sent to her mother or brothers. In them, she described the differences between American malls and Ireland, the pretentious airs of her landlady, the Irish Christmas dinner hosted by the priest, and even mentioned an Italian guy who had appeared in her life. Amidst a whirlwind of new experiences, Eilis gradually learned to keep pace with Brooklyn. But the future plans her Italian boyfriend proposed made her uneasy - it all seemed too fast, too far removed from the dreams of a small-town girl. And then, out of nowhere, the news of her sister’s death halted Brooklyn’s rhythm, forcing Eilis to return home for the funeral.
I found myself relating to Eilis. Moving far from home and trying to settle in a new city is something many of us face as adults. Yet, very few ever plan - or even think about - returning to their roots only to find that leaving once again isn’t so simple. And that’s exactly what Eilis encountered just a couple of weeks later.
On 1 hand, her mother couldn’t bear the thought of letting her go. Suddenly, loneliness had made her cling to the daughter she’d once regarded with indifference, sparking a silent tug-of-war between them. Having grown used to living on her own, Eilis felt awkward and trapped, especially when even her friends started trying to set her up with a local boy. It was like an Irish twist on Pride and Prejudice: the boy admitted he’d liked her for 2 years but, not knowing how to connect, his awkwardness made her mistake restraint for coldness. This contrasted sharply with her memories of carefree days on Coney Island beaches with her Italian boyfriend. Now, unexpectedly, she found herself caught in a group date in a familiar bay. That’s when Eilis realized she’d been half-pressured by her boyfriend into a sort of unspoken marriage - now, without any grand ceremony to seal the deal, she began to wonder if she was more attached to the familiar faces and lands of home than to this fast-paced new life.
If the delicate, measured rhythm of the first chapter - her ocean-crossing journey - feels like a long, steady adagio, then the emotional turbulence of the final chapter hits like a lively, rushed allegro. Colm Toibin’s strength isn’t in crafting an extravagant tale; he’s traditional and deeply in tune with the little emotions we all share. As I follow his words, I see 1950s Brooklyn as a melting pot of immigrants, each trying (and sometimes failing) to make a foreign land feel like home. I also witness a woman’s inner struggle - a dance between reason and raw emotion, where every moment of love is a choice. He captures these subtle shifts in feelings with rare clarity, not to mention the occasional wisp of homesickness that drifts through his narrative - a taste of unmistakable Irish longing.
In the end, I close the book with sea salt still on your fingertips - Brooklyn’s sea and Ireland’s sea blending into 1 unforgettable flavor.
4.2 / 5 stars